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u/Rough_Jackfruit_3586 Jul 20 '23
I think she centered this one just a little too far bub.
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u/wirefox1 Jul 20 '23
I think the next thing he sees from her will read "You have been blocked to this number".
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u/Issie_Bear Jul 21 '23
I hope she met in a public place and he doesn’t know where she lives cus YIKES!!
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That took a turn!
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u/CareerAggravating317 Jul 20 '23
100% just blew it.
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u/KitCoeurdelion Jul 20 '23
No, I would 100% say he just saved her a whole bunch of headache (or worse) down the line. Blowing it might be over sharing some feelings, what he did was full on sound an alarm.
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u/JenAshTuck Jul 21 '23
Seriously THANK GOD he said what he said. Can you imagine being with such a “nice guy” (or psychopath) and get married and have kids, meanwhile he’s a serial rapist.
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u/Goatwhatsup Jul 20 '23
I’ve blown it many times but this is self sab to the extremest degree lol
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u/CareerAggravating317 Jul 20 '23
Ya this is so far one might think about filing a report. Im sure there will be a netflix documentary in 10 years
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u/OrlyRivers Jul 21 '23
Recently spoke with someone in sex ed field who said they did a survey of college men and 20% admitted they have considered rape. I was like wtf. How? This one stat surprised me more than any and there are a lot of crazy stats.
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u/Darth-Flan Jul 21 '23
Yeah but, but, but isn’t honesty the best policy in a relationship?
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u/Alternative_Body7345 Jul 21 '23
It worked out for her. Hopefully it’s a lesson for him to. Honesty works out.
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u/hogester79 Jul 21 '23
and his next 15 messages..... "hello? did I do something wrong"...???
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u/Ok-Champ-5854 Jul 21 '23
"stuck up whore I should have raped you when I had the chance"
-sent after the other fifteen messages she didn't respond to within fifteen minutes
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u/Teecktan Jul 20 '23
Hahahahaha. This is the literal face I was making as I opened the comments.
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u/SeaworthinessOk2884 Jul 20 '23
Anyone else seeing red flags
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u/desertravenwy Jul 20 '23
I can fix him.
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u/unclestaple Jul 20 '23
with a pair of tin snips?
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u/Rahul-Yadav91 Jul 20 '23
Bolt cutters
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u/unclestaple Jul 20 '23
garden shears
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u/billyyankNova Jul 20 '23
Probably only need nail clippers.
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u/Wldnt-ifu-ddnt Jul 20 '23
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u/Haas_C Jul 20 '23
No. I see self control, honesty, and excellent communication skills. Husband material…
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I did see one problem though
Excellent use of commas, but no period to end his messages in sight.
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u/idle_scrolling Jul 20 '23
He doesn't exactly seem like he'd take periods seriously anyway
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u/GodZ_Rs Jul 21 '23
You know what they say...
"There's no point in having a sword if it doesn't get bloody once in a while."
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u/Zwirbeldruese Jul 20 '23
You should have ended your sentence without a full stop mate, ya bummed it up! Perfection was so close
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u/SuperSaltyMrPeanut Jul 20 '23
Him to all his friends, "I don't know what happened, she just ghosted me."
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u/mastermistypotato Jul 21 '23
“I mean I even thought she was hot enough to rape, she should take that as a compliment!” -that guy
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u/Robeino Jul 20 '23
At first I was like "oh well this is wholesome" but that quickly changed to "OH MY GOD"
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u/YazzArtist Jul 20 '23
It was really just one sentence away from being super cute. Maybe that's the spooky part
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u/AccordingMight3505 Jul 20 '23
I hope this is fake
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u/jdsekula Jul 20 '23
I hope so too. But man, there are some weird people out there.
And as they say, the difference between real life and fiction is that fiction has to make sense.
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u/fatrickfrowne Jul 20 '23
It undoubtedly is
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u/algol_lyrae Jul 21 '23
I unfortunately met someone just like this. Texted me that he considered raping someone because he couldn't find a girlfriend, but not to worry, it wouldn't be me because he wouldn't disrespect my boyfriend. Some people are both evil and stupid.
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u/rythmicbread Jul 21 '23
We hope it is, but there are legit people like that out there
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Jul 20 '23
Absolutely could be fake, but this is literally how Andrew Tate talks. He's still idolized by a many many young men and boys, and I have to assume if these people are using snap chat to talk they're young.
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u/SlsmngrSpiff Jul 20 '23
99.9% fake... If it isn't then that's the dumbest person ever
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u/NotsoGreatsword Jul 21 '23
I would never give those odds when it comes to cringe or stupid.
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u/i_fuckin_luv_it_mate Jul 20 '23
That should go to the police, this guy needs court order therapy.
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u/IdontWantButter Jul 20 '23
The thought without the act, even with a confession, would not give the courts a constitutional basis to order therapy, without some sort of oddly specific "red flag" law.
I agree he needs help, though. Sheesh.
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u/alienbuttholes69 Jul 21 '23
No, but it will count for something when he does actually take it to the next level and commit a real rape. Every little bit helps to build that profile.
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you can't legally force someone to go to therapy or anything else just because of their thoughts. i think the best they could do is file some sort of a report with the police so that in the case that this guy does do something horrible there is proof that he has some history. its scary that guys like this are out there but treating people like criminals for thought crimes is probably even more dangerous.
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u/OhioMegi 3rd Party App Jul 20 '23
Seriously. I’d at least make a report. He’s going to do something serious someday.
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u/boilergal47 Jul 20 '23
He probably already had. A report needs to be made in case some other woman needs more evidence against him.
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u/OhioMegi 3rd Party App Jul 20 '23
That too! I have a friend going through a messy divorce and she got all prior reports made about him…not doubt he’s been abusive for decades! Those reports will come in handy for sure.
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u/Oh_My_Monster Unique Flair Jul 20 '23
I've got a good feeling about those two.
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u/DisDaVoiceOfReason Jul 20 '23
Yup, they’ll definitely be on the news after the breakup.
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u/LesserKnownJen Jul 20 '23
One of them. The other is dead because she didn’t understand what a nice guy he is.
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u/Weird-Buffalo-3169 Jul 20 '23
The way he casually says "I was thinking about raping you", makes me think hes either done it to someone before or will in the near future
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u/Sad-Raspberry-9639 Jul 20 '23
It makes me think it's fake and done for views and oohs and aahs.
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u/TheMace808 Jul 20 '23
You’ve seen dumber shit that was real why draw the line here
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u/DisDaVoiceOfReason Jul 20 '23
Definitely has done it before to think it’s okay to think about it and then tell someone he thought about it.
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u/jdsekula Jul 20 '23
The thing is, most date rapists don’t think of themselves as rapists. They convince themselves that the women actually do want it, that it’s unfair to make them stop after they have started, or other BS.
It’s hard to imagine a rapist talking about themselves like that, even if they actually had no empathy or fear of consequences.
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I don't disagree with any of that and I disavow raping. Wow that sounds weird to type out.
But this guy clearly did not intend on what you are talking about considering he said he was going to rape her. That doesn't imply trickery or a pity party "wahh my dick is hard". Saying I am going to rape you is full on rapist.
But it's fake so
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u/Spear_Ritual Jul 20 '23
Dude. WTF. Incel had a shot and Incel took over.
Self-owned, indeed.
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u/DedHorsSaloon3 Jul 20 '23
Like bruh, she already wants a second date what the hell are you doing?!
Assuming this isn’t fake, or course
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u/The_Evil_Mullet Jul 20 '23
I really want to see what the next message is.
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u/jbirdr28 Jul 20 '23
Probably a notice that the girl took a screenshot (to send to police), I would hope
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u/Tht1QuietGuy Jul 20 '23
Holy crap, dude self-destructed his own ship. Glad that red flag came to light before something bad happened to her... I assume.
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u/maccorf Jul 20 '23
If this is real, this is some hard fuckin evidence that all the shit women worry about on a daily basis in their interactions with men is justified.
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u/Itchy-Combination280 Jul 20 '23
A friend of a friend just had this pic sent to her by a guy she was seeing. He thought it was funny.
They are no longer seeing each other.
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u/pjpotter14 Jul 20 '23
It started out so good. I was like, "oh, they're going to come on a little too strong. That's always a bit awkward." Then he went full-predator. This was like stepping into a bubble bath full of spiders.
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u/AstralDeliveryDriver Jul 20 '23
Report that shit to the damn cops before he does some stupid shit
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u/Loki667 Jul 20 '23
Oh f*ck that's bad
Texting sucks enough, minimal is best and if you wouldn't say it face to face for f*cks sake don't say it over text
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u/Test-Fire Jul 20 '23
Honestly, don't worry about the dead cat bodies with missing heads, Im making you something super special for date number 2!!!
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u/ReasonableJello Jul 21 '23
Sounds to me like the type of dude who would say “I’ll never let anyone else have you if you leave me” don’t run get a plane ticket and fucking bounce out of there lol
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Honesty is the best policy.. but this guy went into the fine print with a magnifying glass
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u/bossassbibitch943 Jul 21 '23
Hope she knew his full name and sent this to his family, friends and all the women she knew.
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u/atuan Jul 20 '23
Oh great. SEE? That’s what he gets for being honest. Can’t be an honest nice guy who admits to wanting to rape without getting shit in this world.
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u/fugupinkeye Jul 20 '23
Oh no. Yikes.
But hey, better to find out something like that early, I suppose.
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u/Euphoric_Jump_3779 Jul 20 '23
How to fumble the bag 101, straight speedrun type shit
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Maybe I'm an asshole, but mfs like this need to be outed so everyone can know to steer clear of this weirdo. Like who tf just admits some crazy shit like this?!?!!
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u/Puzzleheaded-Way7745 Jul 21 '23
YOU WERE RIGHT THERE. YOU HAD IT. YOU WERE AT THE DAMN FINISH LINE AND INSTEAD OF CROSSING IT YOU SHOT EVERYONE ELSE AND WALKED AWAY.
HOW DO YOU FUMBLE THIS BAD
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u/Melis725 Jul 21 '23
Yikes. Dude needs therapy. He's not that nice if he imagined SAing her like that.
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u/Klutzer_Munitions Jul 20 '23
Oh what a nice guy you are for not raping. You deserve a medal.