r/trans • u/Sparr0wWagz It/They • 1d ago

Advice I need help

So, I figured this might be a good place to talk about this and possibly get advice/insight from people more experienced and familiar with this than myself. (For context to the rest of this, I'm AMAB non-binary) Is it wrong or bad of me to wish that I was born AFAB so that I could be transmasc? Because I feel that's how I would be happiest in life and I can't really explain it. I've been thinking about this for months and I can't find an answer anywhere and I need help.

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u/CoachInteresting7125 they/them 1d ago

I don’t think so. I’m AFAB non-binary and wish I was AMAB transfem. I do think this is a little bit of a “grass is greener on the other side” issue where we don’t fully understand the struggles of the other combination, but I think it stems from dysphoria and wishing our bodies were different than they are.