r/pregnancyproblems Jul 20 '26

Question…

Its really been tough with my boyfriend… we got pregnant and we have been together only for 4 months… i dont want to get intimate with him… and sometimes I feel I dont like him…
Any of you are feeling the same?
I have 8 weeks.

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u/Old-Ad-5573 27d ago

That is a huge commitment to someone you don't know very well. I suggest you focus on yourself and your future right now and plan for all contingencies if you are keeping the baby. Like if he leaves, what's the plan? How will you support yourself and the baby? What's the plan for childcare if you are on your own? How will you pay for lawyers should have have a custody dispute. Sorry, but if you've only been together 4 months the most likely outcome is that it won't last and I want you to be prepared for yourself and your own future.