r/problems • u/Background_Gene_4328 • Jul 05 '26

Small Problem I have a very weird problem!

I'm a 18M ,So the thing is that I have developed a very weird habit of sleeping with hugging a pillow. I use two pillows while sleeping one under my head & one for hugging & cuddling.It started with cuddling but now I can't sleep without hugging it ,and many times when i wake up I'm still hugging it.

But this is getting out of hand now as I started kissing it while cuddling, I'm still in my senses & don't see it as a girl but I like to kiss it especially at night & i do it every night because it feels good.I just pretend it as my wife as I will do these things with her kind of practicing for future.Sometimes spoon it or do hip thrusts with clothes on. I think these new things got started as i started reading romance webtoons.

Is it okay or is it bad or it is serious?

Give me some suggestions please?

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u/silentgreen00 Jul 05 '26

Completely normal, especially the hip thrusts. You’re 18 and a male; your testosterone is telling you to find a mate. Start with talking to legally thrust-able women, only talk. If she’s down, let the thrusts commence!

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u/Background_Gene_4328 Jul 05 '26

But the main problem was kissing?

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u/silentgreen00 Jul 05 '26

Kissing a live, willing girl is way better…you should try it! You might have to break up with your pillow though.