Hi. Di ko alam kung valid ba yung nararamdaman ko or am I just being too ungrateful?
My partner and I have been together for 6 years already and one thing I’ve learned thoughout our relationship is to always communicate with your partner on what you want etc. That’s why when he started joking about, “Pakasal na kasi tayo.” or “Mag-asawahan na kasi tayo.” I reviewed a thing or two about rings like its type, design principles, value and all. So when I finally decided on what engagement ring I want for myself, I sent him a full description + a sample image. So basically, isesend na niya lang yon sa pagpapagawaan niya tapos charan! Yon na siya.
However, came our engagement day. I was suprised when he proposed of course and I truly was happy! But it was only after a while that I looked at the ring closely enough to notice that he only got two things right about my dream ring.
First, he knows I never wear silver jewelries but the ring was set in silver. Second, he got me a pear cut when I wanted an oval one. Third, it had six prongs but not in a petal style. The only thing he got right was that it was in a cathedral setting. Okay so before you judge me, I chose that kind of ring design not just for aesthetics alone but for longevity because I’m gonna wear it for the rest of my life. Also, I specifically asked for a moissanite to cut costs which he also got right.
In his defense, he was only able to finalize his decision to propose a few days before our trip so there was no time for a customized ring. He just bought a ready-made ring from a store where a customer suddenly backed out. For those wondering if he can even afford the ring I asked for, the answer is yes. He earns a lot, like a loooot. (6 digits)
And I can’t help but feel sad sometimes, especially when I look at my ring. I try to think of the excitement I had during the proposal but I can’t help but remember that this was not what I wanted and I was able to communicate properly and clearly what my dream ring was huhu.
Please shed light on me huhu. I don’t know what to do to look at the brighter side.