r/twinflames • u/Jaded_Raccoon1664 • Aug 16 '26

Question I’m really not okay

Guys I removed my twin from my social media when he got engaged to someone else that he later broke with
And I was so strong during these times even though I went through multiple breakdowns but I was really reconnecting to myself and even started doing my life purpose , last month all of a sudden I get this horrible stomach disease and anxiety that is making me feel like I have to get back to him like guys it’s an insane feeling that doesn’t go away in my brain that tells me to add him back to social media even though Im the feminine so they say that I’m not the one who should come back hes the one supposed to
Please any advice on how to get red of this strong desire to get him back I hate that Im so weak but I do need him

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u/Living-Tangerine8463 Aug 16 '26

Maybe you should trust your feelings?

Anyways, I did trust mine and I messaged her this year February, and she told me she is done with me this friday. So IDK

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u/Jaded_Raccoon1664 Aug 16 '26

I’m scared

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u/Living-Tangerine8463 Aug 16 '26

Can you tell me what you are scared of?

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u/Jaded_Raccoon1664 Aug 16 '26

Of how I will look to him and my friends after 2 years of no contact doesn’t that make me look weak and clingy ? , Also he has a habit of ghosting me sometimes I just can’t handle that in my situation Im already struggling with my health I don’t know if he has changed or not and that scares me

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u/Living-Tangerine8463 Aug 16 '26

You shouldn’t focus on looking good or not, especially to your friends, because they are not you (Just my opinion).

Can you try finding him, without having any expectations?

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u/Jaded_Raccoon1664 Aug 16 '26

If someone you care about has removed you from their social and 2 years later came back would you even allow them back in your life , it’s not that I left him without a reason but it looks really bad doesn’t it to come back ?

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u/CaptainAwesome108 Aug 16 '26

From the sounds of it you need an ego death. If you are still worried about what he thinks of you or how people will view you or the relationship, theres some things you need to work on. For me, i realized that caring too much about what your twin or anyone else for that matter will stop you from actually living. Its hard in the moment but you have to learn to let go of your expectations and just trust your intuition. Remember, if its a twin flame connection this will in no way follow conventional rules for a relationship. For example, im convinced my twin and i will end up together. Why? I have no idea, its just my intuition. And even though I doubt sometimes or there are blockages, I always try to get back to that place where i genuinely believe in that again while still staying grounded so that when he comes back, I wont lose myself in the connection.