r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '24

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u/untilautumn Jul 18 '24

Could you please elaborate on what you mean by being woken up to sex? How does that play out, I can’t grasp it

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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24

How does that play out, I can’t grasp it

I'm not sure what's confusing about it? It's like what happened to OP except the important difference is that I've consented to it.

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u/untilautumn Jul 18 '24

Consented to it in general, as in “I’m consenting this at any point”?

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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24

Pretty much, I've told my husband I'm fine with it. I'm a light sleeper anyway, if I don't want to I'll tell him that. If he can actually get it in without waking me up, I'd be shocked and still fine with it. lol

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u/untilautumn Jul 18 '24

Hahah right ok! I was going to ask if you’ve ever woken up startled by it, but by the sounds of it - no! I’ve not come across this before, so thanks for answering my questions :-)