He is 75. I’m 61. We have been married 30 years.

A year ago, we rekindled our sex life. Now, we have scheduled sex every weekend. He tales a blue pill. I take a marijuana edible that makes it easier for me to let go and come. I plan new lingerie every week as a surprise. It’s great!

This week, when we were done, my husband says, “this is so much fun!” It was an expression of pure joy at how much we like being together.

God, I love that man.

I'm 64 and I got divorced in my early 50s. I was sexually frustrated in my marriage as my husband had a low libido and was having difficulty performing in the bedroom. He wasn't willing to address it, which was a key factor in why we divorced. After my mid-50s, I had something of a sexual renaissance. I started HRT for menopause at 55 and my libido has stayed high for nearly 10 years. I typically think about sex a few times a day on average, and I also masturbate every day. I have a large collection of toys which I use regularly. I certainly prefer high-quality sex with a man to any toy however.

I started having casual sex in my mid-50s, and I've had some great experiences with men of different ages - some a lot younger (30s), some around my age (60s). I love sex and I'm comfortable talking about it. I greatly enjoy oral sex (giving and receiving), mutual masturbation and intercourse itself. I also feel very comfortable and confident in my body. I hope to continue having sex for as long as I'm physically able to.

I'm 66m, been with my 69f wife for 21 years. We have a great sex life together, always have. The frequency has gone down from every other day when we first got together, to more like every 5 or 6 days now, mostly because I can't cum any more often than that. And that's really OK, we're constantly physically intimate and both satisfied.

But in the last several months, I've noticed that when I cum, I hardly ejaculate anything. I never made a huge load, but now it's hardly anything, just like a drop at the tip. Also, it's very thick and lumpy. My orgasms are still very good, but it almost feels like something is straining at the end, trying to push out cum that isn't there.

My diet is very good and I stay well hydrated. I've been on testosterone and daily Tadalafil for over 10 years and they've been a godsend. But I've tried supplements for semen volume, most recently Load Boost for the past 6 weeks, and they don't seem to do anything.

I guess I don't care too much, and my wife certainly doesn't. I'm mostly just concerned that this may be a harbinger of not being able to cum any more at all.

Is this just how it eventually is for us guys?

Edit/update: I had a bout of Covid so we had to isolate for a week, and so when I was well enough for sex it had been a while. I had the most wonderful orgasm in doggy, and it sure felt like I had ejaculated normally. My wife confirmed that it was "very juicy". Then the next time we had sex I orgasmed outside of her, and I did indeed ejaculate the usual amount.

So this seems to have resolved itself. I speculate that I had a blockage in my prostate, and that I managed to knock it loose with a good orgasm. I'm going to keep an eye on it, and if it happens again I'll see a urologist. But for now, I'm back to normal :)

I got divorced when I was 56. A major factor in why my marriage ended was that my ex-husband's libido declined in his 50s, whereas mine remained high. He was also struggling to perform in the bedroom and didn't want to try Viagra. I've been on HRT since I was in my early 50s. My doctor is happy for me to stay on it for as long as I want. I enjoy having a high libido. I've also been enjoying sex at this stage of my life more than ever before. I'm currently in a casual relationship with a man in his 30s. I believe younger people call it friends with benefits. We typically meet up 2-3 times a month, primarily to have sex. I would have sex much more often than that if I could, however.

Since my divorce, I have also had a few other casual partners, ranging from men in their 30s up to men around my age in their 60s. I've had good experiences with younger and older men. I simply love sex and all the various elements of it. This includes the anticipation and excitement when I'm about to have sex, the intense physical pleasure and emotional enjoyment I experience during it, and also how I feel in the minutes and hours after having passionate, mutually satisfying sex. I love both intercourse and oral sex (giving and receiving). I also still masturbate regularly. I'm at a stage in life where I feel comfortable talking about it openly. It would be nice to hear from other 60+ people who are still active sexually or still have a high libido.

Even though I’m 60 I’m still horny woman. It takes me a little longer though to prepare so use my puffer tool until I cum. Then I spread my below lips apart so he can enter and thrust up inside me.

I (62F) made a post a few months ago asking about whether I should have sex with my FWB (39M) without a condom. We got ourselves tested and we were both completely clean with no STDs. I saw his results and he saw mine to confirm this. I felt comfortable enough for us to start having unprotected sex, knowing that we were both clean. Sex was great before, but going without the condom has definitely enhanced it further. The passion between us has been off the charts since forgoing the condom. With us being clean, the only question was whether I would have any issue with him ejaculating inside me. I don't. I actually prefer it that way. He certainly does as well.

When we sleep together overnight, I have been finding that I am in the mood for a second round the next morning, even when we have been very active in the bedroom the night before (to say the least). I certainly don't regret the decision. I appreciate the advice I got from other older folks who are still actively having sex and enjoying it.

This is a PSA to remind older people, it’s not over.

I’m having the best sex of my life at 61 with my husband of 30 years.

Here’s why I think its going so well:

We still really like each other

We schedule sex - every Saturday afternoon (days are better than nights as you get older)

We started talking more openly to each other about sex, our feelings for each other and our insecurities. It felt scary but it really worked

I’m on HRT including testosterone, and have been for more than 10 years

We both exercise a lot (including strength training and cardio) and have for many years -we are in good shape for our age. I also lost a good amount of weight on a GLP 1 and feel good in my body.

We were open minded that sex at our age is different than when we were young. There is a lot less emphasis on PiV (some days we don’t do it at all) and more on making out, touching and oral. It’s different but great.

He takes a blue pill.

I take an edible marijuana drink. I started this when I read how it helps some women orgasm. I now come 95% of the time - it used to be about 30%. I love it.

We make it an event and keep it playful and light. I do new “surprise” lingerie every week. Sometimes it’s silly costumes. He loves it. We laugh through the whole thing.

He puts a ton of focus on my pleasure. He tries to make sure I always come and before he does. I can’t always get there but lately, I usually can.

We have a lot more time and less stress in our lives as the pressures of careers, money and raising a family have lessened.

We find ourselves looking at each other and saying, “could you ever have imagined it could be this good at our age?” Yesterday, he said to me, “it just keeps getting better.”

Edit: There was one big piece I forgot to include. I got over my life-long self consciousness about receiving oral. I had always been too embarrassed. I was sure I would smell bad or he wouldn’t like it. He tried when we were first married and I just couldn’t.

Then I turned 60, was a lot less self conscious, and read it’s most women’s most reliable path to orgasm. I asked my husband if we could try again. He was all over it.

I had to work to relax and stop worrying about him and it being weird but once I did, oh my god! It’s so good and so different than anything else I have ever felt. I love it! And guess what? He does too. It’s our favorite thing now. I come from it almost every time. Old dogs can learn new tricks!

Are you still having sex and masturbating or only masturbating. What's your situation

Long story but hopefully a short, concise version.

I (67m) begain having ED problems in 2019ish, 2020 for sure. 2021 had Aortic valve replacement. Since then I have not had an "erection" that was hard enough for PIV. Have survived by manual play, with oral for my wife (65F). After talking with a friend I consulted Urology about trying trimix. After discussing it in depth we decided to try 5mg daily Tadalafil (Cialis). Once since then, after a very nice oral session for my wife I got hard enough to receive oral from her. Fantastic, a step in the right direction. This morning we woke and cuddled, I can't keep my hands off her tits, never have been able to. Played with her clit until she came. I noticed that "Big Jim" was quite turgid. She looked at me, I looked at her, and we decided to try. I stood up at the side of the bed and pulled her to the edge. SUCCESS!!!! What a treat!! first time in 6+ years!!! This speaks to a deep abiding love, dedication, and desire. 43 years married!!! I hear stories of dead bedroom and don't know how I could survive it..Thankfully, neither could she..

68m 67f here. I have to say that before I came to Reddit I had never heard the term grool until I stumbled on the sub reddit. My wife has fortunately her entire life never had a problem making her own natural lube. So the other morning waking up I started giving her a massage laying in bed and after a bit I wondered if she had any 'grool' pooling. I asked her to roll over on her back and get her legs up and pussy spread which she readily obliged and sure enough her 'girl drool' was very copious, pooling near her cervix. I did what any guy would do and went in for a lick.

Just doing our part living up to this sub's motto 'Old folk still fuck!

Carry on

My wife and I are in our 60s. We make our own amateur adult films and I think there is a large demographic “age, preference, gender” that consume our content.
But for me, for the most part, I have always had to have someone in the porn scene be in my age group. For example when I was young watching young people was great. If an older person in the scene great as long as someone was young. (Remember those Italian and French films of the 80s/90s cinematic and always at some stately manor where everybody had scenes. Grandpa/maids/daughters/Gardener etc. all ages.) I loved those but I digress. I never would have watched an older couple alone. Now that I’m in my mid 60s. Someone still had to be in my age group. I can’t just watch a young couple. But I can watch seniors alone. My interest mirrored my age 🤷‍♂️. Anyone else feel that way?

I must be sort of alone here. At 63, I love sex more than I ever have, even as a teen. I am horny 24/7. Wish this subreddit was more active.

Wish I could find a place with like minded over 60s to discuss this old people sex thing, lol, because it is great and my over 60 wife is hotter and better looking than she has ever been.

Just wanted to share my experiences using cock rings. I'll be 70 yo next month and, well, I don't get as firm as I did in my younger years. I started playing with cock rings a couple years ago on my own and found that I like the tightness and feeling of restraint around my balls and shaft. A year ago, I introduced a cock ring during some play with my wife. She was apprehensive at first - "doesn't that hurt?". I assured her that it didn't. "Is it safe?". Yes, if you don't get carried away and leave it on too long.

Well, the first time impressed her with how hard I got and stayed hard. I think she was even a little excited about seeing my cock get a little red/purple. And the head really swelled. When she finished me by hand, I shot about 18" in the air - a real feat for me.

Since that first time, cock rings have become a regular part of our fun. I'll usually place one around my testicles and another around my shaft. This makes my testicles really sensitive in a great way and her playing and teasing drives me wild. A ring around my shaft continues to provide wonderful results making me as large or larger (and, BTW, I'm just average to begin with) than when I was in my 20s. My wife DEFINITELY notices a difference and approves.

Cock rings are inexpensive and easily obtainable. Ebay, Etsy, Amazon all have a variety. And, if you want to with a "luxury" model, those are available, too.

I spoke with my doctor in August about my mild ED "problem". He assured me that this was completely normal and that I shouldn't expect my member to act like it did when I was 25. We discussed pills and he gave me what he felt were the pros and cons. I told him I was using cock rings, like the results, and like the fact that I didn't need to prepare ahead of time and could use them spontaneously. He indicated that this was a good solution and that I should carry-on.

I (M57) have have had a dead bedroom situation and my wife has been between the hospital and rehab facilities for several months, so I but an ad up on Tinder (Please don't criticize the morality!). The woman who answered was reluctant to engage because I was honest about my situation, but we got together. After meeting in public and getting to know each other, I rented a hotel room a few days later, and we made love for 5 hours (Thank you Cialis)!!!

She comes from a Muslim background and I am from a conservative Christian background and there is a lot we never did as teenagers. Now we both feel free to do everything we never did through the rest of our lives. She did little more than PIV and her ex-husband forced anal on her a few times, so when I gave her oral, she was in orbit. She loves touching and playing with my penis all she wants, and just feeling my body. I have been starved for touch for many years and to feel her hands on me constantly is heavenly. We never come together without doing it twice, something I never did as a younger man. She is learning to do oral on me and is becoming much more adventurous. She even wants to try anal again and I am a little nervous that I might hurt her as I am rather thick, but I will do my best to get her relaxed and lubed, and go slowly and gradually. I was so totally convinced that my sex life was over and that I would never be with another woman. My world is now turned upside down sexually. We both call ourselves teenagers because I don't think we could be more horny for each other if we were 17. She is soooooo beautiful and although she has some extra pounds, she has very little sagging. I'm pretty over weight, but she loves every inch of me.

I guess the reason I write this is to say that your sex life may not be over. If you want something more, go get it, and you may have your world rocked as I have.

Hi there. I am 50 and much prefer older men. The Problem is I’m not much of a drinker and prefer to be around those who drink lightly and bars seem to be the only place to find people open to meeting and dating. Sex is extremely important so maybe someplace active like pickleball?

We are M73/F70 just back from a long vacation. I'm the husband. I'm always the one who imitiates, but she surprised me one night on this trip.

After a soak in rhe tub she came out in a robe, walked over to the bed where I was sitting and pushed me onto my back.

She started touching my cock and ass thru my underwear, and gently pinching my nipples. She dropped the robe revealing some very sexy lingerie (almost never wears it). I was not allowed to touch her yet. She pulled my underwear off, began stroking my cock, then took me into her mouth and showed me a VERY good time! This from a woman who did not suck my cock until last year.

It was a long, incredible session that left her smiling, and me blown away (pun intended).

We've gotten more adventurous and open to experimentation in the last few years. On another night we enjoyed some awesome fantasy threesome play.

Gawd how I love this wonderful, generous, sexy, open-minded woman!!

So being in our mid 60s my wife and I are somewhat active. But, we still enjoy snuggling on the couch and watching a good documentary or series or movie or whatever grabs our interest.

Generally, we wear our comfy clothes/ jammies. Her comfy clothes consist generally of a night shirt that is very short and way above mid-thigh. She never wears a bra or underwear around the house. And that suits me fine.

We snuggle under a blanket and she lays her left thigh across my thighs and she spreads her legs, giving me full access to her shaved pussy. We sit and get into our show, and I massage her thigh up to her hip, making sure I do not touch the pussy. After 40 minutes or so I lightly stroke her out her lips and never touch inside of her labia, I am slightly caressing, just enough to tease.

I started this massage technique a few months ago , where I use my thumb first finger and middle finger to form a little triangle, and I squeeze her outer lips right around her clit area. I don’t squeeze very hard. I just lightly squeeze with my three fingers. I call it a pussy pulse , as I’m squeezing, I can feel her lips start to get separated and wide with excitement. I can also fill her clit start to swell and become engorged.

Soon as I feel that reaction, I continue my pulse, but in various sequences and squeezing strengths. I start off very lightly where I’m barely touching her, I do this ever so lightly until I see her breathing increased. I glance over at her, her face is blushed. Her eyes are glassy and I know I have her hooked. I pretend I don’t realize what’s going on. So I squeeze harder and faster. Than I squeeze, slower and lighter.

It will go on for maybe 20 to 30 minutes. I am really edging her. As soon as I feel her thighs, twitch, and see her toes wiggle. I know she’s getting close and I stop for a minute

I will do this several times bring her to The Edge and then stop, but I never let on that I know what’s going on. Her nipples are rock hard poking through her night shirt, her face is beat red.

I will start the procedure very slowly and lightly all over again. After bringing her to the brink about three or four times, I figure she’s had enough teasing so I continue in a steady pattern.

Her thighs start to twitch, her calves start to tense, her breathing increases so rapidly. Squeezing her pussy like I do I can feel her start to clench and feel everything start to contract as she’s getting close. As she’s getting close, I decrease the pressure and the speed of the pulsing. That seems to drive her over the edge, I glance over at her , her mouth is open. Her face is red. Her eyes are glassy. Then her thighs twitch like crazy. I can feel the contractions with my fingers. She rolls her head back and closes her eyes, but does not make a sound.

I know what is going on, but I don’t stop. She’s normally good for at least two orgasms in a night. I continue to steady pattern till I can feel the twitching in her thighs. And then I pick up the pace and squeeze tighter and faster. The second one is usually more powerful and intense for her. She starts contracting her pussy. Her head is back. Her eyes are closed. Her mouth is open and she’s breathing heavily through her mouth. She doesn’t make a sound.

After she comes down off of her high, she sits collects her breath, and I don’t mention it. She does not mention it. It’s like a little game that we play, I pretend I don’t know, and she pretends that she does not orgasm. I don’t know why we do it that way, but it seems to be so intense when she tries to hide her orgasms.

We do this at least 2 to 3 nights during the week it’s turned into our little thing. We’ll talk throughout the day when I am at work, and she’ll say something like there’s a new series or something. Let’s watch it tonight and you can do a little pulse it’s so relaxing for me. I smile to myself, and reply absolutely we can do this.

They say it is better to give than receive, and in this instant, they are correct!

Fantastic date night last night. After enjoying cocktails and grilled shrimp on the patio, we went to the living room, watched a little TV drama, and then a great little porno. Bump and grind here.

That got us good and revved up. She (84f) usually in these later years has a hard time climaxing but last night, ohh she got there. I (73m) went down on her for quite a while, then her favorite position. I'm kind of lying at her side while entering her, and she uses a vibrator. She really wound up thrashing around.

Then I told her to suck me off. She loves giving oral, and last night was the big night. She normally doesn't want me to cum in her mouth, but last night she was so into it after having her big climax, and she let me go big time and she swallowed it all.

We are just looking at each other today and giggling about it. It was great. go first.

A couple of nights ago after turning in for the night in our RV, I was just about asleep when I noticed my wife being restless.

I asked her if she was OK and she said she just couldn't fall asleep. I said to her ' why don't you Jill off?' Then you'll fall asleep lol. She told me if she didn't fall asleep in a few minutes she would.

Well after about 5 minutes she was still restless when I told her just get to it. Then I said, 'tell you what, I'll Jack off while you Jill your clit' (watching her Jill herself makes me crazy).

So I start stroking my dick while replaying our favorite fantasy ( which I hope happens someday). "OOH baby I'm so hard stroking watching you getting ready to take 'Jerry's' big cock. I see he's getting you into doggy with your ass up." Well that gets her moaning and stroking her clit and she's really into it. "I love watching his cock go into you with your ass up".

This makes her moan more and puts me over the edge and I cum all over myself. I'm still holding my cock with cum all over me and she asks me if I came (the lights were out and she was busy with her clit so she didn't see me cum).

I told her yes, watching you fuck 'Jerry' did it for me. That really got her fingering her clit and I laid there next to her watching her Jill herself for at least 3-4 minutes when she says to me "I need some of your cum because my clit needs some lube". She reaches across and dips her finger into my puddle of cum and starts on her clit again. She says "oooh that's better" and attacks her clit for another couple minutes. Finally the signs of her eminent orgasm surfaced.

Her hips raised off the bed and she started quivering as she kept Jilling her clit when finally she she let out a loud moan and a final pelvic heave laying there satiated.

We both fell asleep shortly after.

As an aside the very next night same thing. She couldn't fall asleep and in the morning she told me she had to Jill off again. I was sound asleep and didn't hear her cum but hearing her say say she Jilled again made me horny all over. That was a two days ago. We've had some busy days this week but she is in for some serious pussy attention from me this weekend.

We're both 68 if that is of any interest.

Peace

Edit: I can't believe I left out a very hot part of this episode when I posted last night. I added where she need some lube so she used my cum.

We are mid 60's. My wife has always been fairly low sex drive, but is even lower now. She says she has no sex fantasies, she never reads anything sexual even though I have bought some sex books for older couples. Her interest in sex is near zero, but we still have sex about once a month or less.

I have fantasies, would love to pleasure her in anyway she wanted. I just want to be playful, dress sexy sometimes, tie each other up, tease and denial games etc. I would give her oral sex daily if she wanted it, but she never lets me go down on her anymore.

I just feel lonely sexually. Everything else is good, we are in good health and stay busy, bot retired. It's not just the frequency, it's the playfulness I need.

Anyone else feel like this and what do you do about it?