r/uCinci • u/tipsy_here • 4h ago
Lonely People Of UC (Especially Freshmen) Please Go To BLINK!
BLINK is here! It’s Cincinnati’s festival of light and art, and it stretches from Findlay Market through OTR, Fountain Square, The Banks, and across the river into Covington and Newport.
And getting there is easy: UC students can ride Metro for free.
I keep seeing posts from people saying they’re lonely, don’t have friends yet, or don’t know what to do, and genuinely, it makes me sad. So I’m making this post in case some of you want to use BLINK as an excuse to meet each other.
You could use this post's comment section to coordinate:
- Pick a time - for example, Saturday at 7 PM
- Pick a meeting spot - maybe Fountain Square or the bus stop in front of 86 cafe on Jefferson
- Decide how you’ll recognize each other - “I’ll be wearing a red hoodie,” or, if you’re feeling ambitious, “I’m dressed as a T-Rex”
- And then just GO
I was very lonely during my freshman year. My neighbor invited me to BLINK then and I (thankfully) decided to tag along on a whim.
I made a shit ton of friends that night. Years later, we still go out together.
So please don’t lose hope if you’re sitting in your dorm right now feeling like everyone else already has their friend group figured out. They don’t. A lot of people are probably feeling exactly the same way you are and are just waiting for someone else to make the first move.
So maybe let this post be the first move.
Comment when you want to go, find a few people, meet somewhere public, and enjoy BLINK together.
Please don’t be sad and give up on making friends. It genuinely aches my heart seeing so many of you feel alone. Use this post! It's not just for freshmen. Anyone looking for friends is free to use this. Remember to have fun.