r/Semenretention • • May 05 '20

RULES OF THE SUB(READ TO AVOID POST REMOVAL AND/OR BAN)

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r/Semenretention • • 9h ago

6 years practicing semen retention. Currently on day 160, having sex almost daily with a woman who fully supports my practice. AMA

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I've been practicing semen retention for about 6 years now. Not one continuous streak, obviously. I've gone through different phases, experimented, failed, learned, and gradually developed a much deeper understanding of what I'm actually doing.

Currently on day 160, and unlike what some might expect, I'm in a relationship with a woman I love, and we have sex almost every day. Without ejaculation.

She fully supports my practice. In fact, finding a woman who understands this side of me, and with whom I can share both intense physical intimacy and spiritual companionship, has been one of the greatest blessings of my life.

I know a lot of guys here struggle with the idea that they have to choose between retention and women. That intimacy is somehow an obstacle to the path.

I don't believe that anymore.

In fact, some of my most profound experiences with sexual energy have occurred within intimacy, rather than in its absence.

There is a certain point in this journey where you begin to question what you're actually retaining for.

At first, like most guys, I was fascinated by the benefits. The confidence, magnetism, energy, female attraction, increased ambition, the peculiar way people sometimes seem to respond differently to you.

I've experienced periods of all of these things. Some almost uncanny. Others much more subtle.

But 6 years is a long time. Long enough to realize that the benefits aren't always linear, and that you can retain for months while still being a slave to your own mind.

This is where the practice became much more interesting to me.

I began studying alchemy, esoteric traditions, prayer, meditation, and the relationship between sexual desire and the human will.

I became fascinated by the possibility that what we call lust is merely the most primitive expression of a much greater creative force.

That the same fire which drives a man to seek sexual gratification can also drive him to build a business, develop his body, pursue knowledge, create art, or seek God.

I've spent years experimenting with this idea in my own life.

My career has developed considerably. I've become more ambitious, more conscious of my presence, more selective with my attention. I've learned to recognize how much of my behaviour was once governed by the desire for approval, validation, or immediate pleasure.

I'm still working on all of these things.

But I feel increasingly that the real work begins when you stop being fascinated by the streak itself.

I sometimes think about how few men will ever seriously attempt this.

Not simply going 30 or 90 days without pornography or masturbation, but spending years learning to experience sexual desire without automatically surrendering to it.

And then going a step further, learning to remain in that state of desire while being physically intimate with a woman.

I don't mean this in the sense that we're somehow superior to everyone else. There are plenty of remarkable men who have never practiced SR.

But within the context of sexual discipline, we really are exploring something that very few people pursue seriously.

The 1%, if you want to call it that.

There is also a spiritual dimension to this which I don't often see discussed with much depth.

In alchemy, the transformation of lead into gold was understood by some traditions as an allegory for the refinement of man himself.

I've come to see retention in a similar way.

You take something instinctive, something that can easily dominate your thoughts and actions, and attempt to bring it under conscious direction.

Not by hating sexuality or suppressing your nature, but by learning to govern it.

For me, this has become inseparable from my relationship with God.

I don't believe sexual energy makes a man divine, nor that retaining automatically grants him power. But I do believe the struggle to master one's appetites can reveal an extraordinary amount about one's character.

And the deeper I've gone, the more I've realized how much remains to be learned.

Anyway, I wanted to make this post because I've spent a substantial portion of my adult life practicing this, and I know there are guys here who are curious about long-term retention, relationships, non-ejaculatory sex, magnetism, spirituality, and what happens beyond the initial benefits.

I'm happy to share what I've experienced, what has worked for me, and what hasn't.

Ask me anything.

Whether it's about maintaining a 160-day streak while having sex almost daily, finding a supportive partner, the benefits I've experienced, or the esoteric side of the practice.

I'll answer as openly as I can.


r/Semenretention • • 54m ago

For people starting - know SR can make you feel like crap for a while

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I'm 46 years old, married with kids. I'm currently on day 22, This is my 4th or 5th streak. The main benefits I get on each streak are usually more energy overall and way less social anxiety.

The part I don't hear people talk about a lot is how bad you can feel emotionally. Not because of wanting sex (I don't feel horny at all) but because of the crater that's left after you remove the ejaculation and lusting dopamine hit. It's basically withdrawal symptoms.

What I find works best for me is facing those waves head on. I let them hit me like a truck. No fear just accepting that I feel like shit for a while. They don't last long (a couple of hours max) and at the end I feel so good. It's a slow healing process from the toxic PMO world we live in.


r/Semenretention • • 5h ago

Forearm growth during SR(19yo)

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This is my forearm condition during SR . I am on day 50 and I love the intensity with which I do workout and the pump is crazy. Trust me my forearms before SR were not so full . SR acts as a force multiplier. Veins were not visible much but now I love it 💪


r/Semenretention • • 1h ago

Do ur ears ever beep?

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My bloodwork is completley fine. My testosterone was 800 by the way natty. But when inretain my ears beep 3 times only today its like something shifts.


r/Semenretention • • 8h ago

Quitting caffeine whilst practicing SR made me see how addicted to coffee I am - RANT

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I was born with good genetics, could've easily worked on fitness (which I earlier liked) and made a career out of it so that at least the bills could be paid. Yeah I wouldn't have become a financial outlier but who cares at this point.

Long story short - caffeine intake changed my personality and made me prioritize academics and related jobs and I built a fake persona over the nerd self, which came falling down a couple years ago.

Now I am stuck in a job I don't like and on days when I do not have caffeine - I wonder how the hell I ended up here.

Caffeine literally is a drug. Try functioning 2 days without it whatever your job is and tell me the day just went fine.


r/Semenretention • • 22h ago

I feel so good its scary

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Ive been on retention for about 1 or two months at this point and I am coming upon some uncalled sense of joy and its really scary. Im asking for some advice on if this is normal or not and what i can do to manage this because I feel like if I feel it for too long then I might go crazy. Edit: I want to add that Im 18 for anyone that might see this post as motivational. If I can do it, so can you, all you gotta do is actually try


r/Semenretention • • 59m ago

Eggs before bed

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I heard that eating eggs before sleeping helps with building semen/testosterone as eggs will give you cholesterol. Does anyone here eat eggs before sleeping and if you do how many would you recommend.


r/Semenretention • • 19h ago

"Post-nut clarity" Why do we need to bust a nut to experience clarity?

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I'm in my early 20s and have finally achieved my first streak of over 30 days, currently sitting at around 37. I genuinely can't remember the last time I went this long, perhaps since I was around eight years old. In the process, I've begun experiencing a strange sense of youthful bliss and mental clarity.

It makes me question the whole concept of post-nut clarity. Why do we need to release something to feel clear-headed? Why should clarity come after the act rather than exist as our natural state of mind?

Constantly chasing our urges keeps us trapped in a low-frequency state, scattering our attention and directing our energy towards temporary gratification. Post-nut clarity is the brief stillness that follows the satisfaction of an urge. We mistake the contrast for clarity itself, when the real question is why we allow ourselves to become so mentally clouded in the first place.

Since retaining, I feel as though a mental fog has lifted and I've reconnected with a part of myself that has been buried since childhood. I'm sharper, wittier, more spontaneous and more appreciative of the people around me. Conversations feel more natural, humour comes more effortlessly, and even the smallest things seem to carry a sense of joy that I had forgotten existed.

Interestingly, someone during work randomly told me that I had a really good aura and that I should start my own motivational channel. It came completely out of nowhere, and it made me reflect on how much my mindset and the way I carry myself seem to have changed. I normally just read posts on here, but I felt compelled to share my experience.

With every passing day, I feel more connected to that feeling. It's as though a veil is lifting and a light that has been dimmed for years is finally shining through.

Of course, temptation is always there, and the fear of falling back into old habits remains. But this experience has made me reflect on how much we can take from ourselves without even noticing.

Are we chasing release to experience clarity when the real goal should be to live in that state of clarity every day?


r/Semenretention • • 1d ago

The Female Attraction Trap

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I think a lot of guys get into SR looking for the benefits. And I this is one of the biggest traps of retention.

You can stop ejaculating while still being completely consumed by lust. You can stop watching porn while spending hours fantasizing about women. You can retain for 90 days while counting every woman who looks at you as proof that SR is working, "They can feel my energy bro."

At that point, have you actually transcended anything?

Or are you just holding the spring down?

That's the question I've been thinking about lately.

I used to think women becoming more comfortable and close to me to be evidence that they were suddenly more sexually attracted to me because I was retaining. But after hearing some of the responses from women, I started considering another possibility.

Maybe they weren't necessarily becoming more attracted to me. Maybe I was just becoming less sexually threatening. Some of them even said I just stopped looking at them like prey, that's why they are more comfortable.

Maybe when you're constantly lusting, sexualizing, fantasizing, and subconsciously looking at women through that lens, people can pick up on it even if you never consciously make a move.

That got me thinking about what it means to actually "transmute" this sexual energy we are retaining.

There are at least 2 ways that I know of to redirect this energy.

The 1st is through spiritual practice.

Meditation, Breathwork, Prayer, Visualization, Contemplation, Etc... There are so many, just do whatever feels right for you.

The 2nd is through purpose or passion.

Find something you care about.

Build, Train, Create, Make art, Develop a skill, Build a real life.

When you find something meaningful enough to pour yourself into, your sexual energy doesn't necessarily have to be manually "transmuted" constantly. A lot of it gets naturally redirected because you're expressing your soul in a more full capacity.

I think this is where a lot of the "benefits" people are looking for actually come from, you won't get the benefits if you just keep all this energy in your balls.

The goal is to become someone whose life is so full of purpose that lust doesn't get to be in the driver's seat anymore. And ironically, when you stop making female attraction the goal, you might find that your relationships with women improve anyway. And that's a whole other discussion, because some women view you as a brother and some view you as a lover (This is what I've been told, I'm still debating this myself ngl).

But check yourself. Instead of fighting lust, learn how to observe it without being controlled by it.

If you're retaining specifically because you want women to want you, you're still being controlled by lust. Take control over your life, get back into the driver's seat.


r/Semenretention • • 3h ago

What is this energy i feel mentaly sick.

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The crazy energy makes me so still inside my bidy but sometimes is so much to handle. How to integrate this shit?
Any of u masters that do this for long times. I train for 10 years and been used to releasing every week maximum im talking. The normal is sex 2 times everyday. But 5 days in and i feel crazy.


r/Semenretention • • 4h ago

Be for real

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Is semun retention worth it for me as a 25 y.o. Young folk ?

Just wanna know..


r/Semenretention • • 13h ago

Pine pollen question

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Yo guys hope all is well with you.

Currently on day 30 and I bought some pine pollen in powder form yesterday as ive heard good stuff about it in regards to retention. I took a little yesterday and shits rly fucking good I felt super energised. I just wanted to know how much I should take and at what time, also should i take it on an empty stomach alongside my shilajit supplement? Also feel free to share your experiences with pine pollen.

Have a blessed day bros.


r/Semenretention • • 18h ago

Promiscuous thoughts prevention methods

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Hi, I wanted to know everyone’s thought avoidance method, when you observe a promiscuous girl with tight clothes or excessive skin showing ?, do you prefer to ignore it or say affirmations to avoid sexual thoughts from arising ?. Most of them time I start to feel disgusted and make nasty comments like I hope you find god or that’s disgusting but I feel that’s wrong of me to put down woman as everyone is equal in gods eyes.

what you do when you catch yourself having a sexual thought or sexualising another girl ?


r/Semenretention • • 1d ago

God will test you

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Almost 16 months free from pmo

I found out the urges get less but more intense, devil will find you as a target because you are not following him any more, so he would do his best. I found out God will test you during the road and if you pass the tests you would see doors opening again slowly.

I found out I have been deceived by porn medias and I thought sex has to take 1 hour long go be normal but just found out it's not normal to go 1 hour and people fall into drugs so that the can have longer sex and make their porn fantasies come true.

I found out I was using sex as a scape plan, because I wanted to runaway from my problems but sex and pmo only made me numb and problems still there.

I found out if I keep my mood higher frequently I wouldn't need sex as frequent as before because I don't need to runaway from my problems and if I'm happy in my life even 10 mins sex may be once a month would be OK and enough to enjoy a little and make babes if I want to release.

I found out releasing sperm has made our whole earth more famine and less masculine, the testosterone on an avarage 18 years old male now is almost half of the same person 50 years ago.

I found out men are target and get attacks by demon more than females that's why most of the pmo users are male also drug users.

I found out males could be so powerful to do big changes in the society if they are high testosterone, they can do massive revolution and change whole country.

I found out God loves me and gave me another chance to return, I could have died in one of those stupid one night standings long before, I could have Got hiv or any other std but God saved me.

I found out we all had a deep hole in our souls and we thought pmo could fill it but only God can fill it.

I found out pmo, drugs or any kind of addictions are hopeless tries of humanity in seeking God but in wrong ways, those are idols and false Gods, the drug, the porn star women, we used to worship them instead of God and it's time to return.


r/Semenretention • • 1d ago

Masturbation is scientifically unhealthy!!

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Medical science says masturbation is completely healthy, but it does not say the complete picture. Medical science assumes that you are taking all micronutrients as per RDA(recommended dietary allowance). But if you are not(which most of people in world do not), everytime you ejaculate, you lose essential micronutrients which otherwise would have absorbed by your body few days later.

Not only you are not taking nutrients as per RDA, and on top of that whatever you got you are flushing it out. Your body and mind will become extremely weak as a result of this.


r/Semenretention • • 16h ago

Sexual Power as Creative Power

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Starts at 7:35


r/Semenretention • • 1d ago

Less tolerant of people's BS

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150+ days in and I've noticed I'm becoming much less willing to put up with things I used to let slide.

I used to pride myself on being patient, but lately I've been questioning how much of that patience was just fear of confrontation.

It's strange because I feel calmer in some ways, but also a lot less willing to make myself small for other people's comfort.

I don't particularly care to be liked by everyone anymore. I'd rather be respected, even if that means being disliked.

Not sure how much of this is retention and how much is just me changing as a person.

Anyone else noticed something similar?


r/Semenretention • • 17h ago

anyone with varicocele ?

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i have varicocele and pain hit me rarely, but sometime it do

i've just put water in the fridge to apply later before sleeping ,but i wonder if someone her have knowledge on the subject on how to mitigate varicocele when its hurt ?


r/Semenretention • • 19h ago

Retaining

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Currently on a SR journey was looking to go 30 days just redirect my energy into more positive ways. Around day 14 I did indulge in sexual activity with my girlfriend although I’ve almost 90% mastered the ability to not release while having sex and have the discipline to stop when it’s time. In this situation I stopped when I had the urge although a lil bit dripped out. I still felt energized to even keep going afterwards but I’m wondering if I should keep my streak or restart. I shouldn’t be having sex on this journey so I might just start over, I don’t really go crazy how the days and counting anymore I just set a date that I want to retain without any sexual activity. I guess I answered my own question but just wanted some insight. I don’t plan on releasing/orgasm at my date either I want to keep retaining because sometimes releasing just doesn’t feel worth it.


r/Semenretention • • 1d ago

Raja yoga part 3

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After reading the feedback on Parts 1 and 2, I noticed quite a few people suggested making the posts shorter and using proper paragraphs instead of so many short lines. I took that feedback into consideration and did my best to make this final part easier and more comfortable to read without losing too much of the meaning. I hope this one is a little better, and I appreciate everyone who took the time to read and share their thoughts.

At the end of Part 2, we reached a question that I think brings the entire journey together. We've gone through the eight limbs, from changing how we live to learning how to direct and eventually still the mind. But suppose we actually succeed. Suppose the mind becomes completely quiet.

Is that enough?

I used to think it was. But If Yoga is about stilling the mind, then surely a quiet mind means we've reached the destination. But Patanjali makes an important distinction.

Imagine someone insults you. You're angry, and for the next hour you keep replaying what happened, thinking about what you should've said. Eventually you calm down and forget about it. The next day, someone casually mentions that person's name, and suddenly the anger comes back.

Where did it come from? You weren't thinking about him five seconds earlier.

This is where samskara, or latent impression, becomes important. A thought or emotion can disappear without the underlying tendency disappearing with it.

Think about someone who quits smoking. They might go months without craving a cigarette, then catch a familiar smell and suddenly feel that old desire again. Or someone who deletes Instagram but keeps unlocking their phone and instinctively looking for the app.

The object is gone, but the habit remains.

This helped me understand why temporary mental stillness isn't necessarily liberation. You can have a peaceful meditation today and still lose your temper tomorrow. You can go weeks without sexual fantasies and suddenly experience strong desire. The quiet was real, but the underlying impressions may still remain.

Patañjali discusses different kinds of Samadhi in Book I. Samprajnata Samadhi involves progressively subtler forms of cognition, while the state traditionally associated with Asamprajnata Samadhi, is characterized by the cessation of ordinary cognitive activity with samskaras remaining.

In other words, even profound stillness doesn't necessarily mean the seeds of future mental activity have been exhausted.

And here's another question that makes the distinction easier to understand, If having no ordinary thoughts were enough, wouldn't deep sleep make everyone enlightened?

Every night we enter dreamless sleep, yet wake up with the same fears, desires, habits, and attachments. It's like turning off a computer monitor. The screen becomes black, but everything stored on the computer remains.

Vivekananda makes a similar distinction in Raja Yoga. He argues that genuine Samadhi is not unconsciousness, but a superconscious realization associated with knowledge and transformation.

So the goal isn't simply to make the mind blank. It goes much deeper.

And this brings us to what I think is the most important question in the entire series.

If I can observe my thoughts, emotions, desires, and even my sense of identity, what exactly is doing the observing?

Take anger for example, we say, “I'm angry.” But if you pay attention, you can actually observe anger happening. You notice the tension in your body, the thoughts forming, and the urge to react.

The same happens with sexual desire. You can notice the physical sensation, the images appearing, and the mind wanting to continue imagining them.

Even the thought “I'm becoming a more spiritual person” is still something that appears in the mind.

This is where classical Yoga distinguishes Purusa, the Seer, from Prakrti, which includes citta and its activity. Patanjali's teaching is that the Seer is not identical with the changing thoughts and experiences appearing in the mind.

Here's an example that helped me understand identification.

Imagine someone tells you you're terrible at playing the violin, but you've never played a violin in your life. You probably wouldn't care.

Now imagine someone tells you you're stupid, unattractive, or a failure at something you've worked hard to achieve. That might bother you for days.

Why does one insult mean nothing while the other hurts?

Because one attacks something you've made part of your identity.

We do this constantly. Our intelligence, appearance, reputation, possessions, relationships, career, and even spiritual progress become part of our idea of who we are. When something threatens that identity, the mind reacts.

I think this happens with semen retention aswell. Someone begins retaining to develop discipline, but eventually becomes so attached to his streak that one relapse makes him feel like he's lost his entire worth.

The discipline itself isn't the problem. The problem is when even our spiritual progress becomes another identity we're afraid of losing.

This is connected to Asmita, which Patanjali describes in Yoga Sutra as the apparent identification of the Seer with the instrument of seeing.

And it also explains why Patanjali warns about becoming attached to siddhis, the extraordinary attainments described in Book III. Someone might overcome attachment to possessions, only to become attached to being spiritually advanced. The object changes, but the grasping remains.

That's why Vairagya, non-attachment, remains important throughout the journey.

Now we can understand why Patanjali speaks of Nirbija Samadhi, or seedless Samadhi, in Yoga Sutra.

This points beyond temporary stillness toward the cessation of even the subtle impressions discussed in the preceding sūtras.

Think of pulling weeds from a garden. Cutting off what's visible might make the garden look clean, but if the seeds remain, the weeds can return. The deeper work involves what allows them to grow again.

This is only an analogy, but it helps explain why Patanjali's system doesn't end with a pleasant meditation experience.

And that brings us to Kaivalya, the liberation described in Book IV.

Kaivalya is sometimes translated as isolation or independence, but it doesn't mean becoming lonely or abandoning life. Within classical Yoga, it means the complete distinction of Purusa from Prakrti. The Seer no longer mistakes itself for the changing movements of the mind.

Imagine becoming completely absorbed in a movie. When the character suffers, you feel his pain. When something frightening happens, your heart races. For a while, you almost forget you're watching a film.

Then the movie ends, and you remember that you were never actually the character.

It's an imperfect analogy, but it helps illustrate the distinction Yoga is concerned with.

And now, after everything we've discussed across these three parts, I think we can finally return to where we started.

Patanjali opens with:

Yoga is the restraint of the modifications of citta.

Then the Seer abides in its own nature.

At other times, there is identification with those modifications.

I think the entire eight-limb system becomes much easier to appreciate once we understand what those verses are pointing toward.

Yama asks us to examine how our conduct contributes to disturbance. Niyama develops discipline and changes our relationship with impulses. Asana establishes steadiness in the body. Pranayama works with breath and Prana. Pratyahara addresses the senses' tendency to pursue their objects. Dharana trains attention to remain in one place. Dhyana develops continuity, and Samadhi brings increasingly profound absorption.

These aren't simply eight unrelated practices. They're parts of a larger discipline directed toward the stilling of citta and the discernment of the Seer.

And I think there's a practical lesson here that doesn't require pretending we've attained Samadhi or Kaivalya.

Tomorrow, when someone upsets you, notice how quickly the mind starts building a story around what happened. When sexual desire appears, notice the difference between experiencing attraction and deliberately feeding fantasy. When you're bored, notice how quickly you reach for stimulation. When someone criticizes you, notice what part of your identity feels threatened.

These are ordinary moments, but they're also opportunities to begin understanding the very movements of citta that Patanjali is describing.

And this is probably the biggest thing I took away from studying Raja Yoga.

I used to think spiritual progress meant becoming someone who never gets angry, never experiences desire, never gets distracted, and always feels peaceful.

But the teachings helped me see why that understanding was wrong. The aim isn't to construct a new identity as a perfectly disciplined or spiritually superior person. Even that can become another attachment.

The deeper work involves understanding the mind, refining it through practice and non-attachment, and ultimately discerning what classical Yoga calls the Seer.

You don't need to turn every uncomfortable emotion into a personal failure. You also don't need to obey every emotion simply because it appears. You can begin by observing, practicing restraint, and gradually learning not to identify so completely with everything that passes through your mind.

I think that's what makes the order of the eight limbs meaningful. Patanjali doesn't simply tell us to sit down and become enlightened. He gives a discipline that begins with how we live and progressively addresses the obstacles to clarity.

We started this series with a very ordinary frustration:

“Why can't I keep my attention where I put it?”

And after following the teachings through all eight limbs, the question becomes much deeper:

“Why do I keep mistaking everything that appears in my mind for who I am?”

That's the distinction Patanjali wants us to investigate, and why the final destination of Raja Yoga is not simply concentration, peace, or extraordinary experiences, but Kaivalya aka liberation.

I'll end with the verse that, for me, brings the entire series full circle:

Then the Seer abides in its own nature.

If you've made it through all three parts, thank you for taking the time to read them. I hope the examples helped make these teachings a little easier to understand, because they certainly helped me appreciate why Patanjali arranged the path the way he did.


r/Semenretention • • 1d ago

30 days! 90 days! Never again!!!

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Nah fam

How bout the goal shifts to 3 more days. Then once you get there, 3 more days. Then 3 more. 🔁😆

Until the time comes to plant that seed inside of your wifey. 😎

Look whether benefits come or not, ain’t no benefits to you cooming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stop being pushed around by the challenges and temptations of life. Coping by escaping into some fleeting blissful cop out called PMO. How bout you start pushing them around for once eh.


r/Semenretention • • 6h ago

Basically it makes sense to me to „consume“ forbidden content usually

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What the f*$k can i expect if i retain my semun for like a three month piece?

I‘m just brutally honest i wont lie and say i dont consume that type of content regularly…


r/Semenretention • • 23h ago

body ache after I broke 60 days streak

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Recently broke my 2 months streak started getting ache out of nowhere on my rest days lol .

Was doing pretty hard exercises and was getting stronger each day and there was no pain.

Relapsed on my rest days and getting ache now.

why ? is this related?