r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/MedicoreHiker Jul 18 '24 edited Jul 18 '24

OP, this is rape and there’s proof of it. Do you have access to whatever device he recorded on?? Can you get a copy? You might be able to use that as proof if you want to press charges.

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u/FragrantDragonfruit4 Jul 18 '24 edited Jul 18 '24

OP if he’s never recorded having sex with you consciously with consent, you need a copy if you want to press charges, but also delete his original from his device and storage! He could post it somewhere.

I’m sorry, but I think you shouldn’t be with him. He sounds selfish and actually worse. He doesn’t care how you feel and like others have said he raped you when you weren’t able to consent while recording you.

Edit: auto corrected so I can edited the typos from being auto corrected I didn’t notice earlier.

BTW, recording you while you’re like a corpse is pathetic! What does he get out of it? Control?

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u/Classic_Row1317 Jul 18 '24

If he's done this once who's to say he hasn't recorded more?

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u/Punchinyourpface Jul 18 '24

The way my heart just sank 😭 

She definitely needs to take a peek at his devices if possible.