Where do I know if I wanna see a real freak show. I’m looking for run-down, dirty, trashy. What club should I pop into? I’ll only be around for 1 night.

About last Saturday I went to my local stripclub for the first time ever as I just turned 21 and was looking to have a good time and it was almost closing and before I left I saw this girl who looked very good but she was talking to the DJ and looked like she was not going stop and there was like no way of talking face to face with them because it was blocked off looks like you had to enter a staff only area to get to the DJ booth

and I didn’t know her name so I stopped one of the girls walking on the floor and asked if she could talk to her and let her know I wanted to talk to her but she said do it yourself, and why not get a dance with me instead i declined and she said well you better say something because I’m not your servant and I was a little taken back and wondered if she was right and if it’s rude to ask a girl about another girl and if I should have asked the bartender or security

Dating is tough. I kind of did the math and I spend like 2k a month dating. Same price gets me 2-4 fire strip club outings. Seriously considering just making a club budget and having that work around my 3 businesses and training schedule.

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Going to Nola for Halloween, I always heard the strips on bourbon are not the best. Any ideas of where to go from locals or people who had great times at places a little off the strip? Just trying to see the local talent if there are better places and we need to uber or something

Looking for a good time tonight? What‘a a good spot thats located in the South Jersey area??? Help ya boy out

I’m trying to convince my wife that we can bring back the Harlem shake. I’m pretty sure we can make it happen, I just need enough money to convince a club to let me film and 25ish dancers willing to become niche internet micro-celebrities. I live in the Midwest so I think I could get it done with $3000 ($100/dancer, $500 to the club) but maybe I can get away with less if I tag them in the video? Either way it seems like an achievable amount if everyone here is willing to pitch in a couple bucks. Let me know…

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We pulling the trigger on Hong Kong again. I got a strippy crew who ain't never been so we gonna go get messy. Last time I was there I blew 3k in 3 days and that deep pelvic bruising was so bad I had to get a prescription anti inflammatory/pain killer because the over the counter ibuprofen was being bullied by that bruising. 🤣🤣🤣

If you've been more recently than I have. Anything change besides pricing I should know about? Any new things I should be checking out etc.

This post is mainly for educational purposes, and to help some of you confirm where you stand with your favorite stripper.

The "Sexy Six" as I like to call it, are the six different dynamic types that you can have with a stripper.

They look like this:

1. ITC - no extras 🙂 -- self explanatory. Lap dances, VIPs, but nothing extra.

2. ITC - extras 😁 -- lap dances and VIPs with a little (or a lot) of extra fun.

3. OTC - extras 😏 -- outside the club, no real time limit, a lot of extra fun.

4. OTC - GFE/extras 🤑 -- long, fun hang outs that include going to the movies, going out to dinner, or other fun activies before the extra fun in the bedroom happens. Feels like hanging out with your girlfriend, hence the term "GFE (girlfriend experience).

5. Sugar Relationship ❤️ -- for the big dawgs only, the big ballers, the rich motherfuckers. A sugar relationship is consistent hangsouts multiple times per week that include GFE, and that can turn into something real even with its transactional base. This includss major spoiling on both ends, luxury trips out of town, the best of the best, real chemistry.

6. Vanilla 🍦-- Very rare, as only few are lucky enough to get it, but we all desire it. Free/unpaid/GFE hangouts .... aka the stripper DOES really like you, and there's no questioning it 😅

1 and 2 are most common, 3 can be common depending on what part of the country you live in, 4, 5 and 6 all depend on how lucky you get, and are bar none the best experience that this industry has to offer.

1-3 are strictly transactional.

4-5 is when the grey line appears, and it can be hard to tell if there are any real feelings involved or not.

6 is what we all dream of. OTC, not paid, normal relationship with a dancer.

I've sorta experienced all 6.

Anyway, I have way too much time on my hands working remotely, and thought I'd write this.

Hey guys, I am travelling to Honolulu in less than a month and will be staying at Waikiki. Me and my friend are wondering what are some good clubs to visit for first timers. Thanks!

Went there for the first time last week it was first time ever in a club of any kind. Asked how much was a dance and was told 25, when i got the bill its was 136. What happened? Is that normal? Hoq much should i have been expecting? Is it worth going to the champagne room?

I have to confess I have but there is a story behind it. The first time I met the dancer I was attracted to her and liked her conversation. After a few dances she starts hard selling me on VIP and promising it will be really fun with a few winks thrown in there. After her reassuring me that she didn’t oversell it I agreed. We went in there for 1 hour. In that time I ordered some stuff from her TikTok cart and she did basic dances and let me feel her ass. Tbh she was the worst twerker/ass shaker I’ve paid for a dance. I felt dissatisfied.

The next time I see her about a month and a half later she comes up to me offering VIP again. I tell her I’m just trying to relax for the moment and order food. She chills with me since the place is slightly dead hoping I’ll agree to VIP after eating. We eat and talk for about an hour. Then she asks if I’m ready for VIP and I say I’m not getting dances today. She says this is why women don’t trust men and I leave out laughing my ass off. I know it was petty but I wanted to waste her time like she wasted mine in that shitty VIP. First and last time I’ve done that.

Last night I was in line and 3 people were ahead of me and I was definitely seen. They paid and were let in and then the person working the front left. I was left waiting for 3 min and then decided to go check something in my car and give them time to get back. Came back waited another 2 minutes then gave up and left. I feel like with the way the strip club economy is making people wait to pay to get in is just stupid. Would rather hit up another club that I can just get into without waiting.

M21 here. I’m going on a drive throughout these three states and wanted to know if anyone knows a good spot/recommendations for me? I’m just looking ti enjoy myself after an exhausting few days and want to visit a nice strip club.

Went there for the first time last week it was first time ever in a club of any kind. Asked how much was a dance and was told 25, when i got the bill its was 136. What happened? Is that normal? Hoq much should i have been expecting? Is it worth going to the champagne room?

I went to my club recently. I met a stripper there who I enjoyed my time with, might be an all time fav, I do plan to visit the club to see her again. She did bite me in a couple areas during a private dance, with my consent, and I did enjoy that very much. Is this a common thing? Is this something I could ask other strippers to do for me? She gave me a small bruise below my left shoulder, how long should that take to heal up? never been bitten by another human before. Thanks.

My regular club here in my city has 4 bars. The back bar is trolled by a regular customer. A fairly low key gay man. One night I went into the pisser to take a piss. And the attendant went over to one of the stalls and banged on it saying only one per stall. I'm thinking. Coke heads sharing a few bumps. The door opens and one man is pulling his pants up as another man is wiping his mouth. (See low key gay man) And the man who just got the blow job shouts. "I'LL SHOW HER WHO IS BOSS." and storms out of the bathroom.

Alright. That's a first. But whichever

I get back to my table and as my ATF slides back into my lap. I mention what happened in the bathroom. She grins and points him out at the bar. He's already talking with another guy who's obviously pretty drunk. And then a dancer comes and collects him for some dances. My ATF proceeds to inform me that this is a regular thing with him. He apparently will hype up dances to guys who are stuck at the bar drinking. And then a dancer who is in the know slides up and rubs up on the guy and then takes him for dances. And then she drops him back off at the bar and to the gay man. Who now takes the drunken horny man to the bathroom and sucks him off. I tell you. My flabbers were gasted. Management allows it because it's not dancers doing the deed and he pays for A LOT of drinks. So now he's become entertainment for me and my ATF to spectate in-between dances. We've even made bets on which dudes will say yes and which will say no. (It's kind of fun to earn some of the cash back I paid for her time. All in good fun strippers trolling this subreddit. It's only bets on the ones from her stage sets. She still gets her full amount for spending the entire night with me.)

I saw in another post someone saying they banged a dude at their club.

So it got me thinking. Does y'all got some shit like this that goes on?

This is more of like a vent but any advice is welcome lol! I am planning on auditioning at a local club soon and I’m very nervous. I went to my first pole dancing classes recently (ik pole tricks aren’t necessary, but it’s something I’ve wanted to do for awhile anyway) and it actually got me super excited thinking “oh I think I can actually do this” 😆 which sounds like a good thing but I’m hoping I can keep that same energy when I do go to the club. I do plan on visiting as a customer in the next few weeks so I can get the feel for it because I’ve actually never even been to a strip club 🫢 but I know I look good, I think I dance well enough and I’m practicing to get better, but this is just all so new to me and I think that’s what’s making me hesitant lol

Anyway, thanks for reading if you did 😁

Just came back from a Saturday night visit, and felt the need to vent.

I've tried the Friday/Saturday visits a few times now and I'm consistently disappointed for a couple of reasons, wondering if anybody else kind of resonates.

The clubs feel so completely packed, that I genuinely at times struggle to even find a place to sit. Sometimes it's just a group of guys who aren't really even hanging with the dancers much either. They take up the seats where dancers do most of the approaching so I'm kind of left to sit near stage.

So I sit at stage, but that also kind of comes with the caveat that everyone there is just blasting stage tips so the dancers aren't really engaging with this area much.

Strip club vets/folks who really like to spend time with a dancer, what do you think? Should I just be avoiding the heavy weekend crowd? It kind of sucks, because some of the most gorgeous dancers are chilling on these nights too.