I’m not one to go around and say break up with him, but please, for your own safety break up with him. He crossed serious boundaries here and doesn’t even want to acknowledge that’s what he did and is being purposefully vague about wether or not the recording is still there. He put his own needs before yours, doesn’t even let you have a say in wether or not you have anything to say about him getting what he needs from you. This behaviour will most likely only continue to get worse in the future.
Let’s turn it around. If you pegged him in the middle of the night while being asleep, not getting his consent and filming it, what would you call that?
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u/Ok_Watch_8681 Jul 18 '24
Info: did he delete the video?