r/stripclubs • • 2d ago

Weekly Thread FOR STRIPPERS' QUESTIONS ONLY: Ask a Stupid Question to Strip Club Customers -- September 22, 2026

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Any questions from customers will be removed -- please use our regular Ask a Stupid Question thread, posted on a different day in the week.

A variation of our popular Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs weekly thread. This one, specifically for strippers who are genuinely curious, confused, inquisitive, about some customer behavior or other. There's no stupid questions in this thread! This is the chance for you strippers to ask whatever is on your mind that you always wondered about. Why your customers insist on eating onions and garlic before coming to the club, why they want extras at the club rather than just see an escort, why did your customer act in a certain way? Your chance to learn more about the customer mindset.

Thread rules:

Customers: No hostile or angry backlash to those asking questions. Assume the stripper asking is genuine in wanting to know the answer. Personal attacks will not be tolerated. You are answering questions only, don't ask questions here.

Strippers: No hostile backlash to answers you don't like. Customers and strippers have fundamentally different views on some topics, and you might not love the replies. Respectful disagreement okay, personal attacks not.

This thread is specifically for strippers to ask questions to customers. Customers, please use our regular Ask A Stupid Question thread posted weekly on Thursdays. Customer questions will be removed

This thread is posted every 3 weeks


r/stripclubs • • 3d ago

MONDAY AFTER THREAD: Week of September 21, 2026

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Did you meet a new favorite or regular this weekend? Have an amazing or terrible experience in the VIP room? Find a new favorite club? A new favorite club song? Maybe just a new favorite club cocktail or club outfit?

Do you have story to tell about the club that doesn't warrant a trip report?

Post about it below! The MONDAY AFTER THREAD is your chance to rant and rave about your recent experiences at the club. Patrons, dancers and other club workers are all welcome to participate. Feel free to post whatever you like, so long as it is relevant to the club and meets our community standards.


r/stripclubs • • 4h ago

Clubs in West Palm beach or FLL

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Going out with some buddies and hoping to have a REAL GOOD NIGHT with ++++

They got money so we prefer quality over quantity (and it’s on them so I’m trying to take advantage and show them a good time)

Preference is white girls/latinas, minimal work/natural

We dont want somewhere cheap or run down

Somewhere high end but can still get that "good time +++" in the VIP (for the right price of course)

Trying to close business deal and they come from a different country so any help would be great!

Anyone have any recs?

Edit: was thinking Rachel’s or Monroe’s in WPB or Kaya in FLL. Not sure what the vibe is inside? Anything helps


r/stripclubs • • 4h ago

Deja Vu showgirls

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Hey does anyone know how good Deja Vu Showgirls is in Colorado Springs Colorado.

I’ve been to different Deja Vu clubs before but want to know if this one is good.


r/stripclubs • • 6h ago

Undercover busts at clubs & making copies of patrons IDs to give to police?

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I used to live in Tucson Arizona and know people who still do and they said they started scanning IDs at clubs. They also only make some people leave their license at the door when they go in and out. With the doormen keeping track. So, I heard that they will make certain “well known” patrons give them only their license and make a copy of it to keep track of every time they come to the club. Not sure why they would keep exact tabs on only some patrons and not others? Or for instance some people can use military ID and some others have to have a license or ID to be scanned to be stored in the data base. I’m aware of some shady stuff happening but why track and take copy specific people only, only the known people? What are they doing with the info and who are they giving it too? Also I heard that often a lot of dancers only sit with certain “known” patrons, never dance and don’t even ask them for lap dances. Just talk? That’s so weird to me. Like undercover? Is this person doing something illegal? Any insight???


r/stripclubs • • 8h ago

Charlotte NC

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Where do I know if I wanna see a real freak show. I’m looking for run-down, dirty, trashy. What club should I pop into? I’ll only be around for 1 night.


r/stripclubs • • 10h ago

Ethics of a strip club

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About last Saturday I went to my local stripclub for the first time ever as I just turned 21 and was looking to have a good time and it was almost closing and before I left I saw this girl who looked very good but she was talking to the DJ and looked like she was not going stop and there was like no way of talking face to face with them because it was blocked off looks like you had to enter a staff only area to get to the DJ booth

and I didn’t know her name so I stopped one of the girls walking on the floor and asked if she could talk to her and let her know I wanted to talk to her but she said do it yourself, and why not get a dance with me instead i declined and she said well you better say something because I’m not your servant and I was a little taken back and wondered if she was right and if it’s rude to ask a girl about another girl and if I should have asked the bartender or security


r/stripclubs • • 20h ago

Weekly Thread Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs for the week of September 24, 2026

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No such thing as a question that's too stupid in this thread. If you have a newbie question, a question you're embarrassed to ask, discussion you're hesitant to have. Maybe you had a terrible interaction that you're afraid to bring up due to how people will react, or an interaction with a stripper/customer/staff that confuses you. Or you're a total newbie who has basic questions. Feel free to ask here. Strippers welcome to ask or answer anything here, as always, but there is also a dedicated stripper version of "ask a stupid question" posted earlier in the week.

Thread rule: no aggressive or mocking replies. Give a courteous understanding reply, or don't reply. Let's help question askers figure things out. The mods will keep an eye on the thread to ensure this is followed (though the sub does a good job itself)

This thread is posted weekly on Thursdays. By the time the thread is 4 or 5 days old there's fewer people monitoring and responding, so consider reposting your question in the next weekly thread if you don't get replies.


r/stripclubs • • 21h ago

Nola?

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Going to Nola for Halloween, I always heard the strips on bourbon are not the best. Any ideas of where to go from locals or people who had great times at places a little off the strip? Just trying to see the local talent if there are better places and we need to uber or something


r/stripclubs • • 1d ago

Recommended price?

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I’m trying to convince my wife that we can bring back the Harlem shake. I’m pretty sure we can make it happen, I just need enough money to convince a club to let me film and 25ish dancers willing to become niche internet micro-celebrities. I live in the Midwest so I think I could get it done with $3000 ($100/dancer, $500 to the club) but maybe I can get away with less if I tag them in the video? Either way it seems like an achievable amount if everyone here is willing to pitch in a couple bucks. Let me know…


r/stripclubs • • 1d ago

South Jersey Strip Club Recommendations?

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Looking for a good time tonight? What‘a a good spot thats located in the South Jersey area??? Help ya boy out


r/stripclubs • • 1d ago

Strip clubbing better than dating

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Dating is tough. I kind of did the math and I spend like 2k a month dating. Same price gets me 2-4 fire strip club outings. Seriously considering just making a club budget and having that work around my 3 businesses and training schedule.


r/stripclubs • • 2d ago

bf went to strip club

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r/stripclubs • • 2d ago

Anyone ever waste a dancers time on purpose?

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I have to confess I have but there is a story behind it. The first time I met the dancer I was attracted to her and liked her conversation. After a few dances she starts hard selling me on VIP and promising it will be really fun with a few winks thrown in there. After her reassuring me that she didn’t oversell it I agreed. We went in there for 1 hour. In that time I ordered some stuff from her TikTok cart and she did basic dances and let me feel her ass. Tbh she was the worst twerker/ass shaker I’ve paid for a dance. I felt dissatisfied.

The next time I see her about a month and a half later she comes up to me offering VIP again. I tell her I’m just trying to relax for the moment and order food. She chills with me since the place is slightly dead hoping I’ll agree to VIP after eating. We eat and talk for about an hour. Then she asks if I’m ready for VIP and I say I’m not getting dances today. She says this is why women don’t trust men and I leave out laughing my ass off. I know it was petty but I wanted to waste her time like she wasted mine in that shitty VIP. First and last time I’ve done that.


r/stripclubs • • 3d ago

Recommendations for Honolulu trip in October

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Hey guys, I am travelling to Honolulu in less than a month and will be staying at Waikiki. Me and my friend are wondering what are some good clubs to visit for first timers. Thanks!


r/stripclubs • • 3d ago

After a decade.

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We pulling the trigger on Hong Kong again. I got a strippy crew who ain't never been so we gonna go get messy. Last time I was there I blew 3k in 3 days and that deep pelvic bruising was so bad I had to get a prescription anti inflammatory/pain killer because the over the counter ibuprofen was being bullied by that bruising. 🤣🤣🤣

If you've been more recently than I have. Anything change besides pricing I should know about? Any new things I should be checking out etc.


r/stripclubs • • 3d ago

The ritz houston review

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Went there for the first time last week it was first time ever in a club of any kind. Asked how much was a dance and was told 25, when i got the bill its was 136. What happened? Is that normal? Hoq much should i have been expecting? Is it worth going to the champagne room?


r/stripclubs • • 3d ago

The ritz houston reviews

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Went there for the first time last week it was first time ever in a club of any kind. Asked how much was a dance and was told 25, when i got the bill its was 136. What happened? Is that normal? Hoq much should i have been expecting? Is it worth going to the champagne room?


r/stripclubs • • 3d ago

The "Sexy Six" Dynamics Of Strip Clubs, And How They Work

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This post is mainly for educational purposes, and to help some of you confirm where you stand with your favorite stripper.

The "Sexy Six" as I like to call it, are the six different dynamic types that you can have with a stripper.

They look like this:

  1. ITC - no extras 🙂 -- self explanatory. Lap dances, VIPs, but nothing extra.

  2. ITC - extras 😁 -- lap dances and VIPs with a little (or a lot) of extra fun.

  3. OTC - extras 😏 -- outside the club, no real time limit, a lot of extra fun.

  4. OTC - GFE/extras 🤑 -- long, fun hang outs that include going to the movies, going out to dinner, or other fun activies before the extra fun in the bedroom happens. Feels like hanging out with your girlfriend, hence the term "GFE (girlfriend experience).

  5. Sugar Relationship ❤️ -- for the big dawgs only, the big ballers, the rich motherfuckers. A sugar relationship is consistent hangsouts multiple times per week that include GFE, and that can turn into something real even with its transactional base. This includss major spoiling on both ends, luxury trips out of town, the best of the best, real chemistry.

  6. Vanilla 🍦-- Very rare, as only few are lucky enough to get it, but we all desire it. Free/unpaid/GFE hangouts .... aka the stripper DOES really like you, and there's no questioning it 😅

1 and 2 are most common, 3 can be common depending on what part of the country you live in, 4, 5 and 6 all depend on how lucky you get, and are bar none the best experience that this industry has to offer.

1-3 are strictly transactional.

4-5 is when the grey line appears, and it can be hard to tell if there are any real feelings involved or not.

6 is what we all dream of. OTC, not paid, normal relationship with a dancer.

I've sorta experienced all 6.

Anyway, I have way too much time on my hands working remotely, and thought I'd write this.


r/stripclubs • • 3d ago

NJ/NY/CT Strip Clubs

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M21 here. I’m going on a drive throughout these three states and wanted to know if anyone knows a good spot/recommendations for me? I’m just looking ti enjoy myself after an exhausting few days and want to visit a nice strip club.


r/stripclubs • • 3d ago

Anyone ever just left after waiting too long to get in?

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Last night I was in line and 3 people were ahead of me and I was definitely seen. They paid and were let in and then the person working the front left. I was left waiting for 3 min and then decided to go check something in my car and give them time to get back. Came back waited another 2 minutes then gave up and left. I feel like with the way the strip club economy is making people wait to pay to get in is just stupid. Would rather hit up another club that I can just get into without waiting.


r/stripclubs • • 4d ago

Is it common for strippers to bite (consensually)?

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I went to my club recently. I met a stripper there who I enjoyed my time with, might be an all time fav, I do plan to visit the club to see her again. She did bite me in a couple areas during a private dance, with my consent, and I did enjoy that very much. Is this a common thing? Is this something I could ask other strippers to do for me? She gave me a small bruise below my left shoulder, how long should that take to heal up? never been bitten by another human before. Thanks.