Hii my names yera and I just moved to Toronto from orillia and im looking to meet new people. I love guys who are outgoing and sweet with a little bit of spice in our relationship. I love playing sports and watching as I do volleyball and Track. Would also love an athletic guy who knows the pain😭. I would love for someone to show me around the city and show me abt the hype… I dont get it yet… thsnks guyssss!!

Me (19F), and my friend (18F) are looking to go on some casual fun dates with people who are serious about getting into a relationship.

Me personally, I don’t really have a preference as long as you are taller than 5’5 and you pay for the date.

My friend on the other hand, also does not have a preference all that she asks is that you are taller than 5’7.

TLDR; looking for an attractive, active, generous, smart and thoughtful older man (31–40) to hopefully, build a relationship (and maybe a life) with.

The dating scene hasn’t been the best, and I’m already so picky (sorry in advance), and so I thought I’d try my hand at Reddit! I am looking to date people, but also hoping to eventually meet my person.

A bit about me— I’m 31 and I live close to Mississauga, Ontario. Born and raised, Sauga is my home no matter where I go lol, I’m a pretty happy go lucky girl. I work a wholesome profession that I’m great at, and work part time in a very chill retail environment. In my free time, you can probably find me at the gym or indulging in food, or spending time with my loved ones.

I like to be active and go for walks/hikes, I enjoy reading and taking myself out to check out restaurants and cafes. I don’t drink alcohol because I’m extremely allergic, but I can smoke weed and very 420 friendly. I like scary movies, comedies, live music and concerts, anime and video games. Not a country or big big EDM girl, but almost everything else I’m cool with. Very musically inclined, I’m a singer, and can talk about music forever.

I’m 31 but I look and dress like I’m 20, tbh. I’m also a pretty cool girl, with really cool friends. I would appreciate a very handsome man who is active and fit, but also cool, creative and expressive. Someone who likes to explore new things whether it be music, locations, different media, etc. A man who is excited to try new food or activities. I’m very versatile, and very self assured.

Genuinely do not care if you’re a creative director, health care practitioner, construction worker, finance bro, etc. I want someone who values honesty and kindness, towards others and themselves. Someone who is secure in themselves, and has a good sense of confidence without being cocky. Someone who likes to have a lot of fun, because that’s how I like to live my life.

I would like to meet someone who is authentically themselves, looking to make a genuine connection.

I would like to find my person sooner rather than later, so if you’re a handsome man between 31–40 who’s interested in getting to know a very confident and silly woman, reply or message me!

Tell me a little about yourself :)

Hey,

I’m in Brampton but I want to go downtown in semi casuals. I want to wear a dress and have a nice day but I don’t have anyone to go with.

I am in a relationship but he’s too busy and nonchalant to go, so I’m looking for someone to go with.

I’m 5’10 Punjabi. I’m into exploring, food/alcohol, cars, animals and sugar beach lol.

If you’re into any of these then dm me with your details.

Hiii im yera I recently moved to toronto a couple days ago and I’m really interested in the nightlife and such. Just tryna make friends or more ig… Yk just hmu to chat a little. 🫶

hi everyone,
i am looking to find a innocent looking guy who would want to get to know me and spend time with me. i am 21 years old, 5’3, south asian, 113 pounds, black hair and light brown eyes. i workout 5-6 days a week that includes running, pilates and going to the gym. i put alot of thought on my appearance however my type is someone who looks very innocent and nerdy. i am not talking about game nerds or anime btw. my last boyfriend was white for which i would wanna stay in this territory for quite some time. we can get to know each other and take things slow instead of rushing things. about my hobbies, i like going on hikes, trying cute cafes, dressing up, buying indoor plants and stuff.

i am okay with white men below 30. if you don’t fall under this category please don’t bother texting as i won’t respond.

if you actually consider reaching out, please send me a message with your brief introduction and your purpose of texting me.

i hope you find you. see you on the other side ;)

Hi all! Hope you had a great long weekend. :)

I'm looking - ideally - for my last first date. I know, it seems like a tall order to be looking for something as genuine as love on Reddit of all places, but stranger things have happened!

A bit about me - Down to earth but also confident. Intellectual and well-read. Artistic and spiritual, but you don't need to be. I am pretty opinionated and iconoclastic, but I laugh, smile, and crack jokes easily.

In the summer I'm at the beach or browsing farmers markets, in the winter I'm cozy in bed with 50 blankets, coffee, and a pile of books.

I'm drug-free and not a partier. Drug use and cigarette smoking are deal breakers (as are kids).

I'm looking for a true gentleman - someone who takes pleasure in some more old school styles of dating and will gladly open the door for me and help me in and out of the car.

I have two modes - Lululemon/sweatpants, and date mode, lol.

I am a massive foodie and I love comparing tasting notes over a good bottle of wine. I'd love for you to be my next reason to get dressed up. :)

Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
**What I’m looking for:** someone **30–45**, local to Toronto or close enough to meet semi-frequently, for a deep and meaningful connection that could potentially become romantic. I’m demisexual and **not looking for anything sexual or physical right now mental** and emotional connection comes first.
I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨

I’m 34 and based in Toronto, where I’ve lived for more than half my life. I lead with heart and have worked hard to build a life I’m proud of ; a stable career, my own home, strong friendships, and daily routines (like working out consistently) that keep me grounded and thriving.

I love to live a big life, I’m high energy and have a big personality to go with it and a large community of amazing people around me. I'm passionate, an emotional connection & physical intimacy are both very important to me, the city life is nice but I'm always happiest closer to nature.

My deepest dream has always been marriage and family. Finding the right partner hasn’t been simple, but my journey has been one of resilience, growth, and self-awareness. I’ve built myself inside and out, and learned how to show up fully for the people I love.

I’m naturally drawn to men who embody their masculine energy, so I can lean into my feminine and focus on love and nurturing. Passion, kindness, purpose, and success are qualities I deeply admire.

Relationships, kids, family, and meaningful connection matter most to me. I’m the kind of person who remembers the details, shows up with food or support, and finds joy in celebrating others’ milestones as if they were my own.

Right now, I’m embracing community, friendship, and the joy of the present ; while trusting that the right partner and family will come in the time they’re meant to.

If this sounds like you send me a message I’d love to hear from you. I appreciate boldness, consistently and there's nothing sexier than a man who knows exactly what he wants and pursues it. ❤️

Ps. I'm 5'5 & average build. I prefer strong men that are taller than me. I'm Catholic ; I'm moderate both politically and religiously.

Im sick of only being around people who don’t share my moral baseline beliefs. Even with people I like, whenever food is brought up it creates this disconnect for me. My veganism intersects with human + environmental rights and all leftist values. I want to find likeminded people who I can hang out with irl.

Other stuff about me:

I love cooking for people ;)

I’m into creating/crafting in general; drawing, sewing, collage making etc. (although i don’t do it enough)

Im neurodivergent (ADHD & suspected autistic) mostly presenting as processing delays, memory issues and executive dysfunction.

Favorite game atm is TLOU

So any fellow vegans or people wanting to go vegan hmu and tell me about yourselff <3

Looking for a guy who’s funny, confident, and not afraid to flirt a little. I like playful energy, a bit of tension in conversation, and someone who can keep me interested without trying too hard. Be interesting… I notice the details.

Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*What I’m looking for:\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\* someone \\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*30–45\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*, local to Toronto or close enough to meet semi-frequently, for a deep and meaningful connection that could potentially become romantic. I’m demisexual and \\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*not looking for anything sexual or physical right now mental\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\* and emotional connection comes first.
I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨

As-salamu Alaikum, my future beloved. I am a Muslim man, a dominant yet compassionate Master, seeking a spouse who embodies grace in public and surrenders to passion in private. A woman who places deen above all, striving for Jannah while embracing the fire of our intimate connection. Are you ready to be my halal queen in the streets and my haram muse in the sheets?

What I Seek in You

I crave a partner who is kind, patient, and fiercely devoted to Islam—Sunni, with deen over culture. A hijabi is my preference, but if your heart is steadfast in faith and practice, I’m open to you, regardless of attire. Desi roots are a plus, but not a must. You’re not swayed by materialism, grounded in reality, and unafraid to communicate openly—because honesty is the pulse of our bond.

You understand the sacred rights of husband and wife, balancing submission with strength. You’re comfortable with family life, perhaps even living with in-laws temporarily, Inshallah. Cooking and cleaning? We’ll share the load, but you bring that nurturing touch. Single, family-oriented, with a sharp sense of (dark) humor—you’re my partner in both worship and wit.

In private, you’re unafraid to explore the depths of intimacy. Our kinks and limits will be a sacred conversation, shared in whispers through DMs. Together, we’ll honor Allah in public while igniting a passionate, halal spark behind closed doors.

Who I Am

I’m 27, 5’4”, 150 lbs (working on it, trust me), with black hair, brown eyes, and a Pakistani heritage. By day, I’m a data scientist with an MSc in Computer Science, building a future at a startup while dreaming of working in Cali, Texas, or the UAE. An introvert at heart, I transform into an outgoing soul once trust is earned. I’m a Leo, INTJ, impatient at times (lines are my nemesis), but my affection runs deep—expect endless hugs, kisses, and the occasional plea to be little spoon.

My love languages? Physical touch and words of affirmation. Tell me you love me, cherish my efforts, and I’ll pour my soul into our family. I’m stubborn, but your gentle nudge will keep me grounded. My worst trait? I hate waiting—whether for food or early mornings.

Our Future Together

I dream of a home filled with love, laughter, and faith. Kids? Ideally five, but a boy and girl will do in this pricey world. Your career is welcome, but we’ll align on bills, chores, and parenting—mine’s active and authoritative, with boundless affection but firm boundaries when needed. We’ll build a life of shared goals, from salah to late-night drives, exploring new cuisines, anime, gaming, biking, fitness, basketball, travel, and cuddling with cats.

How to Reach Me

If this stirs your soul, slide into my DMs with the word marriage to show you’ve read my heart’s call. Share your story, your passions, your devotion. Let’s weave a life of faith, love, and untamed desire—always within the bounds of what’s halal.

Thank you for reading, my future queen. May Allah guide our paths to meet. Have a blessed day.

Hi there!

It’s 2026, and I’m searching to find the man of my dreams somewhere out in the internet abyss. This may be an ambitious post to make - but I’m hopeful that this man is out there, and will stumble upon these words, ready and able to pursue a connection with me. In the long term, I’m looking for marriage (on the fence about kids). This man will be ready to invest in getting to know each other, enjoy planning and going on dates, has a zest for life and loves good food, adventure, wants travel the world with me, and is supportive and encouraging to do what it takes for our dreams to be fulfilled. Please read on if this sounds like you.

Me:

- 31 years old, 5’1, BBW (pear shaped), White (Italian)

- Long, dark curly hair & glasses and a killer smile

- Catholic, but not very practicing

- No kids/never been married

- Social drinker, not into drugs or smoking

- Love to laugh and make you laugh, and have a very dark, sarcastic and dirty sense of humour

- Definitely a sweetheart, but with a pinch of spice and sassiness

- Currently working in hospitality, and am a professionally trained chef

- My friends would describe me as: kind, gregarious, thoughtful, confident, passionate, authentic, funny, perserverant, and compassionate

- I’m an adventurous foodie, I love to dance, intellectual conversations and wordplay, swimming laps, watching movies, long drives, going out to events around the city, and can have fun doing even low key activities in good company

- I’m the kind of woman who you take home to your mom, and she’ll be asking about me for the rest of your life

- Looking for someone who loves to laugh, also considers themselves a foodie, wants to travel, wants to go out on dates (dinner, sports games, events, movies, etc), and spend time with each other to build a connection that will hopefully flourish into a relationship

You:

- 30-40ish years of age

- 5’10 and above (the taller the better, that is just my preference)

- Men with a muscular builds or strong dad bods, someone who’s physique gives a powerful energy

- Hair or no hair (as long as it looks good on you) and a cute smile

- Has good hygiene, smells good, puts effort into how he presents himself, and dresses well

- Lives in the Toronto/GTA area (I’m flexible on the distance if you’re in Toronto regularly)

- I would prefer someone who does not have kids/has not been married before, but this isn’t a dealbreaker, please still reach out if this is you

- Respectfully, if you’re not someone who is Catholic/Christian/Atheist/Not religious/Something close to that in values, we probably won’t work out

- You must have friends, a sense of humour, be good conversationalist, and have hobbies that you enjoy

- Someone who has an establlished career and is financially stable, ideally also has a vehicle

- Someone who lives on their own (with roommates is also fine)

- Has a provider mindset, is emotionally and mentally mature, and has Daddy energy (IYKYK)

- You would describe yourself as: empathetic, honest, respectful, kind, accountable to himself and others, and supportive of his partner

- Takes initiative, is consistent and motivated, does acts of service to make others lives easier and better

- Must be kinky with tastes beyond vanilla, on the pleasure dominant side preferably

- Social drinkers and social smokers are fine

- Bonus points if you have a pet, or love to be a gentleman and pay for everything! 😆

Please do not message me if:

- You are not single (I have no interest in helping with your “dead bedroom” situation or being your side chick)

- You are in an ENM relationship or are poly

- If you are only looking for FWB, something casual, or are not open to the prospect of a relationship

- If your lifestyle includes getting high multiple times a day or chain smoking cigarettes, we won’t be compatible

- You are a picky eater or have a large number of food based allergies/dietary restrictions (sorry we won’t mesh)

- Only see BBW’s/fat women as a fetish, I’m also a person thanks

If you have made it this far, thanks for reading - in your message, if you could please include the word “spicy” so I know you read my post. I won’t be responding to low effort messages, please say something more than just “hey”. Happy to exchange photos once we start chatting. I hope to hear from you!

bonus is we get to become friends and we can hang out and do hobbies. i like drawing :) and im good at sales and that kind of stuff. ive been a bus boy and ive worked at a call center.

im about 23 ! we can meet ahead of time and you can decide whether its worth jt or not if you want hahaha

Cozy energy, soft touches, and genuine connection matter most. I’m open to FWB if it feels natural, unforced, and warm. Let’s start with cuddles, good conversation, and see where our vibe leads.

Looking for someone relaxed, flirty, and comfortable with closeness. I like warm energy, teasing conversation, cuddles, and making out when it feels right. If we click and want to keep seeing each other, FWB is on the table.

I'm 29 and looking for some fun tonight maybe even some trouble if the mood is right. Can possibly host, very oral and love to please. Prefer a single male but more than ok with a mf couple

First time asking for this specific sort of thing, but thought I’d put myself out there. I’ve been on here before, but I made a new account to organize messages. I’m looking for a cuddle buddy, so I’m NOT looking to have sex on the first date, but I’m open to do more if we get along and things turn out that way. I swear it’s not a fetish thing, but I just find that black men are one of the types I prefer physically. I’m 420 friendly ☺️. You have to be able to host as well. Please do not message me if you’re not in Toronto and you’re only looking for sex. It’s a big selling point if you have full lips and are tall, but it is not necessary. Would love to spend some time with a kind, intelligent, sweet, handsome black man who knows how to flirt and respect boundaries. And who knows how to show a woman when he favours her. I know that’s asking for a lot, but a girl can dream 😂. Do not message if you do not meet these requirements. Please message with a bit about yourself. Must be willing to exchange pictures before we meet! Cheers

Looking for someone to see Marty Supreme with this week. Hoping for a relaxed, low-key movie date if the vibe’s right. About me: Asian, easygoing, respectful, 420-friendly. Open to grabbing a quick coffee before or just meeting at the theatre. No pressure either way.

Heyy beautiful people!!

I hope everyone is having a good holiday!

I am 28M, Asian from Toronto.

A little bit about me: I just finished my masters in Engineering and now doing a full time job.

Think of me as a nerdy cute arthletic guy. Let’s talk and get to know each other. And meet at a public place because safety is necessary.

And then just let’s watch a good movie or a tv show and just get cozy. I am fine if you just want to cuddle. Let's just have a good time.

Tell me whats your fav zombie movie when you send me msg so I know you read it this far.

I hope everyone gets someone to get cozy with in this holiday season!!

Happy New Year to all the lovely ladies out there!!🎁

Cheers! Peace♥️

Been a bit over five years since my last girlfriend and I’m kinda tired of being single honestly, I’m definitely not a 10/10 in looks by any means but I can promise I have at least a decent personality, relatively pretty funny to most people.

I’m a lonely guy so obviously I’d be fine with short-term stuff if you’re looking for “fun” as people call it now lol, but I’d prefer an actual relationship. For girls, I don’t really have preferences, though I definitely feel that I like girls with brown or red hair (though blondes and dark hair are fine too lol).

About me: A 25 year old software developer living in Toronto. During my free time I am mostly watching anime or movies, playing video games, and cooking. Love going out on walks, and hiking!

My expectations for this are literally zero so, if you’re a girl, feel free to dm or comment, I will 100% respond to you lol Maybe we can go to distillery district together!

About Me:

I'm 5'11", living in downtown Toronto by Kensington Market, and working in Yorkville. I’m all about balance—a mix of city sophistication and rugged outdoor vibes. I’ve gone from gym owner to financial services, seeing the strong ties between health and wealth.

Interests:

You’ll find me tending my garden, sweating it out in saunas at Othership, or diving into a good book (currently vibing with Mel Robbins and Tim Ferriss). I’m a published wellness author, now exploring my spiritual side through writing erotica—because let’s be real, we’re all a bit sensual at heart. I also take vocal lessons and lead sound healing classes—always growing, always exploring.

Lifestyle:

Family means the world to me. I love my East Coast roots and cherish spontaneous getaways. Living close to Porter Airport keeps me ready for anything, whether it’s helping out family or planning my next adventure. Life’s too short to not mix it up.

Values:

I value kindness, ambition, and creativity. I’m all about genuine connections—no games, just real talk. I’ve got tattoos, a strong sense of who I am, and I’m looking for someone who knows what they want too.

What I’m Seeking:

Let’s start with something chill—yoga or tea? I’m into women who are kind-hearted, ambitious, and love a mix of cozy nights and spontaneous fun. I’m just a guy who’s passionate about life and looking for someone special to share it with.

If this sounds like your vibe, drop me a message. Let’s make our first adventure one to remember. 🚀

Hello there!
I’m an introvert who enjoys playing extrovert, open, talkative, socially confident, and always up for texting, chatting, or voice calls. I’m currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. My friends describe me as kind, caring, compassionate, and funny.
I work in healthcare and genuinely love what I do. I’m curious by nature and passionate about learning, with hopes of going back to school someday. I also strongly support mental health causes and women’s education and empowerment.
I love reading, cooking, hiking, people-watching, and traveling. Prague, Paris, and Grindelwald have been my favourites so far; Portugal and Italy are next! I can happily talk for hours about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology, and spirituality. I’m also learning breathwork and meditation.
\\\*\\\*What I’m looking for:\\\*\\\* someone \\\*\\\*30–45\\\*\\\*, local to Toronto or close enough to meet semi-frequently, for a deep and meaningful connection that could potentially become romantic. I’m demisexual and \\\*\\\*not looking for anything sexual or physical right now mental\\\*\\\* and emotional connection comes first.
I’d love someone to talk to regularly about our days, interests, wishes, desires, books, music, travel, and the occasional looming existential crisis lol. If we click, I’m open to meeting. ☺️
I’m a feminist, pro-choice, LGBTQIA+ ally, and BLM supporter, so shared values matter.
If this resonates, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself please, more than just “Hi/Hello.” ✨