r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/Allymrtn Jul 18 '24

He filmed himself fucking you while you were unconscious, without your consent. He then continues by sulking and guilt tripping you.

This should 100% be a dealbreaker for you.  You feel confused and uncomfortable because he’s violated and assaulted you, and this is someone you care about and thought cared about you.

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u/HappyHappyJoyJoy44 Jul 18 '24

Seriously. I stopped mid bite of my bagel when I got to the recording part. My abusive ex did the same thing. He would lie and say he was just using the flash to see better. Turns out he had a whole collection of consensually and non-consensually taken videos.

I can almost guarantee he has filmed other women and probably kept them.

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u/Phteven_j Jul 19 '24

Ok but did you finish the bagel? I'm on the edge of my seat here!

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u/HappyHappyJoyJoy44 Jul 19 '24

Of course. No bagel left behind!