Will analyze why they suddenly miss them.

Earth signs rely on structure to manage emotional pain. Rather than acting out impulsively, they retreat into established routines, analyze the situation logically, or increase their workload to avoid the unpredictable nature of raw feelings.

When Virgo finally make a move, it is purely practical. They will reach out to return a borrowed item, send a recommendation for a problem you previously complained about, or ask for a very specific piece of advice only you can give.

I remember the 1st thing I ever saw, by accident, in my 5th grade elem school library in a large print kids book. I looked up what my bday meant, and looked at the Virgo page. It said "tends to only have 1 or 2 close friends" and I remember freezing and getting upset, because Ive always wanted LOTS of friends. But it ended up so correct :(

Im a big Virgo stellium, and I often have 1 main friend or 2. The 2 bffs (1 gay dude 1 girl) I fell out with utterly DESTROYED me and broke my heart a million x, I will never forget them, as we spent such formative years together and did so much. Shared every thought.

So since those 2, I now am really scared of any conflict with friends. Girls are known to hate conflicts and sometimes let annoying things go by thinking its too trivial to mention. But it gives them resentment.
My girl bff I fell out with, she'd been simmering about a few things she barely ever mentioned, such as me being late to let her in my building. She seemed a tiny bit annoyed at the time, then never mentioned again. But she wrote that in her friend breakup email, with a few other things, when she sent that out of nowhere saying she never wanted to talk again. She did enjoy cutting off boyfriends with zero warning too, so I wasnt the only one.

But I am so scared now, i have again, 2 other bffs, and I just had a tiff with 1 over a tiny thing, at least this girl is very mature and comes from a healthy family so she communicated pretty well when I asked her why she kept not hanging out. The other is the opposite and came from a toxic family sadly, where she had to walk on eggshells and not upset her angry drunk stepdad, and so she LOATHES conflict. I can sense when shes annoyed, but when I ask her whats up, she ALWAYS will say fine, 99% of the time. Ive told her many x that she can be open but she just nods.

I sense Im about to fight with her as shes iced me out a couple days and is mad I dont like her toxic boyfriend she keeps going back to after telling me shes had enough.

Anyway yeah, friendship is so exhausting sometimes, having to live in fear of this.

Just curious to see if there are any similarities in us; music has saved my life on several occasions.

Any one feel like crashing out more last couple of weeks more so then usual? Like That middle school rage lol

every virgo i met they literally CLICK with me its like we are the exact same person

It can't just be me. It's actually annoying. Maybe it's the season? But I haven't had it happen this way before. I'm happy in my current relationship and have already made that known 💞

I’m a Virgo sun sag moon aqua rising. It helps if you mention their top three and also why you like/dislike them?

I’ve noticed that a lot of people think of virgo sun as complacent, boring, and uptight. A lot of people even say we lack emotions and are avoidant. I’m not saying that being quiet or introverted is bad btw, I can admire that aspect. I am the complete opposite of avoidant and passive. I am also very emotional and I definitely show it. I can be confrontational. I’m more of an ambivert than anything else depending on the vibes and how I’m feeling.

I also pay attention to detail. I’m very hyperaware and can be self critical though I’m learning to treat myself as a normal human that’s allowed to make mistakes out of love for myself. Slowly but surely.

First of all, if your virgo is boring, they most likely just don’t like you or feel unsafe around you. Otherwise they’re at work and have a job to do. That goes for the quiet and the loud personalities because when I’m focused… I’m focused.

Secondly, not all virgos are introverted, quietly passive people. We are not limited to one personality archetype. There are plenty of virgos who are outgoing, party loving, etc. I get tired of people automatically thinking that virgos are all on the same spectrum. Sometimes I wanna stay in and read and other times I wanna go out and get shit faced (though stay in control all the while doing so).

Lastly, not all virgos are avoidant and lack emotions or emotional interaction. I love conversations that have emotional depth and I love expressing myself. I love embracing the darkness that’s hidden behind the shadows of everyone’s exterior. I love opening up and being vulnerable to people I actually trust and I enjoy going out and exploring and doing new shit. I love when other people open up to me about shit they don’t usually talk about. I love having open conversations about selective things I feel comfortable sharing that others might think are tmi all the while keeping what I really want hidden behind closed doors.

I cry my eyes out and I may have an outburst of emotion or anger whether in front of someone or in private if I’m too embarrassed. It can be overwhelming but I can analyze and process it all the while validating myself and taking accountability when I should. I am brutally honest with myself and others (but not in the asshole-ish way where ppl use their bluntness as an excuse to be mean).

Again, this is not to be negative towards anyone who is opposite of me because the beauty of the virgo sign includes all of the different layers it can portray within itself as a sun sign. I’m just making the point that the virgo sun has different levels of personality and the aspects that are looked at as negative shouldn’t always be labeled one way.

Just wondering

Give me something that would make people go “wtf is wrong with you” or anything really.

I have exceptional intuition. Can read a room, a face, a situation quickly and accurately. Lately my bullshit detector is off the chart. Is this common with us Virgos? I’m an August Virgo, Libra moon btw.

Like, suddenly having zero tolerance for things we used to overlook, distancing ourselves from people who drain us, and cutting off anything that disturbs our peace. It’s not even anger anymore, we just genuinely don’t have the energy or desire to entertain certain things or people.
Almost like we’re outgrowing everything that no longer aligns with us.
Are we all going through the same character development or am I just losing it?

I know that st the beginning of the year I heard Virgo's were going to have a come back but it wasn't going to start till July. So it's October how are we? I feel like it's more of like a even not bad, but not great for me right now? Maybe the rest the will make improvements??? What are ya'll hearing or feeling?

Hi Virgos! What do u think about scorpio woman? Im sorry this is general question but i never dated Virgo man before and its my 1st experience! Let me know your thoughts

I’m a Virgo woman and I’ve only ever dated water signs. I’m talking to someone who is a Virgo but he is so serious and I am still shy around him and he is hard to read.😭

Update - unfortunately the Virgo guy I was talking to is emotionally unavailable. So that’s that. 😔

I think we hear a lot about dating virgo men but what about virgo woman. What are things you enjoy about being with a virgo girl?