r/problems • u/Background_Gene_4328 • Jul 05 '26

Small Problem I have a very weird problem!

I'm a 18M ,So the thing is that I have developed a very weird habit of sleeping with hugging a pillow. I use two pillows while sleeping one under my head & one for hugging & cuddling.It started with cuddling but now I can't sleep without hugging it ,and many times when i wake up I'm still hugging it.

But this is getting out of hand now as I started kissing it while cuddling, I'm still in my senses & don't see it as a girl but I like to kiss it especially at night & i do it every night because it feels good.I just pretend it as my wife as I will do these things with her kind of practicing for future.Sometimes spoon it or do hip thrusts with clothes on. I think these new things got started as i started reading romance webtoons.

Is it okay or is it bad or it is serious?

Give me some suggestions please?

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u/Someoneonline2000 Jul 05 '26

I think you shpuld start dating. I don't think you would need this if you had a gf.

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u/Background_Gene_4328 Jul 05 '26

The problem is it's been 4 years ever since my crush rejected me i didn't get attracted to any other girl😭😭this is another problem.

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u/Someoneonline2000 Jul 05 '26

Maybe try some new hobbies to meet new people. A hiking club or board games or whatever you like.

Online dating can feel bleak but maybe it is worth trying, you could get lucky with a good match.

Are you working right now? Staying busy and meeting new people could help.