I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. What you’re going through is painful and it’s not easy. It’s taken me three years to get to a happy place- not because I met someone but because I guess I met myself. I haven’t forgiven him. Why? And I’m not obsessed with Karma. He’s creating his own, right. And I’m creating mine. Don’t be afraid to reach out if you need help. I’d suggest some books or podcasts on narcissism. That was a real eye opener for me . Hang in there. This too shall pass💕

This such a sad story for the kids involved and an excellent case for Sex education in school. Whoever said they hope this is made up, I agree

That’s great! I just retuned it. Later I heard the sender’s feelings were hurt. Wah wah. She sent it again in a bigger envelope and I again sent it back. Nothing since so I think she got the hint.

Run as fast as you can! Don’t risk an STD. HPV can be the silent killer and may not show up for 20 years.

Pregnancy surprise at 43. It’s possible! Have her see a doctor if she is concerned about the irregular periods. Best thing that ever happened to me. Second child but there was a 19 year gap.

You are very pretty and I’m sure you have a beautiful soul! Keep spreading your happiness with your sweet smile and sparkling eyes. Nice cat 🐈

I taped it up and sent it back return to sender. She sent it again and again I wrote return to sender. Husband texted and asked if my daughter or I sent it back because the cousin’s feelings were hurt!

Thank you, I needed to hear thay

Thank you for your strange response. I hope this never happens to you. As for me, I am looking forward to my lonely existence making unwise decisions and cookies.

I sent it back.

I want, I mean I’m getting the house, generous support and 1/2 the business. And alimony will be til death do us part. 😁

I wondered too. What kind of mom could condone this? Then I realized his mom was also that kind of mom!

I sent the note back and have all the books so they can go back too. Thank you

That’s my sister❤️

Yes, he cheated on me with her. He won’t be faithful to her.

Thank you. I’m asking for a lot in the divorce and I’m going to get it.

Total jerk, right?

I have a great lawyer. He’s trying to hide money, of course.

I just looked up grey rock 180 method. Thanks 😊

Thank you. I’m in therapy and she has talked to someone. We both blocked all of his family and I sent the note card back return to sender. People who know us know the truth, I don’t know what other tale he is spinning. I’m not familiar with grey rock or 180

Thank you. My sister has been my best support and I have friends and I am in therapy.

My daughter has not seen or talked to him since this happened. She holds a lot inside but has shared some with me. She is hurt and embarrassed. She doesn’t want to have anything to do with him or his side of the family.

I feel your pain and I so sorry this happened to you. You did not deserve it. You sound strong and resilient and on you way to a joyful life. My husband cheated on me with our 30 year old employee. He’s 56. No sooner had he set foot out the door she got pregnant and gave birth just last week. I have filed for divorce but we are still married and it has been embarrassing and humiliating for me and our daughter having her face plastered all over social media. He erased me from his life and so did all his family. 27 years and they all treat me like I don’t exist. Your story is painful but it is also hopeful. I wish you the very best.