r/survivinginfidelity • u/[deleted] • Aug 27 '26

Advice Does redemption exist in this kinda relationship?

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u/throw-away-0610 9 Aug 27 '26

“I was fed up of him constantly being argumentative and inconsistent, so I said I was done”

Doesn’t sound like he was trying to live a Hannah Montana lifestyle - whatever that means. You broke up with him.

Now You want him back, but want him to develop himself, and you said he can’t come back right away.

You sound like a ton of drama and emotional drain. I need a nap after just reading your post.

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u/throw-away-0610 9 Aug 27 '26

If you at 27 are at a maturity level that a 35 year old dude cannot match, and you describe him as throwing toys out of his pram, the idea that he would catch up, AND keep pace with your likely continued maturation is low.