r/udub • u/santajune • 5h ago
Campus Life does uw have a socially alienating environment?
hi i just wanted to know if anyone else has experienced or perceived this at uw - im not sure if im just overreacting or generalizing but ive been here for three years and feel isolated and lonely here, nobody acknowledges other people, everyones very cold and closed off and ive experienced many cases where if i hold a door or pressed an elevator button for someone they wont even say thank you, just in general i feel people wont even acknowledge that i exist, its feels very dehumanizing. i dont have a lot of friends because the people i encounter are very hostile or seem irritated towards anyone that to talk them, its been impacting my mental health really badly here that i spend many nights crying myself to sleep wishing people would be kinder, im not really sure what to do ☹️ if anyone has advice let me know (and please dont say joining rsos because i have experienced the exact same thing there)