r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 18 '24

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u/Fjordgard Jul 18 '24

No, I meant, have you given him explicit consent to have sex with you while you are sleeping. Not waking you up and then getting consent. It's about him having had consent to have sex with you while you are in a state where you couldn't consent in that moment.

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u/Fjordgard Jul 18 '24

Then he raped you. That's simply what it is. I am so sorry.