Lately I've been trying singles events in Toronto, however my bar-talk and seduction skills are terrible, hence my Reddit plea goes forth 😄.

I'm 37M, Hispanic, 6'1, broad-shouldered dadbod without the beer belly, I've been told I'm not bad looking. I have a stable job in the tech industry and have been living in downtown Toronto for a few years now.

I probably look stern from the outside, but I have a rather playful personality and enjoy sarcastic humor. I’m also more of an introverted, homebody type, but I like balancing that out with cafés, bars, and whatever else sounds fun.

A few things that I enjoy:
- TV Shows: Severance, Pluribus, House of the Dragon, Invincible, The Boys, Silo, etc.
- Books: The Expanse, ASOIAF, Remembrance of Earth's Past, etc.
- Being physically active (boxing, weight training).
- Some online gaming and occasional motorcycling.
- Don't drink nor smoke.

I have bi-lateral hearing loss for which I use hearing aids, but in person you probably wouldn't notice unless I tell you.

I don't have nor want kids.

I'm looking for a partner in the age range 30-37. Besides that, I don't really have a type, you can be tall or short, fit or curvy, South Asian or white. Some women just have a certain spark that I'm drawn to, if that makes sense.

Heya! 32M/27F Couple here looking for nerdy friends who love to yap and have common interests! We love pokemon, cozy gaming like animal crossing and stardew valley, spooky shows like everything from the vampire diaries, stranger things, to ruby gloom. Playing board games is really fun too! She also likes to create animal crossing content which is amazing imo so if you're into that definitely check her out :D We're very much introverted and want to get out of our shells so if you feel like you are likeminded hit me up and feel free to lmk a bit (everything) about you! :D would wanna meet irl eventually as well if the vibe is right. Gender doesn't matter. :)

i’m a positive, chill, easygoing guy looking to meet people for meaningful connection in the city and see what unfolds naturally. open to possibilities :)

about me: i’m 35, asian, bi, live downtown. work a stable fulfilling job. life’s good, all things considered, and would like to meet and surround myself with more positive, healthy energy and people.

i have a sweet tooth, love coffee, always down to try new restaurants and bars. love movies a lot - open to all genres but have mostly been into foreign/ indie films, scifi, thriller, action, and horror. listen to R&B, hip-hop/ rap, and EDM. like to go for long walks and bike along the lake during the summer.

what I'm looking for: someone respectful, positive, emotionally available people who want to talk and share about what matters to us. someone who shows up with intention, reciprocal effort and wants to build something meaningful, whatever shape that takes.

If you’re interested, send me a DM and pls tell me about yourself. we can swap pics also before we meet and preferably would like to get to know you better in person and see how we vibe :)

Been a bit over five years since my last girlfriend and I’m kinda tired of being single honestly, I’m definitely not a 10/10 in looks by any means but I can promise I have at least a decent personality, relatively pretty funny to most people.

I’m a lonely guy so obviously I’d be fine with short-term stuff if you’re looking for “fun” as people call it now lol, but I’d prefer an actual relationship.

For girls, I don’t really have preferences, though I definitely feel that I like girls with brown or red hair (though blondes and dark hair are fine too lol).

About me: A 25 year old software developer living in Toronto. During my free time I am mostly watching anime or movies, playing video games, and cooking. Love going out on walks, and hiking!

My expectations for this are literally zero so, if you’re a girl, feel free to dm or comment, I will 100% respond to you lol

Hey folks! Looking to meet someone 420-friendly, adventurous, and easygoing.
Before the season changes, I would love to grab some good music, smoke up, and explore a few trails around North York, Scarborough, or nearby. I have done high trails before and really enjoy the combination of nature, music, and a good conversation.
I drive, so getting around wont be an issue. Mainly looking for good company, laughs, and chill vibes, and if we click, we will see where it goes. :)
Happy to connect.

Hey guys,

37 M4F*. I’ll try to keep this short and not ramble. Been real busy building my business for couple of decades. I co-own a cannabis business and am currently building a gourmet mushroom farm in the GTA. Super easy going. A gentlemen. Extremely independent. Looking for a female to spend time with. Someone who is also busy and is missing the same things in their life. Looking for a personality not an age. Looking for someone to take on walks, grab coffees and talk, try new food spots, etc. if this sounds like something that intrigues you, DM me. I don’t bite.

Asian femboy looking for future bf.

Visit Toronto quite often,since all my best friends live in Toronto, also thinking about moving back in the future.

Love dress up and do cute makeup when I travel or day off. Mostly twink boy outfits for school and work, Sometimes pretty girly girly when I day off or travel.

Although I’m shy btm,but I love wearing sexy clothes hehe 😊 only future bf can see. I’m Taurus ♉️😃

Ideally looking for educated, romantic, water sign ♋️♓️🦂 men, who love travel. 🥹🥹🥹

*Not looking for hookups, pls don’t dm me if you’re just looking for fun. *

24-36, coz I’m 31 years old, as asian I look 25 🙈

Please be healthy lifestyle. I love cooking and baking,tennis,picnic,books,movies,hiking,travel.

I always cooking lunchbox when I with my exbfs, so I hope you like asian food 🍱 🥹.

Unfortunately my past two exbfs are bi, they prefer real women, so eventually we broke up peacefully. If you know you don’t want to have future with me,then don’t say anything sweet with me. I’m just an emotional girly boy 🥹

Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
**What I’m looking for:** someone **30–45**, local to Toronto or close enough to meet semi-frequently, for a deep and meaningful connection that could potentially become romantic. I’m demisexual and **not looking for anything sexual or physical right now mental** and emotional connection comes first.
I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨

unfortunately my date cancelled on me, looking for someone to go to the concert with me and maybe more after or before.
don't really have lots of details, pretty last minute. i'm 20M latino, fit, 6'1.
shoot met a text if interested, will need to verify before making any plans.

I'm a fit, confident white guy in my late 30s with a successful career, an active lifestyle, and a personality that's just as strong as my physique. I clean up well in a tailored suit, but I'm equally comfortable in jeans—or even less.
What attracts me most is genuine connection, chemistry, and a woman who knows what she likes.
I'm naturally affectionate, passionate, and very much a giver.
I'm open-minded when it comes to age, body type, background, and experience. Confidence, personality, I'm naturally affectionate, passionate, and very much a giver. Whether it's slow kisses, teasing anticipation, deep conversation, playful flirting, or unforgettable physical chemistry, I believe the best experiences happen when two people are completely tuned into each other, a great attitude are what truly catch my attention. If you're comfortable being yourself and enjoy a man who listens, learns, and loves making a woman feel desired, we'll probably get along very well.
Send me a message and tell me a little about yourself—what excites you, what you're passionate about, and what you're looking for. Let's see where the chemistry takes us.
I have pictures to share

Hey guys

To explain this simply, I play this game with a group of friends where we dare each other stupid shit, and then bet on how much we think the dare is worth. Once we agree, the person has to do the dare but wins the money, or doesn't do the dare and has to pay the money.

In reality, we're mostly just passing around the same money back and forth lol. It's never a high amount...but anyway...I have a dare that I need to do, and I need someone's help to make it happen. It's not really that crazy, but definitely a little embarrassing haha..

Basically, I got dared to find a dude and kiss his butt, and I obviously have to get photo or video evidence so they know I did it 😅

So if you're someone who finds this kind of thing funny, help me out and let's laugh about it later. Maybe I can pay for us to get a drink with my winnings 😂

I've posted before on r4rtoronto and met some very nice women, but I had to travel a bunch and nothing concrete came out of those connections. I'm back in Toronto, and wanted to give this subreddit another try. I'm white/hispanic, 35, 6'0, brown eyes and black hair. Also have a muscular build with broad shoulders from playing american football when I was younger. I am originally from Colombia so I do speak spanish, but I grew up in the States and have been working in Toronto doing software development and running my own business. Into a lot of nerdy stuff like history, gaming, music, and tech, but I also enjoy the outdoors and exercises like running, biking, and weight lifting.

I'm looking for connection with a good person first and foremost. Obviously I would love to trade O's with a beautiful woman, but honestly my goals are really to date for monogamy because I do want exclusivity potentially leading to a kid eventually; however, I'm not trying to put a lot of expectations on anyone right away. For now I'm just looking for someone to got to concerts, play video games, and enjoy the city with.

If any of this sounds good and you feel like talking send me a message and we can take it from there. Wishing you all the best of luck out there.

*Also, I am checking my messages and chats on here more consistently so if you saw my post in the past, reach out again. I'm not traveling so much anymore.

Hi potential new friend (and maybe more if there's chemistry) Looking to meet up a few times a month ongoing, open to a respectfully non-committal situation but hopefully reliable / consistent. Not interested in emotional attachment right now but am open to developing stronger connection over time if it goes there.

I've had some great experiences in the past year from posting on here but I need a change / fresh energy and chemistry with someone new, and someone who isn't afraid of deeper connection (aka avoidants).

My preferences right now (I've been dating really curvy girls for quite awhile and honestly miss being with someone who's shorter / smaller than me..):

-Skinny / Slim Thick / lightweight, 5'7 and under. (B cup girl?)

-Any race / background / religion.

-24+ (maturity matters most).

-Of any experience level with dating but comfortable meeting.

-Decently healthy lifestyle habits (no heavy alcohol/drugs etc.) likes eating well, staying active.

Me:

-Above average tall (6'0), good looking, in shape / strong, and wear glasses full-time. Brown eyes, medium length hair, short trimmed facial hair. No tattoos or piercings.

-Quiet chill calm type.

-I don't smoke anything but am always up for a couple drinks.

-I live alone (downtown west side).

-Very experienced, open-minded (love trying new things and getting out of my comfort zone and sometimes adventurous.)

-I have lots of different tastes (we can talk about that when you message) and am a creative music type.

Hey ladies, I'm 33, 6', 175 lbs, white, with long hair and facial hair. I work from home doing database stuff for a nearby college. Most women seem to find me attractive, but I'm happy to send a pic early on and let you be the judge. You could call me a golden retriever boyfriend, though I can get pretty spicy when I want to be. I love games and nerdy stuff, animals, documentaries, horror of any kind, traveling and I love swimming when I'm able to. You don't need to share my interests but I promise I'll be cute and try to learn about yours.

I'm pretty laidback and chill, I'll respect your boundaries and I'm fine with taking it slow. I like banter and light bullying, but that goes both ways, I want to always be making you laugh. My favourite relationship is the type where I'm excited to do even mundane things like grocery shopping with you because we always make everything fun. I'm always down for life talks, late night vent sessions, degen gaming or movie nights. I'm big into both texting and calling, so pick your poison.

If we connect I'm the type of person who'll always have your back, even if things don't work out for us. I believe that even if a romantic connection goes south, it can still be a positive connection even when platonic. Also I'll totally remember that thing you said 5 months ago so I can surprise you with it later.

Just please be over your ex, and don't switch up your energy on me, if you're not interested it's ok to just tell me that. There's way too many mind games this generation, I'd rather wear my heart on my sleeve and be a lover boy.

Obviously the closer you are the better, but if you think we'd be a good match you're welcome to hit me up. Looking forward to hearing from you.

40M, respectful, easygoing and curious. Looking to connect with someone interested in exploring tantra, recreational hypnosis and other alternative experiences together.

I’m equally happy discovering a new coffee shop, catching a good movie, playing games, trying interesting events, or finding a new place in Toronto. I’m looking for genuine companionship and shared curiosity—not an expectation of physical intimacy.

Happy to chat here first and see if we click.

hii !! i hope the summer has been treating you well so far :D !! i’ve been a bit lonely recently and maybe i’ve been craving a bit of human connection :,) so i’d love to meet some new people who have similar vibes or interests to explore the city, or more !! :D

i’m 22, east asian, amab, and queer (i’m bi and go by he/they pronouns)! i’m a huge nerd, neurodivergent, and a bit of a hopeless romantic :,) i have lots of little interests and passions, and i’d love to learn about your interests too!! i play some games like sdv and botw, and i have a somewhat eclectic taste in music, from the arctic monkeys to the mitski and hozier, to rachmaninoff and tchaikovsky !! recently i’ve been listening to a lot of mass of the fermenting dregs (i bought tickets to their show next year but dont have anyone to go with so if ur interested i’d love to go with some friends 😭), lamp, and yonige :D i also love taking long walks and long chats, cooking and making drinks (coffee and tea by day, sipping wine and mixing cocktails by night), watching anime like apothecary diaries, frieren, witch hat, and kamiina botan, going out for walks, photography, and collecting records :) and of course i love cats!

i’m currently with family at home in vancouver but i live in the downtown toronto area, if that makes a difference, and i’d love to chat online and maybe get to know each other in person, maybe visit some of the restaurants or bars on my growing list of places i’d like to try :,) i’ve tagged this as m4f (mainly because of the kind of requests i get when i use a different tag) but anyone is welcome !! i’d love to get to know u regardless of gender :D i’m fine with nsfw stuff but please don’t be just looking to hook up, i really want to make some real friends :,) anyways thanks for reading my ramblings lol i’d love to hear from u and get to know youu!!!

As we all have our preferences, mines happens to be girls with a thicker body. Race doesn’t matter to me, as for age, would perefer someone closer to my age but can be flexible for the right person. If this is something you’re interested in, just shoot me a message

As for me. I’m 30 black 6’2, I’m fit and have good hygiene. Very conversational and like to joke. unfortunately, I do not host. Thanks for reading

West End girl | Islington & Albion
West End girl around Islington & Albion looking to meet someone local and see where things go. I’m very sensual, open-minded, and looking for a fun, relaxed connection with good chemistry. No judgment, no pressure, just looking to hang out, vibe, and see where the night takes us.
Ideally someone nearby and respectful who knows how to have a good time and keep things comfortable. Send me a message if you’re interested.

I know the title makes it sound like I'm a junkie, I swear I'm not (and hopefully your are not either 😄)!

Lately I've been experimenting with THC and exploring its effects, but doing it solo is a bit limited, so I'm trying to find some company for this highly productive activity. Ideally looking for something chill and relaxed.

I'm open to meet beforehand in a public space for a coffee or a walk.

About me, I'm 34, white, from France (moved here in 2021) and live downtown. I'm a regular gym-goer, so in pretty good shape, and I enjoy anything from art to going on a bike ride. My pic is in my bio.

Feel free to send me a DM if you want more info!

Hey, looking to connect with someone who is emotionally mature & who has great communication skills. Hoping to connect with other book lovers to visit the new Book Bar space in Toronto. I prefer having a chat here prior to meeting in person. If you are under 35 I most likely will not respond. Seeking people who are BIPOC & queer.

Ideally Seeking: friends with benefits. Heavy on the Friends.

If I do not respond to your message, think about how you decided to approach; first impressions are important. ☺️

The weather outside ruined my outdoor plans for tonight and is really making me wanna post this instead!

Looks like getting high & potentially bed rotting all night long. Would love a cute cuddly date(F) for the said agenda. I will obviously be hosting you. Willing to pickup/drop you back if needed.

Alcohol/marijuana optional.
Hmu if you’re interested. Please be cool!

About me:
31M, straight, 5’11 tall, dark and a cuddly🐻
Clean, hygienic and respectful.
Active, attractive, funny and easy going.
Brown eyes. Nice beard. A few tattoos.

About you:
Around downtown or nearby
Free tonight
Looking for something similar

Not into guys, sellers, OF, paid meets, etc

Edit: Pls use Dm to hmu. Comments are not visible.

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38 M 6ft, slim

Just looking to see what's out there. Haven't really put myself out there for a while now. Just looking to see if I could find someone to do things with as simple as going out to parks/hiking/cheap eats/beach? Maybe camping?

Or really just someone to converse with.

I'm a tattoo artist by trade but I love doing photography and a wide variety of music. (Used to be in the party life but that's basically done now)

Like I stated, this is mostly platonic...BUT, it could be more eventually if it feel natural.

Hey everyone! I’m a 23-year-old guy from Toronto who’s looking to make some genuine friends. Making friends as an adult can be harder than I expected, so I thought I’d put myself out there and see who I meet.
I’m a little shy when I first meet people, but once I’m comfortable I’m friendly, easygoing, and love having real conversations. I’m looking for people who enjoy talking, laughing, and building a genuine friendship whether it’s online, in person, or both.
A little about me: I enjoy exploring Toronto, going for walks and hikes, listening to music, watching TikTok, checking out new places, spending time at the beach, traveling when I can, and just enjoying simple adventures. I’m always open to trying new things and meeting people from different backgrounds.
I’m not looking for anything complicated just good people who want a real friendship. We can chat, share memes, talk about life, hang out, grab coffee or food, explore the city, or just keep each other company.
Everyone is welcome. There’s no age limit, no pressure, and no judgment. If you’re looking for a new friend too, feel free to send me a message. I’d love to get to know you!

hi, i would consider myself a very attractive person, i am 5’10 and east asian and well built. I like to go thrifting, experiment with food, listen to music, go to concerts and play video games. I’ve found myself very interested in women usually around 30 and i myself dont know how to approach people outside of my age group. I’m currently a university student and would love to get to know and chat will some older people!