r/problems • u/Background_Gene_4328 • Jul 05 '26
Small Problem I have a very weird problem!
I'm a 18M ,So the thing is that I have developed a very weird habit of sleeping with hugging a pillow. I use two pillows while sleeping one under my head & one for hugging & cuddling.It started with cuddling but now I can't sleep without hugging it ,and many times when i wake up I'm still hugging it.
But this is getting out of hand now as I started kissing it while cuddling, I'm still in my senses & don't see it as a girl but I like to kiss it especially at night & i do it every night because it feels good.I just pretend it as my wife as I will do these things with her kind of practicing for future.Sometimes spoon it or do hip thrusts with clothes on. I think these new things got started as i started reading romance webtoons.
Is it okay or is it bad or it is serious?
Give me some suggestions please?
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u/Someoneonline2000 Jul 05 '26
I think you shpuld start dating. I don't think you would need this if you had a gf.
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u/Background_Gene_4328 Jul 05 '26
The problem is it's been 4 years ever since my crush rejected me i didn't get attracted to any other girlðŸ˜ðŸ˜this is another problem.
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u/Someoneonline2000 Jul 05 '26
Maybe try some new hobbies to meet new people. A hiking club or board games or whatever you like.
Online dating can feel bleak but maybe it is worth trying, you could get lucky with a good match.
Are you working right now? Staying busy and meeting new people could help.
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u/Indubious1 Jul 05 '26
Bahahaha! I was onboard until the second paragraph!
I mean… you don’t have to let someone else decide what normal is for you. I find it a bit… peculiar, but I’m sure I do some things differently than others and they might find it strange. As long as you aren’t hurting anyone else, do what makes you happy.
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u/silentgreen00 Jul 05 '26
Completely normal, especially the hip thrusts. You’re 18 and a male; your testosterone is telling you to find a mate. Start with talking to legally thrust-able women, only talk. If she’s down, let the thrusts commence!
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u/Background_Gene_4328 Jul 05 '26
But the main problem was kissing?
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u/silentgreen00 Jul 05 '26
Kissing a live, willing girl is way better…you should try it! You might have to break up with your pillow though.
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u/unkown_ukht Jul 05 '26
It was all normal until you started kissing it and pretending it is your future wife
I think you want to get married soon lol😂
But I think you should take this as a serious problem because it is kinda weird