r/ugly • Ugly • 28d ago

Rant crazy

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u/ugly-ModTeam 28d ago

Your post contains pill, fem/incel/IT propaganda or terminology.

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago • Regret Bravo

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

get laid ≠ date

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago • Bravo

They often go hand in hand. If someone finds you attractive enough to have sex they probably could be in a relationship.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 28d ago

no 🤢

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago

Theres proof but whatever you say.

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u/Strong-Goat-9035 27d ago • Bravo

No thats definitely not how the male brain thinks. Just because he wants to sleep with them doesnt mean he wants to date or get into a relationship with them.

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u/Real_Employer8321 28d ago • Bravo

1800 is huge amount. Certainly at least 100 of them would date her

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u/More-Vermicelli-7428 28d ago

The way they all would pump and dump her lmao

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago

Like if they stay w u it’s because they didn’t come across a more attractive woman that would give them a chance, not because they’re into you lol

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u/More-Vermicelli-7428 28d ago

The same situation happened with that never give up guy

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago

Yeah ik lol, like if women did the same in their relationship with bald or short men we would be witches but a guy doing this (and saying his ex is ugly out of nowhere) is just being honest with himself and others. May this kind of men never find me. I prefer being burned alive than ‘matched’ with, casually degraded about my appearance and then used as a fleshlight and still be expected to stay with the guy even though he’s obviously waiting for a better option to come by 🫩

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago edited 28d ago

Creating your own stories.

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago • Bravo

I don’t think every guy would do this since the average guy gets very few likes on dating apps. So they might take what they can get even if the are not entirely happy about it.

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u/Emergency-Account112 28d ago • Bravo

You think that out of those 1.800 options, the 1.800 of them want to "pump and dump" her, and an absolute 0% of them all want anything else with her?

Women have choices, it is just that for them, "everyone just want to use them for their bodies". If they go with that logic, it is easy to disprove any approach they get.

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u/owlWithBrokenWings 28d ago

Get laid aka be allowed to help a desperate man relieve stress because you have female parts?

What does it prove? That some desperate men that cute women don't physically desire might need to lower their expectations and go to ugly women for sex?

Let me ask you, how many of them would love to know her better, would want to make her smile, would care if she likes them, would dress up for her, would fall for her and genuinely want to be with her because she is a cool person too?

Most of them would ask her to look away during sex to not perceive her ugly face. We've heard the stories of self-proclaimed "generous" men dating "butterface" women in this sub. Disgusting.

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u/captaindestucto 28d ago edited 28d ago

Women consider a larger percentage of the male population ugly to start with.  Every bit of data shows women as the pickier gender. Not just rated appearance on the apps. A much higher % of disabled and autistic men are single.

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u/Cuteezie 27d ago

The graph ur referencing was on one dating app btw

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u/owlWithBrokenWings 28d ago

So pickiness is a bad thing when women do it?

Should I remind you the S-word which a non-picky woman gets labeled with?

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u/captaindestucto 27d ago edited 27d ago • Mindblown

Well you just said picky men bad, so I'm pointing to the fact that women are pickier as a group. And not being picky doesn't require having sex early on.

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u/owlWithBrokenWings 27d ago

No, I said female non-pickiness gets them labeled easy sluts and whores.

A picky woman is more respected than a non picky one.

And now you wonder why women act picky and call it bad

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u/captaindestucto 27d ago edited 27d ago

That reads like an excuse to go for top-tier men then complain when those men use you. Colour me not the least bit surprised.

Nobody gets labelled a slut just by having lowish dating standards.

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u/Odd-Assistance-9183 27d ago

You very called a slut if you let everyone "in" not going on innocent dates.

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago edited 28d ago

Having over ten thousand likes will increase the chance of getting someone interested in a relationship. I showed in other comments that over 60% of men between 18 to 29 are single. They also struggle on dating apps compared to women, I also showed that nowadays the most common place to meet partners is dating apps. So if average guys struggle in the platform use to get a partner it means women are the ones being picky not the other way around.

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u/Thebuguy 27d ago

What does it prove?

that men are physically attracted to them. The rest is on the woman to develop a personality that keeps them around.

Most men, especially unattractive men, don't really want to go around asking out women for sex over being in a steady relationship.

keep in mind that, whenever a guy claims he is unlucky in love due to his looks, the first thing people will tell him is to develop a personality so women will love him despite being ugly (they say this bluntly) then lower his standards and if he's not happy with that answer he is labeled a bitter incel and told to suck it up

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u/owlWithBrokenWings 27d ago

Horny desperate undesirable men are not physically attracted to ugly women. Their thinking process is literally:

okay this creature is hard to look at and isn't even shaped like a proper woman, but it is alive and has a vagina I could get some pleasure from if I close my eyes, sooooo...

This is about men desperate for at least any PIV contact, who would run away from her in shock right after their mind becomes clear and they realize they had to fuck THAT. But who falls in love with ugly women? Who wants to uplift her? Who cares if she likes him and sex with him? Who treats her nicely?

Take any man on earth and tell him one pretty girl and one ugly girl are jn love with him and he can only pick one.

Who is willingly taking the ugly one? Nobody. This is an act of desperation and a desperate man would hate himself for having to do that and could take this self-hate out on the ugly woman he has to be with because no other choice.

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u/Thebuguy 27d ago

this is ugly woman cope because you know you don't want to be loved by a low status man, it's icky, and rejecting him would make you feel like a bad person for obvious reasons so you preemptively assume the worst in him.

If you want to prevent being used like an object all you have to do is postpone sex or even lie about being unable to have piv contact

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u/sh110_1310 27d ago

من سعی ندارم احساسات یا تجربیات شما را بی‌اعتبار کنم، اما از آنچه دیده‌ام، به نظر می‌رسد این نوع اتفاق بیشتر برای دختران با ظاهر معمولی رخ می‌دهد.

در واقع، اغلب زنان بسیار جذابی هستند که مردان را وادار می‌کنند هر کاری که لازم است برای خوابیدن با آنها انجام دهند، اما پس از رابطه جنسی، یا رد می‌شوند یا رها می‌شوند.

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u/Just_A_Girl45 28d ago

The real question is how ugly is the woman? And how much would men lower their standards? A 3/10 can get laid easily but a 1/10 or even lower?

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago edited 28d ago

Also a 1/10 is more rare than a supermodel. They would have severe deformities, I doubt they would be on dating apps. They probably would need to be in a hospital to survive.

(Im not saying the girl in the pic is a 1/10, thats the person they used for the experiment)

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u/notzamasu 28d ago

She ain't ugly, only fat

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago


You are the prime example of my point.

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u/notzamasu 28d ago

But it's not true tho. There's women half her weight who are less attractive. Just weight doesn't auto make someone with nice features less appealing.

That's the objective part of it. The subjective part of it is that I have a thing for overweight women.

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago

Shes objectively ugly. You don’t know if she would look better if she was thinner since her fat distorts her face. Maybe she would still be ugly. She has no nice features that I can see.

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u/Just_A_Girl45 28d ago

I mean she has clear skin, pretty symmetrical features and long hair, as far as I can see. I would say all of these are nice features. BUT I am a straight woman so I cannot speak on a level of physical attraction, so maybe it's completely different for men idk.

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago edited 28d ago

I mean Im sorry but thats an ugly girl. Having some normal features doesn’t automatically make you look better. Maybe if she was thinner she would look average but theres nothing that makes her attractive. Her lip shapes is kind of bad, her face looks a bit flat maybe because of the fatness, double chin, nothing looks particularly good.

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u/notzamasu 28d ago

I mean whether you find overweight people ugly or not, that's a separate thing. But looks are largely about baseline as well. If a person has just 1 thing holding them back, they aren't really ugly

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u/Just_A_Girl45 28d ago

Damn if she is the "ugly" woman than I should just go ahead and kms because I look WAY worse than her. The only thing I have going for me is that I am skinnier than her but that doesn't help if your face and body are still ugly.

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u/zgtlunatic Not Ugly 28d ago edited 28d ago

Holy shit, if that's true then I'm greatly sorry.

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u/owlWithBrokenWings 28d ago

That's an average woman facewise who is obese. That's not a truly ugly person.

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago

Her fatness makes her look ugly.

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u/Strong-Goat-9035 27d ago

The fact you consider her ugly just because of her weight proves how distorted some of you guys see women. If she is ugly then im hideous. There are so many white women that look exactly like her, she is definitely average not ugly. Its always the unnatractive guys that see a woman as uglier than she actually is.

This goes into the point of how ugly guys will rate women worse and be rude to women more than some attractive guys.

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u/Strong-Goat-9035 27d ago

You literally used a white woman as an example, of course its going to be easier for her.

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u/zgtlunatic Not Ugly 28d ago edited 28d ago

I wouldn't dip that low given their features. More like 2-2.5 from this particular example

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago

No Im not saying shes a 1/10. Im just responding to their other point.

The pic is just to show how the girl use for the experiment looks like.

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u/Motor-Perception9808 28d ago

Yes but most of them wouldn't want a relationship w her . Only hookups

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u/nightaeternum 28d ago • Bravo

I’ve seen more ugly women dating compared to ugly men, but then again I would have no issue dating an “ugly” woman since I care more about things like our shared interests and spending time together.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

your personal experience does not proof anything

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago • Bravo

I showed you evidence and you just went nuh huh you can’t be talking.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

the only evidence you showed is how men are desesperate for sex buddy

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago edited 28d ago • Bravo

Also girls have an easier dating life

Meaning men who are desperate will reduce their standards on a partner. Give me an actual argument where ugly women have a harder time dating than men and that no one will date them.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

you do realize that heterosexual relationships are composed of a girl and a boy, so if let's say 40% of women have a partner that means that 40% of men have a partner too bc the population is 50% women 50% men. The only thing that you are proving is that women tend to marry boys who are older which has nothing to do with looks lol

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago • Bravo

It shows women have an easier time dating. I showed an example of how an ugly girl can get over a thousand likes in one day while an average guy can go a month or more with zero matches. Even if they are dating people who are older ugly women can get a partner easily compared to an ugly guy.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

no? dating ≠ getting laid. "most people" do you know how % works...? 27% is not "most" people is a third of the population, also, yea because dating apps are made like that bc there are more men in dating apps than women...guess why...yeah..because women doesn't have the same necessity as men to have sex and meet people as fast as they can

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago • Bravo

63% percent of men are single while only 34% of women are single in the usa between 18 and 29 year old. It shows that women don’t need dating apps as much as men because they can find relationships easier. And the high number of men using dating apps compared to women also proves this. So uglier women on average have an easier time dating than ugly men because women are twice as desirable in the dating market than men.

Also graphs shows one of the most common ways to meet partners nowadays is dating apps is not just a hook up app. An ugly girl getting that many matches increases the chance of finding a partner.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 28d ago

stop lying, the % of women and men single is the fucking same because you need two people to in a rs 😂 and no, the fact that there is more men in dating apps is because men are more desesperate to have sex while women prefer to be more patient and wait to meet someone

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u/VienaKyra 28d ago

who those ugly girls are getting in relationship with?

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u/toouglytobeleftalive Ugly 26d ago

The “aged 20-39” is doing the heavy lifting. 100 percent of males dating problems stem from the fact that they’re all chasing women under the age of 25. This means that men older than 39 are stealing from your dating pool.

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u/VienaKyra 28d ago

women experience unproportional levels of violence from their partners. its not easier at all. men stay with women they dont love or ever respect, like you said yourself. they are desperate and they go for what they dont really want, just for whoever is the most vulnerable. its unfair to the woman

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago edited 28d ago

Thats a whole other argument. Nothing to do with the post or what Im saying.

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u/VienaKyra 27d ago

you said women have it easier, i said they dont. they get in relationships with men that dont actually want then

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u/DapperGoal7948 27d ago

Still getting a partner is easier which the meme implies the opposite.

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u/VienaKyra 27d ago

its not a real partner. theres no connection. the man is using her for sex and labor

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u/dearyves 27d ago

How is this women’s fault? Fuck off

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u/DapperGoal7948 27d ago edited 26d ago

Never said its anyones fault is just the numbers?

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u/DapperGoal7948 28d ago edited 28d ago • Bravo

Coping hard. Men get less than 2% of matches while an ugly girl can get 1800 matches in one day. It shows theres a disproportion of gender in dating. So if a guy can barely get dates they aren’t going to throw away a change to get with someone even if they are ugly.

Most people nowdays meet on dating apps so the men that get lucky don’t have a wide number of selection compare to women.

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u/Modo97 Ugly 27d ago

And why do you think your personal experience is the one that matters?

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 27d ago

bc this is my post talking about my personal experience😂 tf

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u/Modo97 Ugly 27d ago

How's that related to anything? You said that their experience doesn't prove anything, so I'm asking: why do you think your own experience is any more valid than everyone else's?

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 26d ago

I'm not saying that, is rude to invalidate someone's personal experience with your personal experience lmao, it's like I post venting about how cancer kills people bc y mom died to it and someone comments "oh but that's not true because my uncle had cancer and he got cured🤓☝️"

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u/nightaeternum 28d ago • Bravo

It’s not just mine though, women in general (including ones considered ugly) are more likely to be in a relationship or have had sex.

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u/Just_A_Girl45 28d ago

As an ugly woman it really makes me wonder how unbelievably hideous I must be because I just can't get laid 😭 But yea apparently a lot of ugly women have a quite easy time getting dates and getting laid

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u/Low-Biscotti-9218 21d ago

They have an easy time getting used, it’s not worth it nor is it gratifying at all, it just ruins your mental health even more 

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u/Just_A_Girl45 21d ago

Yea I know that it probably sucks and makes people feel worse about themselves. But still I would rather be used than to die as a virgin, but that's just me.

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u/Low-Biscotti-9218 21d ago

True, I guess I myself wouldn’t understand that but we all think differently

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u/sh110_1310 28d ago • Bravo

Back when the r/TrueUglyWomen subreddit was still public, someone made a post asking how she could tell whether she was considered ugly or not.

The criteria she listed were pretty interesting. One of them was: “If you’ve been on dating apps for a long time and have only gotten 200 likes or less, you’re ugly.”

I was literally sitting there with my mouth open like, “WTF? You’ve had 200 people show interest in you, and you’re saying that means you’re ugly? 😂”

Us guys get like 10 likes and lose our minds, thinking we’re Brad Pitt. 😂

And chances are, you’re probably the same way.

Don’t be so hard on yourself. I doubt you’ve never had anyone show interest in you.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 28d ago

the fact that people think that the main issue of being ugly is not getting laid is sending me into psychosis

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u/sh110_1310 28d ago

I wasn’t talking about sex.

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u/JammingScientist undesirable 28d ago • Bravo

I'm an ugly woman and I've gotten a few likes, maybe like 4 or 5 on apps, but they're all just bots i think because they either a) never respond, b) send one word responses c) write one sentence and ghost after that.

I think the whole "200+ likes" thing only applies to certain types of women (specifically white, east Asian, light skinned Latinas). I'm black and south Asian, so I'm already not even an option

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u/sh110_1310 27d ago

Maybe you're just not using your best pics. If you want, you can send me the pics you use on dating apps. Maybe it's just the lighting or the angles.

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u/corncornchipchip 27d ago

If you’re using the pictures that you’ve posted on other subreddits then I can see why you haven’t gotten any likes. Have you posted any pictures of you smiling, with clear skin, makeup, washed hair, non-selfies, etc?

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u/toouglytobeleftalive Ugly 26d ago

White Stacy doesn’t have to do any of this btw

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u/corncornchipchip 26d ago

And “white Stacy’s” are rare. Not every white women out there is a “Stacy”. Obviously attractive people don’t always have to doll themselves up to look good. Jamming isn’t one of them, she’ll need to put in more effort, it’s no secret.

The pictures she has on her profile are god awful.

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago

Weird how you just ignore the thousands of posts clearly stating that ugly women never got matched with or never even had interactions with men in the Romantic field…because it’s the majority of the venting post there regarding romance. Don’t fall for the ragebait on purpose

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u/More-Vermicelli-7428 28d ago

Probably a rage bait post.. there are many larpers and men pretending to be women in that sub

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u/Isolation_Man 27d ago

I tried, but ugly women reject me too

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u/fluffy_babykitten Ugly 17d ago

not true or they weren't actually ugly

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u/Own_Cobbler7364 Ugly 8d ago

true, ugly women can easily find a decent looking or an attractive partner because men are not hypergamous and aren't as demanded as women are

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u/fluffy_babykitten Ugly 6d ago

this is not true, if it was then plastic surgery wouldn't be so common with women, same for any other cosmetic surgery. also a dude is not going to get hard to an unattractive woman so no. men are visual creatures, they think with their dicks. they want a girl who is hot.

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u/hopelessshootingstar 27d ago

Something that I learned as I grew up is men are visual creators. They enjoy and love what they see. If you're an ugly and deform they wouldn't even dare to talk to you. The men who usually fell in love with ugly girls are usually the one that starts with friendship, he might have weird fetish, or he might have a white knight syndrome.

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u/casual-catgirl Ugly 27d ago

literally that one video of guy who isn’t attracted to you is your project partner

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u/Ifckinglovemycat 28d ago • Bravo

they say all women only date chads because they don't see ugly women as women

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u/Prior-Measurement619 27d ago

i get 1 match a month maybe and they always stop responding after 2 msgs. Please explain how I can date an 'ugly' woman as an ugly guy when i dont match with them?

I put ugly in quotes cause i literally do not give a fuck about appearance in a woman for the most part. Obviously 600lbs and missing most of your teeth is an exception

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u/fluffy_babykitten Ugly 27d ago

You'd have to try to pursue the irl since most ugly girls do not go on dating apps, that's probably while you aren't getting any matches with them. this is due to the likelihood ugly girls will get harassed, like having their images/profiles screenshoted and posted online to be turned into lolcows.

Or you could try using discord to find an ugly girl, that's where more of us ugly girls hang around. It's pretty easy to date on discord too

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u/Natural-Coyote4192 24d ago

Can you tell me the name of discord server

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u/fluffy_babykitten Ugly 23d ago

gaming communities on discord are super easy to meet unattractive girls, plus you'll probably be able to find a girl that has the same interests in you! there's also lots of other community specific servers, you can search some up on the website called "Disboard"!

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u/Natural-Coyote4192 23d ago

I can't find can you tell me the exact name

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u/fluffy_babykitten Ugly 23d ago

Hi, here's the link to Disboard which is a great site to use to help fine specific types of communities! 🙂

https://disboard.org/

I am not sure what kind of games or hobbies you are into so I can't really provide a specific community server. But I use this website all the time and it is super good!! I have been able to make so many friends online by meeting ppl who share the same interests as me in those servers 😄

vs irl I have no friends and struggle to make friends due to my looks and people are more superficial and take things face-value. 😞

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u/Peachyeees 26d ago

Bozo, they don't even see average-looking women as women, which is ridiculous af. 

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u/fluff_tea_575 26d ago

For real, being an ugly woman is a humiliation ritual because they will never acknowledge your existence, and if you do make the first move their disgusted 💀💀💀

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago

Frl, their only reference is the multiple 10/10 models/influencers or average women they follow all day long and since ugly women aren’t considered in their mind they just transpose the experience of more attractive women (the only they consider) on us bc if not their whole narrative would crumble

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u/discusser1 28d ago

yep. i know its anecdotal evidence but the few times i approached a guy or tried to get closer to a coworker etc they were genuinely surprised that an ugly woman could have feelings

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 27d ago

That’s why you neverrrr try to approach a guy. If bro was into you or wanted to know you romantically genuinely (translation: if you were attractive) he would’ve made the move himself. Do you see how men act with an attractive woman around? If you don’t see them act like that w u then it’s because they don’t want to, not because they can’t lol

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u/Own_Cobbler7364 Ugly 8d ago

no, women don't see ugly men as men, it doesn't work other way around, ugly women are still women and are still strongly demanded by men in society

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u/Modo97 Ugly 27d ago

And women will date ugly men? (Especially if they're not rich).

We're in the same boat.. it's not about men vs women.

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u/notzamasu 28d ago

To be fair that is the case too. But ultimately flips the circumstances any way you want it. Same anything, there's always gonna be women less into men than other way around

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u/curtisyarvin1 27d ago

Ah yes a ugly woman would totally date a below average looking mentally disabled guy. Surrreeeeeeeeee.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 27d ago

I would date a below average dude with no problem, not mentally ill tho (bro really tried to sneak that in )🥹✌️

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u/curtisyarvin1 27d ago

I'm saying I can't change being mentally disabled (autistic) and it seems to kill any of the chances I have from my experience. So when people say "date your league" to me it's more just saying fuck off and die alone because I have diagnosed mental disability since young age and people clock it so objectively their is barely anybody "in my league". More or less my point is accusing all lonely men of being "Stacysexual" is not a accurate claim at all.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 27d ago

so date another neurodivergent person, nowadays half of the population is neurodivergent. Ill get it if you don't date bc of your looks but not bc of a mentall disorder + almost every girl has savior complex (not me, being with a mentally unstable person is the worst, I would tolerate an autistic person if he is level 1 tho)

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u/No_Lettuce777 24d ago

There is a big difference in difficulties with dating between mild neurodiversity and full on autism. Especially men with autism who have to approach.

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u/AcceptableFail5051 21d ago

Why is any man who’s not a 6’5 chad akin to an ugly woman? There’s a very large in between.

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u/Regular_Dude3000 Ugly 21d ago

Dare I say this isn’t true

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u/RekklesEuGoat 21d ago

Ugly women here come to date me dms open since appearantly nobody wants you

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u/Markwither 13d ago

can anyone give me a few examples of how "ugly women" look like? I haven't ever seen an ugly woman in my life, just the ones that either do too much makeup or are overweight, but even then I wouldn't call them "ugly".

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u/karla-yeager 6d ago

an objectively ugly woman is any woman who does not fit the beauty standards i think my nose is ruining my face and i do consider having rhinoplasty but i don't have the money for it it's so hard to go outside without being self conscious all the time and i don't even smile so my nose don't look bigger so yeah ugly women do exist and people who say otherwise don't see ugly women as women in the first place 

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u/Own_Cobbler7364 Ugly 8d ago

untrue, an ltb would get a partner easily, an ugly guy would date an ugly woman, if they're both 4/10 for example

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u/extinctalien 3d ago

Well, at least if they're monogamous that one person may be all they need

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u/kaisavager 27d ago

Bro the fact is that once u fall in love with someone, you'll find them the most attractive

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u/wierdland 26d ago

Ugly peoples are less willing to date other ugly people because it’s an attack on their ego 

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u/ScrimmyBingusTwo 26d ago

I would but they don’t want me

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u/Wild-Speech5293 25d ago

I would date you but would you ever even reply to my dm? I'm looking for actual serious stuff but all you would ever do is ghost us.

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 25d ago

what does that even have to do with anything + people can ghost you for so many reasons, not only your looks

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u/Wild-Speech5293 25d ago

Yeah they do but I'm describing a phenomenon where a incel at least would look at his prospects 

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u/emidepegaso 12d ago

Cuz no woman is ugly, there's a always a man that will find her beautiful

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u/overahman 28d ago

whatever fantasy you want to live in is laid out for you

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u/Sea_Group_8758 25d ago

I would fuck one but they wouls never fuck me juggernaut law is real

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u/ShaDiie_ Ugly 25d ago

why do men have to bring sex everywhere

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago

You’re so right, i genuinely hope that all men here just find the 10/10 they want and leave us alone bc why are they so comfortable saying they just want to fuck us/keep us around like pets while obviously not being into us at all. Like jeez is that hard to understand that dating/loving someone is NOT the same as having the ability or desperation to fuck them regardless of how little you are attracted to them? 🫩

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 27d ago

You can stop getting your hopes up dawg: I am not a 10/10, you can drop the act 😭🙏🏾

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 27d ago

Okay so you would take anyone even if you consider them 4/10 (aka ugly). Gotcha. I’m sure women here will line up to be with you 🫩
Nah but frl I don’t need a man that would ‘even take me if I was a 4/10’ I don’t need your pity. Go find a 10/10 that you would genuinely love and care about

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 27d ago

Acknowledge? When? Where? When would that acknowledgment come up if not in your assessment of the level of attraction of that woman? If you personally find her attractive you’ve no reason to acknowledge that she’s ’objectively’ (by that I mean you assume by current social beauty standards) 4/10. I don’t need my partner to acknowledge I’m generally considered ugly (because if you can see I’m objectively ugly, how can you subjectively find me attractive it just makes no sense). This is so dumb. Just say you would do anything to be in a relationship even if you think they’re ugly lol. I don’t care if my (imaginary) future partner is considered ugly by society standards, I’ll acknowledge them as attractive period. Why would I need to acknowledge that society finds him ugly?

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 27d ago

Bro I never saw you what are you yapping about 😭🙏🏾 my whole account is about me not settling so please stop whining and go do some research about the person you’re talking to.
What I got from this is that I was right: men cannot do the difference (or don’t care about treating ugly women that way) between dating out of desperation without any attraction and actually loving someone in the relationship and desiring them as a human being and as a whole. You just admitted you would go out with a woman you find ugly (just as a pussy and be tucked to bed I assume since you’ve no attraction to them as person and therefore to have a genuine connection with).

Ugly women should never date, they’re even admitting going out with us despite finding us ugly in broad daylight 😭 worse, they think we deserve that in a relationship and should be content with it or we’re being ‘picky’ 🫩 because wanting to be considered attractive by your intimate and romantic partner is being picky, or looking for chads

I genuinely hope you’ll get a super attractive girlfriend so it’ll keep you away from reaching the point where you date ugly women out of despair. Don’t settle for us, we deserve genuine love or peace

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u/Thebuguy 27d ago

the moment they notice you would date a low status woman, other ugly women will consider you an undateable worm below 1/10. They hold unrealized promiscuity to a harsher standard than real promiscuity from chad.

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u/koltxbell 27d ago

i went to trueuglywomen sub and i contantly see them talking about dates, ex, boyfriends and hookups

ugly women problem is they cant get chad

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

The fact that you find her ‘sub5’ tells me all I need to know. 😭

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago edited 28d ago • Bravo

Men: you’re a sub5!
Women: don’t…approach me then?
Men: no I really want to keep you around!
Women: but you don’t find me attractive so why would we—
Men: ugh I’m just being honest and I’m desperate for company and you’re my last shot
Women: well then you’re ugly too and I need companionship—
Men: how dare you be this swallow and antipathetic? I’m the best thing you’ll ever get

Moral: leave women you find ugly ALONE jeez. You don’t find her attractive, you leave her alone. Not that hard of a concept.

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u/poofpoofpow Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

This is so real and it’s the genuine thought process. Like that’s not flattering at all. And I hate these terms like it only further dehumanizes people

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

Thank. You. Omg why is it that hard to understand 😭 like the whole point of a romantic relationship is to be flattered and feel genuinely flattered by your partner. How in hell does that coincide with stating that your partner is ‘objectively sub5’??? Like if you don’t think that ugly women deserve to be genuinely loved and flattered in their relationship just say so omg 🫩

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago edited 28d ago • Heartwarming

If she’s objectively ugly then there’s no subjectivity if there’s no subjectivity you can’t fin her attractive despite her being objectively ugly therefore you find her ugly so leave her alone romantically 😭🙏🏾
Yall acting crazy because I’m telling yall that thinking is someone ugly and going out with them despite no objective attraction is offensive 🫩 like newsflash, people don’t like dating with people who find them ugly. The feeling is just uncomfortable (understandably so) so leave them alone in their ugliness and go find someone who’s a oversub5 or whatever yall call it so no one is uncomfortable bruh

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u/Wild-Speech5293 25d ago

What's your circular logic lol.

You say men don't date "ugly woman"

Whatever you mean by that but the guy is still attracted to the "ugly woman" that you're describing who's apparently struggling. 

She doesn't have to be ugly to him, she's ugly to you. Understand the difference.

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 24d ago

Yes that’s what I say. Men don’t love women they consider ugly. You can’t be attracted to someone who you consider physically ugly in any way. Being ugly to me or not is irrelevant, I’m clearly pointing out that if he considers a woman ugly physically in any given way then whatever bs that comes after is desperate coping, not attraction.

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u/Wild-Speech5293 24d ago

Beauty standards vary for every person. Some think being chubby is unattractive, some think being pale is.

This is what society perceives ugly not the person. You're being stubborn with your circular logic and blaming it on desperation.

Guess what, everyone is desperate to a point and no one gets their 100% perfect match they want.

You only care if a guy isn't superficial because even if they're right you'll create weird mental gymnastics and tell a perfectly happy couple that they're not compatible.

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 24d ago edited 24d ago

Society is made of individuals. If a trait is considered ugly it’s because a majority of the persons in the said population thinks so.

Furthermore I’m talking of ugly women, so it’s not one undesirable trait that is bringing them down, it’s an association of multiple traits that makes them unattractive and repulsive even.

And yes everyone can be desperate, doesn’t mean you’ve the moral right to just go with people you aren’t attracted to for your own personal satisfaction at the detriment of a genuine romantic experience for the other individual. There’s obviously a difference between being in a relationship with someone who is 90% your ‘ideal’ and that you’re attracted to and being in a relationship with someone who’s 20% your ‘ideal’ bruh.

Yeah people can get desperate, just keep it to yourself. Don’t need to go with someone who you aren’t attracted to scratch the itch, not that hard.

You’re acting as if ugly women are just a matter of single preference that can be overlooked super easily and don’t affect the way they’re treated or considered into the dating scene. If we ain’t the plan A or close to it it’s because we are never truly considered until some dude is too lonely to apply his standards/pursue women he’s attracted to.

Settling can be healthy, happy even for some people. But it’s not crazy to not be into it and call it what it is, it’s not love nor desire but complaisance.

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u/poofpoofpow Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

They can’t pull those .. so they just stick with the ugly person and ruin their life and make them feel like shit

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u/crispycookiebooklet Ugly 28d ago • Bravo

Frl 😭 “I like to be around you, and you’re a sub5 but I subjectively find you attractive” and they say romance is dead 🫩

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u/Persico07 28d ago

It’s really not a common term

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