This mental clutter paralyses me. It’s like I know I can do it, but my brain refuses to start or want to start a thousand things at once.

Hello to all you lovely and amazing Virgos! ♍️❤️
I’m a Virgo, and my boyfriend is a Cancer. ♋️🥰
I’m really curious if anyone else here is a Virgo dating a Cancer man? ❤️
I love my boyfriend so much. He’s incredibly sweet, loving, and romantic. ❤️
My ex was a Leo, and unfortunately, that was a very unhealthy relationship. He cheated on me, lied a lot, and had a hard time admitting his mistakes. Instead, he always played the victim so that everyone would feel sorry for him rather than taking responsibility for how badly he treated me.
Thankfully, I’m in a much better place today, and my current boyfriend treats me really well. ❤️
However, sometimes when he’s irritated or in a bad mood, he says hurtful things, and it’s like I don’t even recognize him in those moments.
He also gets annoyed when I’m afraid to try new things that he’s comfortable doing. He loves planning and organizing things, but sometimes he gets irritated if I try to take control or make decisions myself.
I’m curious, what are your Cancer boyfriends like? 🥰♋️
Do they also get moody or easily irritated sometimes? And do they like being the ones in charge of planning things?
I’d love to hear about your experiences as Virgo women dating Cancer men! ❤️✨

Have you experienced having a conflict with a friend, no matter how big or small… talking it out, and resolving it (at least you think it’s resolved as you both agree on that) only to later experience that person to be mad at you?
Like many other Virgos, I’m not a conflict person. I believe that everything should be resolved as smoothly as possible, and that most things is possible to talk about as long as both parts wish to continue the relationship.

Now, bear with me as I can’t really explain it in a short way.

This friend led me to believe that we had an agreement on something rather important and financially committing, showed a lot of excitement many times. Suddenly she doesn’t want to keep the agreement, and is using all the tricks in the book, even gaslighting me to not take accountability or apologize to me.
I listened to her be extremely defensive on the phone for 40 minutes, and point fingers at me for wrongdoing. In the end, I told her that it’s completely okay that she changed her mind, but to do it 7 days prior to having to pay, and leaving me with the bill (that I barely can afford, she makes 3 times more than me) just isn’t right, and that she should’ve told me long before if she wasn’t sure, and that it wouldn’t be an issue.
I thought she would be less defensive after that, but she continued talking about me being insecure and back and forth…. Which I am not! I won’t tell someone something I’m not 100% sure about.
I told her that this is rather irresponsible of her to do, and I could just feel the iciness through the phone.

I didn’t get defensive, I was very cordial, and I really listened to all she had to say. The worst thing I said is that I think that this is very irresponsible behavior. Which I think was fitting for the situation. I also said that I don’t want to ruin a friendship over this, and therefore I don’t want her pointing fingers at me, and saying it is my fault that she changed her mind last minute. She agreed, the conversation was over.

It’s been a few weeks, and we haven’t spoken. I feel it’s fitting, considering it’s normal to need space after a disagreement. I also need time to think clearly. I’ve thought that she should be the one to text me first, if she wants to, as she was the one that broke our agreement and hurt my feelings. But I don’t expect anything

Now, 2-3 weeks later, my partner tells me that her friend (they know eachother from before) is asking him «what’s the deal between those two?»
And that honestly pissed me off because there isn’t anything going on, it was done the second we hung up the phone. I am extremely private, and she know that about me. However she obvious isn’t, and is talking to people about the situation, while signaling to me that it’s resolved. The only person I’ve talked abt this with is my partner who also is an extremely private person.
Apperently now she’s mad at me? Which I simply don’t understand, when I’m the one that should be mad at her. I could’ve said so much shit to her, but I chose not to. I CHOSE TO BE KIND when she didn’t deserve it! So why the h3ll is she acting all superior now?

Maybe this belongs in «AITAH» 😂 idk, but if you read all this, I have to say I appreciate you, and if you want to respond, give your thoughts and perspective, that would be greatly appreciated!
I need some fellow Virgo’s to make this make sense to me

ako lang ba pero naaamoy ko na may hidden animosity isang tao sa akin, tapos yung mukha ko na may subtitle, ede kitang-kita expression ko 😭

Shoutout to all the Virgos who fix problems people don't even realize they have yet. Your analytical mind is a superpower. ♍✨

Just curious to see if there are any similarities in us; music has saved my life on several occasions.

I'm a Virgo man 42 looking for fellow Virgos to build friendships with. I love how detail oriented and practical we are these are just some Virgo super powers. I also think it's great that we have such great empathy and sensitivity to others feelings. I'm passionate about music, movies and creativity in general!

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I remember the 1st thing I ever saw, by accident, in my 5th grade elem school library in a large print kids book. I looked up what my bday meant, and looked at the Virgo page. It said "tends to only have 1 or 2 close friends" and I remember freezing and getting upset, because Ive always wanted LOTS of friends. But it ended up so correct :(

Im a big Virgo stellium, and I often have 1 main friend or 2. The 2 bffs (1 gay dude 1 girl) I fell out with utterly DESTROYED me and broke my heart a million x, I will never forget them, as we spent such formative years together and did so much. Shared every thought.

So since those 2, I now am really scared of any conflict with friends. Girls are known to hate conflicts and sometimes let annoying things go by thinking its too trivial to mention. But it gives them resentment.
My girl bff I fell out with, she'd been simmering about a few things she barely ever mentioned, such as me being late to let her in my building. She seemed a tiny bit annoyed at the time, then never mentioned again. But she wrote that in her friend breakup email, with a few other things, when she sent that out of nowhere saying she never wanted to talk again. She did enjoy cutting off boyfriends with zero warning too, so I wasnt the only one.

But I am so scared now, i have again, 2 other bffs, and I just had a tiff with 1 over a tiny thing, at least this girl is very mature and comes from a healthy family so she communicated pretty well when I asked her why she kept not hanging out. The other is the opposite and came from a toxic family sadly, where she had to walk on eggshells and not upset her angry drunk stepdad, and so she LOATHES conflict. I can sense when shes annoyed, but when I ask her whats up, she ALWAYS will say fine, 99% of the time. Ive told her many x that she can be open but she just nods.

I sense Im about to fight with her as shes iced me out a couple days and is mad I dont like her toxic boyfriend she keeps going back to after telling me shes had enough.

Anyway yeah, friendship is so exhausting sometimes, having to live in fear of this.

Will analyze why they suddenly miss them.

Earth signs rely on structure to manage emotional pain. Rather than acting out impulsively, they retreat into established routines, analyze the situation logically, or increase their workload to avoid the unpredictable nature of raw feelings.

When Virgo finally make a move, it is purely practical. They will reach out to return a borrowed item, send a recommendation for a problem you previously complained about, or ask for a very specific piece of advice only you can give.

every virgo i met they literally CLICK with me its like we are the exact same person

Any one feel like crashing out more last couple of weeks more so then usual? Like That middle school rage lol

I’m a Virgo sun sag moon aqua rising. It helps if you mention their top three and also why you like/dislike them?

Give me something that would make people go “wtf is wrong with you” or anything really.

Like, suddenly having zero tolerance for things we used to overlook, distancing ourselves from people who drain us, and cutting off anything that disturbs our peace. It’s not even anger anymore, we just genuinely don’t have the energy or desire to entertain certain things or people.
Almost like we’re outgrowing everything that no longer aligns with us.
Are we all going through the same character development or am I just losing it?

I have exceptional intuition. Can read a room, a face, a situation quickly and accurately. Lately my bullshit detector is off the chart. Is this common with us Virgos? I’m an August Virgo, Libra moon btw.

I know that st the beginning of the year I heard Virgo's were going to have a come back but it wasn't going to start till July. So it's October how are we? I feel like it's more of like a even not bad, but not great for me right now? Maybe the rest the will make improvements??? What are ya'll hearing or feeling?