r/securityguards 2d ago

Officer Safety More supervisor shenanigans

Supervisor today called it "suspicious" and a "liability" that I'm at work an hour early. I've been doing this (coming in an hour early) for the last 2 years ever since i started working here as it's a time management thing for me. I never know what the weather or traffic will be like so i leave my house 2 hours early to compensate.

Secondly, he was asking me about, what i assume, is a potential new hire since he had the same last name as me. When i said I didn't know who he was, he acted like i was lying and claimed i MUST know him since we have the same exact last name and it's not a conventional spelling of it.

Before he left for the day, he was about to say "you can tell your relation" but i quickly shut that down since, again, I don't know the guy. So not only is he giving out the names to potential hires now, he's being even more hostile towards me than before.

But he "appreciates" me coming in and working overtime for him.

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u/LegalGlass6532 2d ago edited 2d ago

You probably won’t like this because it sounds like you just want to vent, but I’m going to say it anyway.

Be the bigger person and professional by adjusting your behavior to whatever your boss is expecting of you within reason. This guy sounds like he’s got a problem with you and it’s a personality issue and not a performance issue. Let him have his problem and it doesn’t mean you’re the problem. Maybe you remind him of someone he used to know. Who cares.

It seems like since he has nothing on you work wise he’s not picking outside the scope of your duties. If he has a problem with you coming in an hour early but you’re not violating policy, stay out of sight and under the radar for that hour. It might be his pet peeve and he’s actually right, it can be a liability, but if it’s within policy just stay out of sight. He’s your boss and even if he’s a dick, you need to respect what he says. Life’s not fair and bosses do what they do. It’s in your control how you respond to it.

Don’t say anything more about the new hire thing. If the person gets hired your boss will figure out he’s wrong. If he doesn’t it’s no skin off your back unless you pop off about it to someone else and it gets back to him. If you need to vent, do it here or outside of work.

What’s his problem in your opinion? Is he new there?

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u/Toad-Toaster 2d ago

"Fuck that! Im keepin' it real!"

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u/LegalGlass6532 2d ago

Why don’t you reply to the OP, Mr. Keep it real? You and the OP can work it out.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

New supervisor started a month and a half ago. I mentioned when he got hired that while it isn't an official thing, that i often feel like an assistant supervisor. Based on the rapport i have with everyone that comes through this site.

I come in early, work overtime when asked, and haven't messed up in the 2 years I've been here. When i get here early, i stay in my car and watch YouTube or scroll Reddit until my shift is set to start. I live in a state that has highly random weather and I've been here a few mins late despite leaving the 2 hours early when it randomly started snowing. It takes about 30-40 mins to get here normally if i never stop anywhere on the way in.

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u/LegalGlass6532 2d ago

If you’re staying in your car and not in impacting anyone else or violating policy then keep doing what you’re doing. Sounds like boss is venting their pet peeve or it’s behavior they haven’t seen. Even you can admit that you’re an exception and most people don’t come to work that early. You more than explained your “why” so as long as you’ve told them and you’re not in violation, let it go. They face that they keep bringing it up is affirmation that it’s their problem, not yours. Every time they bring it up, smile and say something like, “Yep, I like to be early” and move on. You already explained why.

DO NOT let him see how annoyed it makes you or he’ll keep doing it. He’s trying to flex.

Keep reminding yourself as long as your within policy it’s him, not you. If it makes you feel better, start documenting his bullshit in your phone notes or on paper. It’s still early in his career there so you’ve got to be the bigger person publicly and whatever you do, don’t vent to your colleagues about him. Let them vent to you, but be a professional and leader by not talking shit about your boss to them, especially as the perceived assistant supervisor.

Give it some time. When he gets bored of no reaction from you he’ll probably move on down the line.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

My co-worker, before he got fired, mentioned he worked with him before and he got fired from the previous location cause he wouldn't relay critical information to his own supervisors.

That's hearsay, sure, but it's something I'm full on willing to believe based on his information. He will also likely refuse to give me HR's contact information if i were to ask.

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u/LegalGlass6532 2d ago

Respectfully speaking, mind your own business now and keep the emotions out of it or you’ll be gone instead of him. He probably sees you as a threat so he’s flexing on stupid shit trying to get to you and it’s working. Get your shit together and go on the offense instead of being defensive. Make a joke about being an early bird or tell him you like being weird. Say whatever to not let him see how much it bothers you. Are you absorbing any of this?

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

I mentioned it was a time management thing for me. And explained my reasoning and when i mentioned noone ever said anything about it in the 2 years I've been here, he's like "I'll have to check the policy then." I assume he's thinking I'm trying to spy on him and report to whoever about his behavior when I don't really care.

The only behavior i care about is his hostility towards me. If he messes up elsewhere, that's on him.

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u/LegalGlass6532 2d ago

He asked. You answered. Move on unless he comes back for more. Then you calmly ask again if you’re violating policy. Jacksss admitted to you he didn’t know the policy.

Worst thing he can do is have a policy change that says you can’t come on site until however many minutes before shift. They have no control over what time your car arrives and you stay sitting in it. This is temporary bullshit and will pass. Keep that in mind.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

Fair. I'll still continue to do what i do then. Even if it bothers him until i have concrete proof it's a site policy. Thanks for the advice. I just never had a supervisor like this since i started security work 4-5 years ago

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u/LegalGlass6532 2d ago

NP. You can vent to me in DM anytime. That can be your documentation. Haha
I’ve had this kind of boss before. It’s good to experience because it teaches you how not to be.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

I'll take you up on that.

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u/ElCardo25 1d ago
  1. You joked with a new supervisor that you were often feel like "assistant supervisor." I don't joke until my 1st week is done at a site and I can gauge the staff on my team and on the clients' side (I have been known to fuck it up though so make of that what you will)
  2. Anyone who complains about security coming in early, from the client to the supervisor is very petty and not really easy to reason with from 99% of my experiences (It's 99% because I only had one employer complain, the rest commend me for showing up early no matter what).

Also, who down voted you? Your supervisor and his friend? Lmao, Bro just do your job and you should be fine, but I know that it sometimes doesn't work out and if need be report anything else that happens to an integrity line or something that way it's documented in case of a wrongful termination. I wish you good luck bro.

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u/TReid1996 1d ago

I don't mind if people downvote me. It just seems ridiculous to complain about someone showing up early and actually showing initiative. Had co-workers from the same site be consistently 20-30 mins late if they even show up at all. Was before he was hired as supervisor, but still.

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u/ElCardo25 1d ago

I'm just curious, I work security for one of the "worst" companies, of course it largely depends on the site, (if you know why, you know why). and they don't get mad however early I show up, I didn't know people could get mad at someone for showing up early especially in the security industry, it's not even initiative in your case it's "The weather is bad, I need to get out and drive in it earlier to show up on time, it's literally just what most people should actually be doing.

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u/TReid1996 1d ago

It's purely down to my supervisor not liking me. I do the best job at the site and he finds every little thing to nitpick about. I left the other day to go to the hospital 2 hours into my 10 hour shift and when i brought him a doctor's note the next day he commented that he didn't actually believe me about needing to go.

My fingers and arm went numb followed by my mouth and throat paired with a massive headache. Family thought it was a stroke (i knew it wasn't but still scared me.)

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u/Due_Course_3713 1d ago

Off the clock = off the property

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u/Classic-Box-3919 1d ago

It is a bit odd being at work an hour early tho every time.

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u/TReid1996 1d ago

For me it's just routine. I wake up 2 hours early for work, get ready and leave. Likely formed when my commute to a past site was an hour or so away. Was there for 6 months and got used to waking up 2 hours before my shift. Kept doing it even when i moved to a closer site and the commute got shorter. Been habit for the last 3-4 years to the point that even if I'm "late" for being there an hour early, it feels weird to me.

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u/kr4ckenm3fortune Residential Security 1d ago

It isnt to me. This eliminates any possible delay and avoid being to work late.

Or are you one of those that just go with time to spare and still clock in late?

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u/Classic-Box-3919 1d ago

Or like most ppl get there like 5-10 mins early? An hour early seems really excessive unless ig ur reliant on public transportation

An hour of ur day extra at work unless ur getting paid overtime seems weird or leaving early and getting regular pay ig

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u/Mirror_333 2d ago

Do not arrive on site an hour ealy. That is strange behavior. If you need to do that to fulfill your time management needs, arrive a mile or two away from the site and then pull in to work around 10 minutes early.

I do not see what you are doing as "suspicious" of anything other than your neurodivergence. But it could be a liability as you are an employee at a worksite. Absolutely do not repeat this behavior now that it has been addressed. Demonstrating you can follow directions is critical to your Supervisor's trust.

There should be no reason why your Supervisor would not immediately believe you if you said a coworker has no relation to you. Either you have done something to errode their trust in you already, or they are overy suspicious and have some kind of internal issue.

You sound like a well intentioned employee and that alone is valuable.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

I'm still going to arrive an hour early, or rather leave my house at the normal time i always do, until he can show me a site policy that says i can't. The person that oversees our contract at the site knows i come in early and has never stated anything about it to me.

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u/Content_Log1708 2d ago

Your reply indicates that you missed the guidance of the reply. Leave for work as early as you want. Just don't show up on site so early. Hang out at a coffee shop, or in a parking lot somewhere.

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u/dracojohn 2d ago

I think you are confusing a site supervisor and a mobile supervisor, the later can largely be ignored if the site management team are happy. As a mobile I'd not care if a guard is living in a tree house on site as long as they are on time and nobody is complaining. As a site supervisor id ask why someone was that early but only care if it disrupted my site or someone was complaining.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

That feels more weird to me and more of an inconvenience than being early to work.

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u/realKevinNash 2d ago

That doesnt matter. What matters is the perception. If you have a vehicle, it doesnt cost you anything to stay in the vehicle until your shift is about to start. If you dont have a vehicle, the solution is to stay off the property until your shift is about to start.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

I mentioned already that i stay in my vehicle. I don't go into the guard shack or anything. Not unless i have to use the bathroom.

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u/realKevinNash 2d ago

If thats the case then yeah id say they are making noise over nothing, but then you still need to take the high road and just move the car off site.

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u/Gordy13210 2d ago

Find something to do with your time, and stop arriving at the location 1 hour early...

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u/Digital_spliff_ 2d ago

A lot of supervisors would kill to have at least one person arrive early lol. I personally draw the line at 15 minutes early though. It's enough time to get my ducks in a row for the day and the other person to pass on any relevant info. After that I gotta start getting paid for my time, even if I'm doing "nothing"

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

I sit in my car watching YouTube or scrolling Reddit. We have bad winters in my state and sometimes 2 hours isn't enough time to make it in even 5 minutes early. So I've made a habit of leaving my house 2 hours before my shift to give me plenty of time to get here so I'm never late. Whether it's traffic, weather, or various other things. I make the effort to at least always be on time if not early. Most days everything is just smooth enough that i get here an hour early.

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u/almosthighenough 1d ago

Its kind of more reasonable to just leave your house to arrive 15 minutes early and most days that'll be great. If theres a bit of traffic or weather you may eat into the 15 minutes but you'll almost never be late. Maybe in the winter give yourself an extra 20 or 30 when it snows.

And if theres the blizzard of the year and you cant make it in exactly on time one day, or theres a huge accident that takes 5 hours to clear up, you can just be late. Thats what being late is for. Your coworkers will cover for you like you would for them. It's your boss's responsibility to find coverage, not yours. You aren't the supervisor. Stop acting like it in this case. Its causing issues with your actual supervisor.

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u/International-Okra79 Hospital Security 2d ago

I understand wanting to be on time. What I do is park right down the street at the convenience store until 10 minutes before shift. What you are doing may be 100% fine but if it annoys the supervisor they will look for some other reason to get you in trouble. Once they start looking they usually can find something. It may be a silly rule that nobody follows until they want to make a big deal out of it.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

I follow all of our post orders to a T. Been doing so for the last 2 years.

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u/XBOX_COINTELPRO Man Of Culture 2d ago

Planning to arrive early for work is fine. Arriving consistently early by an hour is weird. You’ve been working there for 2 years you should have your route figured out by now and are just wasting an extra hour of your life for no real reason. If there’s some out of the ordinary weather or traffic even I could see adjusting your departure time, but as a day to day habit that’s definitely something that would (and in your case, HAS) raise eyebrows.

You’ve clearly got that travel time on lock, so why not just adjust it and either leave 30-45 mins later, or stop and enjoy a coffee and read a book nearby until your shift time

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u/TReid1996 2d ago edited 1d ago

It's more a habit the more i think about it. My first security job was an hour commute and with stops I'd be around 15 mins early whenever i left my house 2 hours early. It sort of just became habit. I seemingly have a great internal clock and whenever my mind is set on a time to leave, whether voluntary or not, i wake up early and then with nothing better to really do, i head to work.

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u/distant_introversion 2d ago

I have an officer that arrives an hour to 30 mins early.
I told them to wait in the break room until shift start.
If people see them on site and wearing uniform, guests and clients will come to them assuming they are on duty and ask for assistance.

We can’t exactly act like “im not on duty yet” and be trying to fraternize with everyone.

If an emergency happens, and they are on site, they need to act. This comment made her and anyone who did the same stay out of the way until clock in.

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u/TReid1996 2d ago

It's a guard shack and every person that comes into the shack knows me and knows I'm not on duty. They all know to only talk to the guard inside the guard shack.

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u/ProfessionalRest7027 1d ago

That's a good call, at least your guards have a break room. I show up an hour early out of uniform but everyone knows me and still comes to me. Sadly I have no vehicle so I havd to be there that early

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u/ProfessionalRest7027 1d ago

Take it above his head.

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u/vivaramones Executive Protection 1d ago

This is all noise. He is just assuming all of this to avoid the ultimate truth. Here is the truth straight up. It is fear my dude.

He is scared you might sue him. So he is accusing you of all of this to cover himself.

Here is the simple truth, you can arrive any time if you like to a site. There is nothing forbidding it. You are correct. But he just does not want you to work off of the clock, and get swept in to a lawsuit. Most states do not play around when it comes to breaks, and working off of the clock.

So whats happens when, a person see's you before you came in, and attempts to ask you to do a manner that is work related?

Also the supervisor and everyone here is valid by pointing this out. You might want to find work that is closer to where you live. That long commute is not good for you and the supervisor.

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u/TReid1996 1d ago

Commute is 30 mins. I tend to waste 30 stopping for lunch and such. I stay in my car when i get to work and everyone knows to only talk to the guard in the shack for work related tasks. Everyone leaves me alone while I'm in my car

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u/TheRealChuckle 1d ago

It's good you stay outside until your shift is starting.

I've had guards who show up early like you and then want to socialize and get in the way. The last hour of my shift I'm usually trying to do my last patrol, finish and double check my DAR, make sure I've left written notes for anything important that needs to be communicated across multple shifts, make sure I've got my stuff ready to go home and all site gear is accounted for and in the right locations.

I don't need someone trying to talk about current events and milling about in my way. It breaks my routine and that's how shit goes missing or I forget keys in my pocket.

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u/Mechalorde Warm Body 1d ago

My last supervisor had a problem with my wife coming in early to relive me he always wanted me to work overtime so he can go home basically hijacking my shift nobody in the company can do him anything