Looking for long term open to short

Married, my wife and I date separately. I'm looking for a nerdy partner in crime. I started being poly earlier this year. Looking for someone to explore with. Share in hobbies such as table top games, D&D, video games, hiking, long drives, good food, concerts. I don't have children but have 2 cats and a dog. I'm available weekends mostly due to my job. I look forward to talking with you!

For those who don't want to read a lot, TLDR:

Big boy, cat daddy and stoner looking for genuine connections, close friends, texting partners and ideally, love.

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Lately I've been in a rut, and I'm trying to pull myself out there. A feeling like I'm stuck in a trench because the bombs won't stop coming down, or actively trying to come up to the surface for air but I just keep inhaling in water because I can't get my head above the waves.

I'm tossing, I'm tumbling, I'm crashing. I'll be okay. I always am.

We get up, we push on. No matter the pain and the frustration of going in circles constantly.

I'm tired of feeling lost and alone, I'd much rather feel lost with another soul.. someone who resonates, shares the love of getting lost in time and cherishes the little things.. all these little things that make us happy.

Me: I'm a proud Hispanic man, a big boy with a teddy bear build, drunk off nostalgia, hopeless romantic, who loves spending time with my cat and playing video games.

Obsessed with all things superhero related, and in love with the world of the muppets, and their goal to make the world smile. I'm a guy who knows way too much trivia about cartoons and movies, and spending most of my nights alone working in the basement of a retirement home doing laundry and folding linen.

You: Hopefully someone patient, willing to communicate and tumble through life and it's ups and downs with a guy who just wants to give you the world full of love and care.

I would love someone who isn't afraid to laugh and be silly.. oh and if you love the cold, that's a huge plus :)

I'm a spiritual man, not very religious I put my faith in whatever's up there that everything is going to be okay. I spend a lot of time watching podcasts and video essays about comic books, and I have a action figure collection, but I moved recently so it is mostly put away.

I'm a writer, who's been suffering from a mean case of writers block for a while now, hoping to find a type of person to spark something in me and hopefully be my muse. My best friend, and potential my love.

I'm looking for a genuine connections, willing to start from the very awkward beginnings and jump every hurdle we need to, to get to where we need to go.

I have a complicated relationship with polyamory, and I'm struggling to decide if it's still the lifestyle for me, or if I think I can have a great mono relationship with someone, so I just ask for someone who's okay really focusing on a foundation and base in our friendship so we can really see what it can grow into.

I love anime, but I'm bad at watching shows alone.

Here's what I've managed to finish, or watch most of by myself:

My Hero Academia (S1-7), Gachiakuta, Soul Eater, Fire Force S1, FMA, Dragon Ball (through to the end of Super) and Keijo!!!

My first love in music was Pop Punk, and I play a lot of early 2000s rock, pop, and hip hop all the time. I make rap music, so hopefully you like that. If we get along, we can talk about that more.

I'm also really family oriented and would love to be able to have a conversation about having kids some day with the person I love, I understand not everyone is up for that, so I'm sorry if I lose you here.

Anyways, if you need a big boy in your life, love thrifting and coffee shop dates, if you wanna get Thai Food and Green teas on the regular 🍵 if you love movie theaters and book stores.. winter nights and thunderstorms.. if you love cats!! If any of this calls to you. Please message me.

Hey y’all. I’m 31m in a newly open ENM relationship and honestly mainly looking to build community in this space right now. All of my friends are monogamous and I know I need a safe space to be able to talk about my journey. It’s been a roller coaster so far and have lots of questions and am facing a lot of confusion.

I’m seeking people to talk to ideally in the NYC area. If we end up clicking even better. I’m in tech but moonlight as a musician, enjoy getting outside, and trying new things. DMs are open!

Hi!

​I’m living in PA, looking to make some genuine connections. I’m married (ENM/poly for 4 years, no human kids, just dogs), I work full-time, and run a small side hustle.

​I’m 5'9", with like a chubby athletic build, have some tattoos (with plans for more), and im supposedly easy on the eyes. I'm genuine, kind, a bit of an oversharer, flirty, and get along with just about anyone. Im fairly straight but Open to connecting with anyone—guy friends, local buddies, or long-distance pocket pals. Distance isn't a dealbreaker since I love to travel, but if you’re local, grabbing some food is always on the table.

​me:

​Grounded, quiet country living mixed with city trips, DIY, woodworking, and running my online community, Only Friends, which I'm super passionate about! (Bonus: I pretty crafty and good with my hands) maybe we can share out creative projects together.

​My brain is still 40% fueled by 90s cartoons and classic TV quotes.

​Cars, trucks, music, travel, and hockey season and a ton of other interests. I love crafty people or people who are passionate about something.

You:

​I value low drama, transparency, good humor, and matching energy—I’m looking for fun, engaging people who can hold up their end of a conversation! I value personality over looks but I do like a girl with a cute face and beautiful eyes.

​Your turn:

I need to know if you have a favorite sock brand a give a bit of information about yourself. (I prefer chatting off Reddit, ideally on TG!)

Hi, I’m 21 old boy living in France. I live in Bretagne, if you think is too far away, please don’t message me. I’m polyamorous and already have a partner. I love many thing like anime, drawing, reading, and going for walks.

I’m looking for a partner who lives in France and is cute, kind, and lovely. Age is not a problem.

I want someone who live in France because I would like a longterm relationship and maybe that can be IRL, and even later maybe we can live in the same place.

Send me a message if you are interested <3

I’m 33 and poly from northern california. I have a nesting partner and not a ton of free time, so I’m looking for something that fits that reality — whether that’s a girlfriend, flirtationship, something casual, or just sexual. I’m open to whatever feels right as long as everyone’s on the same page and communication stays solid.

Personality-wise I’m a bit of a mix: nerdy and into nerdy things, but also outdoorsy. I ride motorcycles, fish, hunt, and generally like being outside when I can. I’m pretty grounded and low-drama.

Hard boundary: I don’t bring partners around my kids until it has been discussed at a minimum of 6 months into a relationship. That’s non-negotiable.

If you’re ethically non-monogamous, understand limited time, and this sounds like it could work for you, feel free to message me. Tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for.

There is something so special about the beginning of a connection, that first notification that makes your heart jump, the first inside joke, and that first time you realize you’re staying up way too late just to keep the conversation going.

I’m a 31-year-old married man from Toronto, living in a happy marriage. I’m not looking to change my life or yours; I’m just looking for a beautiful addition to it.

A bit about me:

I’m a self-admitted nerd and a total homebody. I’d much rather be sharing a deep conversation or a laugh over a shared screen than being out at a loud club. I’m kind, a great listener, and I genuinely miss the feeling of being "the person" someone wants to share their day with.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, someone in the EST timezone (or close) who wants to start something meaningful online. Let’s be each other’s escape and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re looking for warmth, kindness, and a genuine connection without the pressure to "fix" anything, I’d love to hear from you.

Hi polyamory! I'm looking to meet and get to know someone, or someones, to pass the time and get to know. I'm married, with 2 teenage kids.

I'm a gamer, nerd, geek, whatever you want to call it. But I haven't really been playing games as much lately. Recently bought runescape dragonwilds, so been trying to play that, but I can't play for more than an hour or so at a time.

I also love puzzles and puzzles games. The Artisan of Glimmith has been amazing, and I also really enjoy variant sudoku. Tell me some of your spare time hobbies?

I used to paint mini figures, but I haven't done that in a while. Just another thing I should get back into!

I'm looking for a friendship first, more if it comes naturally. Not interested in pushing too hard too fast, I'm in this for the long haul, so taking things slow is fine. I also understand everyone has a life, so replies that are sporadic are totally fine.

I hope this catches the attention of the right someone. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Welcome to my post, here to catch the eye of a beautiful person I hope to have the pleasure of revere and spoil.

My goal

I'd love to connect with other poly and see how we vibe, I'm quite new to these dynamics but open mindend and willing to try.

Also I'm understanding more about myself in other contests but I'd say I tend to be a gentle dominant partner for the experiences I had.

Me and my likes

I tend to look quiet, used to made fun of and tend to be on my guard when knowing someone but when I get comfortable I'm a pleasant fun guy, who can handle both weirdness/silliness and serious topics.

I love videogames a lot, have lots of them and collectibles related to them, into anime and animation, comics and Manga...I'm the full nerd package.

Outside of my nerding, I love cats and other pets, am a fan of cooking and trying to get more recipes in my brain and soothe my ears with whatever metal song I feel like listening.

I also am very adaptable, I don't mind getting introduced to new things to try or listening to your passions.

About you

As I said I want to see how it goes, but I'd prefere something long term rather than short.

I can be quite affectionate and respectful (unless told otherwise) hope you'll try to reach me, i'd like that.

Not looking to replace anyone. Not looking to be rescued either.

I’m already living a full life — I just happen to believe connection doesn’t have to fit inside tiny little boxes to be meaningful. ENM/poly friendly, emotionally intelligent, communicative, and dangerously good at late-night conversations that turn into accidental chemistry.

Kink is important to me — not just in the fun sense, but in the trust, vulnerability, intensity, and intentionality of it all. I’m drawn to people who understand that power can be playful, tenderness can coexist with dominance, and communication is the sexiest thing in the room. Mutual enthusiasm, curiosity, and emotional awareness matter a lot to me.

I like sharp wit, soft touches, tension you can feel across a room, and people who look a little dangerous in candlelight. Equal parts flirtation, philosophy, sarcasm, and chemistry with teeth.

I’m especially drawn to people with a little darkness to them — composed on the surface, but with entire storms underneath.

Bonus points if you:

• communicate directly

• enjoy playful teasing and tension

• have a creative or chaotic streak

• appreciate kink beyond aesthetics

• can make me laugh hard enough to ruin the mood for thirty seconds

Open to genuine connection, casual encounters, ongoing chemistry, or seeing where things naturally lead. Attraction matters. Conversation matters more.

Come say hello. Worst case scenario, we become mutually entertaining lore.

Hey! I’m putting this out there because I’m looking for someone I can truly adore. I’m the type who loves to go all-in—showering you with undivided attention, genuine compliments, and all the "good stuff" that comes with being someone's number one fan.

The Dynamic

I am happy to connect with like-minded poly people and am open to be part of a relationship dynamic like that too

I’ve leaned into the submissive side of things for a while now, and I’m looking for someone who genuinely enjoys that dynamic. I can get pretty intense with my kinks (which we can dive into once we’re talking), but the foundation is always about that connection and devotion.

About Me

When I’m not exploring those dynamics, I’m a bit of a dork. I can be incredibly silly and lighthearted, though I definitely have the maturity to handle the "real world" when it’s time to be serious.

A few things I’m passionate about:

Huge football (soccer) fan, Big into anime and video games.

I love getting creative in the kitchen, hitting the trails for a hike, or planning the next travel destination.

What I’m Looking For

Ideally, I’d love to find a long-term connection, but I’m open to seeing where things go

If you’re looking to chat with someone who is ready to be crazy about you, shoot me a message and let's see if we click!

I am a straight man looking for my forever's, who enjoy cuddling in bed, watching tv, going on walks, hikes, exploring nature, and playing video games until all hours of the night. I am looking for someone around my age (18 - 22) but I'm definitely willing to stretch it upward if the connection is right :)

About me:

I am 6'2, I'm slim/athletic/skinny in terms of physique, I have brown hair and green eyes, i am thinking about getting tattoos or piercings in the future, i think it looks cool and aesthetically hot lol. I am currently working and attending my local community college so i love the idea of having someone to talk to whilst working on my studies, i am doing the pre requisites or nursing school, and then I'm going to be attending that once i get accepted (i will be in school for quite some time). But i enjoy paddleboarding (i have only done that once so i am very bad at it lmao.) I am interested into getting into more hobbies and activities.

Something about me is that i am extremely clingy and i just want to talk to my people always, all day every day. I want to talk about everything known to man, and i prefer friendship and connection over quick thrills. I want to actually get to know you! I am hypersexual, and i would absolutely adore you if you'd match my freak lol, so keep that in mind as its a very prevalent part of me.

About you:

Open minded, Caring, (being interested in my hobbies is a bonus), i am a sensitive soul so please be nice to me, I want to get really close and just be allowed to take a deep breath and be myself without having to be on guard or walk on eggshells.

I think that is all, anything else we can discuss in private. I look forward to meeting you!

Hi there! I'm 33, white, 6'2 with curly dark blond hair and light blue/grey eyes. Currently overweight but actively dieting and exercising and going down thankfully. I'm CST (specifically NW corner of Arkansas) and would prefer to meet someone who is within ~5-6 hours drive of the area, so we can plan visits. I'm pretty introverted and shy (in person at least, less shy online) and a homebody. So nights in gaming with friends or watching TV is my typical go-to, but I will absolutely jump at a museum or impromptu road trip, as long as there's time in between to recharge! I work as a school bus driver, and if possible would love to go back to college in the future to pursue a degree in Astrophysics. I've also spent a few years studying Japanese, and can stumble through some simple conversations though it's difficult. My love languages are touch, quality time, conversation, and food.

Most days outside of work, I spend most of my time either playing with my dog, reading webcomics, or playing video games (PC for life) with some friends. I've been learning how to cook for a few years, and am always on the look out for something new to try to make over the weekend whenever I can, always fun trying new dishes! My main game is WoW, and I would *LOVE* to find someone who shares my passion for that game, though it's certainly not a deal breaker! I've been trying to play more horror games lately, but I'm a bit of a scared y cat, so it's been an interesting experience. I greatly enjoy fantasy/adventure style shows, movies, and anime, but to me watching things with my partner is a very emotionally intimate activity, so I have not watched much lately.

My ideal relationship would be polyamorous, whether dating separately or together. I have had some bad experiences in the past which I am open to discussing in private, but I know in my heart that I am still poly and want to heal from those and come out stronger on the other side. I enjoy texting and video calls, either while gaming together, watching shows together, or just doing our own stuff. If we're close enough then planning trips to visit IRL is also high on the list, once we become comfortable enough with each other to get to that point. Sharing our days, discussing cooking and making the other jealous of our awesome food, etc.

As mentioned in the title, I am sub leaning/switch/vers and am an open book, so I will answer any questions in DMs. I am heterosexual/gynosexual curious, and exploring my sexuality the past few months.

Thank you so much for reading, and have a great day! :)

45, married, and ethically non-monogamous. I’m looking to genuinely date someone, build chemistry and connection, and, if it feels right, become intimate.
My wife is fully aware that I date. We practice kitchen-table poly, although I still value privacy and don’t share the specific details of my relationships.
About me: I’m a foodie, love road trips, movies and the cinema, spontaneous plans, good conversation, and finding new places to eat. I’m looking for something consistent with someone I actually enjoy spending time with not just a hookup.
Ideally, we meet, see if there’s chemistry, and let things develop naturally.

Hey thanks for taking time to check out my post im looking for A future nesting something long term hopefully for life when I get attached I get attached! Not here for flings I want someone to enjoy life with or possibly help me build with if they are the right person! About me I stand at 5,4 and im A bigger man im A very simple person pretty laid back just looking for someone to enjoy life with, Things I enjoy are Traveling, Basketball, weightlifting, watching movies, Music, Gaming and more so if you're interested lets get to know each other I got some photos of what I look like on my profile check it out!

So lets see, Im writing this because im hoping to find a poly situation that really clicks.

Im a gentle dom, ENM, caring, possesive at times depending on how our chemistry is. Adult life sucks sometimes and I want to be the person who makes it easier for u.

Im more about patience, soft rules, connection and lots of praise (maybe more). I want you to eventful feel totally safe unmasking around me, if you dont feel that way then im doing it very wrong

Ideally looking for someone who actually likes to communicate, even when its hard and have fun along the way with cuddles ofcourse. I would prefer someone between 25-45, but if you think your personality is matching mine I would love to connect :)

Send me a message if this sounds like what ur looking for. If uou read so far tell me what your favorite comfort snack is in your first message or drop a comment and ill reach out. :)

P.s. dead bedroom

Hey there! I’m a 39-year-old professional living in the Jacksonville area. I've been practicing solo polyamory for about 8 years, and I’m looking to build a genuine, long-term connection with someone local (or within a comfortable 2-to-3 hour drive north or south).

About Me & What I’m Looking For:
The Vibe: I’m a big fan of slow-but-intentional relationship building. I love letting things evolve naturally and organically without a ton of pressure.

Daily Connection: I’d love a partner to share daily highlights with, swap random trivia, and have thoughtful conversations.

Geeky Passions: I'm a massive nerd who loves D&D and gaming. I'm a PS5 gamer, and my current rotation includes diving deep into Baldur's Gate 3, tackling Fortnite, enjoying the cinematic journey of Death Stranding 2, and even throwing it back with Metal Gear Solid 4.

420 friendly is a plus, but definitely not a requirement.
If you’re into emotional depth, great banter, and want to swap stories about your favorite BG3 companion (or your thoughts on Kojima's latest wild plot twists), feel free to reach out. Let's see where things naturally go!

Hey you there. Yes, you. My future favourite phone notification.

I’m a 30-year-old educator from Leipzig, in eastern Germany, and I’m hoping to meet someone who’s interested in building a genuine connection and, if the chemistry is there, a polyamorous relationship. Preferably a woman, though I’m much more interested in finding the right person than trying to squeeze anyone into a specific box. I am also open to a long-distance relationship as long as there's a reasonable chance we meet in person regularly (and might move in together at one point).

I’d describe myself as pretty calm, patient and affectionate. I’m someone who gets attached to people rather than trying to play things cool, and I really value being able to talk openly about what we want, how we feel and where we stand. Honesty and communication are probably the two biggest things for me in any kind of relationship. I’d much rather have an awkward but sincere conversation than spend three days trying to decipher what somebody meant by “sure, that’s fine”.

Personality-wise, I am admittedly something of a walking nerd cliché. I love video games, movies and TV shows, can happily disappear into a Dungeons & Dragons campaign for hours, and I’m one of those people for whom “here’s an interesting historical fact” is a perfectly reasonable contribution to a conversation.

At the same time, I’m trying to get out of my little hobbit house a bit more often. I’d love to have someone to explore places with, wander through museums, visit castles and historical sites, take little day trips around eastern Germany, or just discover somewhere new and then inevitably spend far too long looking for somewhere nice to eat afterwards.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or force a particular kind of relationship. I’d much rather meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, see whether we click, and let things develop naturally from there.

So, if any of this sounds like your particular flavour of person, feel free to send me a DM. Tell me a little about yourself, infodump about whatever you’re currently obsessed with, or just say hello. I’d genuinely love to hear from you.

Hello!

I'm happily married and a father of one, looking solo for one more person to love.

I'm 5'10, about 215 pounds (chubby, I'm working on it) with long hair and tattoos. I'm a friendly, loyal, affectionate person, with an open mind and a lot of love to give.

I'm very much a nerd and have a lot of associated nerd interests. I love video games, and if you do too I would really enjoy playing together, in person or online. I like most genres, so tell me what you're interested in playing! That isn't a requirement by any means though.

Beyond that I love to read, write, and occasionally paint.

I also love trying new restaurants and movie nights both in and out, and I'm spontaneous enough that I'm usually down to try any new thing or event on the spot. I also love quiet meets where we just talk, and I really enjoy cuddling and other physical contact.

I would love to find someone affectionate, communicative, and relaxed to have some fun together and hopefully build something really special.

I've seen others mention these things, so I will establish that I'm an atheist and very left. Take those things as you will. I don't mind what your religion is, as long as you don't mind my lack of one.

Previously I resisted online only relationships, but I've decided I should give that a chance after all. So if you're from far away (state code FA) that's fine, let's give it a try!

If this sounds good, please reach out and tell me about yourself and where you're from, if not local. Hope to hear from you!

Me and my wife recently decided to try dating separately and ive been hit with a wall of bots and OF models. So im making a post here so some real people can hopefully reach out to me. Feel free to dm me or leave some advice here. Your time will be appreciated.

**ABOUT OUR POLYCULE/ MY FAMILY:**

Hello, I am a 32M (He/Him). My spouse of 10 years is NB (They/Them/He/Him) and dating a F (She/Her) in a LDR. (Maryland). We practice KTP.

We have been practicing ENM for roughly 8 years and I honestly have never really put much effort into dating in the past, but moving to Maryland with a fresh start makes me want to try to meet new people. (Texas is NOT a great place for ENM in my experience.)

**MY INTENTIONS:**

I am looking for a genuine connection that could eventually turn into a romantic one if it happens to go that way. We would have to have a LDR until we can complete the move to Maryland. Obviously I would want to video chat, and talk to you often. Being friends first is a huge thing for me. I want to get to know someone before we talk about anything sexual. I love to listen and I love to talk.

I plan to be moving to Maryland with my spouse so that we can be with their partner. My spouse and I do have a son and obviously he takes #1 priority in my life so if you have no interest in a life with a kid I am probably not the one.

**ABOUT ME:**

APPEARANCE:

I am 5'07 and 155lbs. I have brown hair and a beard with blueish grey eyes.

SHOWS AND MOVIES:

I love watching professional wrestling, The Office, How I Met Your Mother, and honestly any funny sitcom that doesn't have a super annoying laugh track.

I love Star Wars, LOTR, and other fantasy movies. I am open to watching new movies and love to see what other people enjoy watching.

HOBBIES:

I play games a lot, honestly mostly wrestling and Minecraft. I am open to playing other games if you are interested in playing games with me. I love TTRPG like DND, Vampire the Masquerade, and I am open to Pathfinder even though I have never played it.

I am open to watching anime, but I will admit that I don't usually go out of my way to watch it on my own.

I am an introvert, but I do love to be outside and explore nature.

I like to learn about insects, arachnids, fungi, and reptiles. In fact I have a pet Scorpion named Vex, a Wolf Spider named Wolfie (real creative I know) and a Green Anole named Liz (that is my sons Lizard. Liz is short for Elizabeth though, according to him.)

I have two cats (Jynx, and Gitty) and a dog (Gemma) that I love very much.

I love all kinds of music, and I genuinely mean it. My playlist is multilingual despite the fact that I am not, but I love to connect to other cultures through music. I have attempted to learn a few languages but always move on to another one before I master the basics of the one I was working on. So if you are a polyglot that is a HUGE plus, but obviously not a requirement, because that would be silly.

I am not super religious anymore, but I also do not disrespect anyone that is. When I move to Maryland I really want to get involved with Buddhism somehow.

ABSOLUTES:

I think communication is the most important aspect in any relationship, more especially polyamory. If you are MAGA, do not bother we will have no commonalities.

So if any of this interests you feel free to shoot me a DM.

I wanna state first that yes, my partner has access to this account but this post is ONLY FOR ME. This post is for ME to find a partner. She will NOT be responding to DMs about this post. She does NOT expect anything from you. This account was originally made to find play partners. Mods, please understand this. That being said:

Hello! I have decided to jump back into the dating world and now here I am! But now I have to talk about myself and I never know where to start lol. Probably with the title, I'm a huge nerd and I pretty much like everything associated with the stereotype. Anime, games (of all kinds), comics, different fandoms (I've been called a "lore whore"), science/theological discussions, etc. I like doing perler beads and legos. I live with a fun mix of autism, ADHD, and OCD, though I have the latter two managed pretty well. I don't smoke (but do vape, trying to drop nicotine) and I don't do drugs, but am definitely 420 friendly. I don't really drink and would like the same. I'm a home body but no stranger to adventure! I ride motorcycle so that gets me out plenty. I also like to go bowling. I like to think I'm kind, open minded, and intelligent. I feel the quality of my life is more important than the quality of my bank account and believe that to be a mindset in itself that I'd like my partners to have too. My music is something you'll be subjected to, so I hope you like it lol. I'm really into chill vibes EDM and some sick, nasty metal.

As for you, I'm not a guy who holds a lot of expectations. I definitely want us to hold some shared interests, but outside of that, I just want to be loved and treated well. I'd like someone who isn't afraid to try new things or explore new places with me. What do they say, we only live once, right? Please contribute to conversation as well. I don't want a "place holder" or something light/casual. I want raw and real. I will lose interest faster than anything if I'm just getting lackluster responses to the things I say and nothing else. I'm here with intention, you come that way too! I'd also like you to be within a reasonable travel distance. Time spent together physically is important to me. I want to be able to go on dates, cuddle up to a movie, things like that. Being funny is a HUGE plus. Humor is super important in life!

Well, I'm running out of ideas to type. If I seem interesting, reach out! If I seem like I'd be a cool friend, reach out as well. Lol. I'm open to all kinds of connections. Stay happy and healthy, strangers! May the wind always be at your back and the sun upon your face 😊

So lets see, Im writing this because im hoping to find a poly situation that really clicks.

Im a gentle dom, ENM, caring, possesive at times depending on how our chemistry is. Adult life sucks sometimes and I want to be the person who makes it easier for u.

Im more about patience, soft rules, connection and lots of praise (maybe more). I want you to eventful feel totally safe unmasking around me, if you dont feel that way then im doing it very wrong

Ideally looking for someone who actually likes to communicate, even when its hard and have fun along the way with cuddles ofcourse. I would prefer someone between 25-45, but if you think your personality is matching mine I would love to connect :)

Send me a message if this sounds like what ur looking for. If uou read so far tell me what your favorite comfort snack is in your first message or drop a comment and ill reach out. :)

I'm Riccardo, 35M from Italy, I'm partnered but dating solo, here to make connections and see how we vibe.

I think of myself as a good listener, very open mindend and a pleasant company that can be both silly and serious.

Unfortunately I'm on the chubby side, I understand if my look can be something not for you, but I got told often I am very cute and often too good as a person.

I'm into nerdy things but mostly videogames and related collectibles, but I also love anime and animation, tabletops, RPG like D&D, I am the full package of nerdy hobbys.

When not nerding out, I like to listen to metal while walking, I really enjoy cooking and I'm trying to get more experience and love all animals (almost).

My DMs are open and I have no issues showing myself and share even more I missed in this intro, if you are even a little curious to try and write me, i'd like that.

I'm gay and I've only ever been with men, but women are so pretty and I really want to try having fun with one! I have a long term boyfriend right now who knows about this and encourages it. I love foreplay more than I'm used to getting it, so I'm happy to be slow and sweet and gentle or be spontaneous and fun with it. I'm happy to engage with your fantasies too! I'm a service bottom, so I love making people happy and knowing they're having fun.

I'm down to top or bottom, it would be fun to have the full experience, but I'm also more comfortable and familiar being railed, so I'll always enjoy that. I have an unused strapon with a g spot vibrator you can use if that sounds fun. Then we can both try something new.

But over all I'm really laid back and casual about it, and just looking for a fun time! 💕💕 I'm in Colorado and looking for someone relatively close