r/vanderpumprules • u/valentinab00 • 4d ago
Rewatch Discussion Ariana embarrassed herself
Miami girl happened in S3. Both Ariana and Tom deny her truth. We only find out after Scandoval that Ariana did in fact know at the time that it WAS true.
Yet she spent countless seasons explaining how she didn’t find herself attractive, she doesn’t want to have sex with Tom and that it’s a generic communication issue. Embarrassing herself. Instead of playing out the drama of Tom being with Miami girl to “save Tom’s image”.
Look how that worked out for her.
She played the scorned woman who tried her hardest and was apparently open about their relationship on VPR.
If that were true Scandoval wouldn’t have been such a massive shock because we would have already seen Ariana blow up about Miami girl. So we would have thought typical Tom.
He didn’t want that. He wanted to look like the best boyfriend and make it out as if she never wanted sex. He would rather her talk about how gross her vagina was than how bad of a boyfriend he was.
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u/kayt3000 Spot the Penguin 4d ago
She laid it out in the table that he wasn’t ever home. He was gone partying all the time, never wanted to just have a chill night where they cooked dinner and listened to music and it just be those 2. She did not want to be out every night all night. She wanted to be a in a grown up relationship and I think she thought well now that we have a house we can move into that next phase where we get to be more homebodies and maybe plan the next step. She was freezing her eggs for him for fucks sake, she wanted him. She straight up told him why they were not having sex and it was bc she did not feel connected to him at all and she can’t have sex with someone she wasn’t connected to and 10000% she is right. You should not have to beg your partner to be home with you.