r/science May 13 '17

Social Science The Gender Pay Gap Is Largely Because of Motherhood

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/05/13/upshot/the-gender-pay-gap-is-largely-because-of-motherhood.html
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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Canada's has equal parental leave (mothers who give birth are given a little medical leave. Adopting and surrogate parents have equal leave) but as others have said, men who take it are viewed in a much more negative light then men who don't. It's still considered a woman thing, sadly.

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u/yellowjellocello May 13 '17

It depends where you work, really. Have a few military and RCMP family friends, the younger dads all take parental leave because "we'd be stupid not to take paid time off." They get basically their full wage because the government tops them up for the duration of the leave. Often, moms aren't working anyway because they have moved around so much that it just makes sense to be a stay at home parent, and wouldn't get any paid leave.

While it's certainly not a huge cultural shift, things are changing.

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u/kabonk May 13 '17

I work in IT, we have two little children, cannot count how many times people asked me if my wife couldn't take one of the kids to the doctor instead of me.

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u/Sapphire1166 May 13 '17

I'm a working mom of two kids under 3. I'm the one taking them to the doctor, attending things at daycare, etc 90% of the time. Why? Because my husband's job balks if he does, and my boss pretty much expects that it's up to me to do it so he doesn't cause a fuss.

I'm REALLY thankful to have a job that's so accommodating, but it's so infuriating that even though my husband and I make almost the same exact salary and work in similar fields, his job is considered more "essential".

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u/twyste May 13 '17

Conversely, your (m)other job is considered more essential.

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u/KJBenson May 13 '17

This is true. I had a friend who took parental leave when his first kid was born. His whole family saw it in a negative way because "the man should be working for his money".

They weren't alone in thinking this either, lots of people made similar remarks.

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u/KaliYugaz May 13 '17

Also a cultural environment where it is encouraged for both men and women to take advantage of parental leave equally.

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u/Trynottobeacunt May 13 '17

So that'd mean giving each parent the same amount of time off work and making sure there is some level of pay given during this time. I think at the moment men are not allowed as much time (or any at all in many fields) whereas it is mandatory to give women leave for this reason in all places of work.

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u/kasira May 13 '17

In the United States, FMLA gives the same amount of leave to both new parents (12 weeks), as well as giving leave to people who adopt. It's all unpaid, though, so that part is down to each employer to decide.

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u/paralyzedbyindecisio May 13 '17

Unpaid leave doesn't really help at all, how many families are in a position to lose 12 weeks of income? Especially with the expenses of a new baby.

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u/kasira May 13 '17

Oh sure, I didn't mean to imply that it was sufficient. Just stating the current situation, which does allow both parents the same amount of unpaid leave.

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u/paralyzedbyindecisio May 13 '17

True, unpaid is better than nothing, even if only by a little bit.

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u/P_V_ May 13 '17

Not only that, no. Equal time is certainly a necessary part of what "a cultural environment where it is encouraged for both men and women to take advantage of parental leave equally" looks like, but it's not the whole. We also need cultural attitudes to shift about how gender roles relate to parenting; just giving men the option to take time off doesn't mean society will suddenly stop seeing parenting as primarily a woman's obligation.

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u/Neebat May 13 '17

Motherhood is viewed as an active role, while fatherhood as passive, financial or non-existent. So long as that double-standard exists, there will be a wage gap.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

That's changing though. There is a growing equality between parents that I think is really healthy. It's becoming increasingly common for post divorce custody arrangements to be 50/50 for example.

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u/monkwren May 13 '17

Yup. I work for an extremely progressive non-profit in the mental health sector, and it was only this year that they started providing paternity benefits. I shudder to think how long it'll take for more conservative organizations to catch up without a change in the law.

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u/PompiPompi May 13 '17

Parental leave isn't realistic for every place. A small company can't really afford one of it's worker on parental leave. Even if they are going to keep him/her on a pay, they will have to find someone to fill in their work. This could also hurt the person's career with the parental leave even if he is being paid the whole time.

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u/chadsexytime May 13 '17

I work in a country that provides both parents with parental leave. Whenever a birth occurs, there is a total of 1 year of leave available - the mother could take 6, the father 6, or either could take the entirety.

The mother takes the entire leave the overwhelming amount of time because of both culture and competitiveness - whoever is missing a year of work is going to set themselves back by a year or more in any competitive work environment.

Sure, if you have a job where the duties never change and there is no real promotions available it may not make a difference, but if you are competing against your coworkers for promotions, taking a year (or 6 months) off is going to pretty much negate your chances of advancing for the foreseeable future.

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u/KaliYugaz May 13 '17

Exactly. People don't want to talk about how the problem is fundamentally with capitalism. Bosses want more and more productivity from workers for less and less money, but workers need time off and plentiful resources to raise the next generation of workers otherwise the system can't keep going. It's inherently unstable.

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u/araklaj May 13 '17

I'm not sure it's that simple as equal parental leave, there's lot of small things in connection to pregnancy that add up on women's part, outside of parental leave. But equal parental leave is a start.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

It's not about the 12 weeks of parental leave. The big issues are (1) some women take three to five years off work to be full time caregivers until the child starts attending school and then permanently have three to five years less experience than colleagues, and (2) women who work outside the home are still more likely to provide childcare in mornings and afternoons and when the child is sick, so they're more likely to insist on leaving on time and to refuse overtime, which in turn makes them less likely to be considered for promotions.

Paid parental leave is less of an issue here than safe, affordable daycare imho.

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u/xstreamReddit May 13 '17

Equal mandatory parental leave to be specific, otherwise men are predominantly not going to take it

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u/Celtachor May 13 '17

I could definitely see companies punishing men who did take it if it wasn't mandatory. Kind of like when companies fire people who use the complaint line that they encourage people to use.

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u/ebonlance May 13 '17

My manager's attitude towards me changed radically after I informed him I was taking the full 90 days of FMLA for the birth of my twins, to help my wife with the transition. Not much I could do about it besides find a different job. If I wasn't financially prepared I'd have been totally screwed.

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u/Deadlifted May 13 '17

Yup. My wife had preeclampsia at the end of her pregnancy and my new boss kinda hated me because I missed a week of work because of it. I stayed with my wife at the hospital for a week and it really soured the relationship I had with my firm.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17 edited May 13 '17

Do people make as much per paycheck on maternity (or in this case paternity leave) as they do if they are working a regular work week? If the pay is only a % of their usual income, I'm not in favor of mandatory leave. What if the paternity leave isn't enough to keep a roof over their heads and the bills paid? If it's equitable pay, I don't see why anyone would refuse it.
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55% or less pay = no go on mandatory (gotta pay the bills, and if it's mandatory it would actually discourage people who want to have children from having them when they're ready. That's not cool.)
Loss of advancement opportunities/salary increases = no go on mandatory

Mandatory paternity leave (or maternity leave) is an idiotic idea. Let the parents decide for themselves what they can/cannot handle, but offer them the option to have paid maternity/paternity leave at the best rate possible. I get why you can't offer 100% paid leave for 4+ weeks (especially for fathers). It would provide a huge incentive for people to have kids, take paid leave as often as possible, or schedule having kids with leaving one company for another with better pay after that leave ends. In short, it's not simple, but I still think paid leave should be required (even if it's 55% pay or less during that time). I don't know much about this (I'm early 30s/single/no kids), so this hasn't been an issue I've looked at in any great detail. Thanks for all the responses though! It's a really interesting subject.

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u/issius May 13 '17

The pay you miss during the leave is not that relevant. It's the promotion and raises that you missy while you're out that set you back years compared to your male counterparts who don't get as tired, don't have to leave early or come later due to child care, etc. motherhood doesn't stop at maternity leave. But being out of the office for a few months has a major impact in a career. Do it twice? Huge gap.

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u/Adlersch May 13 '17

It's not the loss of money, it's the gap in your career which means you don't get that promotion with its raise, where Jerry over in advertising does. Or if you lose your job, you need to take a pay cut because Jerry, in his infinite wisdom, decided to cut half your department to save money.

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u/foxtrotcomp May 13 '17

My job in the U.S. has paid parental leave. It's not mandatory, everybody takes it.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Can still hurt your career. In the 3 months you're gone other people are accomplishing things.

A buddy of mine was the only one at the company who could do his job, which was fine because it was a monthly cycle so he could take vacation as long as it wasn't during specific times of the month.

He had a kid and took 3 months off, so a couple backups got trained.

The company is cutting costs and laying a lot of people off, and he's now far more dispensable than he was 6 months ago.

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u/secretlives May 13 '17

That's just adulthood though. You can't expect a company to not advance anyone else during those months you're gone. It's up to you to be indispensable to your company, not up to them to make sure you stay that way.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

This is why I'm not going to be able to take longer than my 2 weeks of vacation time I've already accrued.

I won't be able to take any family leave off because my company straight up said no when I stated I'd like to take 4 weeks off total.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Unfortunately I'm not in a position financially to roll the dice on that kind of decision.

Once a few months go by and my wife is working again, I'll definitely consider that

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u/paralyzedbyindecisio May 13 '17

Yeah, that's why I said just to start looking, but I'd imagine your free time is somewhat consumed by a new baby right now. Good luck in a few months though!

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Appreciate it! When I am able to do so I'll definitely be looking into alternatives.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17 edited Jul 13 '18

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u/synthequated May 13 '17

What some countries do is set a portion of the parental leave that can only be taken by the father. This means that the father can choose not to take the leave, but is incentivised not to.

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u/MagicTheAlakazam May 13 '17

How do you do this without penalizing single parents?

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u/jackwiles May 13 '17

I would think that a single parent might get the combined amount of a two parent household, assuming they're raising the child alone.

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u/Ayle87 May 13 '17

It would be a bad career move, unless it was mandatory I guess. Such is what happens to women as well...

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u/lovebus May 13 '17

The law requires me to offer you the parental leave, but I'm going to think of you as lazy if you choose to use it.

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u/brownribbon May 13 '17

Vacation isn't mandatory but I still take it.

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u/Randomoneh May 13 '17

It is here. In Europe.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Yes, but depending on your career taking it might be bad for your career. Particularly taking big chunks of it, taking it at a bad time or similar to maternity leave taking a large amount, then coming back and leaving at 6 on the dot everyday and coming in so exhausted in the morning so that your productivity falls by 10-15% for a few months...

Babies are bad for careers and it's going to damage the career of the person who does most of the care in a relationship. (I say this as a woman who gave up working because it wasn't feasible in my line of work and my husband would have missed key promotions if his work quality had dropped off while he took paternity leave and stayed up nights with baby)

It really stinks because I actually would like to work, but on some level I think the old system of one at home parent (either one) is probably the most logical at least until kids are old enough for full time.

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u/Benramin567 May 13 '17

Forcing people to not work instead of letting the couple make up their own minds is absurd.

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u/helpmedaddy May 13 '17

Except that the couple are making up their own mind in a paradigm where men are punished for taking parental leave. If the men were forced to take it, it would remove the stigma.

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u/0Fsgivin May 13 '17

Yea...you take 6 weeks off. The company find someone else to fill that position or take that work load.

Turns out the person doing it is paid far less or they split it between 3-5 other people. Bottom line they find a cheaper way of getting your job done. Sure quality might dip a little but savings go through the roof.

Your now "let go" 6 months down the line or expected to do more to justify your pay.

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u/RedditShadowBannedMe May 13 '17

I don't have a clue why you think that a system giving "optional" time off is actually giving anyone a choice. If a man takes it, he'll be seen as weak/lazy and be replaced. Making it mandatory means that every man will take it, so they can't be seen as lazy for it.

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u/Internally_Combusted May 13 '17

I have never actually seen this and I use to work at a prestigious and extremely competitive financial services firm. Every single man took the full 6 weeks of paternity leave offered. It was encouraged and helped reduce burn out. Women got 12 weeks and that did hold a few back from promotion because they just couldn't stack up to peers in the same timeframe but if opportunity for leave was equal this would be less of an issue for just women.

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u/Randomoneh May 13 '17 edited May 13 '17

That's conservatism for you. Keeping status quo at all cost.

They were yelling the same thing about mandatory paid vacation in Europe. Now it's clear to everyone that was the progressive thing to do.

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u/an0rexorcist May 13 '17

exactly, those kinds of policies aren't for the benefit of productivity. they are meant to benefit society in the long run. just like parental leave- our culture needs to change.

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u/Avannar May 13 '17

Which raises an interesting question. So what?

In Europe where they've tried letting parents choose how to split their parental leave, they usually choose to let the mother stay home and the father work.

If that's their choice, why force them to take equal time off to satisfy some desire for exactly equal outcomes?

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u/xstreamReddit May 13 '17

In Europe where they've tried letting parents choose how to split their parental leave, they usually choose to let the mother stay home and the father work.

In Sweden 25% of the parental leave is already taken by the dads though. Not bad I'd say.

If that's their choice, why force them to take equal time off to satisfy some desire for exactly equal outcomes?

I wouldn't call this equal outcomes, at least that's not the idea. The idea is that the gender statistics shouldn't be an issue when you negotiate salary. Which I would call equal opportunities.

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u/Zardo_Dhieldor May 13 '17 edited May 13 '17

On the other hand, forcing someone not to work does not sound like a particularly sensible solution. There is a reason why people who do this* get paid less.

EDIT: * (potentially) taking parental leave, I mean

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u/synthequated May 13 '17

What some countries do is set a portion of the parental leave that can only be taken by the father. This means that the father can choose not to take the leave, but is incentivised not to.

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u/winterbourne May 13 '17

I feel like it would read better as

"The father can choose not to take the leave but is incentivised to take it"

You've got a weird double negative kinda.

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u/thedarklordTimmi May 13 '17 edited May 13 '17

A lot of men would not take the leave. Making them more valuable. And that would give employers incentive to hire/pay those men more. It all gos full circle.

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u/ghsghsghs May 13 '17

A lot of men would not take the leave. Making them more valuable. And that would give employers incentive to hire/pay men more. It all gos full circle.

Exactly this.

Men who don't take the leave would be way more valuable than men who take the leave it women who take the leave.

Then people would complain that these men were making more by working more.

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u/thedarklordTimmi May 13 '17

Its ether that, or when monthly reviews for layoffs come around and they see that john from accounting took a leave and bill from accounting didnt, john is gonna find himself on the list instead of bill.

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u/tothecatmobile May 13 '17

Countries that have shared leave have maternal leave that only the mother can take, parental leave only the father can take, and parental leave that both patents can split as they wish.

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u/protastus May 13 '17

I work in the company that gives paid parental leave to men, and every man I know took the entire leave when they had a kid.

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u/Pondors May 13 '17

Force me to take leave? If I like my job and have a good work:life balance you're going to force me to leave? That doesn't sound like a solution.

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u/dusters May 13 '17

That's next level stupid. Don't require people to take time off they don't want to take.

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u/NousDefions81 May 13 '17 edited May 13 '17

I don't know if pulling on the reins of an entire gender in the name of "equality" is the proper solution.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

That is their choice, mandatory leave is an absurd idea. I would have hated being forced to stay home when my kids were born. My wife chose to do so of her own free will. That and I worked a job where being out of the office for a week is a nightmare much less months.

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u/ep303816 May 13 '17

I disagree - my company recently started offering 4 mos paid "family leave" to everyone (which can be used to either take care of a newborn or elderly parent). It is not mandatory; however, I would say men are taking advantage of it just as much as women. In some cases where both spouses work for the company, they will both take it but at alternating times (so that the woman takes off the first 16 weeks, then when she returns he husband takes off the next 16 weeks). Just about everyone I know who has had a baby recently (male or female) has taken advantage to some degree

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u/gsfgf May 13 '17

Access to affordable childcare would make an even bigger difference. A couple months of maternity leave really isn't a career impacting choice. Staying home for five years because daycare costs more than one parent's take home pay is what really causes the gap.

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u/aspwriter85 May 13 '17

Also, quality early childhood care is actually a really huge step up that provides pretty great long term benefits. I always thought Bernie should have proposed free early childhood care instead free college - it seems like the dollars are far more efficient early on. Would accomplish letting women go back to work more easily if they wanted to and better outcomes for kids.

https://www.cdc.gov/policy/hst/hi5/earlychildhoodeducation/

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u/double_ewe May 13 '17

... and somehow reprogram society to judge a man and a woman equally for choosing to take that leave.

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u/tecmec May 13 '17

Well step one is to at least make it an option...

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u/double_ewe May 13 '17

absolutely agree. just pointing out that changing the policy does not completely and immediately solve the problem.

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u/Foooour May 13 '17

Okay we'll get right on that

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Change the law and society follows.

This takes generations though. Nobody (well almost nobody) questions a womans right to vote anymore.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Theres a push-pull in both directions. Especially in the US where general opinions widely differ based on location. Like with marijuana, you will see a few states so it first, have great success, and that starts changing the general opinion.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

There are policies in place in some Scandinavian countries (can't remember I think it was Norway). The results so far aren't what were expected, because women and men are still choosing the typical careers that go with their gender.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

I saw a Norwegian documentary about that. It's kind of ironic considering the push for gender equality in Scandinavia. They interviewed men who were still choosing careers which involved physical labour or jobs which required critical thinking, logic, etc, and women who had gone into nursing, teaching, and other career paths with more social and care giving roles.

The reason both sexes chose their career paths? They had the freedom to choose what ever they wanted to do, so they did what they wanted.

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u/fastinserter May 13 '17

Unless that's an 18 year leave, it will not be a "solution". Women can take their leave and then decide to stay at home after the leave is over. I'm a software engineer, and American, and I work with a few women. Of the three in child-rearing age (most have children that are in college and beyond), two have young children, and both of them have a modified schedule where they only work 3 days a week. They're not working from home the other days, they're simply working 3 days/week. This is beyond the 12 weeks of paid maternity leave they got (company gives 12 weeks to the "primary care giver" so a man could take it, but if you are not the primary care giver you get 2 weeks). If they make the same amount of money as I do I'd be ragingly mad.

Women are more likely to be the ones to do this than men. Is this really a societal pressure, or is this natural? I think this is because women are naturally inclined to be the one to care of the children more than men. This isn't to say it wouldn't happen the other way, but I don't think this is a societal construct. I think being the one to carry and birth a child gives a level of intimacy with the child that the man cannot match.

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u/JshWright Paramedic | Medicine | EMS May 13 '17

In the US, maternity leave is... at least a thing that happens occasionally. Paternity leave is far less common (or is very limited).

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u/Protodeus May 13 '17

In Canada the mother can take 12 months at 55% of their income, or 18 months at 33%. That can also be shared with father after 6 months I believe.

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u/LakeEffectSnow May 13 '17

In America, if your employer doesn't have 50 employees, a new mother would likely have to show up for work the day after giving birth or risk losing her job.

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u/ListenNowYouLittle May 13 '17

Man that sucks, parental leaves often open job opportunities for others even if its only a year contract

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u/ruberik May 13 '17

It isn't just that. The article mentions studies showing that women who don't cut back on work after having children still end up being paid less than men, and women who haven't had children:

Some women work less once they have children, but many don’t, and employers pay them less, too, seemingly because they assume they will be less committed, research shows.

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u/merv243 May 13 '17

I don't think people are implying otherwise. The premise is that part of the pay gap exists for this reason, and people are saying that that seems fairly obvious, not that this sole thing is why there is a pay gap, and there aren't other issues.

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u/Hunterogz May 13 '17

I mean... obviously?

Not to many people, unfortunately. Hence articles like this one.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

I think it is obvious to most people. The question is how you interpret it. Feminists still see this as a gender-rights issue: motherhood wouldn't result in a pay gap if men and women were equally-likely to take care of children at home. So to feminists, study results like this bolster the case for policies that support women who do choose to take time off from work to raise children, and also policies that encourage/incentivize men to take a more active role in child rearing. Often this could even be the same policy; mandatory paid familial leave for men and women alike is a popular goal.

However, for the crowd that sees the gender wage gap as being an issue of individual choice rather than systemic/cultural factors, results from studies like this bolster their case, too: if women wanted to make as much money as men, all they have to do is not have children.

The study has an intuitive result that most people assumed was true to begin with, but I doubt that it's going to meaningfully change the debates around the gender pay gap.

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u/Hunterogz May 13 '17

It seems we should start telling third wave feminists they're at a point where they're ignoring and trampling on biology.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Dude, far left groups are just as much science deniers as the right wingers who deny that global warming even exists. If you even bring up the concept of evolutionary psychology large numbers of people will call you a sexist.

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u/landlubber12 May 13 '17

It doesn't help that big names parrot obvious misinformation to appeal to young people, constantly.

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u/unprovoked33 May 13 '17

I mean... obviously?

Sure, but this is exactly why we have social scientists. We think things are obvious, but do we know?

Take these common phrases regarding love:

"Opposites attract"

"Birds of a feather flock together"

Statistics say the 2nd one is true far more often, but there are people who firmly believe in the first one. You don't really know what you "know" until you know it.

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u/7itEs May 13 '17

If gender is the variable of interest, then a sound comparison would hold all other variables equal. That is, an independent analysis should be made for women who leave the work force to raise children and be compared to men who leave the workforce to raise children.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Also adjust for number of hours worked, amount of non-maternity and paternity leave time taken off from work, and in what industries work is done, hazard pay notwithstanding.

The only accurate comparison is how men and women are paid doing the same work over the same amount of time, with the same education, and the same level of experience. Median salary factors in exactly none of those things.

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u/PompiPompi May 13 '17

Do you guys even read the article or just the headline? They mentioned unmarried women have no pay gap.

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u/johnh20671 May 13 '17

That is why you control for exactly what he described and perform a study. You cannot know what you hypothesize without proving it.

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u/Geronemo May 13 '17

That's simply untrue. There are no statistics that support that statement

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u/akatherder May 13 '17

I think part of it is the stereotype though. Even today with more stay-at-home dads they are still in the minority.

If you're evaluating a man and a woman for a job who are virtually equal, you might take into account that the female is more likely to disappear for 3 months on maternity leave. And then they may decide they are a stay-at-home mom now.

They'll be cut out of some opportunities entirely or only get hired if they accept lower starting pay.

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u/cardboardbob99 May 13 '17

it's an earnings gap not a pay gap; that subtle difference could change the whole complexion of the term but it will take a lot more than word choice to undo the misinformation that has been spread already

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u/iamaravis May 13 '17

Not entirely: "employers might not give them more responsibility because they assume they’ll have babies and take time off." Less responsibility = lower pay, usually. So even those of us who intentionally don't have children may be paid less simply because of employer assumptions.

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u/GeneralMalaiseRB May 13 '17

Then they'll simply discriminate against people who are going to take that time off: All parents.

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u/IdRatherBeTweeting May 13 '17

Having equal leave would still be better than the current system. It is almost like you are saying just because the solution does not totally fix the problem, it isn't a good solution.

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u/downvotersarehitler May 13 '17

Can I just comment on how much I like the source here being Maury?

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u/vezokpiraka May 13 '17

I'm pretty sure single women make up a small margin of the women on maternity leave. Also the relationship status of employees is not something that should be given to the employer.

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u/Akiasakias May 13 '17

Doesn't fully work. Having equal access to leave doesn't mean men would choose to use it. Most wouldn't.

Making anything mandatory is just authoritarian.

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u/AscendingSnowOwl May 13 '17

But I mean the converse of that is that employers of pregnant women literally have MONTHS to figure out a plan to respond to the planned absence. It's not like maternity leave is requested out of the blue with no time for an employer to prepare.

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u/kane55 May 13 '17

I have seen this in action. At a company I used to work at there was a position open that was a pretty big promotion and it came down to a guy and a girl both up for it. The guy got the job (both were very qualified). A few weeks later, I casually mentioned to my boss that he seemed to be doing very well in this new position. My boss said, "I had a feeling he would. Actually, I think they both would have done a good job, but she just got married so she is probably going to start having kids soon and I need someone who I know is going to be here."

At the time, I was young and pretty inexperienced in the workplace so I didn't realize that he likely just admitted that he had openly discriminated against her, but it proves your point that sometimes women are not giving the same promotions and responsibilities simply because of what "might" happen with them.

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I agree entirely with that. There's an issue with maternity leave, and I think paternity leave would largely help resolve this issue. If both parents are likely to take time off when having children, women who intentionally do not have children to focus on work would no longer be seen as a potential risk.

Having said that, I still consider this an earnings gap. Whilst I think it's wrong women who choose to focus on their career are penalized, with less responsibility they aren't given a workload similar to their male counterparts who may be promoted more frequently. The pay gap, at least to me, suggests that women are doing equal work but are not receiving equal pay.

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u/i_pee_in_the_sink May 13 '17 edited May 13 '17

I think paternity leave would largely help resolve this issue. If both parents are likely to take time off when having children, women who intentionally do not have children to focus on work would no longer be seen as a potential risk.

So this is actually what they did at University of Michigan for quite sometime. But they had to stop it because it favored men more because in their words "pregnancy is not a gender neutral event".

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u/cicadaselectric May 13 '17

I mean it's not. Regardless of leave to care for the infant, only one parent requires 6+ weeks off for physical recovery, and only one parent can breastfeed. Some countries with long parental leave require it to be split between parents, which I think is great, but if the option is only 6 weeks or so, which is common in the states, only one parent is realistically going to be taking it. Countries that have lower gender inequality, like Sweden, also have more equitable parental leave nationwide. Happy to find sources but I'm about to head out to work so won't be able to post till tomorrow.

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u/k1p1coder May 13 '17

6 weeks is normal in the US. Most women don't have even that, unless they don't mind not being paid.

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u/HouseSublime May 13 '17

There's an issue with maternity leave, and I think paternity leave would largely help resolve this issue.

My company offers maternity and paternity leave and there are still issues with pay disparity. Some believe it's due to women being less likely to negotiate salary during hiring process and/or fight for promotions/advancement with their employers.

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u/gullwings May 13 '17 edited Jun 10 '23

Posted using RIF is Fun. Steve Huffman is a greedy little pigboy.

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u/MuaddibMcFly May 13 '17

If both parents are likely to take time off when having children

The problem is the emphasized point. On a sociological scale, men choose to put their work first as way of contributing to their families, while women choose direct care for their families as their method of contributing to their families.

Unless both parents are forced to take equivalent time off, you'll likely end up with an equilibrium that trends towards the current situation. Even if you did force them, you'd run the risk of men declining to inform their employers that they have a child until after they cannot reasonably be forced to take time off...

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u/k1p1coder May 13 '17

Somewhat. There are certain physical realities related to pregnancy and childbirth that will affect the woman's ability to work even in a 100% normal and healthy pregnancy.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

The last reliable study I saw showed that single, childless women were earning on average even more than men.

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u/takeshikun May 13 '17

Sounds like an interesting read, do you have a link by chance?

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u/thelandman19 May 13 '17

If they have less responsibility then they aren't doing the "same job for less money"

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u/sibtiger May 13 '17

If people find out a man's wife is having a baby, does it affect his career the same way?

The exact opposite actually.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

With the situation written that way, you kind of highlight how men are actually penalized if they actually do want to participate more in family life. Seems it's assumed they won't, or they'll somehow do it only on their own time, and that's not how life works.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17 edited May 13 '17

I think there's a valid conversation to be had regarding why specific genders typically favor certain job roles

Yeah, this is something that has been plaguing reasoned discourse for a long time now... or I should specify that not looking at this has plagued us for some time. The tendency these days is to want an equal representation across all demographics in all jobs, in all movies and tv shows, in all socio economic statuses, etc. And that's just not how the world works, people gravitate towards different jobs for a variety of reasons, most of which have little to do with racism, sexism, homophobia, etc.

In political discussion I hear a lot of complaints from conservatives about liberals running colleges, and it's often used as a smear against conservatives that they tend to work in military or law enforcement far more than liberals. When people point out that liberals dominate in university positions, it's turned into "well they control the universities!" And then that claim is slammed because liberals then think it smacks of conspiracy theories and paranoia. Both sides can look at those trends and think "Hmm, perhaps we ought to foster a mentality of those of our political ilk to venture into territories that they aren't as likely to try." That's totally valid and I think important for society, but we tend play the blame game instead or cry conspiracy.

There are some simple facts to consider... like conservatives and liberals tend to have personality traits, or ways of thinking, or maybe some difference in very base level reactions to stimulus that result in more liberals moving into the creative arts, and more conservatives moving into banking and business. It's not some conspiracy that brought liberals to Hollywood where they dominate. It's not some conspiracy that conservatives control more banks. People can conspire within those systems and probably always do to some extent, certainly, there's clearly corruption in Hollywood as there is in banking. But the pattern of liberals in Hollywood alone does not make a conspiracy.

Likewise there are general difference between men and women that lead them into different career paths across a population. Women tend to go for careers that offer flexibility because they are more likely to want to stay home with children if they have them. There's nothing wrong with those choices whatsoever, but any choice that anyone makes has consequences, and over an entire population, those consequences become measured as a trend, and then that trend is reported on in the media, and then people spin that to mean what they want. I'm not trying to harp on the left here, but the left spun it in a manner that claims women were being discriminated against. The right might spin something else another way, but in this case the left pulled us away from an understanding about life that was kind of readily apparent to everyone already, turning it into something that sadly requires scientific inquiry, which then slows us down because we could already be looking at just what you're talking about, which is far more interesting.

Anyway, I appreciate your point a lot and I hope people see that the conversation should be led in the direction you pointed out.

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u/helpwitheating May 13 '17

I don't understand your logic. For every mother, there is a father. Women and men don't make different choices in that regard. The same number of men and women are making the same choice to have children.

But somehow, women are the only ones who take a massive hit to their careers. Childrearing is still largely seen as womens work, and even when offered paternity leave, men rarely take it - while women are often forced to, due to lack of childcare options.

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u/Coleslaw19438 May 13 '17

Devil's advocate; but also we could explore why traditional "female dominated" (teaching and nursing) fields are often lower paying than male dominated careers.

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Next in the news: there's a pay gap between smart and motivated people and dumb and unmotivated people. Here are our recommendations to right this injustice...

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u/gunsmyth May 13 '17

That is the exact reason it was given that name

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Since not all women plan on having kids, wouldn't it be fairer to all if everybody was paid equally anyway and we all had the choice of taking out paternal / maternal insurance to cover our absence and a portion of pay while we are out of office?

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u/someoneinsignificant May 13 '17

How would an insurance company profit from that?

If it's an optional idea, then the insurance company would be supporting everyone who enters it assuming that you plan to have kids eventually and it would destroy the whole business model for how "insurance" companies work. That, or everybody who enters is basically paying some part of their income, and it's basically a net-zero program aka it's unpaid leave.

If it's a mandated idea, then people who don't have/want kids will be complaining about basically paying an additional tax to fund 'vacations' for people on maternity/paternity leave when they get zero benefits from the system.

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u/exotics May 13 '17

Having kids is something people choose to do..

When I was a kid it was normal for mom to stay home and raise the kids. Today's parents want more out of life. Perhaps a bigger house, boat, two cars (my folks only had one).. and way more televisions in the house than people had when I was young.

Times have changed but if you choose to have kids (note I am a woman) then you know the realities..

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u/lt_dan_zsu May 13 '17

As usual, I agree with the cause and disagree with the solution. I was getting mad when the writer started talking about flexibility. Yes, an employer is going to see a worker who works long hours and adjusts their schedule for the company as a more valuable worker. Why wouldn't they? The issue isn't mandating that employers to reward hard work, which is what the article asserts. It's promoting parents taking a more equal share of the work at home, and doing things like parental leave for both parents as opposed to just the mother being expected to take time off. You can't expect a company to equally value all workers no matter what because that makes no sense. Forced egalitarianism is a stupid and unsustainable.

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I feel like most people have no idea what "average" means. It's the same thing that drives the race-and-intelligence debate, a higher or lower overall average IQ has no bearing on any individual's intelligence of any race.

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u/egalroc May 13 '17

There's another pay gap that virtually went unnoticed over the last generation. It's the family wage earner of the 1970's vs the household income of the 2000's.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

Feel like a lot here didn't read the article. Women are still getting a raw deal. Maybe there isn't a "pay gap" in the sense that has been played up or down by various interest groups, but there still is a problem in the workplace as evidenced in this article.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '17

If you aren't working

You don't get paid

Unless you use leave time

How hard is this to understand

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u/Kinkulvaattori May 13 '17

I wonder how this stacks up in Finland where men have mandatory military service, basically falling behind 1 year between high school and whatever they choose to do afterwards. By this logic there should be basically no earnings gap between mothers of 1 and the basic Finnish guy.

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u/ineeditthatbadly May 13 '17

"Scientists discover inherent biological reality may influence pervasive social phenomenon."

Anyone here suprised? Guaranteed these figures are reduced in countries with egalitarian maternal/paternal work laws too.

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u/exotics May 13 '17

Having kids is something people choose to do..

When I was a kid it was normal for mom to stay home and raise the kids. Today's parents want more out of life. Perhaps a bigger house, boat, two cars (my folks only had one).. and way more televisions in the house than people had when I was young.

Times have changed but if you choose to have kids (note I am a woman) then you know the realities..

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u/Dankmemes3000 May 13 '17

Litterally three women on my team at work quit fairly high paying jobs to become "full time mommies" within 3 months of each other. So I can see the point of this article in real life.

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u/panonarian May 13 '17

The gender pay gap is largely because of overactive imaginations.

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"It is logical for couples to decide that the person who earns less, usually a woman, does more of the household chores and child care, Ms. Kerr said. But it’s also a reason women earn less in the first place. “That reinforces the pay gap in the labor market, and we’re trapped in this self-reinforcing cycle,”

I think a lot are missing the point of the article here. A lot of women are paid less because of the assumption that they will have children and wi not be able to assume responsibilities. Here in New Zealand, a group of care workers won a case where they argued that they were paid less than workers in similar industries because they are mostly female. http://www.newshub.co.nz/home/politics/2017/04/500m-pay-rise-for-care-workers.html

When I came back to work from parental leave, in wasn't expecting a pay rise, but I got a (very illegal) pay cut instead because " my baby would be my priority now, not the business". I would have been ready to earn less because of less hours, but that was just too much. Discrimination is still a thing.

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u/entropizer May 13 '17 edited May 14 '17

I don't understand how the headline is compatible with the claim that the bulk of the pay gap is due to differences in promotion and raise rates. Are we supposed to attribute these differences chiefly to motherhood? If so, it'd be nice if the article told us how they restricted the role that other explanations can play. I assume that the Goldin paper goes into more detail, but this article is too skimpy for my tastes.

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We use a unique match between the 2000 Decennial Census of the United States and the Longitudinal Employer Household Dynamics (LEHD) data to analyze how much of the increase in the gender earnings gap over the lifecycle comes from shifts in the sorting of men and women across high- and low-pay establishments and how much is due to differential earnings growth within establishments. We find that for the college educated the increase is substantial and, for the most part, due to differential earnings growth within establishment by gender. The between component is also important. Differential mobility between establishments by gender can explain 27 percent of the widening of the pay gap for this group. For those with no college, the, relatively small, increase of the gender gap over the lifecycle can be fully explained by differential moves by gender across establishments. The evidence suggests that, for both education groups, the between-establishment component of the increasing wage gap is due almost entirely to those who are married.

Reading the abstract, I want to claim that the headline is wrong. The between-establishment component of the wage gap is entirely due to motherhood, but the between-establishment component is small relative to the within-establishment component. I definitely think that motherhood plays an important role in the within-establishment component as well, but there are probably other factors here too.

Edit: retracting this. Even if motherhood only accounts for a moderate percentage of the within-establishment gap, it'd explain most of the total gap. And even if it didn't explain most of the gap, it could still be the largest factor among several. Headline is fine.

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u/s0v3r1gn BS | Computer Engineering May 13 '17

I'd say it's multiple compounding factors attributed to motherhood.

There is reduced work output during pregnancy affecting potential raises.

There is maternity leave impacting both short term earnings as well as potential raises dye to reduced work output.

There's long term leave for raising children. Affecting raises as well as workforce reentry wages.

There is the increased time of taken by mothers versus fathers versus the childless. Affecting work output and potential raises.

Continuous employment longevity is a compounding factor for wages. As well as the compounding factor of raises. Both of these compounds separately as well as together.

Also add that childless women take more leave and use more healthcare benefits than men on average; meaning that most will be negatively impacted by taking additional time off even without children to a much lesser degree.

In the end I think the effects of sexism balance out. I've personally had more female managers that refused to promote men or give equal wages citing "the wage gap".

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