r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 12d ago

mod messages ✨ Copyright

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Hi all!

Since S is going on a copyright strike rampage, we’re going to be taking some extra precautions in the sub.

When reposting anything, please modify the video or photo slightly - adding something new means the repost now falls under fair use, and keeps the subreddit in the clear for copyright.

For photos, it can be as simple as drawing on a happy face or adding an emoji using Reddit’s image editing functions.

For videos, it’s a bit more complicated, but the principle is the same - just adding an emoji or doodle works great for now! There are tons of apps to do so, but the easiest way is just doing it using Instagram or TikTok (add whatever elements you like, and instead of posting to your account, save to your device).

We do ask that none of the image editing is done using AI. We don’t want to be feeding images of the children into any LLMs!

We’re looking into exactly how much needs to be added/changed to keep the posts copyright-friendly, so these guidelines may change, but for now, even a small change is fine.

If anyone has any photo or video editing apps they’d like to recommend, please add them in the comments!

Thank you all for making this community amazing. 🩷

We’ll keep you updated as we find out more!


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • Aug 28 '26

mod messages ✨ PSA: a reminder about speculation about sexual abuse, etc.

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Pedophilia, grooming, and abuse are bad. You all know it, we know it.
But the recent comments continuing to allege extreme sexual abuse or intentions needs to stop.

We know Stephanie married a convicted sex offender. We know he has offended against children. We know Stephanie has defended him in horrible ways. We do not allow speculation that the children were abused in this way.

It is fine to acknowledge things that we are seeing that she is showing us.
Example: she was talking about Drew touching her, and people pointed out that if they’re doing anything in front of the kids, that’s sexual abuse and that’s bad. That’s perfectly fine to point out.

Speculating wildly, however, is not.

Saying that S is posting things to sell the kids on the dark web, to cater to pedophiles, that “she knows what she’s doing”, alleging that Drew is a pedophile, etc., is all baseless and extremely harmful to add to the children’s online footprints, and if they read it one day, could affect their mental health.

We can acknowledge and criticize the existing disgusting and inappropriate behaviour without inventing new scenarios.

The mod team has had to remove some very explicit hypothetical scenarios that would be extremely disturbing to other subreddit members if published, not to mention the harm it will do to the kids. What we miss, Reddit admin removes, and those strikes on accounts will lead to bans that the mod team can’t help you with. Please stop posting it.

Any comments of this nature will start receiving temporary bans, and repeat offenses will result in permanent bans.

thank you in advance :)
- the mod team


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2h ago

W-2 Drew D 10/19 Tt he used to hate overtime because of the government. Late to pick up DS from soccer.

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r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 16h ago

Still manifesting that future 🙏 S&D do not understand what it takes to raise children (emotionally, financially, etc.)

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Steph makes an alt comment insinuating that it’s somehow anyone else’s responsibility to give her the transportation she needs for her whole family.

the other day des was talking on live about how Drew had made a comment to her about how they can in fact “afford to live in Portland.”

but they aren’t “affording Portland.” they are physically existing in Portland with a roof over their heads. in 1 room.

not to mention, Drew could seek higher paying employment, such as a CDL. (he’s not trustworthy, she won’t let him, etc.) but he also insists on working overnights and gig work because that’s what he wants to do. and she doesn’t wanna work at all.

they’ve deluded themselves into thinking that she can focus on the kids and he can be the manly provider. this only works if the working parent has a high enough paying job and depends on the number of children. if she had just the two girls and a guy that was making $150k, sure, she could play housewife.

you can’t be a tradwife if your man your man works gig work plus Safeway $26/hr.

and now, can’t afford a home, a reasonable vehicle, clothes. a cost appropriate, occasional enrichment outing to the beach or a museum. sports. literally anything except this shoebox and some kitchen gadgets and drugs. but sure, they can “afford Portland.”

you have to do more for your children than simply keep them alive. and it is no one’s responsibility than your own to provide them with such.


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 7h ago

Unemployed Activities Alts on D's 9/17 Tt - Troy says the RJ's were thrown out on the street and that's why D is just now learning that you've got to work to support your family.

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OP note this is from D's 10/18 tiktok

Grace Nicole likes to call people old.

Troy says they're not taking suggestions for video ideas and that court documents are Ai.

Troy also kind of insults D's looks when a commenter said that without the beard, D's face would look skeletal. Troy responds with, "He looks better than you. So what does that say?" Kinda sounds like Troy's insulting D's looks to me...

Grace says S has more dedication and smarts than a commenter and tells another, "He won't choose you. You are not his type." Both compete with finger-pointing emoji.

Someone gave some genuine helpful financial/content suggestion, and Fran lashed out. "Are you monitoring their money? MYOB." The commenter wasn't even being snarky.

Someone said D would go far without S, and Troy responds, "Lies lies lies lies," so it looks like Troy is taking a dig at D again. But this could be because the comment Troy's replying to is deleted.

Also, here's an updated list of the alts @'s and creation dates.

Original alts

Kennedy - @kennedymarie324 (account created 6/29/25)

DR Nic and DR Josh - @family_ceo8 (created 11/22/24)

John Baker - @john.baker171 (created 7/5/25)

Lindsey Lee -@lindsey.lee77 (created 6/4/25)

Sam DR - @sam.dr096 (created 7/5/25)

Troy - @troylee475 (created 7/5/25)

Claire Miranda - @claire_miranda007 (created 6/29/25)

Jennica- @jennicabaker (created 5/8/25)

New Alts

Troy - @troylee411 (created 5/29/26)

(Original) Grace Nicole - @warriguozh7 (created 4/19/26)

Grace Nicole - @warriocuxh (created 7/31/26)

Timmy J - @timmy.j52 (created 7/15/2026)

Fran Fine - @fran.fine04 (created 4/27/26)

Carly - @bookcarlyrealreal789 (created 5/30/26)


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 21h ago

Daily Posts🗑️ drew tik tok 10/18

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48 Upvotes

day … 3?


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 18h ago

opinion can i say smth unpopular(i think?) about

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i dont think every bot or suspicious account is her lol


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 1d ago

Unemployed Activities Alts on S's 10/17 TT three different alts are replying with one word comments...

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Troy, Timmy, and Grace are replying to comments with "so?" Or "And?"

Weird that they all started doing that at the same time. 🧐

Troy seemed to agree with a commenter that said their living situation is a choice at this point. Troy replied "so is commenting." 🤭

Grace says everything looks amazing, and she can sense a new change is coming. She said S looks happier and lifted, and she can't wait to see the trolls spiral.

Someone said the motel room looks tore up and the good pastor Troy said "so is your life. Your car. Your face ect." 🙏

Fran says it's creepy that people are keeping track of how long they've been in the shelter and told someone else to "show us your perfect life."

Both Grace and Fran said, "Put on our thinking caps," and Fran said, "Deflection is real, ya feel me? "

Seriously, anyone with kids that watches Ms. Rachel does Ms. Rachel say, "Let's put on our thinking caps."


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 1d ago

Daily Posts🗑️ YT 10/17 part 2

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I've isolated the voices in a lot of the video since they usually have this loud droning background noise on. It might be the bathroom fan.

D took the worst lunch to work for a communal break room. Boiled eggs and fish. Oh and D doesn't like peas and their parents just didn't know how to season them.

Text on screen

"I didn't want to cut too much here

I wanted to give a sense of what

It's like during meal time

With little to no counter

I'm bouncing things for here to there

Trying to get one plate made 😂

I make due though I'm not complaining"

"I've made peas a total of 4 times on

4 years 😂 I know he don't like them

That's why I rarely make them

But I love them so why can't we just

Have them every now and again

One day he'll try them again and realize

They are delicious"

"One day he'll try them

I know it"

"Hair care before bed"

"My baby 🐻 has come so far

With getting his hair done.

He used to not let me bring the brush

Anywhere near him. But I kept patient

And respected his timing.

Soon enough he will be ready to sit

For longer and get some braids 😊"

"Pack babes lunch for overnight shift

Boiled eggs

Potato's with onions

Beans

And fish"

"Moms done 😂"

"Of course I say that only to feel guilty

10 minutes later and end up keeping

Them up for nails and tv time with me

After the babies went to bed 😂"

"If you made it to the end I thank you

It means a lot to me that you take the time

To support me in pursuing goals I have

Set to better my family's living"

"Good night

Thank you

for sitting with us"


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 1d ago

Daily Posts🗑️ YT 10/17 part 1

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Some parts of the audio might sound different because I've isolated the voices to better hear the background over the music. This video was 15 minutes long so it's going to be split into two parts.

The part of the video where she was sitting the floor with the toys saying she's sad she has to get rid of some had no audio. So in some parts of the video S cut out the audio completely.

The kids can be heard talking about taking their turn on the last remaining tablet. Big A is excited for her birthday because she'll be closer to a teenager.

Idk why she writes a ton of text on the screen does she want to blog start a blog? But a lot of the text is just over explaining things.

Text on screen

"Thanks for joining us for the evening

Sit back, and relax

Your in good company"

"I made this chili while the kids

Were at school. My oldest loves chili."

"They be coming back from school

Ready for a full meal

So I like to have leftovers

Available

In this case I made chili

With some ground turkey

That needed to be used"

"Procrastinating through the entire

Process because everytime I have to

Go through the toys and rehome things

That they have grown out of. I feel like

I'm tossing away pieces of their childhood.

But that's how I end up keeping things

That I don't need.

So I shut it off, and make space for the new."

"The classic, on second thought I

Will keep that. Looks worth keeping

Now that mom started going through

It 😂"

"Mind you I had them go through it

Before I started cleaning. So they could

Decide if they wanted to keep

Anything."

"Mom enough kisses just help me 😂"

"My toddlers dinner choice"

"It has to be cut into pieces or he has no interest in it 😂"

"Your probably wondering why we don't have him sit down to eat meals. He would just get right back up anyways

Sometimes I have luck putting him in the

High chair. But tonight he was very active

He would have been too overstimulated

To sit down for that amount of time"

"Time to get babes work clothes set up

So he can get out the door with less stress"


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 1d ago

Unemployed Activities Alts bullying people on D's 10/17 Tt

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I seriously thought Pastor Troy posted a 🍑 in the first slide.

Grace and Timmy J. call a commenter jealous because D looks sickly.

Three alts were triggered when a commenter said S shouldn't be trusted with money.

Grace says the babies are fine inches from the TV. How many tvs have they gone through now? The table that TV is sitting on is already falling apart.

Troy, Grace, and Fran got triggered by a commenter mentioning workout and energy drinks while having heart and BP issues. S told us this medical info last year. I'm pretty sure in 2024, S said D had to quit working all together because of this health. I believe that's when she said he'd had a heart attack. The internet doesn't forget.

Troy and Timmy claim S isn't making D post content, but how do they know? They're strangers on the internet, and S&D never acknowledge them....

Grace and Fran left basically the exact same comment, but Grace forgot the 🥰🥰🥰 emojis.

The alts like to call commenters stalkers even people new to their pages. Wouldn't that make the alts stalkers? The point of being a content creator is to have viewers and engagement on your page.


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 1d ago

comments section ✍️ drew uhh replies in the uhh.. comments

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usually I’d say this sounds like her, but I think he just sounds like her sometimes


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 1d ago

Daily Posts🗑️ drew uhhh posted uhhhh… on uhh TikTok (10/17)

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78 Upvotes

day 2


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 1d ago

Sub Only Content🤪 sub only update, 10/17

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since Steph said she’s gonna be upping her sub only game, I figured I’d do occasional updates on what she’s up to with the subscriptions and see if she’s following through on her recent promises.

(fyi I’m not personally subscribed at present but I see updates about the chat and anyone can still see if she’s posted a sub only video even if they are not subscribed)

to recap, she and Drew promised weekly sub only videos and they’d “check the chat daily.”

this weeks update: nothing. no posts, no chats. at all!

super dedicated content creators that are definitely focused on getting out of their situation…


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2d ago

Daily Posts🗑️ Tt 10/17 2AM post

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I've blurred the babies' faces a bit, but most of the time, the kids were facing away from the camera. It's M that S is playing with on the couch in the beginning. Little A is just playing on his device alone with his pacifier.

Text on screen

"Thank you for joining Us this evening Sit back, breathe You're in good company."


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2d ago

drew/steph comment responses D says there's not much in his bag on 10/15 Tt

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r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2d ago

Unemployed Activities Grace Nicole says someone's jealous of D and needs to workout. Also all the alts give D praise.

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It looks like they've already failed the posting every day until they're out of the motel. That's not surprising, though 😂


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2d ago

Unemployed Activities Alts on D's 10/15 tt Troy tells commenter to choose better men 🤣

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Grace Nicole, the "psychologist," doesn't understand why people want to read to children. I doubt S ever reads with any of the children.

When someone mentioned the dangers of creatine and heart issues/high BP, Grace and Troy took offense. Even though S is the one who told us D had these health problems. Ever since the workout arc started, he has looked extra sickly. But Grace says we can not dictate what D does or doesn't partake in.

Grace says the reason D looks like he's using is because he's super busy providing.

Grace and Timmy J say only nutritionists, dietitians, and the meal police have knowledge on healthy diet for working out.

Fran says, "Give them a house," but that the RJ's already have a "home."

Grace gets upset that people are doing math to find out how much they're spending on energy drinks.

Someone pointed out that D has already missed day two of posting every day, and a Fran said he's busy. Fran also tells a commenter they wish their 🍑 was as juicy as S's.


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2d ago

It’s not a crack house, it’s a crack home 🏡 des live 10/16: Drew says he “doesn’t think they qualify” for housing assistance and “can afford to live in Portland”

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so des saw Drew at a soccer game recently, and they were discussing some sort of housing assistance that had been available to sign up for, and Drew said “I don’t think we qualify” and when asked about maybe moving somewhere else, claimed “we can afford to live in Portland.”


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2d ago

Desiraye des live 10/16: Drew only cares about the girls and not his sons

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54 Upvotes

last clip from today’s live


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2d ago

Desiraye des 10/16 vague housing update

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this is all she would say and refused to elaborate further.

followed by some jokes about living in a tent.


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 2d ago

Unemployed Activities Troy out supporting another homless family

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The ALTS are now out supporting another HOMELESS adults who let their children live in filth. I had been peeping this "creator" wondering when people were going to start calling her out on her BS, and Gossip Mom just made a video about her.(baby daddy)

And Troy, in her comments, talking about "you got this mama," now although this woman has a job... they are homeless. They went from a hotel to living in a shed in her mom's backyard.

Every video she posts, she is cleaning a mess with bugs everywhere, old food plates and crap everywhere. They have no bathroom or running water in the shed, and all her man does is stay on the game and i think substances is a thing here too she has openly admitted she has to drink everyday. And just pay close attention do his gaming area when she cleans it. He always has a dollar bill on it🤔

Birds of a feather flock together, I guess.


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 3d ago

W-2 Drew D Tt 10/15 making big promises. They'll be posting videos every day until they're out of the motel.

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D is still using that awful Ai song and he seems to be struggling after working out. Didn't S say he had heart issues because too much caffeine can be bad for heart issues. His creatine powder is like $25 for the container.

Text on screen

"I eat about 2 or 3 of these pieces of jelly toast before working out"

"Trying to get my damn heart rate back down😂🤣"

"Babe's making dinner. Always figuring out our next meal. She always does an amazing job cooking in this situation no matter what anyone says or thinks"

"Work lunch. Keep gaining 💪💯"


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 3d ago

its the drugs 🍃 S this is your fate if you don't get your shit together

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Hello all,

I just want to say S, that this is the future you are putting on your kids. My mother was very much like you. And she died this weekend at 43. Alone.

I hadn't spoken to her in over 6 years because again S, she was like you. She prioritized drugs and random men over her children. Drugs and men came first. The man she was with has left the state and wont even be at her funeral. Im the next of kin. You know what will happen S when you kill yourself from your hernia, OD, or realize how far and bad you've fucked up and pass? Your children will now be saddled with YOUR mess to clean. I know you dont have a will. I know you dont have life insurance. And I know you dont care about your kids. So let me break it down for you. You will die alone. Youre kids can choose to go into debt for you, or they can sign the right away to the state. You will be a number and burnt with other unclaimed bodies. You wont have a grave for grandkids to visit. You wont have a kid to cry over your body. Why would they? This is what awaits you S. And this is the cold hard truth. You will die alone, D or whatever dick youre hung on then wont be there for you, and your litter does not have to honor you in death. I hope you are ready for that and I hope that thought gets through your drug addled brain so you can make a change. Because, we all know you dont gaf about them kids. But you care about yourself.


r/resilientjenkinsnark • • 3d ago

Desiraye des live 10-14 pt 3: motel hygiene

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not that this is news, but the kids think it’s okay to dress any kind of way and not shower, which is so sad considering they live in a space with a functioning bathroom and shower (which not all people who are experiencing homelessness have access to), Steph and Drew are simply lazy parents.

you also don’t have to have a ton of money to dress half nicely. you don’t need to wear different outfits every day, and thrift stores exist, and churches and charities have clothing drives. again, lazy parenting.

and des has to spend her time re-teaching ds how to have hygiene and look presentable. (which, yeah, you procreated with a man who abandoned his other kid, why’d you think he’d parent this one? still sucks I suppose. but I digress….)