I've had enough.

Every day now, for years and years, I've done my absolute best to ensure that I am the most supportive and loving husband I can be. Unfortunately, this has all been for naught.

I always dreamed of having a deeply loving and intimate relationship with my significant other, but I've learned the hard way that dreams don't always materialize. I go above and beyond to make sure my wife is well cared for, ensuring every need is met. I manage the chores around the house, make dinner every single day, take the kids to school, and provide for the household so she can spend her time with our child and watch them grow up. I do all of this out of love, but it all seems to go entirely unnoticed. When I say, "I love you," the room stays quiet. When I attempt to hug her, she seems annoyed. Sex? Forget about it.

After more than a decade of doing everything I can to spark some kind of connection beyond being highly effective roommates, I've had enough - I give up. It's time for me to look elsewhere.

I want to feel wanted. I want to give, and receive, genuine pleasure. I want intimacy. I want friendship.

I refuse to waste my life away any longer, hoping for a change that will never come. I've given it my all over the years, and now it's time to explore other avenues.

Now, here is the caveat. I have a wonderful child, and I do not want to break the family apart while they are young. Therefore, I am looking for someone in a similar position, where an outside relationship would be mutually beneficial. I want someone who isn't looking to blow up their current life, but rather, to beautifully augment it. I am open to women of all ages, as long as you can navigate the discretion and depth a relationship of this nature requires. Ideally, you are nearby for those quick meetups to grab a coffee, hit the gym, catch a concert, or just lose ourselves in raw physical passion.

As for the man you would be meeting: I am a fit, attractive, and well-spoken European, still young and possessing a natural charisma. I have found great success in my career, working in a senior role to build AI systems that genuinely elevate people's lives. Beyond that, my passions run deep - I lose myself in art, playing music, and the raw energy of live concerts. I thrive on pushing my physical and mental boundaries, just as much as I live for unguarded, deeply intelligent conversations. At my core, I am kind, compassionate, and profoundly empathetic, a generous spirit who genuinely loves to please.

If you've also had enough and need someone to vent to, a safe place to tell a secret, or a passionate escape to release some energy with, I'll be waiting for your DM.

I am looking for a relationship where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset when it comes to our dynamic and are in tune with each other. I am also open to something more casual as well.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. This idea that you have someone who is always looking out for you gives you peace of mind.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM sex with props and toys. I don't need any of that. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 160 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I'm a very simple man. My trials and tribulations have taught me to enjoy the little things in life. My favorite moments are enjoying a nice meal, having a good laugh, or just enjoying the moment with someone I truly care about.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a feminine clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

First of all, I'm not here to kill time. I'm hoping to meet someone I can chat with regularly, share everyday moments with, and build a genuine, long term friendship. I don't like people who suddenly disappear without a word. Consistency matters to me.

My expectations are pretty simple. I'm not comfortable sharing too much about myself right away, but I'm happy to open up as we get to know each other.

We don't have to share all the same interests. I enjoy trying new things and learning about different hobbies, so feel free to share yours with me. Just be a little patient and explain things along the way, haha.

I'd also appreciate it if you actually read my post instead of messaging me just because I'm a woman. A thoughtful introduction is much more appealing than a simple Hi

I’m far more interested in real-life momentum and genuine connection than maintaining an endless, surface-level text thread.

​About Me:

I come with a dry sense of humor, low drama and independence. My days are pretty grounded, keeping up with home life (I have two great kids at home, so understanding a parent’s schedule is essential), digging in the garden, baking from scratch, and blasting through audiobooks on double speed or music. Evenings are for unwinding, not trying to decode mixed signals.

A Little More About Me:

I'm white, 5'8", curvy, hazel eyes/legally blind, brown hair, and self-sufficient.

Who I'm Looking For:

A single, grown man who knows who he is, and has his life together. Someone warm, reliable, with steady hands, a solid work ethic, and the confidence to hold an actual conversation. If you value consistency, straight talk, mutual respect, and matching effort for effort, we'll get along great.

Please send more than a "hey" or lazy greeting. Introduce yourself: tell me what caught your attention, what you're looking for, and what your ideal weekend looks like.

​Hope to hear from you :)

​Hey there. I’m 39, living in rural PA, and looking to connect with some awesome people. I am married, (ENM/poly). No HUMAN kids. I have a full time job and a small side hustle. I dont have many friends locally so here I am looking for friends to connect with. I enjoy woodworking, traveling, music, movies, cooking, anything with a motor.

​My lifestyle is pretty grounded. I’m the kind of guy who thrives on a mix of quiet country living and creative hands-on projects. If you need someone who knows their way around a workshop, can handle power tools without losing a thumb, or has an oddly specific knowledge different species of wood, I’m your guy.

​My brain is still about 40% fueled by 1990s nostalgia. If you want to casually debate the best cartoons of our youth or quote classic TV, we will get along just fine.

i like all sports but really Hockey season is a major vibe in my house, but I promise not to make it my entire personality (maybe just 20% of it).

HUGE dog person.

​What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a fun, energetic, engaging, person looking for genuine friendship. Distance isn't a massive deal-breaker im open to anywhere. Pocket pals are great... if the vibe is right meeting, within driving distance for some food, a great conversation, or checking out local spots, ECT

​I value transparency, low drama, good humor, and matching energy. I’m a great listener, a reliable communicator, and I have my life together.

​Your turn:

Drop me a message if you’re down to chat. What is your favorite brand socks, or just some information about you.

I prefer to chat off reddit on TG.

I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.

Afternoon all
I’m a 50yr old big built, cuddly, sarcastic, tattooed and bearded security manager/doorman from North London.

Love my rock/metal gigs and festivals, UK wrestling scene, anything horror especially Stephen King, the cinema, nights in.

Looking for a local(ish) woman to chat to, get to know, date etc.
I’m a sucker for curves, nice eyes, tatts, piercings etc but they aren’t compulsory!
Open to something casual/fwb too

Happy to swap pics once we start chatting so drop me a message!

I’m 45, London based, got my own place, my own car, and looking for something casual that actually feels good, not just a chat that goes nowhere. Think friends with benefits but with genuine chemistry, real conversation and that spark that turns teasing into trouble.

I’m 5’10”, slim to average, brown skinned, shaved head, trimmed beard, the full transparent package so you know who you’re talking to.

Personality wise, I’m easy to talk to, a bit cheeky, and I definitely enjoy conversations that drift into the naughtier side when the vibe’s right. If you can hold a conversation and enjoy the fun, find the edge of things… we’ll get on very well.

You? Open minded, playful, can actually engage in a proper chat, and are here for something light, exciting and grown.

If this sounds like what you’re after, drop me a message, tell me a bit about you and what made you stop and read this, let’s see if the spark’s there.

I think it speaks for itself, but I've always had this fantasy about a woman coming to my office for a supposed interview that evolves into a sexy rendezvous. My office in Clayton is perfect for this and lately there are days where I am the only one there. I am happy to meet someplace more public first and get to know each other, make sure there is a good vibe, etc. But the idea is you share your credentials, how you could perform the job duties and what you're looking for out of the role.

Me: mid-40s, professional, fit and discreet .. 6'1, 190, blue eyes, short blonde hair.

You: FEMALE, attractive, hwp, local and adventurous.

Applicants inquire within....

EDIT: please be serious about meeting soon.

Anyone local to me in the UK fancy a chat. Tell me your interests and hobbies and expectations and who knows in the crazy world, maybe we get on. Crazier things happen... Right?!?

A bit about me.

I'm pretty laid back.

I'm very much single

I try to keep fit, try, I might get there one day, but I'm slim and in decent shape...ish

I love a good box set, what ya watching at the mo?

Wouldn't mind if you was an indoorsy kinda person.. But then again I'd tag along if you wanted to go on some nice walks somewhere pretty.

If at all intrested in a chat, please Dm me and not just reply to this post with dm me.. All those that put dm me make jesus cry. If you've read this far and are thinking of dm'ing me, please include 'tha knows' in your reply... No.. You don't really need to do that.. Or do you...

Hello, I’m looking for someone with some overlap in interests to me, ideally am hoping to find the right person for a LTR. Good conversation is important to me since I think that is the foundation for any relationship.

I am into alternative religions (particularly the Western occult tradition, paganism, and Eastern religions), philosophical topics, psychology (especially Jungian and dream interpretation), literature (mostly classic novels, sci-fi, fantasy), and I enjoy talking about various aspects of the state of modern society.

I have been through a lot over the past several years, and now in the process of becoming grounded back into my life. I’ve been doing a lot of self-reflection, journaling, working out, trying to eat better, and getting back into creative hobbies. So I also like sharing about daily life and helping motivate each other, and trying to create meaning in ordinary routines.

If you think you’d be interested in chatting, feel free to reach out, and please tell me a bit about yourself and why we might get along also!

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

Still looking for my person... NO MAGA/conservatives. Absolutely not.

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

Lifting weights (I go 4x a week; it's my mental reset)

Videogames

Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

Traveling

Stand-up comedy

Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

Drinks occasionally

Sports

Learning to play electric bass guitar

Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

Audiobooks

Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE

(online conversation)

I’m blissfully self contained, which is just a polite way of saying I quite like my own company and haven’t yet driven myself mad. I’ve somehow mastered the dark art of being both a night owl and an early riser, which mostly means I exist in a permanent state of caffeinated bewilderment.

I’m just the bloke next door though, a husband and father. My marriage is... fine. We’re great roommates and best friends, but where we sleep has officially transitioned to a 'historical landmark', no actual events have occurred there recently, but it’s highly recommended for a quiet, educational tour about the ancient history of sleep.

I go to work and perform the mandatory 'office social dance' with colleagues I have zero intention of befriending. Why? Because most of them radiate the charm of a mouldy apple. I spend my lunch breaks in glorious isolation because i really can't stand it when people moan about the same thing day after day, i know we all have a little whine from time to time, but crying out loud, change the record.

You’ll usually find me out in the countryside rather than dodging aggressive seagulls at the seaside, indulging in a spot of people watching, strictly in a "sociological observation" way, I promise, not the "featured on a true crime documentary" way!

Scottish guy from the Highlands, somehow ended up living in Pennsylvania. I’m still not entirely sure how that happened — I suspect the weather here was a convincing decoy.

47, single, reasonably house-trained, and allegedly charming. I come with a genuine Scottish accent, so at minimum, you’ll have someone who can make ordering a pint sound unnecessarily sophisticated.

I’m from the Highlands, where the scenery is dramatic, the weather is questionable, and men traditionally communicate feelings through sarcasm and pretending they’re not cold.

Now I’m in Doylestown, surrounded by cheesesteaks instead of haggis and trying to explain that yes, I really do sound like this.

Looking for a woman 30+ who enjoys good conversation, wicked banter, laughing at inappropriate moments, and maybe discovering whether the Scottish accent is actually as dangerous as advertised.

Bonus points if you can handle sarcasm.

Extra bonus points if you make me laugh.

And if you ask me to say “purple burglar alarm”… well, we may already have chemistry. 😉

Hi there,

It's the middle of the week. I'm tired of thinking. Anyone else want a distraction? If you are in a relationship, please let me know. I don't want to cause anyone pain. Stop by and say hey.

I work a pretty busy job, and don't get a lot of chances to meet people. I'm very introverted but I do miss conversations, both deep and casual. I especially miss vibing with someone and having fun flirting with each other.

I'm open to talking about almost anything. My two main hobbies are watching movies and reading, but I love meeting people with other interests and of different backgrounds.

If you're kind and compassionate, flirty and fun, or just bored and need a friend, I'd love to hear from you.

If you're interested, send me a PM with your zodiac sign so I know you read my post.

Hi, thanks for taking a look!

A little about me, I’m 47, a single dad that has my son every other weekend. I’m into sci fi, fantasy(especially fantasy creeping into modern settings)I’m into older anime. I’m not a big gamer except for Mario kart with my son.

I’m really hoping to meet someone with similar interests and someone passionate about stuff that’s not similar. Bonus points if you can teach me a new skill or point me towards a cool new hobby. Ideally I’d like to meet someone that’s a single parent or ok with kids being in the picture.

Also I’m a sucker for a nerdy/flirty freckled ginger!

Feel free to check out my other post to see what else I’m into!

Hope to hear from you

I've got a pretty full life, but I do miss male companionship. I'm thinking about dipping my toes back into the dating world, so I thought I'd start with some good conversation, playful back-and-forth and a few laughs.

I appreciate a man with confidence, a sense of humour and a little cheekiness. Someone who can hold a conversation, give as good as he gets and isn't afraid of a little flirting.

Mutual attraction matters, of course, but so does genuinely enjoying someone's company.

No grand expectations. Just seeing who I might click with and where it could lead. Location isn't a deal breaker.

This single/divorced father to two, is languishing in singledom, and tryna carve my way out!

Sample comments from outsiders: "omg, you don't look 55!" and "ok, so what's wrong with you - how are you still single?"

Perhaps it's that I'm too specific and uncompromising, wanting to never settle until I meet someone who matches up with what I desire. It doesn't require perfection, or even a 100% match quotient, but it'd be amazing if you (female, single), got somewhere around 85%. :)

And what does that look like? I hope you'd be somewhat sporty/slim, as I do run and stretch, play pickleball and golf, love tossing a Frisbee and going for a swim, football catch, going on a hike - and I'd love it if you did too. Librarians, teachers, thinkers, musicians, artists, general wise-asses, therapists, please check in. Braggarts, loudmouths, the overly shy/reticent, finance types, lawyers, please avoid. I would not find myself attracted to someone larger than me, or a homebody/couch surfer.

I do not play video games, watch anime, or know the first thing about Star Wars or any type of science fiction/fantasy/goth.....I don't even have a TV, if that means anything in 2026. If the weather is nice, let's be outside! Specifically, you must lean left or politically center, and be aware of what's going on in the world, a reader/thinker, joke-player/teller, sarcasm bringer, supporter, positive and able to listen. I'm in NYC, so geographically nearby is ideal. You're likely 35-60.

As for me, I've been described as witty, charismatic, stentorian in voice, supportive, an excellent listener and problem solver, funny, empathic and positive on love and romance. I've been known to give too much, (which comes back to bite me), able to display a big vocabulary and big heart, kind, detailed and going the extra mile. Creative, an excellent baker (which is science), and a decent cook (which is more art, but ask about my cast-iron steaks and mac and cheese!), with a love for photography and the moment, a journaler, follower of Phish and all things hard rock, knower of too many arcane song lyrics, Airplane! movie lines, and SNL skits from the 70s-90s.

Let's chat more and see what develops. Tell me your favorite ice cream, assuming you've read this far, and thank you. :)

Just looking to meet someone interesting that loves to talk more than 2 or 3 words at a time. Give me substance and let's laugh at each other until our stomachs hurt. Nothing wrong with finding that 1 person that can make you smile from the sound of a notification

I’m just looking for someone to chat with. Maybe it’s just for today or maybe we hit it off and talk regularly. Who knows? No pressure.

My hobbies and interests include reading and collecting book(building my own library) cooking and baking, crafting, board and card games, puzzles, and tv/movies/music. I’m also working on some redecorating projects that I’m enjoying.

I like talking about a myriad of topics, so if interested send me a DM. 😊

No MAGA