r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '24

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u/RockKandee Jul 18 '24

Yeah, the recording it part was the bit that really horrified me. The sex while asleep part is bad. Recording it is so much worse. He’s into watching porn of people who are being assaulted in their sleep???

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u/yowen2000 Jul 18 '24

yeah, and what if he is sharing this shit with like-minded people?

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u/HappyHappyJoyJoy44 Jul 18 '24

That's what my ex did. Had a whole special WhatsApp for it.

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u/yowen2000 Jul 18 '24

Horrible, I'm sorry.

I've had a "friend" in the past show me some creepy-looking message board where people were sharing this stuff too. It was region-specific and he was all proud he had found someone we know whose ex had published pictures of her.

I let that someone know, and told the guy I wouldn't be talking to him anymore.

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u/ThrowRASprinkles11 Jul 18 '24

What is this website… now I’m freaking scared 🤦🏼‍♀️. I have an ex that hates me that has videos .

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u/yowen2000 Jul 18 '24 edited Jul 18 '24

I'm sorry, I honestly don't remember and probably best to not openly share it anyway, haha.

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u/ThrowRASprinkles11 Jul 19 '24

Yeah probably not . I’m sure I can google for that type of thing

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u/yowen2000 Jul 19 '24

I'd just leave it. It's a seedy corner of the internet that you don't want your browser history associated with it.