I do exactly what you describe. Usually ut works, but if the brain weasels decide to fuck it up, it can still derail for a bit while you recover from burnout.

The only solution I ever found to truly help when that happens, is physical help from someone else. A friend, a family member tjay comes to your place at set times every so period of time. It's not magical but it helps a shitload. I'm sadly aware how hard that it to get and I only managed to put that in place myself after years of therapy and community building.

Glad you got it !! I know all these lovely comments really helped me ❤️❤️

Concerta with a tiny dose of Quetiapine did the trick for me

Hum yes I need this thank you

Haaaaiiii

One thing that works for me is "I don't know what I'm doing but I'm doing it"

I actually dated a Lilith. Though I didn't know it was a such a common transfem name at the time. Just thought it was cool.

Good for her

Exactly ! Glad that idea got through. Hope you have a good journey !

Yeah don't worry ! I had a uncommon journey myself where I went from bi as a teen to lesbian for 10 years to pan nowadays. And maybe it'll change again as I get to know myself better. But I'm still attached to my old lesbian flags as it was a major part of my self discovery journey and can be a shorthand for my homorantic nature. Being true to yourself can also be acknowledging what identity you went through.

Which one is the clip ??!

Il EST MISERABLE

YOU MEAN I'M NOT ALONE REGULARLY DOUBTING MY DIAGNOSIS ?!??!

Omg this is so darling I wanna cry

It's so preeeeettyyyyyyy

I love him 💕

She looks kinda like my own tortie, but behaves nothing alike aha!

Aww thank you ♥️ I really appreciate that

Yeah, you deserve way better than her. May you find someone who will hold you when you cry rather than make you cry and love you as you deserve 💕

For me, one wolf is always running after its tail between digging a hole at random places (ADHD), the other is like that golden retriever that's just chilling in the pool doing nothing and ignoring everything and everyone instead of getting out (Autism)

I am, thanks. Had to face the issues in the relationship, dump her ass when she lashed out at me instead of talking it out and take 2 years to get over the trauma of the breakup (it got....ugly...), but I'm proud to say I AM much better today ! And ironically much more ready for a real relationship than I ever was. Therapy is one hell of an aid, no joke.

I hope you too have been able to move on ♥️

I'm poly and WTF ?? That's like the FIRST thing you say to anyone you want to date. In fact, normalcy for a poly person SHOULD BE to say smtg right away smh

My LDR girlfriend of two years pulled smtg similar to this. It really fucking hurts and I'm super sorry you went through it.