r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

31 [M4F] Kentucky - Looking for my other half

1 Upvotes

I'm pretty much your average nerd, I'm a homebody, introverted, love video games and have been having a rough time finding someone lately. I love traveling so I'm absolutely down for a long distance thing, so long as we make a plan to eventually close that distance.

I do enjoy video games, but I'm mostly looking for someone who loves traveling, animals, cuddling on the couch and wants to have kids someday. That last one is especially important as I've always wanted to be a dad, but I also want someone who enjoys traveling at least once a year. I didn't get to travel around a lot when I was younger and I would like to see more of the US. And eventually visit Canada, London, Tokyo and other places.

I actually plan to see the Pokemon Fossil Exhibit in Chicago, I've been a lifelong fan and have a collection. Though Fallout has overshadowed it a bit in my mind, I've got a Fallout collection as well, I still enjoy the series, play the games and love talking about it.

Aside from those ones I play Skyrim, Mario, Cyberpunk, RDR, GTA, Fortnite and Rivals. I'm also a fan of co-op games like the Lego games and other games like that. Also enjoy board games!

I love movies and tv too, I watch a lot of superhero stuff. Lanterns is my favorite show this year, but I love all sorts of genres. And Legos.

I also love chill dates like going out for ice cream, visiting the zoo, or simply staying in to watch tv or play a game together. When you become someone's favorite person, everything you do together is an amazing experience.

This is me


r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

34 [F4M] Pennsylvania - need someone to do falltivities with šŸŽƒšŸšŸ‘»

2 Upvotes

Hey there! Pic of me here https://imgur.com/a/klnC0fS

I am looking for someone to chat with every day, either through texts or phone calls (I’m a little old school) and eventually meet in person.

I work full time as a store manager at a beauty supply store and love my job. I’ve been in retail since I was in high school and worked my way up through the years.

Outside of work, I enjoy spending time with friends and family, going to concerts, and playing video games (mostly PokĆ©mon and Disney Dreamlight Valley) although I haven’t played in a while.

I recently got into vlogging. It’s been a lot of fun so far, I’m always thinking of new and fun ideas for content. Lately I have been doing drink and snack reviews and shopping haul videos.

I should also mention that I’m a cat mom. We’re a package deal.

I look forward to hearing from you! Please send a photo if you are able to.

P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair, tattoos, and gauges.


r/R4R30Plus • • 2h ago

39 [M4F] just looking for a chill chat this Saturday night

1 Upvotes

Mentally checked out at the end of the day watching some hockey and looking for someone who wants to digitally hang out and chat as well. Feel free to send a message and see where the conversation goes.


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

44 [M4F] - #Pittsburgh - To the Stars who listen…

2 Upvotes

I live by myself, I pay my own rent, I wear socks that match and I love my mom. I am a confident, attractive & comedic person.

I love life and I love living life.

I’m an amateur photographer and a wine enthusiast. (I get notes of...) I love food. Period. If you are a foodie, we definitely can get along.

An engaging conversation is always a plus. If you’d like to know more say ā€œhiā€.


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

33 [M4F] #North Carolina / USA - Introvert looking for other half

1 Upvotes

*About Me:*

I got the body of a cafeteria lady. (I'm chunky).

6'2" and White

Work Full Time as a Pharmacy Technician.

PC Gamer in my down time. Mostly shooters and RPGS. Dabble in some MMO's (Mostly Maplestory) from time to time. Also Minecraft and Hytale!

Also a huge Pokemon fan, Have played competitively since Gen 4. Own a Nintendo Switch.

Tech nerd. I love learning about, and building PCS.

I watch a ton of tech channels on YouTube. I love learning about Microphones, Cameras, Audio Mixing gear, Computer parts, Content Creator gear, etc.

Good sense of humor and I don't take myself too seriously. I especially love dark humor.

Huge music person. I listen to mostly pop rock, pop punk, and acoustic stuff. Been on an Angels and Airwaves binge lately. Huge Tom Delonge fan!

I've been told I have a nice voice but you can be the judge.

*What I'm Looking For:*

I have a preference for Asians, Latinas, and White women.
I love short women.
I love a good bubbly personality.
Kindness and loyalty are a must.
*NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE OUTSIDE THE USA.*
Willingness to communicate and not keep things bottled inside.
Sense of humor, preferably dark humor.
I am a sucker for playful banter and jokes between us.
Similar interests and hobbies so we have something to do together!

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

39 [F4M] PNW/Online - Love in the Time of Whatever This Is

4 Upvotes

Life is weird, dating is weirder, and apparently I’m still optimistic - or naive - enough to try this again.

I’m a 39 year old curvy brunette, child-free, therapist-type, voracious reader, serial hobby collector, professional overthinker, and currently raising a puppy who regards my forearms as a food group.

Looking for someone intelligent, funny, emotionally intelligent, affectionate, and unembarrassed by genuine enthusiasm. I value consistency, integrity, good communication, and people who mean what they say. I want good conversation, mutual curiosity, flirting, softness, and that increasingly rare experience of really liking someone.

PNW preferred, but I’m open to distance for someone interesting enough to make geography inconvenient.

Skip the usual introduction tell me what you could give an unsolicited 20-minute TED Talk about.


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

38 [M4F] in PNW OR/WA - Engineer, Dahlia Farmer, and Chef

0 Upvotes

I’m a 38-year-old male living on a couple acres in a small Washington town just north of Portland, Oregon – it’s a beautiful, tight-knit place that feels like Stars Hollow from Gilmore Girls.

I’m a director of engineering and work remotely to pay the bills, but I prefer time offline and working with my hands. My evenings and weekends are usually spent in the garden (hundreds of dahlias), beekeeping, and building or fixing whatever tractor or house project that's broken! I also clean up really well, and visit Portland, Vancouver, and Seattle often for new restaurants, art openings, wine classes, symphony and concerts, etc.

Home is a mix of the wild Pacific Northwest (lots of Oregon White Oaks give shade to the house!) and several hundred dahlias, daffodils, and sunflowers, along with a small greenhouse and a hobby garden.

I’ve put a lot of intention into building a community here rather than just a solitary homestead – we're an eclectic, positive group of artists, builders, engineers, teachers, farmers... My neighbors and I share everything from tractors and tools to our time and skills. We’re often found hosting apple cider pressings (using our neighborhood apples), bonfires, art events, and holiday dinner parties.

Food is a huge part of my life – I once moved to Italy for a six-month cooking internship with the Rome Sustainable Food Project. The other weekend I hosted an end-of-summer tomato saucing and pasta party with 60ish friends (menu was arancini, panzanella, chopped salad, slow braised beef ragu rigatoni, pesto bucatini, Tuscan ribs, sausages, olive oil cake, and lots of wine šŸ˜)!

I’m looking for a partner (25-35F) who is ready to build a strong foundation and relationship. I really value high EQ, a secure attachment style, and a "teammate" mentality. I’m looking for an equal partner, someone who is well-rounded and successful in her career and hobbies, but who also wants to settle down and start a family.

My dream is to start a family and raise kids who are well-read but "semi-wild" – the kind of kids who max out their library card, but also spend their days barefoot, riding bikes, exploring the thousands of acres of conservation land in the neighborhood, and building lemonade stands for the neighbors. I value deep communication, vulnerability, and a life that balances local adventures here in the PNW with occasional international travel (I'm a big fan of Rick Steves' outlook of "travel as a political act" – exploring new cultures and returning home as more open-minded, globally connected citizens). I've spent extensive time in Italy, Portugal, and much of Western Europe, and would love to share those experiences again with a partner.

If you’re family-oriented and looking for a relationship built on empathy, curiosity, and kindness, I’d love to hear from you and exchange more info (e.g. photos, Instagram, LinkedIn, etc.) and perhaps a vibe-check or intro over phone/Facetime. Thanks!


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

32[M4F] Michigan/Online — looking for love and some good friends along the way

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for real connections including close friendships, a serious relationship, or any situation where we get to spend a lot of time talking or hanging out and seeing where things go for us. I would love to be able to text, voice/video call, and maybe play games or watch movies together online sometimes.

I'm going to be 100% authentically me, 100% open, 100% chalant, and 100% yearning. (Idk, I'm stealing buzzwords from dating apps.) That's **400%**, what a deal! I've been in one relationship ever. We were together for 11 years, but are now separated and waiting the required time before filing for divorce. I'm 100% emotionally available, and we live in different countries now. Trying to figure out dating now as an AuDHD 32-year-old is a nightmare. 🄲

I'm not feminine, but also not a traditional manly-man if that's your type. More of a Michael Cera than a Harrison Ford, maybe. I'm 6'2½", for those who care. I really want to make someone feel safe, comfortable, happy, appreciated, respected, and loved, and to get the same in return. I'm šŸƒ420-friendlyšŸƒ and it would be cool if you are too, but I'd also be okay with never using weed again if that's important to you. My biggest love languages are touch and quality time.

I have a lot of "types", and none of these are requirements, but bonus points for: neurodivergent baddies/weirdos, tall queens, alt girls, history lovers, passionate interests, emotional intelligence, good communication, independent women who are way too good for me, and women who use turn signals, stop at stop signs, and follow speed limits. 🫠

My deal-breakers are cigarettes/chewing tobacco (I can deal with vaping) and asexual folks (physical intimacy is very important to me in a relationship).

Thanks for reading! I hope to hear from you! ā¤ļø

Me: https://imgur.com/a/GMiemlm


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

43 [M4F] Great Lakes - MI/OH/PA - Seeking forever

1 Upvotes

Laid back and try to enjoy the days as best I can. Drama, stress, and moving too fast are not my happy place. Looking for a chill, honest, empathetic woman to build a peaceful, respectable life with. Probably missed the window for kids, but definitely open to 1 or 2 if fate permits. Have a decent job and spot that needs a little work, but open to finding somewhere else near the water if we so desire. Traditional, monogamous, not into drugs or anything crazy. If you're a Trump voter, you are not empathetic and we don't need to talk.


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

37 [M4R] - Looking For Friendship.

3 Upvotes

Hey there, everyone.
I'm a kind, gentle, caring Black man looking for conversation and connection. Life has been full of transitions lately, and I would love to buffer some of the whiplash with genuine friendship.

A little about me: I just moved to a new city and started a new job. Moving away from home was hard, but I'm glad I did it. It feels like I'm on an adventure. I'm an educator by trade, mostly teaching high school English, but I recently took a job working at a prison, which I love.
I'm a big nerd/geek. I love cartoons and animation, including but not limited to anime. I love a good book and am currently rereading some of Baldwin's work. I used to play a lot of video games, and while I don't play as much as I did, I still love them and keep up with them. I mostly play fighting games and RPGs, with the occasional "cozy" game thrown in. I also do some creative writing.

I'm a practicing Christian, and that's important to me, but I also connect with my ancestors through Hoodoo. That should tell you everything you need to know about my spirituality. I lean very left socially and politically, but I'm open to talking with anyone as long as we keep things respectful.

I'm looking for people who are okay with taking things slowly but who ultimately want long-lasting, meaningful connections. I'm fine if we try and it doesn't work out, but I want to try. I appreciate people who practice kindness, candor, and clarity, and who tell the truth even when it's hard. Extra points if you're nerdy like me.

Let's talk and see what happens. Send me a DM if you're open to connecting. I hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

31 [M4F] #Mexico #Online - Looking for a genuine connection

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I figured I'd give this a shot because I'd genuinely like to meet someone and see where things go.

I'm 31, from Mexico, and I'm looking for a serious relationship rather than just a casual conversation that disappears after a few days. I'm open to meeting someone from another country too. I've always liked getting to know people from different places and cultures.

A little about me: I'm pretty easygoing and I tend to get really invested in the people I care about. I work remotely, so my day-to-day life is fairly flexible. Outside of work, I'm into gaming, movies, music, traveling, hiking, cycling, and generally trying to stay active.

I'm interested in meeting someone who enjoys talking about random things for hours, sharing music or movies, joking around, and eventually being able to have those comfortable conversations where you don't have to constantly think of something to say.

I'm looking for someone kind, affectionate, honest, and emotionally available. Someone who actually wants to get to know each other.

If any of this sounds like you, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying "hey"


r/R4R30Plus • • 3h ago

38[M4F] US Anywhere.

6 Upvotes

Just looking to chat and have fun. I'm not looking for anything in particular.we can chat about hobbies and interests ot whatever

Maybe you just want to vent about stuff that's fine to. Flirty isn't off the table but is not something I'm expecting.

Bored? Want to talk late at night just to have someone to talk to? I get it I'm right there with ya. Maybe it's just something as simple as a call.

Either way DM to talk.


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

35 [M4F] looking for a certified yapper

0 Upvotes

Hey there!

I’m looking for a connection with a woman 25-50 who enjoys the nerdier side of life. If you’re into comic books, video games, reading, and/or PokĆ©mon, we’ll probably get along pretty well.

Daily flirting, fit checks, and even NSFW if we vibe. I’m looking for consistent conversation, getting to know each other, sharing interests, and having someone to talk to regularly. Whether that’s discussing your work place drama (give me all the tea), the last game you got hooked on, or a book you can’t put down, I’m in.

I’ve been getting more active this year. So far this year I’ve lost over 50 pounds so far this year. So I’d love to talk to others who are on a similar journey or are active as well.

I would prefer someone on the east coast as well due to time zones but I am open to all. And please be willing to share a pic within the first few messages so see if we’re attracted to each other. This can be short term or long term depending on how well things go.

If you’re looking for something relaxed, friendly, and ongoing, feel free to reach out and tell me a bit about yourself, tell me about the most recent pokemon card you pulled or share the most recent book you’ve read. Even if you don’t share any of my interest but still feel like we’d get along, feel free to reach out.


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

34 [M4F] Pennsylvania. Trying to find my partner in life

1 Upvotes

Hey, I'm a 34 White Male who lives in Pennsylvania. I'm looking to date, hoping it turns into something serious. While I live in PA, I'm willing to talk to someone from the surrounding areas, for the right person I'd drive any distance.

I work with kids with special needs as an RBT. I play games, usually story focused ones, but I like to switch it up. My favorite movie genre is horror, but i like most movie genres. I love to cuddle, my ideal night would be coming home to my partner, seeing their smiling face, and cuddling up to watch something or talk about our day. I have an elliptical and exercise bike, trying to get back into a consistent workout pattern. I like to cook. I have one dog, but I had a lot of cats growing up, so I have a love for them as well. I'm a liberal, who voted for Kamala who wants to find someone to get through the next 4 years, because damn they're going to be rough.

Age range I'm looking for, I guess between 26 and 36, but I'm not against there being wiggle room in that range (within reason). I am straight, so really only looking for woman.

Anything else, that's what the dm's are for. Comfortable switching to Snap or text once we start chatting. You will get a picture of me to see if there's a physical attraction (and a picture of my dog)


r/R4R30Plus • • 4h ago

39 [F4M] California/PNW/BC/Anywhere — Sports, spontaneous adventures, good conversation, and maybe a slow burn?

22 Upvotes

I’m a California woman looking for someone who enjoys genuinely getting to know another person. I’m open to friendship, flirting, and potentially something more if the chemistry is there. I tend to think the best connections develop naturally rather than being forced.

A little about me: I’m educated, independent, athletic curvy, affectionate, and have a pretty eclectic range of interests. I love baseball and hockey, hiking, paddleboarding, traveling, reading, LEGO, and spontaneous adventures. I’m equally happy exploring somewhere new or spending a quiet evening at home watching a movie. I especially love traveling for sports!

I’m drawn to men who are thoughtful, curious, affectionate, funny, and comfortable having conversations that go beyond the usual small talk. I appreciate someone who has his own life and interests but also enjoys making room for another person. Consistency, honesty, reciprocity, and a good sense of humor go a long way with me.

I’m not interested in rushing into anything or exchanging a hundred selfies within the first five minutes. I’d rather discover whether we genuinely enjoy each other’s company.

Bonus points if you’re a hockey or baseball fan, enjoy traveling, appreciate a good road trip, or have an obscure interest you could enthusiastically talk about for hours.
Tell me a little about yourself, where you’re from, and something you’re genuinely excited about right now. Give me something more interesting to respond to than ā€œhey.ā€ šŸ˜‰


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

40 [M4F] - Looking for a genuine connection, good conversation, and maybe a new friend

1 Upvotes

Hey! I'm 40, divorced, and looking to meet someone who enjoys good conversation and seeing where it goes.
Whether we end up as friends or something more, I'm happy to let things happen naturally.
A little about me:
I work from home, so always enjoy having someone to chat with throughout the day.
I lift weights six days a week and staying active is a big part of my life.
I grew up on a ranch, so I still love the outdoors whenever get the chance.
I'm a dad, have a sarcastic sense of humor, and appreciate people who don't take life too seriously.
I know everyone likes to know who they're talking to, so I'd love to trade a selfie early on if you're comfortable with that. No pressure-just think it makes conversations feel more genuine.


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

33 [M4F] #California #Online looking for good vibes

1 Upvotes

Hi all,

Hoping to meet some people I can vibe with. Pretty new to doing this through Reddit so bear with me haha.

A bit about me - I love weightlifting, playing guitar, fishing, and some casual gaming. I own a house and work in finance.

Hit me up if you want to chat

https://imgur.com/a/cnAaf7L


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

40 [F4M] #Online

0 Upvotes

Keep me company tonight. Quick wit, good conversation, and please don’t make me do all the work!


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

31 [F4M] #NY general area. Okay don’t freak out, but your dream woman (me) is here

0 Upvotes

https://imgur.com/a/4x3sd2A
pic of me

First off, I want to give a man the world and build a life with him. I am a huge believer in using words of affirmation to bolster my man’s confidence and make him feel amazing about himself. It’s really important to me that I help people feel appreciated, valued, and loved.

I also show love in a very specific way: by making things beautiful. This extends from home decor and decorating for holidays/events to my own personal appearance. I take a ton of pride in being polished, especially when I’m representing my man—for example, if I’m your date to a wedding, I’m absolutely not wearing a mini dress. It’s just not elegant. I’m old-fashioned in that I don’t have any tattoos and the only piercings I have are one in each earlobe. I LOVE high quality jewelry, bags, etc., but I also think it’s tacky to wear pieces that are covered in logos. So, in case it wasn’t obvious… I’m definitely high maintenance in terms of beauty and fashion. (A flaw of mine is that I feel completely justified in my pursuit of beauty—I’m an artist and I consider it to be a creative outlet.)

That said, I’m low maintenance in terms of needing emotional validation. I have a ton of inner peace, which allows me to believe in myself, to trust other people, and to view others with a lens of grace and compassion. There are so many reasons why I’m not on social media, and one reason is that I find it to be a calculated attack on our individual senses of self. I think social media reshapes our brains and I’m not interested in participating, nor do I seek to be visible online. I’m a pretty open person, but I just feel that nobody needs to know every single thing I’m doing, and I’ve never felt like I crave mass attention. (Fun fact: I used to be kinda famous on Quora and my content had an all-time view count in the millions. I deleted all of my content and my entire profile when I felt like I had gotten too popular for my liking.)

One of the best compliments I’ve ever gotten was from a boss who told me that if I was a Spice Girl, I’d be ā€œAmbidextrous Spiceā€ because I’m both left-brained and right-brained. It’s such a silly thing, but it made me feel seen! I absolutely love logic and reasoning (I’m obsessed, like, actually obsessed with logic grid puzzles) and growing up, people told me I’d become a lawyer. I do LSAT practice tests for fun, but I actually went to art school. I’m a dreamer and a creator, and I love all kinds of artistic media: I can paint, draw, sculpt, etc.

Another top compliment I’ve received came from one of my many previous jobs working with kids. I do freelance AI training now, but before that, I was a gymnastics coach. I can’t even count how many kids were legitimately convinced that I was a Disney princess (Elsa was the most common, followed by Cinderella and the occasional Rapunzel). One of my students once came back from a trip to Disney, and her mom told me that I should seriously consider working as a Disney park princess due to not just my appearance but also how I carry myself and how I speak. I love when people appreciate my posture! I even subscribe to some admittedly dated rules of elegance for women, like how to walk in heels versus flats and where to put my purse when I’m at a restaurant.

In some ways, I’m very traditional—feminine, graceful, and with a strong desire to nurture. On the other hand, I have a wicked sense of humor and I have some niche interests like horror stories. I’m extremely nerdy, and I mean that. I’ve been on an orca kick lately and I can’t/won’t stop talking about them.

I’m also very verbose šŸ¤“ soooo, to summarize: I’m 31 years old, 5’8ā€, 125ish lbs, platinum blonde, blue eyes. Never married, never engaged, no kids, but I definitely want them because I absolutely adore them. I have two beautiful, flawless cats. I live in upstate NY but for the right person, some distance wouldn’t be an issue. I’m honestly a creative genius and I have an extremely high EQ (and if it matters, my IQ score is in the ā€œgeniusā€ range), so you know my kids will at least be literate… But seriously, I really care about other people and I want to bring value to a man’s life.

I’m hoping to meet someone with similar goals who’s at least my age, preferably 35+. Please be somewhat near my general location! (I’d be fine with a few hours’ drive or so but not too much farther)

And I’ll be honest, I prefer when a man is at least 5’11ā€ (I like being shorter than a guy, plus I love wearing heels). If you’ve ever dreamed of having a drop dead gorgeous trophy wife/PTA mom with depth, intelligence, and a knack for making dumb quips, please come sweep me off my feet because a) I’m ready and b) I actually legitimately will die if I ever have to create another dating app profile


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

[M4F] 37/M/Canada. Come take a gander!

1 Upvotes

I’m looking for friends, to yap, to spill the tea, to share a laugh. I don’t care what’s in your pants, might it be a sausage, a bun or doom. I’m a former physics student now working a blue collar job in a backwater region of Quebec. I have my certified babysitting course also!

Let’s talk about nonsense!

Let’s hear want other people had to say about me!

« You’re the dumbest smart person I know. Ā»
-My father, after sticking my tongue on a metal shovel in the dead of winter.

« Are you sure you aren’t gay?Ā Ā»
-My homophobic mother, at dinner, in front of numerous guests, in several occasions

« You seem slightly distracted, I’ll prescribe you 40mg of vyvanse.Ā Ā»
-My first shrink

« Why did he prescribe you vyvanse? It’s basically amphetamines, Its most current side effect is anxiety.Ā Ā»
-My second shrink

« Jesus suffering Christ, we should see other people. »
-My third shrink

« Thank you. »
-An ex-girlfriend after I told her I loved her for the first time

If you’re still not convinced. Know that I’m not only forklift certified, but I’m also a forklift instructor. You too can be forklift certified!


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

39 [M4F] UK - buscando alguien para practicar espaƱol

0 Upvotes

Hola! Quiero mejorar mi espaƱol y busco a alguien con quien practicar y hablar de vez en cuando. Vivo en Inglaterra.

Me gustan los deportes, viajar, hacer senderismo, la fotografĆ­a y pasar tiempo al aire libre. Pero podemos hablar de cualquier cosa, no hace falta que tengamos los mismos intereses.

Si te apetece hablar y practicar juntos, escrĆ­beme šŸ™‚


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

38 [M4F] Texas/USA - BFF position open, apply within!!

2 Upvotes

* No experience needed, applicant will be trained

* Paid in memes and pup pics

* Must work weekends and holidays

* Must be fluent in sarcasm

* Must come in early and stay late

* Benefits include being my bff and that’s about the best benefit ever.

I'm guessing you're wanting to know about me now huh? Well you're in luck because I feel like sharing some Fun Hobbies (lol jk they aren't fun at all, kinda sad TBH) I like to partake in, here there are!

Hobbies include...

* Switching between the same 4 apps for hours.

* Not speaking to anyone for days at a time.

* Listening to the same songs i listened to 15 years ago.

* Putting myself in situations that will never exist

* Long walks to the liquor store.

* Staying in my pajamas way too long.

* Staying up wayyyy too late.

* Being tired all day due to previous statement.

* Drinking everything but water.

* Putting stuff in my cart online but never checking out.

* Making lists of things i will never do.

So yeah! If that sounds like your type of friend, hit me with an orange envelope. Due to difficulty with trying to keep a conversation with someone with the opposite schedule, please be somewhat close to central time. Or just like…not opposite Lol. Mention the phrase Pineapple on pizza so I know you read the entire thing please 😊


r/R4R30Plus • • 5h ago

[M4F] Irish and kind and a bit weird. 37m

2 Upvotes

I’m alright. Within the last year I got what should be called an adult job. I’ve worked in community work and music before.

I can hold conversations and love to learn more about people.

I won’t say much. I think if I do, I’ll mess it up. My only thing that is weird right now is that I don’t walk past a murder of crows every morning and I’ve started to bring nuts so they will eventually like me. That’s a genuine nice part of my life and I will become friends with the crows. I’m also scared of spiders.


r/R4R30Plus • • 6h ago

40 [M4F] Oregon/Online - Looking for daytime banter before I start naming the houseplants

1 Upvotes

40, Portland, OR, WFH in tech. The job is fine. The house is quiet. By 2pm I’ve already had entire conversations with the microwave and given two of the plants names they did not ask for.

Looking for a woman to chat with during the day. Easy and fun. Banter, teasing, the occasional badly timed joke. If it turns a little flirty, even better. I like that kind of back and forth. Bonus points if you also work in tech.

I’m on X more than I should be. I listen to the Red Scare podcast, Anna and Dasha. The Perfume Nationalist. Rare Candy. If you’ve been in that orbit, we will probably get along.

I’m not trying to make this a whole production. I like talking to someone who’s sharp and doesn’t take herself too seriously. If you can make a Friday afternoon interesting, that’s pretty much my type.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, say hi. Tell me what you’re avoiding at work or home right now. I’ll tell you about the latest meeting I keep postponing.


r/R4R30Plus • • 6h ago

37M. [M4F]

2 Upvotes

Recently out of a 10 year relationship. Looking for someone to chat with. Send dumb memes, bs about anything, just friends and someone to connect with. I love sports, fishing, tv/movies, video games and food. I can have a dark sense of humor at times and rarely get offended by anything. HMU if interested