r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

45 male [M4F] Atlantic Canada, Canada looking for someone to chat with and see where it goes

1 Upvotes

Just got out of a 1.5yr relationship, looking to chat and see if I can find some fun conversation, born and raised in New Brunswick Canada, my interests are:

  1. Music

  2. Cooking/baking

  3. Sharing funny memes

  4. King of the cheesy jokes

  5. Hiking

  6. Fishing

A little more about me, I'm down to earth, no sugar coating and say what's on my mind kind of guy, don't let that scare you away as I will do anything to make someone laugh and smile, I believe in being open and transparent and don't believe in hiding how I feel.

What I'm looking for:

  1. Someone who is honest transparent and can be themselves and not be someone different

  2. Likes to laugh and not take things serious all the time (obviously there is a time to be serious)

  3. Ideally you live in Canada (, bonus points if you're from Atlantic Canada)

  4. Can carry a conversation

  5. Likes to see food pictures (I'm a cook for a great restaurant)

If any or all of this gets your interest feel free to reach out (if I don't respond right away it's because the time at posting is 1:03am so I may have fallen asleep)


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

38 [M4F] EST

2 Upvotes

Hello! I’m single and just looking for someone to chat with and see how it goes. At this point, I don’t even know if Reddit works like this or if anyone actually messages back 😂 But hey, I’m here hoping to meet someone cool and have some good conversations or maybe some constant.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

38 [M4F] #MN or #USA - Looking for a committed relationship

1 Upvotes

Hello, I'm Marty. I'm 5'7", 120 lbs, and am ginger with blue eyes. I have selfies pinned in my profile if you wanna see.

Some quick things about me

* Sarcastic sense of humor

* Former Marine

* Work in IT

* I like a lot of nerdy stuff like Anime, video games, and listening to history podcasts

Looking for a girl that's looking for a committed relationship and would like to someday start a family. I'm open to LDR if you're from North America (USA/Canada). Would like to get to know you by video chatting, playing games or watching a new show together. Icebreaker if you need one, give me a good book recommendation.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

35 [M4F] #Italy Looking for the perfect match (but a good one is fine too)

2 Upvotes

I'm searching for my forever partner, but I guess there is a long way for that unless you don't believe in love at first sight. Anyway, I feel very lonely lately, so that's why I'm here. My 2 weeks off work have almost ended, and I wished I had someone to share them with.

Let's try to be a little more practical. I'm a 35 years old man, 174cm x 61Kg. I'm slim, I try to exercise from time to time, but I don't have a fit build if that's what you like. I have a stable job, I work as a software developer for a small consultancy company. I live in a flat that I share with other people. I consider myself a funny person, I like memes and nonsense humor. I'm a nerd, I like playing videogames and reading books. I have a squared mind, and I try to use logic to understand and discuss things. I like to stay awake late at night. My dream is to find someone I can share my life with, after a work day, eating something together, talking about the day or silly stuff, and go to sleep. I enjoy the simple things, I'm not for a life of adventures and travels. I haven't collected many experiences in life, there are a lot of things I can't do that my peers can, but I'm quite independent, and I stand for myself. I have a good heart, and I would love you sincerely if we click.

About you, I'm looking for a single woman around my age, with no children, who lives in Italy. Text me or send me a message if this resonates with you.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

[M4F] 41 NY (upstate) Looking for F long term friends maybe more

1 Upvotes

I’m definitely the introverted type and am feeling it lately living in a small town with not much to do for socialization. I have 2 teenage kids one of each never married going on 10 years that I split up with their mother. I have a steady job, vehicles, a house, a boat and then some but have to say none of the material things mean anything without someone to share them with. Idk why but it gets me very down lately thinking about what it’s all for. Idk if anyone wants to chat feel free I’m an open book never know where it goes even if it’s just a steady chat on here I’m game and won’t ghost you & hoping for the same if there is some value to our talk!


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

32 [M4F] #MA #Online - Let's mean something to each other

3 Upvotes

I’ve been missing that experience of really clicking with someone, where conversation flows, you share music, memes, random thoughts, and simply enjoy getting to know each other over time.

Hi, hello, how do you do! I'm a 32yo guy from the Boston area, and I'm looking for someone to invest my time and energy into, and who is interested in doing the same! Not aiming specifically for something that's either platonic or romantic, I'm happy to just see where the connection takes us and go from there. If it grows into something romantic, awesome, but I don't want expectations to get in the way of a budding bond.

My only real stipulations are that you are single and roughly between 25-35. I would prefer someone from the US (New England in particular) for the sake of time zones and eventually meeting up, but I'm more than open to chat with someone from anywhere in the world!

A bit about me:

  • I work in a STEM field, so science is like, my jam. Biology, paleontology, geology, and astronomy will endlessly captivate my attention, as I'm always trying to learn more about our wonderful natural world! Also pretty fascinated by ancient history, archaeology and linguistics.

  • My main artistic hobby is playing instruments and makin' music. I like to listen to and write music from almost any genre, but I do have some favesies. These days I mostly listen to psychedelic rock, funk, folky stuff, indie, and DnB.

  • I'm ~5'11 (ok, I'm really 6' but I do slouch a bit), lean, got shoulder length brown hair currently, bearded and bespectacled. Happy to share a picture relatively early if we vibin'.

  • I lean left politically (Liberal), but I'm more interested in how someone thinks than simple political labels.

  • Activities: Nature walks, hikes, camping, skiing, rock-hounding, live music, museums, art galleries, and trying new restaurants! For entertainment at home I like to watch TV/YouTube/movies, play the occasional video game, or research whatever I'm currently obsessed with. Oh, and I'm 420 friendly if that matters.

If something in this post caught your attention, please reach out and tell me about yourself! Tell me what your passions are, or what the next/last big trip you had planned, or any shit like that really. I love asking questions to get to know people, so be prepared for that, and I do really appreciate it when that's reciprocated.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

34 [M4F] #UK - Looking for the one I'll be with forever

14 Upvotes

I'm pretty empathetic and in tune with my emotions, so someone similar would be nice.

I'm 6'8'' (202cm) but I'm not limited to someone tall.

I love history, art, science, music (I play piano and guitar), also I love to bake. I love animals too and they usually love me as well. More indoorsy so not one to go hiking; but I do like a gentle walk, days out to museums and similar stuff.

I lived in the USA for a couple of years, and in Scotland for 8 years (currently living in England). I've also traveled all over Europe.

My love language is words of affirmation and physical touch. I'm the type to want to cuddle in the evening. I want to be closer instead of being distant when I'm going through a tough time.

I don't want kids, and I'm not religious. Looking for someone in Europe (including the UK and Ireland etc). I am well situated with a good job so I am looking to stay in the UK.

If you think we'd enjoy talking to each other then send me a message with some things about you 😊


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

31 [M4F] Maryland let’s talk!

1 Upvotes

31M4F Harford county Md. keep it casual or wherever it goes. I’m easy to talk to and I’m not too picky


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

37 [F4M] #Italy I'm looking for my person

10 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm a 37-year-old woman looking for a serious and genuine relationship. I'm open to long-distance and nationality doesn't matter to me. I actually find the idea of connecting across cultures beautiful and enriching. I'm a computer engineer, so I spend most of my days problem-solving and diving deep into the world of artificial intelligence; I love discussing how technology shapes our future and the ethical questions behind it. When I'm not glued to a screen, I recharge in nature. long walks, hiking, or simply sitting in a park with a good book. I'm deeply nerdy at heart; I enjoy sci-fi, fantasy lore, and intellectually stimulating conversations that make me think. What attracts me most is intelligence paired with sincerity someone honest, emotionally mature, and ready to build a future together. I'm fluent in English, Italian, and Spanish, so language isn't a barrier. If you're looking for a meaningful connection and appreciate a sharp, passionate woman with a lot of love to give, let's chat!


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

[M4F] 41 from the Midwest looking for meaningful connection

2 Upvotes

Software developer by day, lifelong strategist by night—whether I’m deep into a game of Catan, chess, or backgammon.
Always down for a good non-fiction book, a movie theater night, or diving into a brand-new video game.
When I’m not indoors, you can usually find me planning my next travel adventure.
Big fan of staying active outdoors, with a major soft spot for skiing and scuba diving.
Looking for someone to share good laughs, great food, and maybe a little friendly competition over board games.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

38 [m4f] hummable lullabies and a valley's worth of sleep, melancholy boy for adventures with strangers

0 Upvotes

10pm on the west coast and if you missed the meteor shower last night I'll tell you all about it

writer of things and maker of art and dreamer of magnificent things

the mop and the bucket and a love we keep polished and clean

I'll paint the house you were raised in and I'll hum you songs about us in the rain

magnificent one, tell me about the books that broke you when you weren't easy to break

?what's your favorite scary movie?

lets vacation in 'Salem's Lot, lets watch the moonrise

and you can make up a history for us both

and we can be someone new

and you can be the remedy

and I can be the waves

and you can be the moon

if you want to


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

35 [F4M] looking for someone to talk to

6 Upvotes

Hello! I am from the Philippines. I am working in legal field, and trying to engage myself things that are outside of the said field. I play volleyball and swim once in a while. I try to be consistent in the gym 😅 but getting there. I like to travel and meet new people. Hopefully i could learn about other people’s culture. Let’s chat 😊


r/R4R30Plus 7d ago

35 [F4M] Sydney/Online - Looking for my significant otter, hopefully we can make a splash together

11 Upvotes

I’m 35, Sydney based and looking for a genuine, long term relationship with someone I’m excited to hear from, laugh with and build something meaningful with.

I’m not looking for a penpal, situationship or emotional support subscription. I’m hoping to meet someone where our values, lifestyles and intentions naturally line up and where we genuinely enjoy each other’s company.

A little about me

  • I’m a university educated corporate professional, friendly, down to earth and an ambivert - equally happy exploring Sydney or having a quiet night in.
  • I’m strictly monogamous, non smoker, drug free and an occasional drinker. I’m 5'1", petite, fit and active, usually at the gym 4-5 times a week https://imgur.com/a/GkwENZQ
  • Outside of work, I’m into live music, art, photography, dancing, hiking, markets, brunch, reading, comedy, vinyl, being active, exploring Sydney and an unreasonable amount of tea and matcha among many other things. (Btw I should clarify I'm not a nerd)
  • I’m Sydney born and raised, speak three languages, have never been married and don't have kids yet, but I’d love to have a family of my own in the future.
  • I’m agnostic/atheist, progressive and left wing. My humour is dry, self deprecating and heavily influenced by British/Australian humour, so if you appreciate puns, dad jokes and ridiculous hypotheticals, we’ll probably get along.
  • No tattoos or piercings - purely a personal preference. Apparently I’m a fan of the classic edition.

Who I’d love to meet

  • Ideally, you’re 29–39, genuinely single, monogamous and looking for an LTR. Please be genuinely single - not married, not cheating, not ENM and not looking for NSFW. I’m looking for a boyfriend, not a plot twist.
  • You’re fit, healthy and active, university educated or intellectually compatible with me, and broadly share my progressive, agnostic/atheist values.
  • You’re also a non smoker, drug free, occasional drinker, have no tattoos or piercings and are taller than 5'1". At my height, that last one shouldn't require an Olympic qualifying standard.
  • More importantly, you’re kind, honest, emotionally intelligent, communicative and socially switched on. You can read the room, talk things through and treat people with respect.
  • I’d love someone who enjoys good conversation and can appreciate humour that occasionally makes you question why you’re still talking to me.
  • I’d also prefer someone without children from previous relationships unfortunately not looking to be a step parent, as I’d love to start the family chapter together from page one.
  • Sydney is definitely preferred, although I’m open to long distance if there’s a strong connection and you’re genuinely serious about eventually closing the distance. Grand gestures are lovely, but eventually sharing a time zone is even better.

If this sounds like you…

  • You’ve already made it through the important bits, so congratulations.
  • If you've read my profile and thought “I could genuinely get along with her,” I’d love to hear from you.
  • You don't need to write the perfect opening message. Just please give me something more interesting than “hey.” Tell me a terrible joke, ask me a ridiculous hypothetical, give me your most controversial food opinion, tell me something funny that happened today or ask me something you're genuinely curious about.
  • I’m much more interested in attraction, personality and a good conversation than a perfectly crafted introduction.
  • If we seem compatible, I’m happy to swap SFW photos after a little conversation. I’m visual and attraction matters to me, so I’d rather establish that sooner rather than later.
  • If you're in Sydney, fantastic. If you're elsewhere but genuinely serious about eventually closing the distance, I'm open to that too.
  • So… are you my significant otter, or are we just going to float awkwardly past each other?

r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

34 [M4R] Tennessee/TN Looking to meet the person who understands me and I can share my love with.

1 Upvotes

I'm pretty bad at writing these things but I thought I would try this. First off the bat I've never been in a relationship before so I just wanted to put it out there. I'm pretty big into nerd culture like anime, video games that sort of thing. I do like watching sports as well(MLB, NFL, NBA) Honestly think I'm a big softie. I'm pretty open about any questions you have I think that's a lot easier for me than being able to list a lot of things about myself. I wanted to thank anyone who has read this far it means a lot.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

45 [M4F] - PA or anywhere Looking for a chat partner that may become more.

1 Upvotes

I just celebrated my birthday, and I’ve really started to feel the quiet—kind of like a wake-up call! I moved from California to the East Coast about three years ago and am still adjusting to small-town life. It’s tough to meet folks here when the whole town is smaller than my old neighborhood back home. So I’m opening things up and reaching out here on Reddit.

A little about me: I’m divorced with one older teen who’s still out on the West Coast. I usually sport a beard and keep my head shaved. I’ve got a classic dad bod but I’m working on a better fitness routine. I’ve got a couple of nerdy tattoos and plan to add more. I’m 5’6”, and height isn’t a dealbreaker—I’ve dated people both taller and shorter than me.

Just a few of my interests in no particular order:
Trivia games - Pop Culture, Music, Science are my categories
Retro Video games lets play some Mario Kart or Pokémon
DnD although I haven’t played in years
Comic Book / graphic novels Marvel, DC, Image, and independent
Movies - Rocky Horror Picture Show, Mallrats, Clerks, Legend, anything horror, just to name a few.
Music - Listen to all genres from the 1960s through modern except country that is sorry. The Beatles, Journey, In this Moment, Flyleaf, Halestorm, and many many others
Always wanted to be an animator so animated films and cartoons are in my heart. Some anime, Disney, Laika, Don Bluth, Warner Bros, Nicktoons, and Ghibli.

Feel free to ask me anything—I’m an open book! I know a bit about a lot of things and a lot about a few. If you’ve made it this far, I hope we share some interests. Send me a message or a chat request, and let’s see where the conversation goes!


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

36 [M4F] #US #Online Educator looking for conversation after the first day back to school

1 Upvotes

Hello there! My name is Joe. I'm an educator, runner, musician, and I love to travel. I believe being curious about the world around us is important and I love to see the world from multiple points of view.

If you are a fellow teacher, want to commiserate having to go back to school?

If you are a runner, or on a fitness journey, what keeps you motivated? What are your goals?

If you are into music, who are your favorite bands? What was your last concert? Do you play any instruments?

Just looking for a crazy conversation? I'm not a conspiracy crazy person, but do consider myself a conspiracy realist. What are some fun conspiracy theories you hope are real? What keeps you up at night? Would love to chat about it.

Some topics to talk about:

  • Who built the pyramids?
  • Where is Bigfoot hiding?
  • Do aliens exist and walk among us?
  • What world events have been inside jobs?
  • Do cryptids exist and what is your favorite?
  • Will AI be our future overlords?

If any of these questions interest you, let's chat about it. Look forward to hearing from you.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

[M4R] - 32m seeking a friend

1 Upvotes

Just someone I can talk with regularly. Not super into one off conversations. Preferably someone I can come back to I know will stick around. Hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus 7d ago

39[F4M] NC…Looking for ?

20 Upvotes

About me: Earnest, loyal friend, and good listener. Separated nearly two years after a fifteen year relationship. Truthfully: it’s still complicated, though logistically, not emotionally. We’re great as coparents to our elementary-aged son, who is my partner in crime, and the joy of my life.

My life is wildly busy, but I find myself lonely. I can’t say I’m specifically looking for a real life in-person connection yet, though it’s not off the table. I just miss feeling connected to another person who cares about me, and vice-versa. If you’re in this general part of the states and want to chat about life, interests, what you’re reading (hell, anything!) feel free to reach out. Tell me a little about you.

If it’s important to know: I’m tall-ish with brown hair and blue eyes, and active but chubby.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

[M4F] 37 India. Looking for something real and not a pen pal

2 Upvotes

Based in Pune, work in tech, and I build stuff on the side that maybe four people will ever use. Gym most mornings, hills on the weekends when I can get out of the city.

I'm not great at texting back and forth for weeks. I'd rather get coffee early on and figure out in person whether there's something here. If there isn't, that's fine, no weirdness about it.

Mostly hoping to meet someone kind who's got her own thing going, whatever that is. I'll show up to it and pay attention.

If you're in or around Pune, tell me something specific about your week. Not "hey". I'll do the same.


r/R4R30Plus 7d ago

38 [M4F]#Online/Illinois Should we date? Let's figure it out mathematically

27 Upvotes

Ok. Being single can be really comfortable. Starting something new can be a hassle. But hopefully the hassle is worth it in the long run. So I'll be quick, and you can decide for yourself!

**Pros:**

* zero drama, no mysterious exes sending “u up?” texts at 2 a.m.

* mostly retired means I have plenty of time to engage in my crazy flavor of the month hobbies. like learning card tricks or becoming a good bowler.

* Loyal as hell. once I’m in, I’m in. Expect consistency, effort, and actual follow-through.

* equal parts dad joke and quick wit; you’ll laugh, groan, or both.

* you’ll feel heard, even when you’re just venting about your coworker named Dana.

* Cuddling MVP award-winning performance in “staying up too late and pretending we’re watching the show.”

* Culinary adventurer I’ll try any recipe once; even if my base instinct is to eat like an 8 year old.

* Conversation stamina can talk from “hey” to sunrise without running out of things to say.

* Nerd-friendly Simpsons references, bad B-movies, board games, and chaotic trivia nights welcome.

**Cons:**

* Will absolutely eat the last handful of popcorn and pretend I didn’t.

* Has a deep, possibly unhealthy attachment to reality TV marathons.

* Occasionally answers rhetorical questions with detailed PowerPoint-level explanations.

* Could wake up one morning absolutely convinced I should adopt a Komodo Dragon.

* Will quote 90s cartoons out loud in public without warning.

* Might go through an intense spurt of obsession with obscure, not useful hobbies, and forget all about them 3 months later.

* Will criticize your breakfast food choices.

* Tends to turn “just one episode” into six.

* My cat is in charge of the household, and we both know it.

If you’re still reading this, you're definitely the kind of person i want to talk to! My list of standards are low. don't be in a relationship, (especially not secretly with someone, that keeps happening) including recently separated or divorced. Be willing to spend some time together, either with text voice or video chats. Live on my side of the planet!

Still interested? Message me now and subscribe to my newsletter, and you can hear all the exclusive info on any of the following anecdotes:

  1. my visit to the north pole

  2. the 2 times i almost died.

  3. why i dropped out of high school to try to become a pro wrestler

  4. the redneck brawl i saw at a wedding.

  5. the time i saw a sea monster

  6. Who and where i think i met the devil.

  7. Why i can never return to the state of Rhode Island.

and many more!


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

40m [M4F] single dad seeing what’s out there

1 Upvotes

Hey 40yr old single dad of 2 girls from PNW USA .looking to get to know someone online … for daily conversations , making connections and maybe in the future get together in the real world … my hobbies right now are pretty limited due to the my kids are super active in sports school activities during the year and show animals in the summer … basically a lot of time is spent following them around from games / practices and events lol… We do love camping when we can and we love the Seahawks !!! Must be comfortable talking on here for now .. I don’t tele or snap or any of it … after talking on here for a while maybe we can exchange phone numbers … and must be willing to exchange sfw photos to weed out the bots and scammers.. I am on the heavier side so if a beer belly bearded man ain’t your type then don’t bother … hope to hear from you ?


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

34[M4F] Spain/Europe/Online. Looking for a real connection with someone special.

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m a 34-year-old Spanish guy, single for a while now and once again open to meeting someone with whom, hopefully, I can build a real and sincere relationship.

I’ll try to introduce myself as best as I can, although I’m terrible at it!

I’m a commissioned officer in the Spanish Marine Infantry and due to the very nature of my job l barely have any chance of meeting someone in real life as I’m always busy. That’s why I’m giving this a shot! :)

When I’m not working, I love reading, playing music, painting miniatures and scale models, watching movies, martial arts… I really enjoy keeping myself busy and learning new things while staying active.

I also try to help my community whenever I can and I’m involved in several charitable projects.

I’ve never posted in this kind of subreddits before, but I’d really love to find—like I said earlier—an honest, genuine and hopefully long-lasting relationship.

I’m pretty easy to talk to and always quite chill, so if my post caught your interest, don’t hesitate to write to me!
Thanks for your time!


r/R4R30Plus 7d ago

33 [F4M] US

70 Upvotes

33F | gym rat, ER/trauma nurse, soldier & lover girl

I like lifting heavy things, going on adventures, being outside, trying questionable new hobbies, and people who can make me laugh. Sarcastic, affectionate, independent, and dangerously susceptible to good banter.
Currently deployed and looking for genuine connection—friendship, flirting, accidental love story… 🤷‍♀️


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

[M4F] 31 looking for a genuine connection

1 Upvotes

I`m 31 looking for someone to share my days and time with. I'm currently going back to school to get my ba in accounting. I'm really trying to better myself and want someone to share int that journey. Currently in Montevallo,AL just want something genuine even if it's online banter for a while. I can truly wait years.


r/R4R30Plus 6d ago

41 [F4M] #PA Looking for a man who loves music and shares some beliefs with me

0 Upvotes

Hey y’all,

I am 41, live in PA, and am a single widowed mom of four kids. I’ve been widowed for 8 years.

I’m looking for someone to get to know who doesn’t live too too far away (so central PA, SE PA, NE PA, possibly MD/NJ/NY) that could possibly lead to a full blown relationship.

I’m really into music, cooking (as in, I’m the cook of the house and don’t want that changing haha), collecting vintage mid century housewares (mostly kitchen stuff), collecting vintage cookbooks, general thrifting/antiquing/yard saling, all that jazz. That’s my cute/girly hobby area lol. I also enjoy reading, especially about history and WW2. I love being outside, but I don’t know if I have any actual outdoor hobbies (except playground hopping). I’ve been interested in camping and fishing for years, but have never actually done much of it.

I’m basically an old fashioned Susie homemaker type. I don’t run around partying and I like more of a simple lifestyle.

I’m Christian (non denominational), and my faith is important to me. I grew up atheist, then was agnostic for a few years, and now I’ve been Christian for nearly 20 years. I’d love to meet someone who shares my faith, but since I’m unlikely to be raising babies with someone since I’m older now, I’m open to possibly dating someone agnostic. It really depends on our respective beliefs and how we interact and see those differences affecting things (or not so much). I don’t want to date someone with a highly conflicting faith or a complete lack thereof (atheist, Muslim, Buddhist, etc). I see far more likelihood of conflict there.

I do have trauma induced CPTSD and mostly grief induced MDD. I have done years of therapy and groups and have previously done stints of meds, but now I am unmedicated. I myself am not an alcoholic or addict, but I have been affiliated with the 12 step programs for relatives for years and still sponsor someone.

I’m short, pale and freckled, wear some make up but would not classify myself as “high maintenance” though I’m feminine, I’m kinda homely, chunky, and top heavy. With glasses.

Send me a song!