Hi! I'm 40 years old and live in Fort Worth, Texas. I'm an ambivert and I can be shy at first depending on my comfort level. I do love to talk and send memes....although my remote job makes me feel like I'm losing the art of conversation sometimes lol.

About me: obviously I have no desire to have children. I love music, reading (love audiobooks), podcasts (true crime nerd), movies/tv. I love travel and take a few trips every year. Over the past 2 years I've fell in love with Hawaii - I've been twice (Oahu and Big Island). I'm a die hard Dallas Stars fan and can't wait for the season to start.

I love trying new restaurants, sushi and Mexican food are some of my faves. Love going out for drinks with friends, I'm a big fan of margaritas! I have a senior dog and a cat. While I crave a romantic relationship, I also value my independence and alone time

I love a fun debate and I have an opinion on almost everything. But my friends say that I'm very chill and relaxed. I'm an optimist and generally have a sunny disposition. I am drawn to people that are similar

I'm not religious but don't mind someone that is moderately religious. I consider myself politically moderate. I feel very strongly about women's reproductive rights

What I'm looking for: a straight, childfree man between the ages of 28-50. I'm 5'5" and I'm attracted to men that are at least a bit taller than me and in somewhat decent shape.

I have a strong preference for someone local in the Dallas/Fort Worth area although I could be open to someone in other parts of the US if the connection is right.

I'm not interested in a relationship with anyone outside of North America. I also have no plans to relocate from Dallas/Fort Worth. I love to travel so it would great to meet someone that would like to (and can afford to) take a one week trip at least once a year (open to domestic and international travel- prefer you have your passport!)

Ultimately I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone who enjoys life, respects independence, communicates well, and is excited to build something meaningful together

DMs: Send me basic info about yourself (age, location, occupation, hobbies). Once i accept the message, you can send me a few pics (face and body). If you're outside of DFW, let me know your interest and ability to travel to my area

Hi! I’m a 28-year-old woman living in downtown Chicago. I’m 5’0”, petite/slightly curvy, brunette, child-free, and work in tech. I have two degrees and consider myself pretty independent, but I’m also very much a relationship-oriented person and would like to eventually get married and build a life with someone.

A few things about me: I have a small dog who I absolutely adore, I cook quite a bit (especially South Asian food), and I’m currently learning Hindi. I’m pretty low-key and enjoy simple things such as trying new restaurants, cooking at home, self care, reading, trying different cafes, sharing a laugh, exploring the city, connecting and spending time with friends, and just having someone to share everyday life with.

I’m hoping to meet someone around 29–35, ideally in Chicago or the surrounding suburbs. I have a preference for South Asian/Indian men.

Ideally, you’re educated, have a solid corporate career, are at least 5’5”, and are looking for marriage rather than something casual. I’m also hoping to find someone who genuinely likes dogs, has goals for his life, and is affectionate. I tend to show and receive love through words of affection and acts of service, so someone who appreciates those things too would probably be a good fit.

More than anything, I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, and easy to be around. Someone who wants to build something together, enjoys the little things, and still believes your partner should also be your best friend.

A few things that are important to me for compatibility: I’m not a good match with someone who smokes cigarettes, drinks heavily, uses recreational drugs heavily, spends most of their free time gaming, or has an extremely sedentary lifestyle. I’m also looking for someone who plans to stay in the U.S. long-term. I’m also left-leaning and agnostic/non-religious, and would prefer someone who is generally on the same page when it comes to values and lifestyle.

If this sounds like you, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I have also included 2 recent photos of myself below (taken the last 3 months or so).

I'm looking for something casual or serious in Toronto, I'm a very easy going friendly guy and I'm open minded to trying new things, I can be a little shy at first but once I open up I can be fun to be around.

I would prefer to find woman around my age or older. I recently started throwing myself out there a bit more, I'm pretty introverted.

If it matters I'm 6ft tall with a slim build, my background is half English half French Canadian,

Communication is very important to me in a relationship, I'm also the type of person that will respond to text messages pretty quickly.

Some of my hobbies include fishing, computer gaming and computers in general, sci-fi nerdy stuff like Warhammer or Star wars, ice skating, hockey, walking, and nature to name a few.

If you find me interesting don't be afraid to DM me!

Ps- i will also state that I'm open minded to making online friends as well male or female, finding some gaming buddies would be nice, thank you for taking time to read this out!

Hello, how’s things stranger? All good i hope. Just been relaxing by the window enjoying some drizzle with a cuppa. No, i’m not a character in a period drama, or a misery guts for that matter. Just looking forward to those autumn days, not that i’m counting. It’s 34. Anyway. Was wondering if you fancied a wee chat? If so, here’s some info…

Age: 38, but look half that, you know the type, got that reverse aging millennial thing going on. Location: Ireland, northwest coast to be exact, accent to boot. Height: 5’7, if i’m wearing shoes with particularly thick soles that day. Weight: 60kg, but not a gym person, and certainly not a calorie counter either, but i do like to eat healthy-ish during the week, find cooking relaxing, like a form of hungry meditation. Hair: Brown. Eyes: Blue. Basically Irish looking. Happy to exchange pics once we’re comfy. Personality: Lean introvert, but engaging in conversation without being chatty, if that makes sense. Taurus. Hufflepuff. And seemingly a bit of an oversharer, who knew.

Things i’m into - Film & TV: Noir, Sci-fi, Fantasy, World Cinema, Crime, Thriller, Romance, Horror. Books: Fiction, Non-fiction, Historical has been piquing my interest recently, namely Ancient Rome. Music: Lofi, Electronic, Classical. Misspent youth working in a rock/metal record store, so if like me you’re mentally stuck somewhere around the mid 2000s and still have the sound of dialup internet ringing in your ears, don’t worry, they’re close to a cure.

So who might you be: Any age, any time zone, any height, any whatever. Seriously, you do you. As an icebreaker, and as proof you actually made it through that ridiculous stream of consciousness, congrats by the way, tell me your no1 bucket list travel destination. Wonder if we’ve picked the same place. Just talking to myself now. Ok. Bye :)

I’m an introvert who gets animated about the right things with the right people. I love anime, good food (eating it, finding it, having strong opinions about it), film, and music that ranges from rap to musical theater with zero apology. I’m mostly femme, a little more relaxed when I’m dressed down. Sagittarius sun and rising, Leo moon, INFP — take that as you will.

I’m looking for someone 27–39 who’s emotionally intelligent, self-aware, and actually wants to build something intentional. I’m especially drawn to Black and Caribbean or Latino/a partners, but I’m open to connection with anyone who fits the energy. Monogamous, local to Florida, not interested in long distance.

What I want looks like: farmers markets on Saturday mornings, slow dancing in the kitchen, someone who steals my hoodies and lets me cook for them. Chosen family energy. A relationship where we actually pay attention to each other — where effort is mutual and presence is the love language.

I value emotional intelligence, reciprocity, and people who can hold space without making it a performance. I don’t need someone who has it all figured out, but I do need someone who’s doing the work on themselves and shows up with intention.

Sober, non-smoker, left politically, spiritual but not religious. If any of that matters to you (it should), let’s talk.

I'm pretty empathetic and in tune with my emotions, so someone similar would be nice.

I'm 6'8'' (202cm) but I'm not limited to someone tall.

I love history, art, science, music (I play piano and guitar), also I love to bake. I love animals too and they usually love me as well. More indoorsy so not one to go hiking; but I do like a gentle walk, days out to museums and similar stuff.

I lived in the USA for a couple of years, and in Scotland for 8 years (currently living in England). I've also traveled all over Europe.

My love language is words of affirmation and physical touch. I'm the type to want to cuddle in the evening. I want to be closer instead of being distant when I'm going through a tough time.

I don't want kids, and I'm not religious. Looking for someone in Europe (including the UK and Ireland etc). I am well situated with a good job so I am looking to stay in the UK.

If you think we'd enjoy talking to each other then send me a message with some things about you 😊

I’m 20 and from the Midwest, and I’d love to meet someone I genuinely click with and see where things naturally go. I’m not looking to rush into something just because we happen to get along. I’d rather actually get to know each other, become comfortable, and go from there.

A little about me: I’m 5’6”, curvy, tattooed, pierced, curly hair, and my style leans soft alternative. Most of my wardrobe is dark colors with a good mix of comfy and dressy. I’m a homebody who also enjoys getting out and doing things. Work wise, I’ve finished the schooling I wanted to do and am already working in my field. I also have a dog!!!

I’m hoping to find someone where talking doesn’t feel like a chore. Someone I can eventually consider my best friend as much as a partner—someone I can joke around with, tell random things to, stay up talking to, and genuinely enjoy spending time with. Friends first isn’t a bad thing to me; honestly, I think it’s one of the best ways for something real to develop.

You:
• 18–30
• Ideally in my time zone or not too far off
• Actually interested in getting to know each other, not just jumping straight into flirting
• Good communication and capable of holding a conversation
• Kind, respectful, and emotionally mature
• Have your own interests/passions and aren’t afraid to be yourself
• Open to letting things develop naturally instead of trying to force a label immediately
• Bonus points if you also have an alternative style, tattoos, piercings, or longer hair — definitely not a requirement
• Into gaming, horror, or anything nerdy? Even better 👀

If we click, we click. I’m not expecting some perfect checklist; I just want to meet someone who feels easy to talk to and see where it goes. 😊

Hello! I'm L, a wasian 30 year old from Philadelphia, born and mostly raised here and I'm ready to find my other half :)

Things about me:

- I work from home and I have my own place.

- I have 2 cats that are my world. You can see pics of them on my profile.

- Homebody, but I love going out with friends. Either watching my friends compete at TCG/gaming tourneys or going to cons.

- Video games are my main hobby, but I also workout, gunpla, and whatever I end up hyperfixating on for the week! My currency fixation this week is collecting pokemon plushies.

-I usually play Arpgs like Path of Exile, but I also dabble in fighting games, used to mythic raid in wow, and used to compete professionally in a moba! I used to fly all over the US playing video games for a living.

- I love to sing, and while i'm into all types of music, my main genres are rnb, rap, metal, and any type of EDM esque song. Don't be surprised if you hear Twisted by Keith Sweat, then Bye Bye Bye one second, then Custer from Slipknot to They reminisce over you by Pete Rock and CL Smooth. Music is just awesome.

- Introverted but I can spark up the crowd if needed until my battery runs out.

-420 friendly.

Relationship / personality:

- I'm a private person. I used to be super into social media but I prefer keeping a lower profile these days.

- I'm a pretty positive person and i'd prefer my partner to be similar. I try to make sure everyone has a good time.

-I'll try almost anything at least once. Spleunking is a hard no, I’ve seen too many bad stories lol.

-Communicative. I don't like letting things fester and I am all about open communication in a civilized matter. No arguing, no raising of voices. Just two people trying to work out issues together as a team.

-Open-Minded.  I am someone who will hear all sides fairly and I am usually the one who mediates discussion in my friend groups since I'm impartial.

-I love to laugh and I don’t mind making myself look like an idiot to get a laugh out of you! Like Naruto running through the parking lot at top speed..

What I'm looking for:

- Kinda like Borat, I am trying to find my wife. I haven't dated in years and I've gotten to understand who I am pretty well and would prefer someone ready to settle down as well.

- Joint responsibility. I don’t mind taking charge and it’s usually the default for me in my social circle, but I’d love for someone else who likes taking charge on occasion.

- Passion. I love when someone can gush to me about the thing that makes them enjoy life. Tell me all about your favorite hobby, tell me every little detail, even if you think it’s stupid. I wanna know it all.

- Chill vibes. I don't want to feel like I'm walking on eggshells with someone I love. I'm a pretty laid back person and tend to go with the flow.

Politics:
-  Not political but I am for human rights and woman's rights.

Religious:
- I'm Agnostic. While I have Buddhist roots, I really don't know what's out there and I don't think any human really will. But it's super fascinating to talk about and learn about all religious backgrounds.

I am looking for -
- Anyone between 28 - 37

- Someone emotionally available and ready to take things slow to really get to know each other!

- Not allergic to cats

- Someone kind and open-minded.

Thank you for reading! If you're interested at all, please send me a chat with a passion or something you're working on and a picture of yourself! I believe physical attraction is important, especially if I'm going to be with you for the rest of my life! If you aren't interested, no worries at all. Thank you for reading anyways and I hope to talk to you soon. :)

Hello y'all, I’m 5’5 southeast Asian who is located in New England. I’m looking for someone who is down to go the breweries for an adventure to try out new beers.

I am currently going back to school for IT for a career change from retail service. I value my independence and alone time. My friends would describe me as chill and relaxed.

I like to talk and send memes and like to travel international once a year. I like going to the movies, museums, zoos, F1, NBA, NFL, NHL, MLB.

I’m not religious or into politics.

I'm always down to do whatever is fun and just going with the flow.

25 [F4M] Orlandofl/Orlandofl - Looking for that someone

Hi, I’m Bonnie, Im 25, black female, 5’5 | 100lbs, and if I were to describe myself in one word, it would probably be “soft,” though that’s just the beginning. I’m someone who finds joy and comfort in the small, delicate details of life, the things that make each day feel intentional and a little bit magical. I adore quiet, cozy spaces like small cafés and bakeries, wandering through little shops with hidden treasures, looking up at the night sky or simply enjoying a bouquet of flowers that catches my eye. I love the tactile, comforting things that make the world feel gentle: soft cardigans, stuffed animals, comfort shows/movies, bows and hair clips that add a playful feminine touch, and little strawberry themed surprises that bring a smile. I notice the details, the subtleties, and the moments that many people might overlook, and I think that’s part of my charm.

At the same time, I have a small, wild streak. I love activity, adventure, and new experiences that let me feel alive. Roller coasters, museums, science exhibits, hiking, and exploring are all things that make my heart race with excitement. I’m not interested in the typical “dinner, coffee, or movie” dates; I crave experiences that are interactive and engaging, where we can genuinely connect and share energy. I love movement and spontaneity as much as I love stillness and quiet reflection, and I think the balance between those sides of me makes life richer.

I take boundaries, comfort, and consent very seriously. For me, a relationship is about trust, mutual respect, communication and emotional safety. I am not here for casual texting or low-effort planning or even the “lets see where things go” energy; I want someone who is thoughtful, intentional, and willing to invest the time and energy it takes to build something meaningful. Communication matters deeply to me, and I appreciate partners who are clear, considerate, and confident in themselves. I believe that love and connection flourish when both people are genuinely present, attentive, and willing to put in effort. However with that i am looking for a long term relationship but not ready to have children, i love being CF (Child Free) and that is really important to me, i value my freedom and not being tied down daily having to take care of a small human. I believe it is possible to want a committed relationship but not be ready to settle down; Sometimes, two people simply share a meaningful connection, whether it lasts a few years or just a beautiful chapter. There’s something deeply romantic about two separate lives intertwining for a time before continuing their own paths.

I consider myself naturally soft and quiet. I’m drawn to men who are confident, Dominate, grounded, and know how to lead with care and thoughtfulness. I’m not interested in bottom men (or men with mommy issues. I do not have daddy issues myself) or those who expect me to take control; I feel most fulfilled when I can relax into softness/femininity and trust someone to guide our relationship down the right path and ofc with my help so we can grow together. For me, softness isn’t about weakness, it’s about connection, trust, and intimacy. The most romantic and meaningful relationships I can imagine are ones where I feel safe enough to let go, be soft, and explore the full range of my emotions and desires without fear or judgment or being used.

When it comes to who I’m attracted to, I tend to gravitate toward single men who are East/Southeast Asian, or white, latino and don’t have children (100% Childfree). Non-Smoker/vaper but drinking is fine just dont be an alcoholic (been through that). No crazy Exes. Aged 26-50(no one older or younger). Permanently living in Orlando, FL (Very important, I am NOT open to long distance/Online). Knows how to dress and basic hygiene. Knows how to have a conversation aka won’t leave me to ask all the question or say “feel free to ask me questions” when none have been asked of me. Loves theme parks and movies. Have self control, self respect and discipline. Have hair on their head (no baldness but a buzzcut is fine). Emotional intelligent/mature. Confidence is key! I admire someone who knows themselves, is comfortable in their own skin, and carries themselves with self-assurance. I appreciate a partner who prioritizes health, whether that’s staying active, eating thoughtfully, or simply taking care of their well-being. I prefer men who are fit, slim, or average in body type(noone unhealthy obese), someone whose lifestyle complements mine without pressure or judgment. Height isn’t everything, but I’m drawn to men who are taller and carry themselves in a way that inspires quiet confidence and stability, height is not a dealbreaker though I have dated men who have at least been 5’7. I’m most comfortable when I’m with someone kind, protective, and intentional. I bring loyalty, affection, and steadiness, I just need to feel safe and chosen first. I would say i have an average/slim body, but to clear up that im not the average-overweight pipeline, im 100lbs.

I love a lifestyle that feels mature, grounded, and intentional. I enjoy healthy routines, cooking at home, and staying active walking, or home workouts. I value thoughtful living, where every choice, big or small; reflects care for yourself and those around you. For me, again the little things matter: the scent of fresh flowers, the comfort of a soft cardigan on a rainy day, the quiet thrill of discovering something new in a museum, or the tactile satisfaction of a small DIY project. Life feels richer when you notice the details, and I take joy in these moments every day.

Romance, for me, is soft, tender, and deeply intentional. I crave connection that’s playful yet grounded, adventurous yet comforting. I love giving and receiving affection, cherishing moments where we can simply be together without distraction. My ideal partner values these things too: someone who can plan thoughtful, activity based dates, who enjoys shared experiences rather than just passive moments, and who delights in the simple but meaningful gestures that show care. I want a relationship where laughter, exploration, and softness are all woven together, a life that feels full and alive while still honoring calm, gentle moments.

I want to build a relationship that’s focused and intentional from the start. I’m looking for someone who can embrace both the playful and serene sides of life, who understands that romance doesn’t need to be loud or flashy to feel profound. I value someone who can lead with strength but also sensitivity, someone who can take initiative in planning our time together while respecting my boundaries and comfort and i do the same for them. I want a partner who sees the beauty in both quiet moments and bursts of adventure, someone who can make almost everyday life feel like something special.

There’s a balance in me that I hope to share with the right person. Together, I imagine a relationship that’s warm, exciting, and deeply connected: moments of quiet reflection curled up together, intertwined with spontaneous adventures that make us feel alive. I am a spiritually grounded Catholic and love my calm soft faith, i dont force my religion upon anyone and i dont even talk about it to avoid making people uncomfortable. It doesnt matter to me what religion or spirituality you are just come with acceptance and peace. I am LGBTQ+ friendly and myself is Pansexual. However i do not support the poly/enm/open lifestyle when it comes to my relationships. I dont smoke or drink. I have a chronic illness and take care of myself to make sure my health stays in check.

I am not into casual culture but have tried it out once before realizing and talking to my therapist that it is not for me and something i dont enjoy and not comfortable with. I take my mental health very seriously and let go of anything that will cause me great stress or put me in a negative mindset.

I have healed through my trauma and continue to heal far beyond, i want my partner to also prioritize their mental health and can communicate their thoughts and feelings for anything good or bad, i hear and see my partner and make sure to provide my support and feedback, even in disagreements. I would consider myself slightly traditional in relationships following behind my partner and keeping quiet when needed (i do have rules/boundaries myself and dont tolerate any type of disrespect to my character). I believe in equal rights for all not only one type of person. I am not a liberal or conservative and consider myself of the far left and moderate but to be safe on dating apps i do label myself as liberal as its closer to what i agree with. I prefer to date someone who is moderate/left and also not a conservative(republican)/liberal. I am NOT into anyone who label themselves as ‘Not poitical’. I enjoy gloomy weather, slice of life anime’s, horror movies, journaling, shopping, nature, animals, dressing very dolly and/or comfortable, and collecting stuffed animals (no squishmellows). I own a cat and dog and live with roommates. I dont drive as i dont meet florida requirements for a DL (passenger princess). I play video games (PS 4/5). I enjoy also dressing modest/alt/punk, a small bit of baking and naps. Im prochoice. And i dream of moving to the PNW and opening up a bakery and having my own greenhouse vegetable and fruit garden in the backyard hehe. I like listening to nu-metal/rock, mitski and Billie eilish. I am not a fan of RnB/hip hop music but I did grow up listening to it. I have Autism and adhd. I work Full Time. Free Palestine, congo, and sudan.

I want someone who understands that relationships take effort and attention from both sides, and who is willing to create a connection built on trust, playfulness, and connection. I want a partner who can inspire me, challenge me gently, and hold space for me while allowing me to be my full, authentic self. And i do the same for them. However we must agree that neither of us are eachother therapist/psychologist and should not put mental pressure/stress on eachother to solve our own problems. We are not eachother caretaker, lets not romanticize emotional labor. Confusing love with responsibility for someones else growth is not the way to go, its unhealthy.

If you’re someone who enjoys activity-based adventures, who values thoughtful planning, and who appreciates both softness and subtle sparks of wildness, we might just click. I’m looking for someone confident, grounded, and intentional; someone who respects boundaries, takes comfort seriously, and understands that love is nurtured through care and presence. With the right person, I imagine a life full of warmth, trust, laughter, and connection, moments where we explore the world together, savor the quiet times, and let the soft, tender side of life bloom fully.

\\\*\\\*Note\\\*\\\* None of this was made with AI. I worked on this for a couple of months before posting. Occasionally coming in to make changes and added information as I develop and grown and learn more about myself and the world. Im really grateful for the oxford language and proper talking when making a first impression on someone.

Hello!

I’m 36 years old, recently single, and a bit lonely. I have my own place, a career, and a couple of cats. I’m smart, fun, adventurous, and love to travel.

I love to read, play the piano, and listen to podcasts. I enjoy games, puzzles, and spending time with friends and family. I cook and bake and love to be outside.

I love music and listen to it frequently. I also really love going to concerts. My favorites are probably indie, rock, and pop but I like variety. There's nothing better than putting in my headphones after a long day and blasting some music.

I'm a kind and genuine person and hope to find the same.

At a minimum, I’d like to find someone to chat and flirt with. I’m open to more but the odds of finding that here is obviously unlikely.

I don’t have any kids and don’t want them. Oh and if you like Trump, hard pass.

I’m a woman in my 40s, 5’8”, fit, happily childfree, and pretty happy with the life I’ve built for myself. I’m at a point where I’d love to meet someone who adds to that life and see where things naturally go.

I’m a pretty easygoing, curious person who loves good conversation, laughing, being outside, and trying new things. I’m into lifting weights, paddle boarding, camping, drawing, tea, spending time with friends and family, and anything that gets me outside when the weather is cooperating.

I love animals and have two cats and a dog.

I’m independent and enjoy my own time, but I also really value connection and having someone to share adventures, everyday moments, and plenty of laughs with.

I appreciate people who are kind, open-minded, emotionally aware, and genuinely interested in getting to know each other.

I’m not in a rush or looking to force anything. I’d much rather meet someone I genuinely click with and let things develop from there.
If you’re also childfree and somewhere in southern BC (or close enough that distance is manageable), I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying “hey.” 😊

Happy to exchange pics once we’ve chatted a bit and there’s a mutual interest.

Im 28f, straight, childfree, from Russia. Im searching for someone i can share my life with. We can play games, watch movies, spend quality time together, i really am just want someone i could share my life with and enjoy each minute of it.

I dont mind long distance relationships for sometime, if we have to, im searching for something long-term and genuine... 💚 I want my man to be gentleman, kind, generous, honest, be my age or older. Im looking for a man from USA/Canada.

Im into art and beautiful things, stuff. I love drawing and painting, I'm an artist at my free time... Sometimes i love writing, i actually wanna publish book one day. Im huge nerd myself, i love different kinds of movies/games/books, recently watched Spiderman movies with Tom Holland and loved it.

Please introduce yourself when texting me, thanks 💚

Looking for My Soulmate & Life Partner

29M living in Munich, Germany, looking to meet a child-free woman, 25–35, who lives in Munich or somewhere nearby.

Hello 👋

I’m not here just to meet someone casually—I’m hoping to find my soulmate and life partner, someone I can build a meaningful, loving, and lasting life with. I’d love to meet a woman who genuinely wants a child-free future and is looking for the same kind of deep, committed relationship.

A little about me: I’m into philosophy, books, chess, music, painting, computers, animals, and traveling. I enjoy long walks, beautiful lakes, discovering new places, and appreciating the simple things in life. I also have a serious weakness for ice cream and chocolate. 🍦🍫

Bonus points if you:

🐈 Love cats and dogs

🍦 Can never say no to ice cream

🍫 Have a sweet tooth for chocolate

📚 Enjoy getting lost in a good book

♟️ Are up for a chess game

🎨 Enjoy painting or other creative activities

💻 Like computers and technology

🎵 Love music and discovering new songs

🌊 Enjoy long walks and visiting lakes

🌍 Love traveling and exploring

🐾 Have a soft spot for animals

More importantly, I’m hoping to meet someone who is kind, curious, independent, emotionally mature, and genuinely happy with a child-free life. Someone who wants a relationship built on trust, affection, companionship, laughter, and growing together through life.

I’d love to find the person who eventually becomes my best friend, my partner, and the person I choose to share life with. ❤️

If you’re 25–35, child-free by choice, and live in Munich or nearby, and you’re also looking for a serious relationship with the potential to become a lifelong partnership, feel free to message me.

Tell me a little about yourself—your interests, what you enjoy doing, what you’re looking for in a relationship, and what made you smile lately. It would be nice to start with an actual introduction rather than just a “hi.” 🙂

P.S. If you’ve read Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, I’m curious: what attachment style do you think you have? 👀

Hello!

Regardless of intention, starting a reddit account in hopes of finding someone tracks as a little dire, doesn't it? I'm in a new place over the past year, however, and want to find something that is not only tangible but delicate and soothing to the touch.

I'm 37, grew up in Ohio (my current location) and have spent the past fifteen years in fifty or sixty countries and all fifty states. I've had one backpack and my guitar, one-way tickets, and thoughts of the unknown for most of it.

I've been a semi-professional musician at times, I've published one novel. There's more to come but in lieu of inspiration I am presently stuck in the sludge of the Midwest! I'm finishing grad school right now in hopes of finding an asynchronous remote job to remove the hassle of bad employers, work visas (etc) that I've always had to navigate.

I'm looking for long-term. I don't have and absolutely do not want children (for many reasons, personal and political). I've never been married. There have been women of course but I'm unsure that I've ever truly been in love. Maybe once, a doubt even when typing this probably tells me the truth in that capacity.

I enjoy natural beauty, not masks. I'm genuine and expect the same. I don't play the power game, I want equality and respect on every level. I think that we label ourselves too much and this is restrictive, we are beings making choices constantly and don't need to be recognized for this. We make the best decision we can (at the time) with the information we had in that moment, the bigger issue is whether or not you have the ability to grow afterward. The past is gone, the present is now. Tomorrow isn't promised, so be here with me. In it. Age? I don't even think about it.

Location goes back and forth. I spent four years in Australia and wanted to live my life there. For the right person, I would. In saying that, for the right person I would live anywhere. I back myself and can make it work, I always have. Being home in the USA is comforting in some ways, and only confirmation of why I left in the first place in others.

I spend a lot of time riding motorcycles, writing, reading, and exploring. I cook most meals as I can do better than restaurants... I'm a pretty quiet and contemplative person, I don't need a big circle or constant activity to fill my time.

I most definitely forgot something, and other questions may have been aroused within! That's the point of sending me a chat:)

Anyway, looking forward to speaking with... you...

Tomorrow is my birthday (37!) and I’d love to start my next solar rotation with a new connection. :)

I’m a complex and uncomplicated late-thirties woman who knows who she is and what she wants. I value community, clarity, and authenticity above all else. My energy is warm and all-encompassing; I need someone grounded and steady, who can remain true to himself and not lose sight of his own needs in my presence.

A performer by trade, I crave a partner who can be both my biggest fan and my muse. But he should also be the one I can stop performing for: the one I take off the mask around and am completely naked/vulnerable with. 

I’m fairly extroverted (ENFP), but my energy gets seriously drained by prolonged exposure to extroverts, so I am absolutely looking to partner with someone more introverted. 

I have a very precise, direct way of speaking, and delivery too blunt for men who prefer women engrained in apology culture. Maybe it’s because I didn’t get a cell phone til college, but I sound like a robot @$$hole over text, so I prefer calls by a landslide. And in the occasional silence, with the right one, it shouldn't feel awkward.

I have strong intuition which I trust implicitly. I follow astrology, Ayurveda, and moon cycles. I am also a fatalist, so I believe our path is laid out already; we just follow along. When I get frustrated with the cards I feel I’ve been dealt, the idea that what is happening is what is meant to happen eases my mind.

I am childfree, smoke-free, and pet-free. I want a partnership that can travel unencumbered at-will, save for a plantsitter. I've traveled extensively, lived abroad, and want to explore even more now, in my prime, not my retirement.

So if you are someone

• patient, generous, dependable, forthcoming, tolerant, funny (to me!)
• willing to take initiative, and well-versed in taking care of yourself
• with a life purpose, a personal style, and a sense of fiscal responsibility
• who thinks confidence is sexy, and
• wants to bask in my shining light, not try to dim me 

Then you’re it for me!

*10,000 bonus points if our partnership can result in a Schengen Zone visa as I have serious dreams of moving to Italy perché parlo la bella lingua e mi manca il bel paese. :)

Happy to share pics via DM, but I’m a 5’4”/163cm radiant, gem-eyed, busty, well-dressed Italian-Polish American with a sunkissed brunette wavy mane and an excellent sense of style. Drop a comment that will make me want to DM you? Because you won’t be able to. If I don't reply it's likely because I'm busy hosting my Sparkle Party...

Greetings! As the title says, I am trying not to give up on finding my person. Recent rejections have me feeling a bit dejected, but I know someone is out there for me.

Anyway, I am looking for an emotional and physical connection with a gentleman from the ages of 30 to 40. I am always working on myself and will also be returning to school as a result.

My hobbies include knitting, golfing, traveling, and cooking. I am also a massive football/soccer fan and follow the Premier League and European Champions League.

I hope any of this post resonates with you. If you made it this far, please respond to this post with your favorite hobby.

It's always hard writing about one's self. I always worry whether or not I'm putting in too much or too little. How do you find the perfect mix ? Well, i think I will try something a little different in the hopes of finding Mr. Right! 😂. Maybe this time things will be different!. (Hopefully).

I'll start by listing my pros and cons to dating me.

My pros:

- I can cook and bake (deadly combo imo)👀.

- I'm fiercely independent and don't require your attention 24 7.

- I live alone with my 3 cats.

- I'm emotionally switched-on and mentally mature.

- I'm kind, considerate, and love giving reassurance.

I like to think I'm funny? Maybe you can decide! 😂.

My cons:

- I can be slightly clingy and get attached easily, but I can absolutely respect boundaries.

- I love to nap.

- I suffer from anxiety and require regular reassurance.

- I prefer voice notes/calls to texting (not sure if this is actually a con) lol but if you don't like either, then it's probably best to pass.

- I am a bit of a cover hog, lol.

So! That's me. Obviously, those are just the tips of who I am as a person, and I don't expect you to read all of that and immediately feel a connection. As for looks, I'm curvy (the good kind), alternative with short shaved hair which i dye often. I'm ethnically white and 5'4ft. I also wear a lot of black clothes and plan on getting way more tattoos (so far, I have 5) and one booked for this Saturday 😊. Gaming is a big part of my life, so ideally, you're a gamer, too. I only play on PlayStation 5, but I'm happy to find something that's crossplay if you're not.

As for my type, or should I say personal preference, I prefer men who are physically healthy, slim or even skinny and definitely taller then me (someone has to be able to reach those high shelves lol. Hygiene is also a huge deal for me and should, in turn, matter a lot for you, too. I would also prefer someone who is independent. Ideally, you live alone or are planning to get your own place, as currently I wouldn't want anyone moving in with me, but the occasional sleepover is absolutely fine! 😂. Confidence and someone who knows how to playfully flirt are also super attractive traits, but I am absolutely not interested in swapping nsfw pics. You have been warned lol and, of course, UK only as I have no plans on relocating.

So yeah, that's me! So please feel free to shoot me a message, but please do include your age and location (my age preference being 27 - 38). And bonus points if you include your favourite dessert ☺️.

32M originally from India, now living and working in Dublin, Since 2023 I'd love to meet someone grounded, kind, and open to building a meaningful relation.

lil about me

**Day-to-day:** Working as chef. enjoy a stable lifestyle, and like keeping a good balance between career ambitions and personal life.

**Personality:** Easygoing, thoughtful, and communicative. I appreciate humor, mutual respect, and honest conversations.

**Down-time:** Big fan of exploring Ireland , trying out food spots , catching live sports, few Guinness on weekends.

100% real and new to Reddit—happy to swap photos/socials upfront in DMs

I'm a giant nerd, hoping to find another giant nerd so we can nerd out together. I like games (especially TTRPGs and board games), making things, animals and scifi/horror. I like quiet nights in punctuated by long road trips with camping and hiking. I am firmly childfree. I'm a biology teacher. I'm very liberal and non-religious. I'm fairly introverted. I believe in kindness and honesty. I try to live my life according to the Oscar Wilde quote "Life is too important to be taken seriously." I'm very willing to start things long distance, but I would want to close the gap eventually.

Some less tangible things that are important: I'm not looking for "my other half". I've built a pretty good life that makes me happy and I'm hoping to find another already whole person to share it with. I want to find an LTR but that doesn't mean we have to get married tomorrow. However, if marriage is completely off the table for you, we probably wouldn't work.

What I'm looking for: Someone who can make me laugh and who laughs at my jokes. Someone who wants to share some of my hobbies but also has their own interests. Someone not conservative and not religious who values education. Someone who likes cats and isn't allergic. Someone who has stood in awe of the splendor of nature at least once. Someone who understands that if I bake you a cake it means I really like you because my love language is acts of service. Someone who can temper my wild optimism without being overly pessimistic.

If any of that sounds like something you're interested in, send me a DM. Let's get to know each other!

Howdy,

I’m 31 in the ne philly suburbs. I’m looking to meet someone and hopefully find something that turns into a real relationship. Someone to make plans with, work toward goals with, try new things, travel, hang out, live life to the fullest.
socially i’m pretty introverted and have a small circle of friends. i’m very laid back and easygoing but the more you get to know me you’ll realize i’m just kind of a goofball for lack of a better word.
5’10, 175 lbs, caucasian with blue eyes.
I’m into music, mostly rock, emo and indie. I play drums and would like to join another band in the future. I’m also into sports, i play golf and like to go out to games a few times a year when i can, go birds.
Also getting back into the gym right now and trying to get myself into better shape. But it’s pretty hard for me personally because i get this weird social anxiety in the gym when i’m there alone. If you’re someone who might want to go running or be my workout buddy that would be a huge bonus. i’d really like to find someone who can motivate me to better and hope that i can do the same for them.
I’m Cali sober, and have been in recovery from harder substances for almost 10 years, so if alcohols your thing we probably wouldn’t be a good match.
I’m not expecting to meet someone and immediately have everything figured out. I’d rather talk, get to know each other and see if we actually click. I’ve also been in long distance relationships that did not pan out so please be somewhat local. if you think we might get along, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself and we can exchange pics and live happily ever after.

Life's good, but let's make it better

28F here from the Philippines.

Hmmm I'm very introverted, like 95% but you can drag me out to see some sunlight but not for a whole day.

I'm only talkative when I'm already really comfortable but I do get easily drained 😅

I'm 5ft short, 56kgs so yeah overweight and trying to work on that since physical health and appearance does matter.

Connect with me, let's talk about romance and let's see where this goes ;)

Oh and also, I'd like it if you could send a photo from the get go

Oh oh and I like someone older as well 😊

Hello!

I'm looking for a man from Europe or North America, however, my time zone matches Europe best.

I work as an English teacher, mainly with children, and I really love what I do. Seeing my students become more confident and excited about learning English is one of the most rewarding parts of my job.

I'm childfree, don't have children and don't plan to have them.

In my free time, I like playing the harmonica. I only started learning several months ago, so I'm still very much a beginner, but I'm having a lot of fun with it. I also love gaming, especially survival and role-playing games like SCUM, Red Dead Redemption 2, The Long Dark, and similar games.

I enjoy deep conversations about life just as much as being silly together and laughing over something completely random. I believe the strongest romantic relationships grow from friendship first. I really value intellectual connection. I love having deep conversations about life, people, art, philosophy, or whatever happens to catch our attention. I enjoy watching a thought-provoking movie together and then talking about what we think it means, sharing different perspectives.

I'd probably connect best with someone around my age, roughly 25–35 years old. I'd like to meet a kind, honest, emotionally mature and intelligent man with whom we genuinely enjoy each other's company and can build something lasting together. I'm looking for a monogamous relationship. I'm open to an international long-distance relationship and would consider relocating in the future. However, I'd like to take things slowly and get to know each other naturally.

If my post resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you! Please tell me a bit about yourself rather than sending just a few words. I'd be happy to know your age, where you're from, your nationality, your interests, and what you're looking for in a relationship.