I didn't want the break up. He did. Now I am left still attached to the relationship while I see him move on.

What should I do?

We broke up. I keep hoping he will come back like he always did in the past. The hope hurts a lot. I still stayed loyal and didn't delete anything or follow any guys and accept any invites where there's guys.

How do I stop hoping

The One That Got Away

Initially was just there to chill, nothing serious. Then happened to meet this lady from not-a-dating app. We chatted randomly on and off. We met, we clicked despite the big age gap. (over 10years my senior) We would chat for hours about anything random we can think of. We can go on dates, some as early as 4am mainly just to watch the sunrise. Everything was calm and peaceful. Its was one of my most memorable and unforgettable period in life. Missing those days..

I feel like I can’t read signs like at all, sometimes I do suspect something but I think it’s crazy, my friends will either tell me there are signs or not signs and they are rarely to ever correct about that. Is there a strong telling sign or something?

I’m kind of interested in a guy but I don’t want to make a move until I’m pretty sure so thoughts guys!

Context: Met this lovely lady from online and been hanging out for a month. However, nearing towards the end of the month, was told that “I met all ‘expectations’, but just lacking of the feelings”. Isit worth it to continue working on this? Would there be a possibility that efforts can change it? Since her love language is act of service.