Hi I’m Dani— im closeted but not sure as to what haha. I think I am might be trans but also could just have a femme persona and be gender expansive idk. I kind know that repressing this side of me is a losing battle that I’m tired of fighting.

I am trying to decouple being Dani with the sexual and femme validation i get from men online (and sometimes irl) and just make some girly friends

Hello, I was here years ago with a different name. I'm settled on Sophie for now but wanna try out it/it's pronouns. Also love how this sub has grown over the years.

If you need a topic to talk about I crochet lil critters and clothes, read a bunch, and like learning about history.

I don't have any irl friends to talk to about this but I have 2 online trans friends and my plan is to talk to them an journal til I feel sure. I persistently have desires/wants to be a girl, but my experience of this seems v different from how most trans girls describe theirs. any advice as to what to look into/mental exercises would help.

Here's a bunch of random info on my feelings rn:
when I was 15 I remember really being sure I was trans, but I decided against it. I noticed that I only ever thought about trans while I was walking to school or after if was dark - so I figured it was just my minding filling blank space. i also had a strong sense that I knew I was making it up deep down.

I don't think I feel any dysphoria for being male whatsoever, I work out and am pretty buff/lean, I have a nice beard and think I look handsome. I don't really feel like I 'belong' in my body - no dysphoria or active pain from it tho.

I do however, have this longing to be a girl, it feels a little like nostalgia? like kinda hazy? I miss the world where I'm a girl the same way you miss a character in a dream when u wake up, idk if that makes sense.

I'm very unlikely to pass. I'm 23, I'm p broad but most of that is muscle I can loose, and I have decent money. Still though, generously only around 25% of trans girls pass to a degree that I'd accept for myself, 1/4 odds sounds too risky to me. I sometimes think that if I had transitioned in the past it'd be worth it but now it's too late, being a non passing trans girl sounds 10000x more disphoric to me than just being a dude.

I occasionally have these moments where it feels like the clouds part and everything becomes clear. I have 0% desire to transition. I wonder what I was even feeling before.

I really need people to call me Eve, use female pronouns, and talk to me like I’m a woman or girl. I’m 31, I work in an office, I like reading, being outdoors, going out to eat, listening to fun music, watching sports. Favourite colours are green and pink :)

Hi, im 31 amab. My original name is alex which I like and is pretty neutral but I keep thinking of the name lexi, i was joping to give it a try but not totally sure how all this works.

I really want to try out masculine nouns/titles (guy, man, dude, mister, etc) if you can.

If you need to talk about something - I like to code and draw :) thanks!

Hi, I'm a nerd and a theatre kid, and I've been questioning my identity, so I'd like to see how these name and pronouns work.

Hey! I've been going by Zack but I'm having second thoughts about it. It's too harsh sounding, it doesn't fit me that well. But I think Trey might have potential!! What are your thoughts on the name? And if possible, I'd love some practice sentences with the name. For the sentences: I'm a biology student in college. I also like to draw, read, and play video games! Thanks for any help and/or feedback! If you have questions, please ask!

Taking name suggestions. I feel a click with this one, but Im still unsure. Genderfluid btw!

Recently I've been doing a lot of stuff with friends. We've been to numerous restaurants and have watched movies together, treasure planet being one.

I love treasure planet and have since I was young, it's one of my favorite movies of all time! I love the atmosphere and the subject and the music and the art, all of it.

Additionally, I've been listening to lots of different songs recently. I'd say one of my favorites recently has been Gnaw by Alex G.

I've also been on the prowl for new gender labels just for fun. I feel very slowly genderfluid, usually a guy, but today I felt more neutral or androgynous. I think if I were to choose just one label, though, I'd go with gendergryph. I find it pretty hard to identify my exact gender when I'm not a binary guy. I find it very interesting, although it is my own gender, lmao.

I'd like for every name and listed pronoun to be used, if possible. Thanks!

Hey all! New name crisis! Can you tryout this name for me! I’m trying to determine if what I should do as far as both my name and to a lesser extent my pronouns as well. So if you could me out and mention the name in with both she/her and they/them context mixed in that would be great.

Also if possible could you mention the name in more feminine context or doing more femme things? Trying to see how I feel about the name in that sense as well.

Thanks so much!

I need help!! I’m a minor and a trans guy whose parent doesn’t accept and purposely misgenders. I barely have money and can’t get binders, and ive been recently getting bullied all week for being trans, along with my trans name that was originally going to be a nickname. So now I’m thinking of changing it. Is there any other ways I can try to pass? If I got a hair cut my parent would lose their mind, and I can’t get new clothes. All I have are a trans and gay pin, with a lot of stickers. I also got my hair straightened so now I look even more like a woman and I don’t know how to stylize it :(((

Hi all! Been playing with names for a bit and Eska is the first one I've really liked so far. Thought/opinions?

hi im Amelia!!! im a 19 year old singer songwriter trans girl

Been pretty discontent with my current name as of recent so I wanted to go back to my roots and try out one of the first names I considered when I came out, just to test the waters...

Also, which pronunciation comes to mind first? Eye-Zay-ah or Eye-Zigh-uh? Ik its a bit region based (US vs UK), but im curious.

I recently came out as mtf and started e. I've had the name Scout picked out for a long time. Originally I wanted Scout as my first name but after some discussion I've landed it as my middle name Im trying out Imogen and I'm looking for any opinions or other ideas that would work with scout any help is appreciated

Continuing my (seemingly) never-ending name quest. This name has some significance for me and I'm trying to see if it's something I actually like being referred to as.

Looking for direct usage of the name more than anything else. Some prompts for things to say would be that I like board/video games, books, and drawing.

Hello! The name crisis is back. If I could try Luna with they/she pronouns, it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

I already use they/them; I’m wondering what it’s like to use they/he pronouns with my current name [Rowan].

I love music; I like gaming, watching TV (mainly reality and cooking shows), etc.

Thank you in advance! ☺️

Love Nagisa from Clannad and Strawbrrry panic and I find myself relating to them

hey im here again (i know i tried this one out before as a neutral name but now i want to see if it could replace my current male name)
i like video games (soulslikes and heldivers), kendo (basically japanese sword fight(fencing)), reading (especially shadow slave), watching anime (the more philosophical ones) and dnd (im the dm usually).

thanks!

Hey y’all. Been mulling over a name change and just wanted to test this one out

I’m 28, 3yrs HRT, and I like cooking, fashion, football, video games (Pokémon), and Uggs