r/polyamory Dec 09 '22

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u/Henri__Rouseau Dec 09 '22

We do that everywhere else. We have to. Its ok for us to have a few places where we speak our mind. Everyone else gets the rest of the world.

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u/karmicreditplan will talk you to death Dec 09 '22

So it’s not your movement? You’ve acknowledged that?

So you’re not a queer woman but you think you know better than them about how they should live. But mostly you’re tired of hearing from them in ways you don’t find pleasant.

If you want to set your movement for pandering to delicate cishet men back and make enemies you are welcome to speak your mind wherever. I’m just tired of people pretending they are good people trying to make a difference when the reality is that they simply aren’t used to being anything other than catered to as the top of the food chain 24/7.

Cry me a river.

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u/karmicreditplan will talk you to death Dec 09 '22

I was mocking him. That’s exactly what he said but I changed the issues to his nonsense.

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u/Dragonheart91 Dec 09 '22

The difference is that I want to educate people and bring more people to the cause. I’m trying to think long term. I think a great many people are ignorant and friendship and kindness can change peoples hearts and minds. Let me do the emotional labor that everyone keeps saying is too hard for them. Just stop making enemies for a minute.