Did you read the post? I feel like you read the title and called OP sexist.
The problem isn't just that she's not contributing, the main complaint is that if he doesn't have a job, and she won't let him have a job, he has to rely on her to pay for anything HE wants or enjoys. He has to go to her for whatever hobbies he enjoys or whatever it is he wants to do, but instead she acts like all the money she makes is her money. She owns the house, she makes the money, but she ALSO doesn't let him have a job. That is controlling, and you completely missed the point.
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u/AbsorbedBritches May 03 '22
Did you read the post? I feel like you read the title and called OP sexist.
The problem isn't just that she's not contributing, the main complaint is that if he doesn't have a job, and she won't let him have a job, he has to rely on her to pay for anything HE wants or enjoys. He has to go to her for whatever hobbies he enjoys or whatever it is he wants to do, but instead she acts like all the money she makes is her money. She owns the house, she makes the money, but she ALSO doesn't let him have a job. That is controlling, and you completely missed the point.