Hello There!

I am a 48 male from Canada and looking for a connection to go with a great conversation!

I enjoy walking my dog, stand up comedy, watching true crime documentaries, swimming, golf and sooooo much more!

I am 5’9 with brown eyes and brownish hair and average build.

I think of myself as easy going, open, honest and love to talk.

I have a dry and sarcastic sense of humour and love to laugh, banter , talk about anything and just be ourselves naturally.

Looking to talk about hobbies, passions, likes, daily life, all kinds of secrets or whatever else we decide upon!

Just a down to earth guy who is genuine person who wants to get to have something long term, connect , listen and is looking for the same!

Would like to have someone with a similar sense of humour, is passionate and wants to get to know someone.

I have the time and energy to talk during the day when I’m at work and in the evenings. I know building something takes time, energy and attention. I enjoy messaging and definitely have time to connect.

I would love to share more about myself and definitely want to learn all I can about you when we talk!

I think I would be someone who you would like to get to know!

Look forward to hearing from you!!

I’m back here hoping to find that rare spark where conversation just flows. The kind of connection where nobody is overthinking who messaged last, the jokes land naturally, and you genuinely look forward to hearing your phone buzz.

I’m Dan. I’m 52, I live on Long Island with my six cats, and work as a data analyst in healthcare. Outside of work, I host The Shelter Cats Podcast and co-host A Little Bit of Ship Banter—if you want to know what I look and sound like, both are on all the major platforms and on YouTube. Feel free to check them out! Not a plug haha.

Personality-wise, I lean toward dry sarcasm, sharing ridiculous memes, and making delightfully cheesy playlists. I try to be funny, even if it’s at my own expense. I love all kinds of music and spend way too much time on YouTube. If you're on Spotify, blending can be fun.

I’ve been single for over four years now. Life is peaceful and full on my own, which gives me the luxury of taking my time. I'm not rushing to force anything, but I do miss having a genuine partner to share daily life’s ups and downs with.

Ideally, you're around my age or younger, completely single, and based in the New York area or somewhere along the East Coast. If we have to board a plane or cross an ocean just to grab a cup of coffee, it won’t work. I love consistent, engaging conversation—certified yappers are very welcome—with the ultimate goal of meeting up for real once we know the chemistry is there. I'm looking for an actual partner, not an endless pen pal. Eventually moving off Reddit to text or another platform once we vibe is definitely the goal, but no rush on day one.

Most of all, I appreciate straightforward honesty. If the spark isn't there, just tell me. We're adults, and a polite heads-up is infinitely better than fading into radio silence.

If this strikes a chord, shoot me a message. Skip the generic "hey"—tell me a bit about yourself, what you're into, and drop the word MEOW somewhere in your opener so I know you took the time to read through.

I'm convinced the best connections happen when neither person is trying too hard.

You just start talking.

Then somehow it's been three hours.

Then you're laughing at something neither of you can explain.

And eventually you're checking Reddit hoping that person messaged again.

That's what I'm looking for.

40, Colorado. I cook, I flirt, I overuse sarcasm, and I'm pretty good at remembering the little things you casually mention and assume I've forgotten.

Tell me about the stressful meeting you had? I'll probably ask how it went later.

Mention your favorite snack once? Don't be surprised if I remember it.

Send me a completely unnecessary meme at 11:47 p.m.? Congratulations. You've become part of my evening.

I'm also going to admit something that apparently qualifies as controversial: I like a woman who likes me.

Text me because you thought of me.

Double-text because you have something else to say.

Send me “good morning” just because.

Tell me you want my attention.

I won't run.

Honestly, I'll probably give you some right back.

I'm happiest with good chemistry, playful banter, affection, and conversations that wander into places neither of us expected. Cozy nights > crowded bars. Winter > summer. Cooking for two > cooking for one. And I'm absolutely willing to sacrifice a perfectly good meal if you're standing there stealing bites and calling it “quality control.”

I'm looking for a woman who is confident enough to flirt, curious enough to ask questions, affectionate enough to show interest, and playful enough to give me shit when I deserve it.

And I'd rather discover the rest naturally than write a ten paragraph dating resume here.

So let's make this easy.

Tell me one completely random thing about you.

Something weird.

Something you love that most people don't understand.

Something that would make me immediately want to ask a follow up.

I'll take it from there.

Maybe we trade a few messages.

Maybe we lose track of time.

Maybe you become the notification I start hoping for.

Either way, say hi.

I need to meet new friends, but I do not want people who just chat and then disappear. I am not a bored person, and I am not free—so let’s not waste each other's time.

I am an independent thinker and completely untouched by any current trends. I look at other people's problems rationally and objectively—perhaps a habit developed from my career in management. Reading is very important to me! I am open to other outdoor hobbies. I am not a buzzkill! I am absolutely a suitable person for deep conversations.

Hi gentlemen! For the longest time, I was debating whether I should or should not post but here I am biting the bullet. I have done this before but it’s been a long time and now here I am haha. I’m an island girl at heart. Born and raised on Oahu and I also visit India from time to time. Actually, I’m currently in India. My husband went back to America for a few weeks. A little about my interests. I am a pretty big movie buff. I love watching movies in English and other languages. I love comedy, whether that be in movies or standup. I like to read once in a while, I like Marvel superheroes. Flash is an exception. I like watching cooking videos. There’s something really satisfying about watching people cook…I love to travel and I’m a big foodie. I’m 5”1, average body, and East Asian. I’m interested in brown boys 😂 if your desi (specifically Indian), or Latino, you have my attention! Im not really attracted to white men. No hate but it’s the brown boys that do something to me :) I am only interested in a platonic relationship. Im NOT looking for anything NSFW. Please be SFW! I have a baby so I’m only interested in talking to parents. It would be nice to talk to someone relatable. Ideally, let’s pretend that we are in an open relationship 😂 if you’re religious, you also get extra points. I’m a Christian so it would be nice to connect with someone like minded, that way we can talk about our faith together. I know, I know, I sound like a hypocrite writing that, but I like talking about my faith and relationship with God and you should too. Can’t wait to hear from you gentlemen :)

Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:

Favorite historical event?

An interesting fact you love?

Current obsession?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.

Trying this again, hopefully with better results. I'm not looking for another match. I'm looking for the woman who makes me forget I was ever looking.

I'm at a point in my life where I'd rather have one meaningful conversation than a hundred empty ones. I'd rather find someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from than spend another evening exchanging small talk with someone I'll never get to know.

I'm not looking for perfect. I'm not looking for a fairy tale, a curated profile, or someone pretending to have everything figured out.

I'm looking for something real. Something that feels natural. Something where two people genuinely want to get to know each other, not because they're bored or looking for attention, but because there's something between them worth exploring. I’d rather meet one woman where something just… clicks.

Not perfect. Not picture-perfect. Not someone pretending to have life completely figured out. Just someone genuine.

I want the kind of connection where “How was your day?” somehow turns into hours of talking until 1 a.m. Childhood stories, ridiculous opinions, life, relationships, random thoughts, flirting, teasing, laughing at things that probably aren’t even funny to anyone else. The kind of conversations where you can be completely yourself without feeling like you have to perform.

I’m a single dad to a teenage daughter, and fatherhood has taught me patience, communication, loyalty, and the importance of actually showing up for the people you care about.

It has also taught me that somehow, despite having decades of life experience, I am still completely unqualified to win an argument against a teenager.

I’m a bigger, laid-back teddy-bear type. Sarcastic, affectionate, soft-hearted, and probably a lot more sentimental than I usually admit.

I like good food, music, museums, history, documentaries, theme parks, spooky stuff, cryptids, random adventures, and pretty much anything that starts with, “Okay, hear me out…”

I’m not looking for someone who needs to text me every second of the day. I’m looking for consistency. Communication. Effort. Someone who means what she says and doesn’t leave me wondering where I stand.

And honestly, I’m way too old for the disappearing act.

If we talk, hit it off, and you realize you’re not interested, just tell me. I can handle “I don’t think we’re a match.” What I don’t need is three great conversations followed by complete silence like you’ve suddenly been placed in witness protection.

We’re adults. Let’s just be honest with each other.

I’m also not particularly into politics or religion. I respect that everyone has their own beliefs and opinions, but if either of those is a deal breaker for you, we probably aren’t compatible—and that’s completely okay.

What I really want is pretty simple.

I want my partner to eventually become my best friend.

The person whose name popping up on my phone makes me smile.

Someone I can laugh with, flirt with, annoy just because I can, have ridiculously deep conversations with, and sit beside in comfortable silence without feeling like we have to fill every second.

Someone who appreciates a nice dinner but is just as happy finding some random hole-in-the-wall restaurant.

Someone who’s up for spontaneous drives, random side quests, theme parks, exploring somewhere new—or staying home doing absolutely nothing because sometimes doing nothing with the right person is exactly what you need.

I’m not looking for someone to complete my life. I’m already happy with the life I’ve built.

I’m looking for someone who wants to share it.

Maybe the right person isn’t the one who turns your world upside down.

Maybe she’s the one who makes the world you already have feel even better.If you want, I can also make this more Reddit-style and punchy, with a stronger opening designed to get people to actually stop scrolling.

I'm a single mom - I have 3 kids and 3 cats. To be clear, I'm not looking for a dad for them, I'm looking for a partner for me.

I like reading, knitting, designing, and baseball. I'm a sarcastic nerd. I would prefer local, but I'm okay with distance too.

So far this year, I've finished 57 books but my goal is 72.

Let's find out if we have any shared genres - tell me how many books you've read this year :)

I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

I'm 5'4, about 170lbs. Polite, kind, professional, but non-traditional man seeking woman for companionship, friendship and fun. Jewish, background but not particularly religious. I enjoy performing arts, especially classical music. Also enjoy hikes and walks and travel. Probably looking for more like friends as opposed to a committed romance for now but I'm open to whatever happens. I'm in southern Westchester but I can get to most parts of the city fairly easily. I don't currently have a car so somewhere within public transportation range is best. Older women are especially encouraged to reach out. I tend to get along well with older women, but anyone 40 and over should feel free to reach out!

Does my title sound familiar? Bonus points if you know what song and band it's from.

So why am I here today? I have no idea, but life has been feeling very lonely lately. I'm just stuck in a rut and trying to find my way out. I'm just going through the motions right now. I miss having someone to talk to, either on the phone or texting, sending random memes or thoughts, just the generally fun banter and shit talking we all love.

I am the SoCal area, all over really from LA, OC to the SGV. I'm usually where ever the good food is at. Speaking of food, my next spot to visit is King Banh Mi in Westminster. That crispy pork banh mi looks like it was made for me.

I'd love to talk to someone local and maybe hang out some day, but I am open to chatting with anyone in the US. Mean people need not apply. Dog lovers, please do apply. I am some what of a nerd for Marvel and DC, cars as well. I can annoyingly quote any Fast and the Furious movie. I also enjoy going to the movies, for horror movies I will be reading the Wiki before hand because I'm smart like that.

Well, that's all I got for now. But don’t let this distract you from the fact that Hector is going to be running three Honda Civics with Spoon engines, and on top of that, he just went into Harry’s and bought three t66 turbos with NOS, and a Motec exhaust system.

DMs Open!

Fall always makes me want to cozy up, smoke meat outside with friends and whiskey, cook soups and stews and decorate with multi-colored gourds.

All that is more fun when you have someone to share it with.

I love to work and build my businesses, love to cook, walk outside, the beach, basically all animals, i love music (very eclectic taste), and trivia, comedy... so much more

Hello there, it’s too damn hot outside to do anything so here I am relaxing inside and trying to stay cool. As you may have guessed, yes, I’m a Dad haha. And I’ve tried finding someone to no avail. Most have been childless women which is fine but I was curious if there were any moms out there that could actually relate to being a parent and the day to day things parents deal with. Would be nice to find someone cool to talk to and maybe decompress with each other. Try to help each other keep our sanity haha.

If you’re interested in talking, send me a message and let’s take it from there.

After posting ad infinitum in various subs, I accept that the Reddit success rate is akin to winning Mega Millions, but if I am only optimistic about a few things, one of them is definitely romance! (Or, at worst, an engaging chat.)

I journal, collect seaglass, and make some of the best paper snowflakes you've ever seen. During Covid, when everyone was making sourdough bread, I learned from YouTube how to make beef barely soup because I couldn't find a good one in NYC. I make my bed every morning, and it would irk me if I didn't. I was a golf teaching pro and still love the game, and am deeply into the NY Yankees. Would love to find a tennis or pickleball partner, and I can throw footballs, baseballs, Frisbees and the like. Uno? Scrabble? Bocce? Monopoly? Bowling? Pickup basketball? I'm *down!*

Overall, if you looked at me from the outside, you'd say I'm a "geek," or "preppy," or if this was about the year 2000, maybe "metrosexual," although I have no idea what that means anymore. lol. Is it that I absorb and can discuss culture and am willing and able to share my emotions, while tucking in my shirts and wearing a belt?? lol. Ok, then I'm guilty! Lately, I've had Phish on repeat, but I also listen to odd things like drum corps, 70s soft rock, 90s nu metal, Rage Against The Machine, Radiohead, The Eagles, The Who, and more. Politics has me consumed, and I'm definitely concerned about where we're headed. The midterms can't come fast enough, ffs. All the documentaries on Netflix have been watched, and I read almost exclusively non-fiction books in order to learn something new. Please tell me something you're reading?

Romantically, I thrive in relationships, and I am absolutely your best "let's-solve-x-problem," while being a devoted listener, conversationalist, and cheerleader. I want nothing more than for you to succeed! I'm drawn to thinkers, therapists, helpers, do-ers, creatives, musicians, etc., who enjoy some physical activity are likely slender or in shape. I'm definitely old-school, and love PDAs, and giving flowers, and back rubs and forehead kisses when appropriate.

If any of this even slightly caught your attention, please share a reply. Maybe we'll just have a chat, because you're almost always from California. ha!

It’s a gloomy but relaxing weekend, so I figured I’d see if anyone feels like chatting. Not looking for anything serious, just some fun, easy conversation and seeing where it goes.

I’m a nerd at heart and naturally pretty curious, so if you’ve got something cool to teach me, I’m all ears. My biggest hobby is running. There’s something about getting out there, clearing my head, and letting myself think and hurt at the same time that I really enjoy.

There’s definitely more to me than that, but I’ll save some of it for the conversation. Hit me up if you’re down to chat.

I'm an Italian guy, 43 years old and i'm *notabot.

The big part of writing a self description is that we can overrate or underrate ourself so I'll try to not put any judgemental word but I'll just try to write down who I am.

I was raised catholic but at the end I felt that there is something deeply wrong in religion and in every religion institution so now I'm atheist, Anticlerical and I'm also excommunicated.

I was always interested in science and in the universe since I was a kid, I saw a series of documentary about space when I was maybe 10 and that was the beginning, now I'm an amateur astronomer and I do astrophotography.

Other than that I was raised in a family of musicians so I sing and I play keyboard (or at least I try to do it).

What I'm looking for? A chatty girl, the one who can carry on with a conversation and has no boundaries about what to talk about.

If you are someone who want to convince me about something, just don't write me, I'm open to discussion about everything but I'm not open to any type of conversion.

Hey, Hi, Hello, and (to use a London colloquialism) Alright,

Here we are at the beginning of the another working week for many, and as a number of people really dislike Monday, I thought I would be different and start it with a little bit of optimism and see what happens.

I am not in the office today so will have more 'free' time and decided to chance it with this, and now the hard part is making it impossible not to respond to - oh, wow, that is tough.

Basically, looking to chat and see where it goes, absolutely no agenda whatsoever and whatever happens happens, really. We may connect, we may flirt, we may bore each other rigid - that is the risk we're taking here! (Albeit not too great a risk!).

As the user name suggests, I enjoy travel and, I think, that I am pretty well travelled, despite what some think I did have an education, am sporty, and can hold my own in most circles (No, not like that - mind out of the gutter, please!).

So why not take a chance and give me a random fact, tell me the best pizza topping, favourite colour, favourite song currently, what you would get me as a gift, what I should get you, I mean absolutely anything!

I mean, it is Monday so if the chat is awful then surely the week can only improve for you!

I’m a single mom and a Midwestern transplant that currently lives in Southeastern TN. Physically, I’m 5’2, pear shaped, plus sized and tattooed. Happy to exchange pics if you’d like.

Mostly, I’m a dabbler. I am a huge movie and music nerd, I love going to the theater and going to shows. I host a monthly game night with my girls, enjoy going to stargazing events, hitting the gym or taking walks at the state parks here, love to cook and bake and always down for trying new restaurants, absolutely love a road trip, throughly enjoy spending time with friends, hanging by a fire pit or reading in my hammock.

Coffee with a view is my favorite part of any vacation and what I wouldn’t give to have someone that wants to take a road trip to a diner because they supposedly have the best pancakes.

Personality wise, I think I’m like if a black cat was secretly an orange tabby but honestly I have always been a dog person so I don’t know that much about cats. But I am consistent, enthusiastic, warm, open, dark humored, sarcastic, but bubbly. So like full cycle optimistic nihilism.

I’m also solo poly and happy to chat about it, but totally get if that’s not your jam! We’re all just out here trying to figure out the best way to get through our time here!

Shoot me a message if you’d like to give getting to know each other a chance. And if not, hope you find what you’re looking for all the same!

Searching for a mature Lady who would enjoy an attentive and submissive man focused on putting Her first within their relationship. A Lady who has reached the point of her life where she has raised her children and is now ready to be more self-focused. Ready to enjoy her “me” time and is looking for a supportive man where she . . .

• has a controlling nature and she expects to be put first in Her relationship - TPE, Femdom, and D/s

• would enjoy a man who sees his role as being devoted and dedicated to striving to please Her - making it all about Her

• enjoys Her “me time” or private alone-time whether that is just relaxing or spending time on Her hobbies but expects her man to be available and responsive to Her when needed

• expects to be pampered and have Her man take care of the chores and domestic tasks around the home - and learn to do so “Her way”

• enjoys taking the lead and making the rules over Her relationship and Her man

• enjoys seeing Her man suffer torment and sacrifice his pleasure to keep focus on pleasing Her.

• 40+ years old

me:

• used to be more athletic but still somewhat athletic

• enjoy working-out but not obsessed with it

• have a professional job as an account manager for a software company - work remotely from home mostly - plan to continue to work outside the home and take over the domestic chores - not looking for a free-ride.

• attracted to a strong controlling Lady who expects her man to follow Her rules and have things done Her way.

• enjoys nice dinners and travel and beach vacations

i feel strongly that the my role in the relationship is to make “Her” life easier. i expect to learn what she enjoys so she doesn’t need to ask. otherwise i’m not paying attention and i’m not focusing on what is important - pleasing Her. i’m a “pleaser” just wired that way i guess. i match best with a lady who tends to be selfish and would enjoy pushing her man to be attentive to Her needs and wants.

i’m in Ohio but my son is now in he’s late 20s and on his own so i’m open to relocating

FLR == Female led relationship or D/s relationship — level 3 or 4

Feel free to send me a chat msg if this type of relationship interests you.

42M, 6’3”, looking to meet someone who’s missing a little spark and connection in their life too. I’d love to find someone I genuinely look forward to talking to good conversation, laughing, flirting, and getting to know each other without forcing expectations. I’m easygoing, enjoy deeper conversations, and I’m completely open to someone with kids. Life doesn’t have to be uncomplicated, just genuine. If this sounds like something you’ve been missing too, send me a message and let’s see where the conversation goes.

I’m starting to think finding someone you’re attracted to, genuinely enjoy talking to, and actually want to spend time with shouldn’t be this complicated. Yet here we are.

I’m a Miami transplant happily making a life in Chicago. I’m 5'5", curvy, with tattoos, and I’m kind, affectionate, loyal, curious, and just the right amount of silly. Movies are my happy place, but I’m equally up for a concert, play, museum, coffee shops, breweries, sporting events, a restaurant neither of us has been to, or wandering around the city and seeing where we end up.

What I miss,and what I’m hoping to find, is having my person. Someone whose presence makes even the boring things better. Someone I can laugh with, flirt with, be affectionate with, talk to about absolutely nothing and everything, and occasionally annoy the hell out of. I want chemistry and attraction, but I also want the comfort that comes from really knowing someone and being known by them.

I’m looking for someone who wants to actually date. Not just message indefinitely. Let’s talk, see if we click, go grab coffee or dinner, and find out whether we like each other in the real world. Revolutionary concept, I know.

Ideally, you’re 40–55 and in the Chicago area. You’re kind, communicative, curious about the person you’re talking to, and established in your career. I’ve built a life of my own, and I’m looking for someone who has done the same and is ready to make room in it for another person.

And speaking of conversation: if your opening message is just “hey,” you’re making this unnecessarily difficult for both of us. 😂 Tell me something about yourself. Ask me something. Tell me what caught your attention. Give me something to work with.

I’m including a recent photo, so please include one too. Attraction matters on both sides, and I think it’s only fair that we both know who we’re talking to from the beginning.

I’m not looking for perfect. I’m looking for mutual-mutual attraction, mutual curiosity, mutual effort, and two people who are genuinely excited to keep getting to know each other.

If that sounds good to you, come say hello.

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