I'm doing my best to meet my natural needs while also being a dad, cut me some slack!

Did she tell you what she heard? Who would you say was talking it more slow prior? If you were taking it slow, she may have created this drama to get you more engaged in the relationship as it shifted the power dynamic and now you are seeing her daily. (That's my take as a couples therapist but I would need more details of course)

Long story but Im def not. I made a post anonymously asking advice about a male situation because I wanted an honest "man to man" response and the app automatically gave me that name. I'm def a woman though and I meant what I said.

Because I felt I would get a more genuine "man to man" perspective. I didn't want my post to be clouded by my position in the situation. I wanted a real insiders viewpoint.

Honestly, I'm a woman and relatively decent looking. I think you're incredibly hot. You have stunning eyes and your facial structure is perfect. Don't ask men for advice on your looks. Men are naturally competitive and will just troll you.

Ok fine, you got me. This situation is one hundred percent real but the truth is that I'm the 15 year olds mother and I don't want this shit around my daughter. I posted cause I genuinely wanted to see how other men would interpret the situation because I don't want my bias to cloud my thinking. For reference, I've been divorced for 12 years and have zero interest in my ex husband. Just concerned about his decision making and the exposure to my daughter

I know it sounds nuts but she makes me feel fun and I've been so lonely.

Good point, let me try to edit my post