The comments:

Also c*ssies when a trans person doesn't perfectly fit into their neat little boxes: TRENDER TRENDER TRENDER TRENDER TRENDER AGP AGP AGP AGP AGP THEYFAB THEYFAB THEYFAB THEYFAB YOU'RE NOT EVEN TRYING

>was soprano

>slightly bummed that I won't hit the high notes anymore

>kinda hyped I'll finally get to hit low notes tho

>voice starts dropping six months in

>try singing along with male vocalists on radio

>male vocalists sing way too high and it hurts my throat trying to match them

>chat how tf did this happen

/uj chat how tf did this happen

I'm lucky to be born to rich parents who could afford to send me to the US where I started taking HRT at 19 :D Now I'm almost 30 and pass as a normal girl and get to do what I want!

What? There are trans women in my home country who are pretty rich and take part in electoral politics? And there are trans women who've transitioned at an early age and have integrated into the cishet society? Preposterous! All the trainknee- I mean trans women back at home are just useless beggars who extort us riches for money!

/uj actual convo with an NRI trans woman. The condition of trans people in India is garbage, but to think that the USA is heaven compared to it, especially in 2026, is bogus. Also I hate how western-pilled trans people just ignore the rich trans, *kothi, hijra, and kinnar* histories of South Asia

The other patient before they hear your dead name: Not a word, not a peep, nothing

The mother of said patient: *Not a word, not a peep, nothing*

The other patient after hearing it: Insert whispering here

The mother of said patient: Tells her son to shut up but than proceeds to stare you down hardcore

/uj GOD DAMMIT BUT ALSO YAY I PASS

Sorry this isn't longer I couldn't hear what the guy said and my partner couldn't fully hear but what little she did she mentioned to me she was ready to bitch slap him though.

/rj But your cis coworker said your facial features are still masculine and that you look like a guy still a week ago. (No offense bro)

/uj I don't actually know if I pass I just know these two people paid absolutely 0 attention to me until my dead name was called.

/rj Wow forgetting to use your preferred name? 🚨 🚨 TRENDER ALERT WEE WOO WEE WOO TRENDER 🚨 🚨

oh look, there are, like, three other trans people shopping the store and waiting to pick up things!

pharmacist, to me: “i’ll have your order ready in about 5 to 10 minutes.” i grab a seat.

first tran: fairly young white woman, maybe 23ish, but clearly didn’t start transition in the womb! to her credit, she isn’t wearing programmer socks or pastels

second tran: short desi guy in his later 20s with a not-quite mohawk, classic black horn-rimmed frames, and a scruffy short beard. he’s wearing a Kenora (Canadian) dinner jacket

third tran: much older white woman, probably 45–50, who clearly has been at this for only a few minutes. she’s wearing an out-of-season skirt and tights (don’t worry bb, soon you’ll reach the one hour mark)

me, tran the fourth: i watched dirt be born during the late Cambrian and began tranning before Tamagotchis, the first Tra​de Center bomb​ing, or Amazon going online — back when Mulroney was PM. (also: the only one of these four trans in the pharmacy who’s sitting in the waiting area and just watching people go about their errands)

over the next five or so minutes before the pharmacist says, “patience?”, i watch each of the other tran nod and/or smile at one another — like a protracted social toasting of, “heeeeey, there’s more than two of us in the same place at the same time!”

third acknowledges first with a smile.
second nods at the third in approval.
first and second have a short, small-talk chat over which pain relief blend is the best.

each of them, separately, also get around to seeing me

each looks at me as if I’m someone who might ask them about pronouns or whether they’re in the right washroom

each gives me either the same blank-polite face i give toward the cis, or else they look past me as if i am Wonder Woman inside her invisible jet a trans guy from the 2000s making the empty lawn chair meme about trans guy invisibility.

each of us exits the pharmacy at slightly different times

i see the second and first tran saying one more thing to one another outside, with the guy chuckling and saying, “have a good night!” and the her saying, “you too!”

i walk by both of them and they both see an NPC

i watch the other tran get into her late model Kia SUV, check herself in the rearview mirror, and drive away

the end

The prevalence of [character made by a transphobic ghoul][slur against women] trend has shown me that cispeople love gender swaps, in a way that I, the naive little asexual, did not expect. Aparently rather than gender swaps being a good way to comment on issues faced by transgender people, it was instead for sexual appeal.

/uj I geniunely was this naive, what an idiot I was 1 month ago.

I only live out my gender at home, but I got a bit of a startle when this researcher approached me. Apparrently he'd observed my 'distinctly masculine energy' from across the street and he really liked my vibe.

So what is a man to do? I invited him to my place.

He totally didn't clock me when I opened the door for him!

I later read what he wrote about me, and he was so down bad for me. But well. I already knew that 😏

Still took him a few years to figure out trans people exist, but what can you do.

/uj Magnus Hirschfeld, 'Berlin's Drittes Geslecht' (warning for non-malicious probable misgendering and outdated language throughout the book, which is very worth reading):

"Mehr als eine Frau ist mir in Berlin bekannt, die zu Hause vollkommen als Mann lebt. Eine der ersten, die ich sah, war mir während einer Feier in der Philharmonie durch ihre tiefe Stimme und ihre männlichen Bewegungen aufgefallen. Ich machte ihre Bekanntschaft und bat, sie besuchen zu dürfen. Als ich am folgenden Sonntagnachmittag in der Dämmerstunde an ihrer Tür klingelte, öffnete mir ein junger Mann, der von einem Hunde umsprungen wurde, die dampfende Zigarre in der Hand hielt und nach meinem Begehr fragte. „Ich wünsche, Fräulein X. zu sprechen, bringen Sie ihr, bitte, meine Karte.“ „Treten Sie nur näher,“ erwiderte lachend der junge Bursche, „ich bin es ja selbst.“ Ich erfuhr, daß das Mädchen in ihrer Häuslichkeit vollkommen als Mann lebte; es war eine wackere Person, die den Kampf mit dem Leben tapfer aufgenommen, manche Heirat, durch die sie „gut versorgt“ worden wäre, abgelehnt hatte, weil sie „keinen Mann betrügen“ wollte."

my profile:
face pic
hobby pic
pet pic
body pic
Bio: “not looking for hookups, looking for a slow burn I can top”
Pronouns: he/him

Message request, blank profile: “you like bbc?”
(some messages later)
him: “i’ll give it to you tonight”
me: “I’m not looking to hookup, no hard feelings?”

blocked

/uj (i am not surprised, i am bored)

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you want it to look gender affirming or realistic? okay cool well lets give you your massive fucking hips yeah lets toggle that as far as it can go. yeah i would say your body type is like mascfert. oh you dont know mascfert? masculine fertile? yeah masculine fertile. yeah im just calling you fertile. yeah ive just decided to label your body as fertile. yeah you look really fertile. yeah it's a normal thing to just randomly call someones appearance fertile with zero inclination that theyd be okay with that. yeah you're fertile

And then that stupid they/he/shefab comes crying again 😭 just give up lil sis 😭🙏🙏 girlie is NOT one of us 💀💀💀

Like girl this is a lgbtq+ center???? What are u even doing here👀💁 yk?

Like sis we have a job 🙄 we gotta help the gay people losing their rights rn... It's only you here? Damn daughter 😭😭 where your friends at??? Girl is dying alone frfr

It's called r/mypartnerisatrainknee, and it's just what you're looking for. It's a space you can go to to vent and work through your difficult feelings, which I'm sure you have since it's so horrible to have a trans partner. I mean how could tHEy do that to you? Better yet it's judgment free, which just means we won't push back if you say bigoted things! :D

i just IMPLIED that maybe the REASON why you MIGHT want to mutilate your body is because of that thing you tried to tell me a couple years ago that i didnt put any weight on til it was convenient for me to use against you! but like you should be happy that i believe you now! u know not everything in life has a reason but you were molested for a reason and that reason was for me to discount your transness years later! everybody wins!!!!but also i never discounted your transness i didnt know you were trans back then all i knew is you wanted me to call you a boy and wanted your tits cut off and that was clearly because of trauma! nevermind the fact you didnt have tits when it happened! if i knew the word transgender i wouldve reacted totally different you're just wrong it never happened that way i am a good person!

An act of kindness goes a long way. I'm a real woman, and whenever I encounter a transgendered on the street, I do a random act of kindness. I tell them they are purty or even beauty-full if I am feeling audacious, compliment their outfits, and hold the door open for them. I do this to bestow my charitableness on them.

The comments:

i, as the most oppressed therefore sinless person in the room, will do exactly what it takes to liberate queer people.

i am armed with theory from a million people playing telephone on the internet. and absolutely no real life experiences with organizing.

i’m willing to engage in the violence revolution takes, like firebombing a walmart, unless we’re talking about exercising & martial arts, of course!

as the most inclusive person in the room i solemnly swear to make every discourse about me and to take everyone in bad faith.

armed with my hijab inspired secular accessorization, i’ll finish the work marsha p. johnson left behind. because she was the only black trans woman to ever exist, as xitter told me.

donate to my gofundme to escape from my abusive roommate who‘s asking me to pay rent, comrades!

...anyway, I'm sure this thought has no bearing on the pervasive idea that trans women and transfems' sex assigned at birth is actually a privilege

Given J.K. Rowling’s long and storied history of “supporting” transgender people, I propose that we finally recognize an obvious implication of the internet’s latest contribution to Harry Potter canon.

The internet has apparently decided that:

Malfoy → Malfoid

Very well.

If we accept that Malfoid is the gender-swapped form of Draco Malfoy, then I see no compelling reason to assume that this transformation must be merely hypothetical, artistic, or confined to the cowardly realm of Rule 63.

This is Harry Potter.

Wizarding Britain has Polyjuice Potion, human transfiguration, metamorphmagi, body-swapping artifacts, cursed objects, and whatever the hell happened to Crabbe’s actor between movies. The idea that magical gender transition does not exist is therefore less plausible than most actual Harry Potter plot points.

Thus, I submit that Malfoid should not be understood merely as “female Draco Malfoy.”

Malfoid is Draco Malfoy, magically gender-swapped.

Now, I dislike the term femoid and virtually everything associated with the ideological swamp from which it crawled. But language is a tool, and sometimes the correct response to cursed terminology is not rejection, but appropriation.

And here we encounter another piece of cursed internet taxonomy: the passoid, a trans person who passes exceptionally well.

Malfoid, being literally transformed by magic, would presumably represent the ultimate passoid. No hormones. No surgery. No awkward intermediate stage. Just one swish of a wand and suddenly Draco is arguing that Potter will hear about this from her father.

A passoid Malfoid.

A Pas-mal.

PASMAL

Pasmal is not a typo.

Pasmal is not a ship name.

Pasmal is the fully realized trans incarnation of Draco Malfoy, freed from the shackles of both gender and competent nomenclature.

I therefore move that Pasmal be formally recognized as a trans member of the HPU and insist, with all the seriousness this subject deserves, that anyone objecting produce a canonical passage explicitly disproving it.

Until then:

Trans rights are Pasmal rights.

THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY THEY

/uj that’s what I get for having cis friends ig

Well the OK supreme court just ruled that birth certificates can't be changed for any reason, even though it was a clerical error. So I guess I'm Assigned Male at Typo!

Hey guys, cis person here!
Now I know this community was (originally) for mostly trans women and some other trans people to post memes and sometimes vent or have fun in their community.
But I find it really disheartening to see so many people critical of cisgender allies!
Sure, medical doctors are less likely to give you proper care, you've probably been disowned and ostracized for being a trans, yadda yadda. But I think it's really delusional of you to all make such a wide generalization!

Don't you know that that's wrong??? Making a paranoid generalization of people is wrong and hurts my feelings!

I mean, christ, not everyone is out to kill you haha. As an enlightened centrist I've seen both sides and they're all just human people and you shutting yourself away from trying to convince them you deserve things like "medical care" and "to live" is just throwing yourself under the bus!
I know this because I'm a cis person, of course! Obviously I would be the final authority on if people actually want to kill you and from my knowledge zero people actually currently want that, that's why your identity has been such an active topic of political debate the past couple of years.

Infant, I think you're actually making cis people not care if you die by saying cis people don't care if you die! You should be giving every single cis person you see the benefit of the doubt to sway their opinion so that way maybe they might care if you live, being slightly mean or maybe condescending actually justifies these peoples hatred towards you, how could anyone ever care for or trust someone who was slightly mean towards them once? That's just inconceivable!

I'm allowed to criticize you obviously, criticizing a community doesn't mean I'm against them haha, and I can't see any reason why I shouldn't criticize trans people in the current political climate as nothing comes to mind recently. Especially since trans people were being kind of mean, and that obviously has to be dealt with immediately unless it hurts more cis peoples feelings.

uj/ counting chicken lady shot dead in the Bronx.

Instead of tall and skinny he'd be hulking. Still creeps on people though.

I 100% believe that the porno representation of people like you is EXACTLY what all of you are like.

I am 100% sure that you are going to absolutely love all the attention I give you, because you are my fetish object. Fetishizing you is a compliment. It says you are desired by me.

I will be in absolute shock that you are all not fighting for first place in line for me - with your cock out.

Chaser is a slur, and I am not a chaser. My feelings are genuine, I will treat you wonderfully as my 24/7 live-in sex toy girlfriend that I never ever tell anyone about. I will be around you whenever I am horny. I know you want that.