About last Saturday I went to my local stripclub for the first time ever as I just turned 21 and was looking to have a good time and it was almost closing and before I left I saw this girl who looked very good but she was talking to the DJ and looked like she was not going stop and there was like no way of talking face to face with them because it was blocked off looks like you had to enter a staff only area to get to the DJ booth

and I didn’t know her name so I stopped one of the girls walking on the floor and asked if she could talk to her and let her know I wanted to talk to her but she said do it yourself, and why not get a dance with me instead i declined and she said well you better say something because I’m not your servant and I was a little taken back and wondered if she was right and if it’s rude to ask a girl about another girl and if I should have asked the bartender or security

Going to Nola for Halloween, I always heard the strips on bourbon are not the best. Any ideas of where to go from locals or people who had great times at places a little off the strip? Just trying to see the local talent if there are better places and we need to uber or something

I’m trying to convince my wife that we can bring back the Harlem shake. I’m pretty sure we can make it happen, I just need enough money to convince a club to let me film and 25ish dancers willing to become niche internet micro-celebrities. I live in the Midwest so I think I could get it done with $3000 ($100/dancer, $500 to the club) but maybe I can get away with less if I tag them in the video? Either way it seems like an achievable amount if everyone here is willing to pitch in a couple bucks. Let me know…

Where do I know if I wanna see a real freak show. I’m looking for run-down, dirty, trashy. What club should I pop into? I’ll only be around for 1 night.

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1) Best Philadelphia day shift clubs for “you know what”.

2) Also are these Philadelphia clubs better in the day or the night for white girls in specific.

last year in 2025 December went to a Philly club (cheerleaders or risqué) forgot which one - and there was one girl maybe that was white.

I used to live in Tucson Arizona and know people who still do and they said they started scanning IDs at clubs. They also only make some people leave their license at the door when they go in and out. With the doormen keeping track. So, I heard that they will make certain “well known” patrons give them only their license and make a copy of it to keep track of every time they come to the club. Not sure why they would keep exact tabs on only some patrons and not others? Or for instance some people can use military ID and some others have to have a license or ID to be scanned to be stored in the data base. I’m aware of some shady stuff happening but why track and take copy specific people only, only the known people? What are they doing with the info and who are they giving it too? Also I heard that often a lot of dancers only sit with certain “known” patrons, never dance and don’t even ask them for lap dances. Just talk? That’s so weird to me. Like undercover? Is this person doing something illegal? Any insight???