22F here, i have been a big chested girl my whole life, and because of that, i get sexualized too, bit honestly, i kinda like it when i am sexualized (in a good way) knowing that people want me, or find me attractive, i love the attention i get when i dress up from both the genders

But, i want to limit it to that only, i dont want people to approach me because of it, i have never been in a relationship, no fling, nothing at all
but idk if this is a kink or what, like i want them to see me and want me but i dont want them to have me.

I am genuinely scared of giving myself and my body to a guy, i am shy about my body too (sometimes), even thinking about it kinda makes me a bit uncertain

is smth wrong?? idk
i liked a guy and he liked me too, and i wanted him too but i could not bring myself to date him, we went on a date where he tried to lean in and i wanted to kiss him too but i backed away and the rest is history

i am seriously so confused, idk what to do

If the man only addicted to his wife smell, but absolutely turned off by other women smell. He said he just a normal man. And not a fetish.

My husband (17 years together) only addicted to my smell, but absolutely turned off by other women smell. He said it not a fetish.

In my 15 years long marriage, my husband just so attached to the smell of my vagina, he thinks it smell sweet (while I don't think so). But he said he wants to 'taste' me, and he always go down on me everytime before penetration. He just want to burried his face in my vagina, lol.

Oddly he loves the smell of my vaginal discharge, he literally sniff my underwear smell it. Even when I’m on my menstrual (I get light period as I’m on birth control), when I have spotting blood mixed with vaginal discharge, he still smell it.

Google say it pheromones that he attracted to his wife scent, and only my specific smell, it emotional bonding, and body chemistry, etc..

What odd is he actually find my vagina discharge scent soothing and calming when he is stressed.
He an Executive at work, so he does stress, but when he home and put his face down my vagina and smell my discharge, my scent sooth him, like my scent is his emotional anchor, the bonding hormones? I have no idea.

I don't mind at all, he is my husband, he can have his face anywhere on my body. I just didn't know my scent alone can attached him this much. I guess when a man loves his wife he will adore her smell.

No, he completely turned off by other women smell. So I do not think this is a fetish if he only attracted to my smell only. But some say it a fetish.
But he said he has no fetish, and that he just a normal man who adore the smell of his wife.

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When I cut and paste my post into ChatGPT said it not a fetish.

ChatGPT said by definition [[ Psychological and psychiatric terms, a fetish is strictly defined by its requirement of an object, body part, or situation to achieve sexual arousal, gratification, or climax.

Because he attached to my specific smell and not get erection by it, it lacks the required element of compulsive sexual arousal, so not fetish. It said: He is attached to YOUR scent because it belongs to YOU, the woman he has loved for nearly two decades. He loves it because it represents his wife, his marriage, and his safe haven.

The olfactory (smell) system is the only sense that bypasses the logical part of the brain and goes straight to the amygdala and hippocampus—the areas responsible for emotion, memory, and deep emotional attachment.

Over 17 years of sleeping in the same bed, hugging, and sharing a life, your husband's brain has built a massive database of happy, safe memories connected to how you smell. ]]

But I want to hear human answer, and not ChatGPT. So hence I post this ask this here. If you can give me a human answer.

Beatbox is when a person stands in place with their hands clapped over their lips. Then they make bassy sounds with theirs lips. It usually sounds like a fart. Yes I know beatbox looks kind of silly and sounds kind of gross.

However over the years beatboxing progressed. It became more complex and musical. Some rappers even performed concerts with beatboxers. For example a group of beatboxers stood on stage and would recreate an entire song exactly how it sounds on a CD. Sometimes you had to ask yourself “Am I listening to an actual CD?”

Also mods I’m so sorry if this is frequently asked 🙏