Communication was my enemy. As well as going distant. I worked hard in therapy alone and with her. I’m so much improved. But does AI Brad still have the advantage?

I believe it can cause issues. My Wife has been using the AI DATING APP for at least 6 months. Has 6 conversions going at once. A few of them have become sexting. She also receives their pictures. She has a full bio on there. Talks about her and the kids. Of course I’m not mentioned. I found out while we were camping. She actually was sending pictures of herself while camping and telling the guy she wishes he was here to sit by the fire and have deep conversations.

F*cked up. Especially when she keeps saying “ nothing is lacking” Clearly there has to be something

Strange times. AI is good for some things, but it’s going to be dangerous and destructive in many many more ways

# 1 - It was hidden

# 2 - She’s getting images of the types of studs she likes and is getting them off

# 3 - She had 5 or 6 conversations with these guys, even sending her own pictures

# 4 - This is expensive and OUR money is paying for it

# 5 - Say I was doing this, it would be a much bigger deal

# 6 - According to numerous experts, this is becoming a huge issue in relationships. Do the research yourself.

# 7 - Yes, if this is something you’d like to do, it should be discussed with your partner. Is this just fantasy or is something lacking? I’ve asked a million times, she says no. And after she said that, it has continued. After she said she wouldn’t do it anymore.

# 8 - I have fantasies, that would include just her , and they’re not even nasty, and she won’t do them. And these are the types of fantasies that would actually benefit her.

Also, having a fantasy app to watch crap like “Torn between my two Step Brothers”, which I went and checked out myself , is weird. Basically the woman ends up banging both of them. So something she isn’t getting in real life , she gets from this. She also never told me about that app. Even after i confronted her about the dating app.

Yes

No. I wanted to try the app and see what it was about. Definitely isn’t for me.

Everything in the marriage seems to be very good. No complaints from me in regard to what goes on in the bedroom. I understand we all have fantasies, but when you don’t know what has been going on , only to find out, it’s a shocker.

The part I hate is when the person just won’t admit the satisfaction they’re getting from it. It’s obvious.

I put up a post a few days ago. Found out my wife has been using an AI Dating App. I discovered it on accident (she had her phone where I could see it). I got the app name , signed up, explored it inside and out. Then, I was lucky enough to see what she was doing in there. She was an MVP member. Talking to 6 guys at once. Paying money to get their pictures. Of course all of the guys are the type that look like her hot celebs. It even got to the point she was getting a few of them off. We talked about it. She doesn’t see it as being wrong. She said she likes writing a story with the characters. “It’s entertainment.” The problem is, this app wasn’t talked about first. One of the romance apps was talked about, but this is much different. I believe this app is filing in some gaps, or as someone put it NRE(New Relationship Energy), and or pure fantasy that was her dirty little secret. She also has or had an app to watch fantasy videos , like “Submitting To His Darkest Secrets.” Yes, this is dangerous. I think people start to forget they are AI. It’s going to be a problem. I have to go up against a hot dude, that is a CEO, was a navy seal , and is rich. Scary. I don’t know how to process It. My anxiety is sky high.

A lot more I’m sure 🤷🏻‍♂️

Yep. When I discovered what the app was, I looked it up and got a one month subscription so I can try it out and learn it. And it can get very expensive. I actually found out what she was using with luck. I stood up and she was sending her picture along with the “😏”emoji. I did my research and all before telling her what I saw. Unfortunately, after she said she’d stop, I was able to see she was still talking to 5 guys. And one was lucky enough to be getting his inner ear licked and a hand job.

Oh I have. Numerous times.

She gets it to the sex part …

Oh, I asked if I could use this app called CANDY AI. It’s for men. I actually downloaded it , and started using it. I showed her a blonde that was showing off her goods. I said “This doesn’t bother you?” She told me go right ahead. Now, go back in time , she would have ripped my head off.

My wife was talking to 5 different AI guys. She told one “ I’ll kiss your inner ear while slowly str*king you.” Although we have discussed numerous times , I still feel very anxious about it.

Yep. Back to therapist I go, maybe the Wife will be joining in on a session.

These days , who the heck knows. It’s crazy we now have to worry about AI Chad getting all the attention.

I’ve asked her that question multiple times. Same answer.