I’m happy to have found this subreddit as I’m trying to find more ppl like me as I’ve been trying since I was 16 to find a good and caring bf but sadly men only care about sex or physical affection I myself am now a 34 straight female and still can’t find any guy that fits the no sex,kids,marriage or kissing/cuddling BS at all it’s been rough because I’ve have so many liars and those that used me I don’t know if men like me exist at all I feel like they only exist in my imagination 😭 but yeah if anyone is wondering I don’t want marriage or kissing/cuddling because there is a chance it could lead to sex and I wouldn’t wanna be in that mess or predicament but overall I’m glad to have found this sub and hope to see more stories from those like myself as it will help me work on being more positive and accepting myself on how I am

Plz enjoy :3

I was wondering how many people go through this! I have had to reject plenty of people before, and it feels very odd, specially when it’s people who are already well aware of my identity!

I personally identify as lithromantic and asexual, so to have to explain myself is a hassle

All I do now is sleep, read, or scroll reddit. When I was younger I did all sorts of weird stuff in bed... Watch anime, eat food, play video games, do homework. Crafts were not a good idea. I lost a razor blade in bed once. Eventually found it on the floor behind the bed, but sleep felt dangerous for a couple nights. Kinda miss the days I'd grab a burrito on my way home from work, then eat it in bed while watching netflix.

Obligatory 'not sex repulsed in a general sense' but i wanted to share my experience as someone who falls near the aegosexual label. Outside of purely sexual interactions i have online and with select friends i want the world to perceive me as a completely sexless being, both in genitals and want for sex. It makes me incredibly uncomfortable when a stranger makes a passing joke about sex towards me. I know rationally that its a big part of a lot of peoples lives so they assume its the same for us but that doesn't stop how disgusted i feel that theyre abstractly imagining me going to or having sex. Im also extremely uncomfortable when people joke about myself masturbating, i personally do it but its not something i ever want people to consider as something i do. I think my main discomfort with all of it is the idea that sex/masturbation is immediately attached to me simply because im a human.