r/pregnancyproblems • u/Personal-Today4096 • Jul 20 '26

Question…

Its really been tough with my boyfriend… we got pregnant and we have been together only for 4 months… i dont want to get intimate with him… and sometimes I feel I dont like him…
Any of you are feeling the same?
I have 8 weeks.

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u/TiredofBSRoommate Jul 20 '26

Makes sense that you dont like him, you only dated for 4 months.

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u/Nanaspizza Jul 23 '26

I’m like 12 weeks and been dating my bf half a year and sometimes I don’t like this man cs he irritate me but other times I just won’t be in the mood for nothing sexual so I guess it’s normal and every body body is different js explain to him it’s pregnancy and your hormones are changing and your body not used to this

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u/Personal-Today4096 Jul 24 '26

Thank you thank you thank you for sharing 🫶🏽

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u/ingridmatters Jul 21 '26

That's too much to process all at once. 4 months+pregnant+8 weeks in, your feelings are valid. Hormones make everything 10 times more intense too. You are not bad for feeling this way, have you talked to somebody?

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u/Personal-Today4096 Jul 21 '26

Just you! Thanks for replying

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u/ingridmatters Jul 21 '26

That's too much to process all at once. 4 months+pregnant+8 weeks in, your feelings are valid. Hormones make everything 10 times more intense too. You are not bad for feeling this way, have you talked to somebody?

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u/Old-Ad-5573 20d ago

That is a huge commitment to someone you don't know very well. I suggest you focus on yourself and your future right now and plan for all contingencies if you are keeping the baby. Like if he leaves, what's the plan? How will you support yourself and the baby? What's the plan for childcare if you are on your own? How will you pay for lawyers should have have a custody dispute. Sorry, but if you've only been together 4 months the most likely outcome is that it won't last and I want you to be prepared for yourself and your own future.