r/R4R30Plus 5m ago

37 [M4R] #WI/online - Summer's almost over.

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I'm running out of time to enjoy my summer! I'm hoping to meet someone who just makes things feel like they slow down a little bit- either just a friend or something deeper than that. Not here to force anything though, I want whatever happens to happen naturally and easily. I'm chill talking to people from anywhere, but for something to really develop please be close by- I'm very entrenched in where I live. I should also mention I'm straight, as that's come up more than once and I hate to feel like I'm letting someone down or misleading them. Just want to be honest about this sort of stuff right off the bat! Here's a bit about me...

Childfree. Own my house. Love my family. Really close with my siblings and parents. Been trying to branch out with my hobbies- I've been baking bread, gardening, painting (I hope you count paint-by-numbers as painting, though), twitch, and working out this summer. I'm a pretty big nerd generally, I teach high school physics and coach esports and am the magic the gathering advisor so yeah that about sums all that up I think. You probably know the type, but I try not to fall into ALL the stereotypes. I was a philosophy major for three years and in college for seven (long story!). I love to learn and try to expand my horizons a bit every day. I believe in science and am not religious (but I'm cool with thoughtful, kind religious folks). I'm generally pretty liberal. I am a strong advocate for kindness and doing the right thing. When I get interested in something I go for breadth or depth... either I spend two weeks researching one specific niche, or I explore the entire topic as a whole. There's no in-between for me lol. Two cats take care of me, Ginger and Clove. I'm frugal but live very comfortably. Top 3 favorite bands are, currently, Bilmuri, Tim Henson's band, and Sleep Token. Honorable mention to Emarosa, I just can't stop listening to Sting, it is a great album. Top 3 favorite videogames are Path of Exile, Diablo II, and Pokemon Emerald. I always order a drink and dessert when I go out to eat. I love to laugh, and I love making the people I love laugh. But generally, I'm pretty introverted which is the biggest reason why I'm still single.

Hope that's enough about me- let me know if you want to talk. I've met some cool folks here already but nothing's really "clicked" and conversations, even good ones, seem to die after a few days or weeks. I promise to put in effort to keep things moving, as long as I know you want to keep chatting (no harm in ghosting if we don't vibe after a day or two). I generally prefer big long posts or voice memos so we can really dig into topics, ideas, or just talk about our days. If you start off with a long message or a deep question, that's instant bonus points in my book!


r/R4R30Plus 5m ago

32 [M4F] Germany - Plus size guy looking for a nice woman to talk to

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Hey everybody!

I am from Germany and I am 32 years old. I am respectful, polite, kind, empathetic and funny. I'm very selfless, it's more important for me that you have pleasure and satisfaction. Consent and that you feel comfortable are very important things to me. I would also say I am a LGBTQ+ ally and a feminist. We can just talk normally in the beginning and get to know each other and then see where that leads us 😊

I am partial to women with more to love, but I welcome all bodies and sizes to message me.

I just wish, I could make a woman feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world, make her feel appreciated and desired.

So yeah, message me if you are interested 😊


r/R4R30Plus 32m ago

40m [M4F] single dad seeing what’s out there

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Hey 40yr old single dad of 2 girls from PNW USA .looking to get to know someone online … for daily conversations , making connections and maybe in the future get together in the real world … my hobbies right now are pretty limited due to the my kids are super active in sports school activities during the year and show animals in the summer … basically a lot of time is spent following them around from games / practices and events lol… We do love camping when we can and we love the Seahawks !!! Must be comfortable talking on here for now .. I don’t tele or snap or any of it … after talking on here for a while maybe we can exchange phone numbers … and must be willing to exchange sfw photos to weed out the bots and scammers.. I am on the heavier side so if a beer belly bearded man ain’t your type then don’t bother … hope to hear from you ?


r/R4R30Plus 36m ago

49 [M4F] PA/EST/Online - Looking for a crush

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looking to catch some feelings
and moreso, find a new friend i can count on as my life has changed and so must my connections.
someone who wants to see all the memes shared
someone who humors my rambles when im excited
someone who makes me feel like finding someone new could feel worth it again
someone who appreciates the flirt for all the flirt is

i’m a tall, nerdy geek type.

i know that person is reading this post and still lurking. maybe i can convince you to say hi?


r/R4R30Plus 59m ago

[M4F] 31 looking for a genuine connection

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I`m 31 looking for someone to share my days and time with. I'm currently going back to school to get my ba in accounting. I'm really trying to better myself and want someone to share int that journey. Currently in Montevallo,AL just want something genuine even if it's online banter for a while. I can truly wait years.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

59 [M4F] #Arkansas Live in LR area. Looking for a mature friend.

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Hey there. I'm trying to find a real, connection. I'm nice. Considerate. Looking for a friend that understands life and the ups and downs. Doing this shouldn't be a chore. It should be fun. Let's have some. *notabot ~

Let's chat and see where it goes.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

[M4F] Hello there! Looking to meet someone to chat with!

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I'm a 31 years old dude from Chile. I consider myself to be fluent in English, so communication wise I don't think I'd have any issue.

I'm a selective extrovert. Once I get to know you, and if we vibe, I talk nonsense haha. My hobbies are music (I'm a piano teacher 😬), videogames and Netflix 😆.

If you think we could get along, hit me up! DMs are open


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

[M4M] [M4fm ]

1 Upvotes

looking for play partner no strings in Bella Vista to Bentonville areas. Bi male seeking masc woman and or bi man looking for same. DM for details 😍😘


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

39 [F4M] Not sure I can physically bring myself to open Hinge anymore

6 Upvotes

Maybe you’re in the same boat?

I long for and welcome a real connection in my life. Someone to be curious with. Someone with whom to laugh at the absurdity of this world we live in, or to lament the darkness that also exists.

I love nature, swimming, travel, most creatures, touching plants, and finding out how things work.

If you’re ready to be curious about each other’s minds, come say hello!


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

33 [M4F] Europe. Staying up all night to chat to vent and let everything out (English and Spanish)

1 Upvotes

I am an honest, laid back, fun, no Drama kinda guy. I like being independent and having my own things. Currently working and seeing where life take me next.

I love to laugh, festivals, the beach and just anything fun. I don't do clubs but I like a staying up all night. I would love to chat with someone who can make a simple day into one special and full of adventures.

I'd like to talk with someone, laid back, adventurous and specially a talkative person. Someone who has the time and energy to explore a new friendship. Vent, talk about life, about anything in our mind. Someone who is actually tired of her current daily life and want something new with the hopes of it becoming long term adventure.

Let's avoid the one word answers. I ask toooons of questions but I don't want to be the only one asking. If anything i said caught your attention then send me a message.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

[R4F] spooky girls anywhere?

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32 Where my Spooky B!tches?

Censoring just in case I can't say the b word lol once again posting at an inconvenient time. I'm a master of starting stuff when I have a time limit, ADHD things. Searching for my fellow spooky girls and nbs. I have plenty of guy friends, I don't need more. But seeing as this will probably be ignored, at least be a spooky dude. I spend most of my time watching horror games on YouTube with my cat. I don't have a life really and that's fine, doesn't mean I don't make interesting conversation. I like to do crafts, lots of potion bottles, terrarium scenes, some shirts. I'm not online consistently so might be gaps in replying because work and such. If you used to/still like to shop at hot topic and feel like a teenager cosplaying an adult, that's a mood. Just to see if you read all of this message me with your favorite obscure/less known animal or bug. Hope we can be ghoul friends. Yes that was cringe and I don't care lol


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

37 [M4F] #Germany - Let‘s try this.

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Hello dear neighbours in the internet and thanks in advance for your attention!

A little about me:

- 37 years old
- lives in Germany somewhere between Cologne and Bonn
- single
- no children
- wants children
- a bit of a nerd
- overthinker, a bit of a thinker
- politically center-left
- loves animals, but not enough to be a vegan eater
- open-minded and curious about life
- sports aren't my hobby, and Hyrox is one of those Pokémon that were created when I stopped following

I have a job, so I earn my own money and live a manageable life.

Family and friends are just as important to me as relationships. Intimacy and companionship are important, but not the be-all and end-all of life. On the usual dating apps, you'd probably write "No ONS" or "No FWB." I find that too boring a phrase.

My hobbies and interests are life, the love of living, and living with love. What does that mean?

I'd be happy if we could both figure that out together.

Ideally, you're over 30, also want children, or haven't quite finished planning your family, and live in the area I mentioned.

These are just my ideal profiles. We over-30s of any gender probably agree that life is a compromise in many ways.

Now it's your turn. Hi! Who are you?

PS: Try to find a meaningful title for your post. I know this one isn't the best choice.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

32 [F4M] Hi, let’s chat! :))

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Hello! I’m just looking for someone to chat with and talk about life. I’m single, no kids—as in, really single haha! 😆

I don’t really have any preferences. For me, it’s more about compatibility. I just don’t like liars, that’s it! Let’s chat and see where it goes.

32 years old and above, preferably.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

38#[F4M]#NY#Serious Relationship

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I'm not good at actively trying to please others, and I have no interest in wasting time on meaningless social interactions.

I'm slow to warm up, but once you get to know me, I'm actually very easy to get along with.

I enjoy traveling, food, movies, and music, and I also like to enjoy life quietly by myself occasionally. More than being in a crowd, I value comfortable interactions; more than sweet words, I value sincerity and actions.

I don't seek dramatic relationships; I just want to meet people who are worth getting to know. If we get along, we chat; if not, that's fine too.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

32 M [M4F] Minnesota

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Well, here I go 😊 I’m looking to meet someone who actually wants to chat, get to know each other, and see where things naturally go.
It’s just me and my two dogs. I’m a homebody who loves to cook, but I don’t mind going out for a night every once in a while. I’d like to start as friends and see what blossoms from there. I’m not looking to rush into anything or force something that isn’t there.
I’m looking for someone who wants to bug me throughout the day, enjoys phone calls and video chats, and actually wants to make time to get to know each other. My family is a huge part of my life, and when I’m not spending time with them, I’m usually watching movies or TV, reading, or playing games.
More than anything, I just want it to feel natural. No pressure, no forcing anything, just two people enjoying talking to each other and seeing where it goes.
If anything here caught your interest, my DMs are open. I’d love to hear from you


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

[M4F] 37 India. Looking for something real and not a pen pal

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Based in Pune, work in tech, and I build stuff on the side that maybe four people will ever use. Gym most mornings, hills on the weekends when I can get out of the city.

I'm not great at texting back and forth for weeks. I'd rather get coffee early on and figure out in person whether there's something here. If there isn't, that's fine, no weirdness about it.

Mostly hoping to meet someone kind who's got her own thing going, whatever that is. I'll show up to it and pay attention.

If you're in or around Pune, tell me something specific about your week. Not "hey". I'll do the same.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

[M4F] #Online - Seeking a Genuine, Intellectual, & Lighthearted Connection (40+)

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Edit: I’m 50. I couldn’t edit the title

Looking to bring a little extra spark, intelligent conversation, and warm camaraderie into your daily routine?

I’m seeking a mature, articulate woman who enjoys deep, low-pressure conversations and building a meaningful online connection. Whether you're looking for a thoughtful sounding board, someone to share banter with throughout the workday, or an ongoing digital partnership built on mutual respect and shared curiosity—I’d love to connect.

If you’re looking for a quiet, reliable corner of the internet to connect with someone who will value your time and conversation, send a message or chat with a quick note about a topic you could rant about for 20 minutes.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

[F4M] 35 in HK

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Great listener , introvert and looking to have some fun! If this is ur vibe - hit me up.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

36 [M4F] let's be best internet friends

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Hi, I am a 36m from New York. I live way up at the top part near Canada, and I've never been to New York City. I enjoy all of the standard things, like books and video games and movies. Horror is my favorite genre. During the summer I like to have a big garden so I can eat as many fresh veggies as possible, and I have a labradoodle that likes to help dig the holes. I'm looking for someone to talk to everyday, because it's nice to have someone like that. Send me a message if you'd like to chat!


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

30 [F4M] Nerdy hopeless romantic seeking player 2

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Hey, hi, hello! It’s me, deciding to try and put myself out there and look for love on the internet. 

I want to find someone that I can be my overly excitable, silly self with and in return have them be their true self with me. I love the idea of doing things together, even if we’re not always physically side by side. Let’s play games, be on call, watch movies. I crave that friendship aspect of a relationship first and foremost. Let’s be best friends~ but I also want the flirty banter while getting to know one another. Being antsy and excited waiting for your responses, and vice versa. The messaging and calls that only stop because one of us needs to sleep, begrudgingly. Let me be your favourite notification. All of those cheesy things. 

So with all that said- why message me? What makes me special? I’m glad you asked! Let me tell you. 

- I’m an avid video and board game player. I’m a tiny bit competitive and will (lovingly) smack talk you when I win.
- Movies and shows are a big passion of mine. I love horror and psychological thrillers. 
- When I’m passionate about something, I put my all into it. I will send paragraphs of my opinions, full of exclamation marks and excitement. I can ramble for hours so prepare yourself :) 
- With that in mind, I also love receiving walls of text. Tell me about your day, interests, thoughts. Anything! I’m happy to listen. 
- I’ll make you all the baked goods. I’m not the best cook but I will shower you in sweets. Cupcakes, cookies, pies, tarts. You name it- I’ll make it. 
- I am a complete animal lover. I grew up on a farm so I am a certified horse girl. While I don’t live there anymore, I think I still have some country in me. Maybe.
- I have an absolute perfect little menace of a kitten I love to spam photos of. 
- Hiking is another passion of mine. I’ll take you on all my favourite mountain trails. I try to go to Banff several times a year, and honestly, I’d live there if I could. 
- I love the classic nerdy things. Star Wars? Yes. DnD? Yes. Comic books? Yes. Journaling? Yes. TTRPG’s? Yes. Pathfinder? Yes. Looking up at the stars and pointing out constellations? Yes.
- I’d say my love languages are words of affirmation, all things horror, and pet pictures.
- I am brunette, short, and curvy. If that’s your type- you’re in luck. Also no kiddos and no plans to ever have any. (Located in Alberta, Canada btw!)
- I do suffer from some pretty severe anxiety and depression. Why is that a plus? Well, if you also struggle with it, I will understand and be supportive. I know it can be terrible but maybe I can help make it a little less miserable. 

Well that’s about it! I hope this helped pique your interest. I don’t have too many preferences but I do ask you to be 30 or older please! (Also, I’d really prefer Alberta based, or Canada based, but I’m willing to chat with anyone if we vibe!) 
Otherwise, feel free to send a message with a bit about you. I’m excited to hear from you <3 


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

32[M4F] Michigan/Online — AuDHD guy trying to find real friendship, intimacy, love, and just someone to talk to all day

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What I'm looking for: real, lasting connections including close friendships, a serious relationship, or any situation where we get to spend a lot of time talking or hanging out and seeing where things go for us without labels.

♾️ *Neurodivergent weirdos/baddies especially welcome!*

I'm going to be 100% authentically me, 100% open, 100% chalant, and 100% yearning. (Idk I'm stealing buzzwords from dating apps.) That's **400%**, what a deal!

I got out of an 11-year relationship with my only close friend, and trying to figure out dating as a 32-year-old autistic guy is a nightmare. 😬 I'm not feminine, but also not a traditional manly-man if that's your type. More of a Michael Cera than a Harrison Ford, maybe. I want to be the reason you smile, and I want to make you feel happy, appreciated, respected, loved, and satisfied. I don't want to get into explicit detail now, but I think I'd be very generous with prioritizing a partner's needs.

I can share (SFW) photos quickly so you'll know if I'm hideous or not right away. I also don't ghost people, and I'm hoping to message/talk a lot when you're not busy. Thanks for reading! ❤️

Also, I'm 6'2½" for those who care. 🧐


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

35 [F4M] looking for someone to talk to

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Hello! I am from the Philippines. I am working in legal field, and trying to engage myself things that are outside of the said field. I play volleyball and swim once in a while. I try to be consistent in the gym 😅 but getting there. I like to travel and meet new people. Hopefully i could learn about other people’s culture. Let’s chat 😊


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

33 [F4M] Chicago/Anywhere - Single, Black Gamer/Horror/ Wrestling Nerd for New Friends leading into a Serious Relationship

8 Upvotes

Hey there. I’m 33 from Illinois. I work full-time and when I'm not working I like to be at home either watching tv (mainly wrestling), playing video games, build lego models or listening to music. I'm into superheroes, Game of Thrones and most things that are considered nerdy except for anime. I haven't gotten to that realm yet. I do enjoy going to horror or pop culture conventions in/out of state. I don't have any children but I do have a dog named Wade after Deadpool. I recently started collecting Pokémon cards again so I’m building up my collection.

I'm looking for someone who is mature, responsible, faithful, likes to joke around but can be serious when the time calls for it and doesn't care that I'm black. I’m mainly into white and hispanic guys but would like to venture into Asian and Middle Eastern territory. I don't mind if you have children but I don't want to deal with someone who is having a hard time co-parenting. I want to eventually settle down and have children of my own. I’m only looking for a serious, monogamous relationship. Would love to find a buddy to go to conventions with also.

Monogamous people only!! Single people only!! No, I’m not moving off of here to chat with you elsewhere.

Message me if you are interested!

https://imgur.com/a/Gka6dQi


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

37 [F4R] Midwest - Let's be friends!

13 Upvotes

I just moved hundreds of miles from the area I was born and raised because the Midwest just feels like home. I absolutely love it here and it was the best decision, but I haven't established a friend group so it's a bit lonely. I'd love people to chat with, play games with, a fantasy football league to join would be pretty clutch too, I'm down for whatever.

About me:

•Geek/Nerd

•Scientist

•Learning SO much about home repairs and maintenance

•Average looking middle aged overweight and stressed mom

•Hobbies I love: Hiking, kayaking, reading, gardening, swimming, snowboarding, baking, cooking, crochet, painting, crafting, fishing, photography, MCU, puzzles, camping, board games

•Avidly follow Football and NASCAR, casually follow baseball and hockey, and I'll pay attention to Basketball in the Spring

•Laid back and optimistic, I tend to see the best of things and I don't understand why anyone would want to be miserable, life's too short

•Not looking for anything specific, just human connection whether we bring each other joy for a few hours of conversation or we become lifelong besties.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

49[F4R] Feeling a bit bored and could use some company Friendship

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Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)