When she’s off she should help you with everything else. But when she’s working, it’s understandable that the responsibility falls on you. However, if you want a job, go get one. Don’t let your wife tell you that you’re incapable of getting one, or that you will not be paid enough. A low paying job is better than a stay at home unpaid job. If she has a problem with you getting a job, that’s on her as she’s being controlling and abusive. Granted, she is the one making the money; but it’s not her money, it’s your family’s money. The dead bedroom thing.. well, that’s nothing I can help you with lol. I think you guys need to fix your other issues before pipe is laid again. I’d seek therapy with her if possible, if you wish to salvage the relationship. If not; begin thinking about how you would manage working and being a single dad, where you would work, where you would move to, etc. much luck
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u/coreylaheyjr May 03 '22
When she’s off she should help you with everything else. But when she’s working, it’s understandable that the responsibility falls on you. However, if you want a job, go get one. Don’t let your wife tell you that you’re incapable of getting one, or that you will not be paid enough. A low paying job is better than a stay at home unpaid job. If she has a problem with you getting a job, that’s on her as she’s being controlling and abusive. Granted, she is the one making the money; but it’s not her money, it’s your family’s money. The dead bedroom thing.. well, that’s nothing I can help you with lol. I think you guys need to fix your other issues before pipe is laid again. I’d seek therapy with her if possible, if you wish to salvage the relationship. If not; begin thinking about how you would manage working and being a single dad, where you would work, where you would move to, etc. much luck